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Romance › Re: The Age Of "I Must Marry A Virgin" Is Largely Behind Us by Cousin9999: 3:11pm On Aug 06

tuoyoojo:
Virginity gives a clue of the woman's self will

Once the hymen is removed, the seal is broken and she may have no reason to hold on

How many people have had intercourse with virgins......I am sure they can testify that is very unsatisfying

Virginity is not the test for loyalty

If you see a girl and she happens to be a virgin fine and good

What you should bother yourself with is, is the woman compatible with you, does she make you feel like the man, is she submissive, is she a wife material, can she handle a home.

These are the issues

The hymen can bust on its own. It can bust from riding a bicycle. Nothing to do with virginity. Biological fact, bro.

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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Egypt: WAFCON 2026 (6 - 2) On 5th August 2026 by Cousin9999: 11:56pm On Aug 05

6-2

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Romance › Re: "What Is Wrong With Marrying A Repentant Olosho?" — Lady by Cousin9999: 9:17pm On Aug 03

Kalulu44:
Hmmmm... This is a serious topic that if I say my honest mind, I will get backlash. Let's just allow sleeping dogs lie.
But let me just drop this, WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE GIRLS AT HOME DATING DIFFERENT GUYS AND COLLECTING DIFFERENT GBOLAS AND OS?

Bro, you cannot compare normal, healthy intercourse with the commodification of the human body. It's like saying giving a kidney to your unwell spouse/friend in a hospital is the same as selling a kidney to a criminal in an alley for scraps.

Sexuality outside of marriage is not wrong. Having more than 5 partners doesn't make someone promiscuous or a bad person. Sexuality is a part of a healthy body and mind. If you eat well, are fit, and mentally healthy, you will feel desire and want intimacy. Our level of desire for intercourse and within what relationship is a biological characteristic like our facial features or food preferences. It's how we're wired.

What's bad is when someone doesn't engage from a place of love or passion. That's unhealthy, not the simple act of doing it.

Romance › Re: "What Is Wrong With Marrying A Repentant Olosho?" — Lady by Cousin9999: 4:54pm On Aug 03

It's not possible for a woman (or man) to do that and not be damaged by it.

"Sex buyers have described pr*stitution as like 'renting an organ for 10 minutes'...this experience serves to dehumanise the women, and the effects of this are wide-ranging, including depression, su*cidality, post traumatic stress disorder, dissociation, substance abuse, eating disorders and more."

"The presence or absence of mutuality is the determining factor in a psychologically and emotionally healthy sexual exchange, not consent."

The type of person who engages in these behaviors typically has formed an unhealthy relationship with their body as a result of childhood abuse.

Having mental health problems certainly doesn't make someone a bad person. However, someone who chooses to engage in these types of things has a certain mentality that should make you question if this is someone who is capable of a healthy relationship.

And if we as a society don't hesitate to welcome people back with open arms after they do this, doesn't it normalize this profoundly unhealthy behavior? It's not okay. No one should be doing this. And pretending as if it isn't a horrible thing to do isn't helping anyone.

That said, just as we should not support those who do this, we should be equally critical of (so-called) men who are a part of it. It's very unhealthy on both sides.

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Romance › Re: “if You Say You Love Me, You'll Have To Give Me Your Last Money” – Lady Shares R by Cousin9999: 4:24pm On Aug 03

Trolling for engagement.

Education › Re: University Degrees Are Becoming The Biggest Scam In Nigeria. by Cousin9999: 7:20am On Aug 02

This thread reminds me how research shows that US police officers with a bachelor's degree are less likely to use excessive force or take someone's life.

Foreign Affairs › Re: UK Councillor, Glenn Gibbins Charged With Hate Speech Over Anti Nigerian Joke by Cousin9999: 4:21pm On Jul 31

Raph82:
Indian immunity in the UK is 5 to 7 times larger than the Nigerian community in the UK. Nigerians are just 300k to 350k in population, whereas Indians are between 2 million to 2.2 million living in the UK.

And unlike Nigerians, Indians do not assimilate. Indians want to colonize the country. They fill companies with their people, and get into government ASAP. Nigerians just want to work, send money home, and raise kids. Nigerians aren't trying to take over their country.

But white trash doesn't think logically.

Education › Re: 18-Year-Old Nathan Thomas Is Youngest Professor Ever In The World by Cousin9999: 4:14pm On Jul 31

Suspect. Florida colleges are not exactly the most trustworthy. And this half-Indian comes from scammer lineage.

Celebrities › Re: Tyla Cancels Lagos, Nigeria Concert by Cousin9999: 4:11pm On Jul 31

Good. And she sucks. F*** that Indian.

Politics › Re: UK Returnee Cries Out Over Demolition Of His Abuja Business by Cousin9999: 4:09pm On Jul 31

There might be issues on both sides. He possibly took some shortcuts that he couldn't abroad, but corrupt officials saw him as a lick and figured they could cash out, rinse, and repeat.

Best thing to do is to do everything by-the-book and get all your documents in order. That way, if it goes sideways, you can round everyone up.

That said, some small businessmen opt for other countries in West Africa precisely to avoid funny business. They rave about how they have none of the issues in neighboring countries that they do in Nigeria.

