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LoneSoldier:
Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!

You sound like one of them dried up feminists

forgiveness:
America is a migrant country. They have exterminated the real indigenes, the red Indians.

Even Trump is a beneficiary of the American by birth law because his forefathers were immigrants.

Even if somehow you're right, What about UK? Is that also a migrant country?

Mariangeles:
"Your beautiful sister" had been dead for 5 whole days, yet you didn't know.
You didn't have time to check on your sister, but you're quick to post on social media about her death.

We must Shaa use any thing to criticize. If them check you well now, there's your sibling you've not spoken with for weeks. But you must criticize one who called the cops after the sister didn't answer her calls for some days.

Things we do for likes shaa

happney65:
Nothing went wrong. That is who most Nigerians are. A very ungoldly but religious Nation. The people who steal government money are those that are the fore front of churches and mosques every now and then

Yet secretly they do things that their so called Religious book tells them not to do

That is who we are!

Speak for yourself. That is who you are.

Odewaleadesoye:
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Lol this idiot didn't know that in the executive order, trump defined a man as a human who was born male, and a woman as a human who was born female.

LMAO

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Shey they enjoyed it when some people defended Buharis handling of the endsars protests? Those same people who covered for Buhari are now in power, and they will do even more for themselves.

So all they should take is sorry. What goes around comes back around, let's always remember that.

Next please.
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adecz:
The character flaws of Trump is that
he is very paranoid, narcissistic and always
on revenge mission... 😠


Instead of bringing new ideas 💡, it's always
about tearing down ideas and legacies of those
that came before him...


Still shocking how such a nasty character
got a second chance.

One how, one how, I don't see this man's
presidency ending well.


Time ⏲️ shall tell.

If only the democrats didn't turn governance into a freak show, he won't have returned.

Maximeo:
What happened to Tinubu's deputies when he was governor of Lagos 1999-2007?

You dey go far. Ask am about El rufai.

Emilokoiyawon:
Awesome: Next is to fish out the IPOB terrorists that are hiding under 'trading' in our markets all over Yorubaland.

All IPOB terrorists must be shot on sight. We will not negotiate with terrorists either IPOB or ISWAP.

Presidobi... Here's another one. Terrorists them.

PresidObi:
Governors are now controlling Dss?
Or you are here telling us that the Dss are biased and are working more in some parts of Nigeria than the other parts?

The guy is a terrorist. He's just trying to deflect the discussion from Islamic terrorism to Igbo Yoruba banter

PressMyButton:
I hope y'all reading and learning how to tackle insecurity. Copy the template and give it to your Governors. This is how to know a region that takes security as priority. Your Governors are collecting security votes but what are they using for?, to carry foreign hOes?, or lavish recklessly?. You keep pampering Ipob terrorists but you keep running to SW for safe abode. Is it until SW enact a law to build a wall around their borders before you take security seriously in your region. We are watching.

Lolz. We know what you're doing. You're attacking ipob in a post that had nothing to do with them, in order to deflect the attention from Islamic terrorism.

adioolayi:
Won Jo enu lady yi ni kekere (Her parents didn't heat her mouth as a baby )

Yea apparently. Also they didn't scratch her face.

Akpabioemi:
Some schools can lie for Africa... By the way what's two year old baby doing in school?

2 years is usually when a kid starts school.

24hrPrayer:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2025/01/lagos-govt-probes-death-of-2-yr-old-pupil-in-school/amp/

Chai this kid really looks likes she's the vibes.

Tjra:
Democracy is not in danger according to mofos

Na your conscience dey worry you

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Women can talk Shaa 🌝
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fabianiyobosa:
I don't take post like this seriously.

You are worried about a property but went to search for an image of a blind judge or impartial judiciary, downloaded the image as if that is your problem.

I have said it severally, Seun is gradually loosing it with these paid posters coming up with sensational post to gather engagement on this forum.

Stop it Seun.

If you've ever made a post that made front page, you'd know that the mods modify it before pushing it to front page.

Dtruthspeaker:
You are the one being tribalistic here. Clearly you are feeling guilty that your tribe is guilty of these things whereas everyone here gets I don't care where anyone comes from. And clearly being the tribalists that you are, Yorubas are your enemies. Tufiakwa gi!
Ö wu everybody bu onye yuruba!

Oya explain what you mean by "you obi people". You're the one who brought this tag into this post.

