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Can You Stay Friends After Sex? by gideonjeta(m): 7:01am On Aug 08, 2018
Every relationship has its moments, and so do friendships . Let ’s say you have a friend and , along the line, you both start getting sexually attracted to each other . Then you end up having sex with them , things get awkward , and it damages the friendship .
While this may seem like the way some modern -day relationships work , there are ways you can stay friends after having sex.
Here are a few tips :

Have “ the talk ”
It may seem easier to act like nothing happened or to avoid each other, most especially when it was a one-time thing. But it helps both parties to sit, talk and evaluate the friendship . Decide if you both want it to grow into a relationship or not.

Accept the decision made
Sometimes, the feelings may not be mutual , and one party may feel more than another . Either way , it is better to accept whatever decision you both make and move on or end the friendship .

Give some space
If you both have decided not to nurture the relationship , then you can either go ahead and continue as friends or take a healthy break from the friendship in a situation where the feeling isn ’t mutual.

Don't stalk each other
Most people say that the point when they stop stalking their ex is when they know they have finally moved on. Although it will take a while , this is one healthy way to make some space . Take up healthy hobbies , visit new places and just have fun.

Declare boundaries
More often than not when you have sex with a friend, it goes on more than once . Learn to declare boundaries and state what you really want out of the friendship. Until then, you may end up more hurt than when you started.

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Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex? by Cooldude180: 7:12am On Aug 08, 2018
Maybe
Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex? by donbachi(m): 7:16am On Aug 08, 2018
U don see were dem dey use chicken do pet?

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Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex? by Awodipog(m): 7:47am On Aug 08, 2018
Nibo........ oga the once debee always debee ni....... Oshamo
Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex? by Blakjewelry(m): 7:51am On Aug 08, 2018
after sex I think you both should take it to the next level because actually lead to the sex thingy is pent up energy both of you have been hiding, but rules and pride will want to make you act otherwise

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Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex? by hisgrace090: 8:09am On Aug 08, 2018
You can with self discipline.
Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex? by IamPlato(m): 8:15am On Aug 08, 2018
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Yes Na. Its Not New
Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex? by Nobody: 8:43am On Aug 08, 2018
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Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex? by Nobody: 9:41am On Aug 08, 2018
Always .
Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex? by loverboys: 10:57am On Aug 08, 2018
it will rilly be a hard something
Re: Can You Stay Friends After Sex? by Justbeingreal(m): 11:51am On Aug 08, 2018
undecided

Well! Experienced that in the past(5Yrs Friendship). And that was the end of the friendship, things can never be same again in such friendship.

That's why they say one can't be friends with the opposite sex, one day one day shi! Might go down.

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