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if u opt for separate room using the baby nursing as excuse u might just be doing urself some gud. couples sleeping in the same bed all thru marriage is the dumbest idea there ever was[/quote]The different room thing doesn't always work. it depends on the person(s) involved. Do it with a man who's always busy or doesn't hv a fantastic libido n u end up living like neighbors or slave n master. We tried it and found out it couldn't work cos in as much as it didn't affect our sexual life it kind of drew us apart n reduced our fondness for each other cos even quarrels took very long time to settle. In fact I alws felt my husband only comes to me for sex n when he gets me angry or he's angry he quickly leaves b4 I wake. Later he said he noticed our communication level was reducing which is even very important in marriage. but now we stay together even after 2kids we still riding high...

nickibarb:
in my own case, i'm 100% ready to get back into full sex mode with the bae, but for some reason, it seems like his libido has dropped drastically since i dropped baby number 2. i know its not my appearance cos i look great, heard it from women and men. even my husband's friends have said how shocked they are that i've had 2 kids, and i've seen my husband secretly enjoying the compliment. flat tummy, back to size 2. so what could be the problem? there's no fear of pregnancy cos i'm on a longterm contraceptive. has anyone else experienced this? new baby is 4 months old, we've had sex 4 times since baby was born. two of these 4 times was initiated by me. prior to the 1st baby, boo was ready to have sex twice a day, and i was ready for him each time. after the 1st baby, it reduced to like 4x a week and i figured we can blame it on the presence of the new baby. after this 2nd baby, its seems like he's just not Hot anymore. i know he's not cheating and my vajayjay is pretty much the same. 2 c/sections

Pls what contraception do u use.. I need it pls.

sauceny:
Itz no biggie,a friend of mine speaks about 9 different languages....Chinese,Spanish,German,French
Et cetera.

If its no biggie how many foreign languages can u speak?

tosyne2much:
That's the way it's supposed to be

Block head

coputa:
How,young lad,are you reading from right to left.

Them don fall him hand na GODWIN

Edusouls:
hahaha no excuse for sin, when u face God u tell him excuses that made you waste an innocent blood and he will clap for u..

tnkGOD u aint Him

Too much hype for d english team sef..

denedene:
i thought our last outing was in 2002 world cup? but England squad shaa! 10 babies and Rooney.

I love ds n i love d fact dat d igbos whom pple alws associate with fraud n other ills r making us proud out dere...cheers

Sile12:
Just kidding. like you said, they're common but that jumping game was common in the sandy communities or schools. Might looks strange to those that grew up in a tarred compounds or schools.

naa, we played both on sand and cement floors u can draw d lines with stones. I played all d versions of it. Kerosene style , my house, go market style.

Thats the spirit. Pregnancy should not halt one's life. Its not a disease after all

Aero contractors hv a reputation for delaying flights without feeling like anything is wrong with dat. Evn though i dnt like d bloodshed i pray ds teaches dem d needed lessons. Mtcheew

mmb:
so many reasons.

can u give like 3 out of the many, so we understand better. We need dat info if one is to give u any meaningful advice. Besidez most religions like islam says u shd get d consent of ur first wife b4 getting a second. So dnt start now to look for problems

Eucharia still hving dat her funny eye brows...

cococandy:
my dear you will only feel inferior if you're really inferior as a person compared to Your partner. Money or not.
So if a guy feels inferior to his woman, he's probably truly inferior.

If you're a great quality person, even the one with money will respect you willingly or unwillingly.
You will just command the respect without trying to.

Wish i could share ds a hundred tyms. This is just d truth. I knw a man in my area whos just an average man, very hones, discipline n most importantly wise. Everybody likes to b in his good books because hes full of ideas n solutions. Hes nearly indispensable. So money isnt everything yu nid to gain respect. If ur responsible, respect ursef n u will b wirshipped by ur wife.

Edusouls:
shut up, u think abortion is just a deed,look at how u re saying it lightly,u endtime women of nowadays with dirty lifestyle,looking for whom to end up in their home, the blood of the innocent baby torments endlessly, so u girls are into a trouble out of this world, it rings with anger in the spirit world and the retalliation is fatal and torments till death, so go on and be aborting babies na una go dy hear am..

so d guys wey follow plant d pikin no go hear am abi? What abt cases where d lady is willing to keep d baby but d man says she's on her own. Wat abt pple who got pregnant out of ignorance n those who were threatened by the men to end their relationships if they dnt lie with dem and out of desperation gave in only to be disappointed by same men. I don see u na ur d Almighty that knows d heart of everyone. Don't seat n condemn when u dnt knw d person's story. That's y GOD is not man.

ammyluv2002:
Guys sha *smh*

Tell them the truth before marriage ......problem
Hide the truth till after marriage ......problem