Na I ma asụ Igbo does not mean na I bu onyé Igbo. Ife e ji abụ ónyé Igbo erika.

Dtruthspeaker:
No propa or tribe shit here It is all about wickedness of this action and if there is even a good reason it is done. And clearly there is none.

You brought tribe, and when I reminded you that even the man whose case prompted the post is Yoruba, you suddenly remembered it's not "tribe shit".

Yoruba continue agending you hear? Tufiakwa

MrCover:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2025/01/15/police-arraign-man-for-allegedly-stealing-pigs-in-ekiti/

Na pig him theif. No be pesin him kill.

200k bail for pig. But Una go leave politicians dey run rampage.

Yahaya Bello got measerly bail for almost 100bn.

Idiots.

Godwin4444:
We only know those who will believe this

Before u believe ask yourself which ward or local government or state can this woman influence?
Which contribution can he give to a political party that a president will want him?
Many don't even know d state she's from let alone I don't think d governor of her state knows her

So which contribution will this one have to a political party?
She can only b relevant in the camp of upcoming presidential aspirants who rely solely on social media


Tell me is it atiku that will pay this one attention or even saraki?

Mgbeke feeling funky

Well anything to stay relevant in d eyes of d headless mobs

Don't b surprised she will tell them tinubu came to prostrate in his house n they will believe, mention tinubu n they will lose their senses

At least learn how to properly use pronouns first.

Dtruthspeaker:
Why would you people do that?

Did he ask you people that he needs comfort at night?

Is it not that he even asks you people to help him so that he can come from his poorness, but you don't?

And after you marry for him, you people then abandon him re-abusing him again to take care of his family.

You Obi people do this a lot.
Note o, you people are Wicked when you do this!!!

And you people are another contribution to why there are too much poor people, single mothers and homeless children.

What's with Yoruba and always using every opportunity to spread propaganda against the Igbo?

Even the man whose case is the example is Yoruba for goodness sake. Haba.!

Gbadugbakun:
Yet APC miscreants were shouting detty December. Of what use is a holiday when over 90% of average citizens cannot afford to celebrate it.

Nigerians in diaspora who came back home to celebrate could easily do so because they aren't working here. If they were working in Nigeria, their salary wouldn't even be enough to buy a bag of rice.

Getting worked up over a sponsored propaganda?

Something they paid BBC journalist for is what you are losing sweat over? These people can really manipulate you guys shaa

richmond500:
well I saw gunmenbin the writeup, it's safe to say it's IPOB gunmen

This is an update to a security situation. In the first news, it was clearly stated that it's Fulani herdsmen. The soldier that escaped stated it. The vigilantes that saw when one of the victims was killed stated it.

I don't know what some of you Yorubas gain from supporting evil.

MasterJayJay:
Your choice! I won't force you to believe anything.

You should know when someone is just trying to use you to fill front page, and divert attention from the real issue.

Godwin4444:
Buhari is no longer in power

Yoruba is now the ones they blame, tomorrow if south south man becomes president South south person will b responsible for all Igbo man's problem

If an Hausa man becomes d president one day then he will suddenly be responsible for all Igbo man's problem

Pitting heads together, causing division here and there. What else are you Yorubas known for?

Igbo still defend GEJ till date, and it's still you people that scream that "we south south have moved on".

Tufiakwa for you people and your favorite pastime of creating divisions.

greenermodels:
you're talking trash, the state government wants to build an estate there, they have de-reserved it from a forest reserve and given back 20% of the land to the community,it has nothing to do at all with insecurity. How you guys are always online to sell lies and twist facts for your APC employers is unbelievable. Nairaland moderators really need to do something about APC influencers activities on this forum.

No need. People are gradually leaving the site for seun and his APC influencers who control dozens of monikers each

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Speed which this go take enter page 2 eh.
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Mom007:
Stop negotiating and paying kidnappers! We talk am that time, e be like wickedness now see the country in shambles! Its simply not done. If you don't pay, it will gradually fade off and go out of fashion.

They have never held you or yours.

Fiscus105:
At that age, parents should be extremely hard on their teenage wards, that is when the hormone started running afresh in the body of teenage boy, ..."tear rubber hormone and never used prick", the owner ready to put it inside any hole available, even his own biological little sister.

You need deliverance

madridguy:
The Uyghur Muslims will surely overcome their challenges.

It's a crime to knowingly transmit a disease.