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Robertgreene1:In what alternate universe is that woman not fine. |
- Some parents are trashy people who instill dysfunctional thinking and behavior in their kids whether intentionally or not. - Some people are in a family/environment/culture full of dysfunctional thinking/behavior. Instead of rejecting that, they act like a scared child and conform when pressured. - Stupidity is a religion for some people, so they refuse to acknowledge how pointless and irrational certain thinking/behaviors are. And they refuse to change. - Some people are basically bizarrely lazy and won't work on their problems. They prefer to try to cope by targeting others. |
1. She's probably just wearing it because it was free. 2. He wouldn't get this rowdy with a 6'4 male. |
Fine Bajan women will be lining up for a "rich" Nigerian husband. |
A celebrity exposing a hidden problem can be helpful, but talking is just talking. A better use of their power is actually throwing money behind things. But even then, they're one or a few going against whole nations -- neocolonialism. Akon was just trying to get people consistent electricity and he was threatened left and right. Imagine. |
You could also make stuffing. 🤤
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kiddaz:😆 |
Mariangeles:Mediterranean people are oyinbos too. And I promise you their food is mostly bland. What people enjoy abroad are a handful of dishes that have been heavily modified for foreigners. Their real food tastes like air. 😂 |
Jaden will never surpass his father. And it's not just because Will is so successful. Jaden just isn't likable. |
betshopagent:lol |
It's just not that good. You're talking about oyinbo food, which lacks richness and completeness. Even the better stuff isn't something you would want to eat every day. The main appeal of oyinbo stuff is that it's cheap and quick. And it's definitely not as healthy as African food. |
The way she carried the dude like a sack of rice. 😆🫡 Those chicks are cute. Hope their friend is okay. |
Make your own cooking gas (risk of fire/explosion): https://www.nairaland.com/8639705/make-own-cooking-gas-biodigesters |
People say these things yet Chinese and everyone else keeps going to Nigeria and getting rich. Furthermore, there are some parts of Nigeria where people are never worried about these things. Arguably it's even comparable to America where some people will walk their dog at 2AM without a care in the world, but others keep their head on swivel whenever they leave the house. That said, there is a problem. But I don't see how it helps to basically keep bashing the country by comparing. Why not actually do something, especially if you have a platform from fame. Even creating one little business helps. Better than praising the countries that are 95% responsible for Nigeria's security issues. |
SixSeven:Good point. Not sure what can really be done to lower risk... |
Idris Elba on stabbing crisis: 'Not all kitchen knives need a point on them' Banning the sale of zombie knives is a positive step, but schools need to intervene earlier to help tackle the UK's knife crime crisis, says Idris Elba. In the documentary, called Idris Elba: Our Knife Crime Crisis, the Hollywood star meets a 17-year-old boy at Feltham young offender institution who first began carrying a blade when he was 13.https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c1jgz1ld7lno |
UK: Nearly 50,000 zombie knives off the streets – but the black market is still thriving Tens of thousands of so-called ‘zombie knives’ and machetes were seized or surrendered last year, new figures reveal.https://metro.co.uk/2025/10/29/nearly-50-000-zombie-knives-machetes-handed-seized-last-year-24560529/
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Here's how you can make your own cooking gas: https://www.nairaland.com/8639705/make-own-cooking-gas-biodigesters |
This is actually not surprising. Boko Haram are employees of oyinbo countries, as are corrupt politicians. |
AngelSlay:Great post. |
Mango has no peers. 🤌🏿🫡
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Supplied by oyinbo governments. |
People assume that someone does these things because they've endured something horrible. Some people are just vile and sick, and they've never faced consequences for their actions. I promise you that there are people in this world who will do these things purely out of insecurity or because they feel that if they had to suffer at some point in life, so should everyone. Some will do it because they believe someone "disrespected" them, which is all in their head. And mind you, the "disrespect" was something completely minor. But domestic workers are in fact terribly abused in Nigeria. And many of these people are blood family. One of the most bizarre and sick things is actually having your flesh and blood working as a domestic in your home. Shameful. And some of these victims feel that as bad as the situation they're in is, being homeless and hungry is far worse, so they stay, and retaliate like this. And it's absurd to have domestic workers unless both parents work long hours, one parent or child has a medical condition, or you have a lot of kids. Many Nigerians (and Asians) only have them out of laziness, poor character, insecurity, and the desire to control and/or abuse someone. They refuse to cook and clean up after themselves. They want human beings to be constantly around boosting their fragile ego. And some are sadists, probably became sociopaths due to abuse. |
She seems very religious. People like that typically want a partner who lives the same lifestyle and will be on the same page with how the kids are raised. And maybe she's had bad experiences or seen a bad marriage growing up, so she's very cautious. Maybe you don't come across as sincere. It's better she does this than getting with a guy that will waste her time and take her money, or put her in a situation where she has to walk away from a marriage with 3 young children and no money. Better to have a bunch of women like her instead of single moms. |