Most Guys are so difficult to please ie guys like the poster

Dude, pls stop looking for excuses and settle down with somebody. Most ladies pretend and lie a lot and you're lucky to have met a lady who isn't a liar

God is the giver of children! I'm not saying kudos to the lady but you shouldn't judge her from her past/mistakes. We are all human so why not just forgive her and tell her to ask God for Mercy and move on with your wedding plans

besides are u a Virgin? @poster. Are we not evn sure a gal too has done an abortion for u in d past? I knw pple who married virgins and after 5yrs r still childless, some were pregnant b4 wedding and had miscarriages after.. So my dear if d lady is honest ur lucky. Cos I doubt if I would have told u dat. It's GOD who gives children pls.

saintneo:
No, but we do share boundary with Abia North.

No
Wa! Mba!

Yes, Mgbowo to be precise.

Thanks.

Hello bro... I'm from Okpanku in Aninri LGA. I'll follow u right away.

Ogwumike is d bomb really. She didn't lose her endowments. Lols

runzlord:
wow, i dont like naija movies but noticed ive watched almost all the movies on that list, any way my fav are half of a yellow sun and last flight to abuja. 30 days in atlanta is the funniest then phone swap. mirror boy is the most stupid, the story was pointless follow by ije, another stupid movie. pointless story.

but i cant find a movie tho i doubt it was done by nigerians, but it was shot in nigeria. BLOOD AND OIL. thats still the most amazing movie shot in nigeria, i still watch it over and over again and each time i pick someting new

october 1 loading.....

mirror boy is pointless with many errors

saintneo:
I still don't see any difference between Isoko and Urhobo. Saying that both groups are different tribes is the sane as saying that Arochukwu, Ngwa, Otuocha, Awka, Oji variety of Igbos are different.

deegwoo, megwoo is just a little change. I wish I am from one of these two tribes really really understand the differences.



Let's look at the same sentences in Igbo dialects.

Queens English: I am going to school.
Standard Igbo: M na-aga ülö akwükwö.
Onitsha Igbo: M na-aga ünö akwükwö.
My village: M le-eje ülö ekwükwö.

All these mean the same thing but look different.



literarymathy give us more info

Are u from Enugu?

Diezani I can't wait for d time when ur matter will b looked into n d appropriate punishments meted out

Ok

Y'all should watch how u insult our president - elect, it's no longer biz as usual...FYI

bushdoc9919:
Stealing in the past does not make stealing in the present, or future right.

stop being bias n read the topic of discussion. It ddnt say in the outgoing regime. The author of dat write up is not being fair here. Those generals were d people who evn destroyed Nigeria d most. We knw dese things

9jvirgin:
Nigeria still has a long road to decency and sanity. The PDP led government has destroyed everything called Nigeria.

Buhari! There is a lot to do.

it's APC dat was thumb printed not pdp. Now dats d change u preach bah

So painful. I pray dose kids get home safely. It is well n they r in our prayers

It was d same rigging dat got him into power now he's scared of facing d music. Since 99 rivers state has never had a free n fair election. Karma mode on in rivers state.

This is seriously embarrassing. .

Melikam:
My dear fellow fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, sons and daughters of Ohaneze Ndi Igbo of Lagos and entire Nigeria. Greetings in the name of our Lord Jesus and Saviour. The threat from Oba Rilwan Akiolu upon Ohaneze ndi Igbo shall not be taken likely.

Nigeria and Lagos belong to every single one of us. We were never cursed by our parents when we left home to sojourn in another state. Neither has any of our Igwe's or Obi's or Eze's cursed or threatened any tribe especially the Yoruba's with death. So we do not see why the Oba of Lagos will threaten Igbos and other tribes with death because of election.

It is our right to choose or vote who we feel like supporting. It is not compulsory that we must vote Ambode and we are not going to continue to leave under the bondage of Tinubu, Fasola and most especially the oba who has no conscience but to threaten our lives and that of our family.

We are the children of Israel and Zion and no weapon formed against us shall proper and any tongue (oba Rilwan Akinolu) shall be condemn in the might name of Jesus.

We therefore declare a special fasting on Friday 10.04.2015, for all Igbo's in Lagos and Nigeria to pray against this threat of the Oba. It shall be back to sender prayer. We shall not die but live and declare the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. We also advice every single one of us to go out massively and vote for who we feel is the right person for us. Tinubu will never put us (Ndi Igbo) in his pocket again.

Please circulate this message to all your Igbo brothers, sisters, children and friends where ever they may be living in Lagos state.

God bless and protect Ohaneze Ndi Igbo. God bless Lagos State and God bless Federal Republic of Nigeria. Amen.

nothing dey happen jare...

Oba has taken d mantle from Orubebe. ..who's next!