How root bridges are made: The methods are:Without scaffolding: Almost all living root bridges that I’ve observed which were still being actively maintained showed signs of roots that had been manipulated by hand to improve the functionality of the structure. These improvements often took the simple form of a few individual roots that had been wrapped around each other, tied to trees, or attached to the opposite bank of a stream. I’m told that these ad-hoc, spur of the moment improvements are usually done by people working in the jungle, who have occasion to use the living root bridge, and so take it upon themselves to improve the structures over time.With wood/bamboo scaffolding: Many root bridges are created using scaffolds made of wood or bamboo, materials which can be found virtually anywhere in Southern Meghalaya.Read more here: https://livingrootbridges.com/methods-of-creating-living-root-bridges https://www.smithsonianmag.com/travel/in-one-of-the-wettest-places-on-the-planet-indigenous-people-build-bridges-and-ladders-out-of-living-tree-roots-180988405/ https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20211117-how-indias-living-bridges-could-transform-architecture |
Willow Tree Churches and Living Root Bridges
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Baubotanik: The Botanically Inspired Design System that Creates Living Buildings In Germany, this alliance is found through Baubotanik, or Living Plant Constructions. Coined by architect, Dr. Ferdinand Ludwig, the practice was inspired by the ancient art of tree shaping.Read more here: https://www.archdaily.com/775884/baubotanik-the-botanically-inspired-design-system-that-creates-living-buildings
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I'll post the rest later. |
Spiritual, religious or cultural abuse is used to control or intimidate someone. It is not limited to any one religion, or group of people. It can be about stopping someone from being involved in their beliefs and traditions. Or it can be about forcing someone to take part in beliefs and traditions they don’t agree with. Examples include: -preventing someone from practising and being connected to their culture -stopping someone from going to their place of worship -stopping someone from having contact with other people who share their beliefs -stopping someone from celebrating days of cultural or spiritual significance -stopping someone from sharing their beliefs and traditions with their children -ridiculing someone’s beliefs or traditions forcing someone to do things that are against their beliefs, like eating certain foods or wearing certain clothes -forcing someone to marry -forcing someone to take part in spiritual practices they don’t believe in -forcing someone to raise their children according to beliefs they don’t agree with -using or claiming to use spiritual or religious beliefs: as an excuse for violence or abuse to pressure someone into staying in a relationship to stop someone from getting medical care for themselves or family members. Lateral violence is also known as ‘horizontal violence’ or ‘intra-racial conflict’. It is a product of a mix of historical, cultural and social dynamics that results in a range of behaviours. It is not just an individual’s behaviour. It can involve a number of people working together to attack or undermine individuals, families or groups. Examples include: -malicious gossip -group bullying -social exclusion and isolation -claims that the individual does not ‘belong’ in the group -physical violence -sexual violence. It is important to understand that lateral violence doesn’t just refer to physical violence. It is also a form of coercive control and is related to social, emotional, psychological, economic and spiritual violence. |
Verbal abuse is when a person says things, privately or publicly, to shame or humiliate someone, or to make them feel scared or unsafe. This includes what they say and how they say it. Examples include: -ridiculing or humiliating someone -criticising their appearance, intelligence, sexuality, religious beliefs, or ethnicity -criticising their actions as a partner or parent -using cruel or abusive nicknames -swearing at someone -yelling or screaming at someone. Social abuse is when someone tries to control a person’s relationships or interferes with their social activities. This includes relationships with friends, family, colleagues or community. It can also be about trying to undermine a person’s reputation. Examples include: -stopping someone from seeing or contacting their friends and family -stopping someone from going to social or community activities -preventing someone from having contact with people who speak their language or share their culture -making someone move away from friends, family or work opportunities -controlling a person’s use of a car, public transport, or mobility aids -controlling a person’s use of phones or computers -checking or stopping their mail, phone calls, text messages, emails, social media and other messaging or chat apps -telling lies or spreading false information to damage a person’s reputation. -using someone’s intersex status, sexuality, gender expression, transgender or HIV status against them -forced marriage -stalking. Social abuse is part of coercive control. |
Image-based abuse is when someone shares or threatens to share photos or videos of a person without their consent. It is part of sexual violence and coercive control. Images are typically shared in text messages, on social media or on the internet. Image-based abuse is sometimes called 'revenge porn'. Examples include: -sharing private images of a person without their consent, for example images of them undressing or showering -sharing culturally inappropriate images of a person, for example images in which they do not wear items of clothing that they would normally wear in public -sharing intimate or sexualised images of a person without their consent -producing and sharing images that have been digitally altered to suggest a person is nude or engaged in sexual activity -threatening to do any of these things. Emotional or psychological abuse is when someone says or does things to make a person feel bad about themselves, undermines their self-esteem or makes them feel scared or powerless. It can be used to prevent people from seeking help and support. Examples include: -criticising a person and their choices or actions -isolating a person from their friends or their family -threatening to harm a person, their family, their friends, their pets or their belongings -threatening to share personal or private information, such as sexuality, gender identity, personal health, or visa status -telling someone they are to blame for the problems in the relationship or the family -withdrawing all attention or ignoring a person for a time, sometimes called ‘ghosting’ or ‘the silent treatment’. -scaring a person through behaviours including dangerous driving or being reckless with weapons -manipulating a person so they feel confused and start to doubt themselves; this is sometimes called ‘gaslighting’. Emotional or psychological abuse is part of coercive control. |