Romance › Re: Foul Smell May Be The Cause Of Some Sexless Marriage by Cousin9999: 6:55am On Jul 31

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Designed to trap things?

The vagina has a continuous peristaltic motion that radiates outward, effectively 'cleaning' itself.

If its about the natural smell of the vj, I think every man should force themselves to accept it, because its a freak of nature.

Na the unnatural on we dey try handle.

Bro, it's a hole.

And it's supposed to take...deposits and make babies.

Furthermore, a guy can be nasty and not have half the issues down there that a very clean woman does. It's the structural and functional design. For example, a guy can wear no underwear and be fine. A lot of women will get infections from that.

And a lot of these men complaining about odor are just lacking education and class. I wonder what kind of father they even had to be saying this nonsense. Didn't their fathers talk to them about women?

If you have a son, take him fishing and have some real conversations with him, so he doesn't grow up and walk around babbling about coochie aroma. Or tell him it's okay if he's gay, so he doesn't take out his frustrations on women.

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Health › Re: Why Are So Many Nigerians Having Strokes In Their 30s And 40s Now? by Cousin9999: 10:21pm On Jul 29

Oyinbos' food and processed food.

Study: Switching From African To Western Diet -- Damage Continues After Stopping
https://www.nairaland.com/8390390/study-switching-african-western-diet
https://nypost.com/2025/04/05/health/switching-to-a-western-diet-shocks-tanzanian-mens-bodies/

Agriculture › Re: Rare Fruits Found In The North With Their Nutritional Values (video/pictures) by Cousin9999: 10:19pm On Jul 29

LocalFARMERS:
Kurna
Gauta
Samiyan Biri

Kurna (jujube) are almost a natural multivitamin because they're so nutrient dense.

Romance › Re: Foul Smell May Be The Cause Of Some Sexless Marriage by Cousin9999: 10:08pm On Jul 29

Eba50:
nice. i live at agbor, agbor obi junction, close to glass house. u aren't far now

"And that's how I met your grandma."

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Romance › Re: Foul Smell May Be The Cause Of Some Sexless Marriage by Cousin9999: 10:05pm On Jul 29

sandra2025:
I am from Agbor but in Benin City right now.

Romance › Re: Why Do Women Still Want A Guy To Be Their Friends After Rejecting Them? by Cousin9999: 3:49pm On Jul 29

Some of you are bitter. 😂But I get it.

If she tries to find a friend for you to date, then she values you as friend, but doesn't see compatibility. If she rejects you, but gets mad at you dating others...

Romance › Re: Foul Smell May Be The Cause Of Some Sexless Marriage by Cousin9999: 3:37pm On Jul 29

Look, instead of whining, why don't some of you offer solutions? And it's very possible to offer solutions in a kind and loving way. Just say, "Babe, you know I heard about this woman who had a painful UTI. She didn't know about the signs. Make sure you see the doctor if you notice anything funny down there, or if it hurts a lot during sex. Actually, here's some money. Go to the clinic and let them run a test. Let me know if you need me to pick up any medicine."

You can also practice better hygiene yourself because your body and secretions can and do cause infections in women. You have to think about the fact that a woman's anatomy is internal. It's designed to trap things.

If you still have a problem with the way women smell, maybe you prefer:

Romance › Re: Foul Smell May Be The Cause Of Some Sexless Marriage by Cousin9999: 3:17pm On Jul 29

sandra2025:
My vjay is very clean and odourless. I make sure I change my underwears everyday, as I've a lot of them.

I use mild and fragrant soaps.

Who wants to eat my vjay?

😂🤣

Romance › Re: Foul Smell May Be The Cause Of Some Sexless Marriage by Cousin9999: 6:11am On Jul 29

ufotty2001:
I remembered when I newly got married to my wife. After about 6Months in marriage.. my wife started farting in front of me with any form of control.. immediately I lost interest in her!! All attraction I had with her died off.. I stayed 6Months without having sex with her.. I have to opened up to her and tell her the reasons.. she now stopped that!!

😂😂🤣

Romance › Re: Foul Smell May Be The Cause Of Some Sexless Marriage by Cousin9999: 10:41pm On Jul 28

1. If the women you're with have bad odors, it's probably because of the type of women you choose to be with. There are tons of men who have never had this issue.

2. Insecure gay men talk about vaginal odor a lot. Like, they feel the need to speak negatively about women to "justify" their sexuality instead of just being proud and enjoying their life.

3. It seems like some closeted men talk about vaginal odor and female appearance a lot because (1) they're scared to come out of the closet and resent that they can't be with who they want, and (2) they feel guilty/ashamed of their attraction to men and want to "justify" it.

4. Some men maybe lack education or something because they expect a vagina to smell like flowers when it's a body part just like their Instruments. It sweats, discharges, and gets urine and fecal matter on it. Your crotch stinks sometimes too. Calm down. Women encounter all manner of poor hygiene in men and they don't cry and roll on the floor about it.

5. Some men are very insecure and feel the need to attack women in various ways to boost themselves up. It's lame. Stop that nonsense.

6. Some men are angry that they don't get women, and would rather talk s--- than improve themselves and get more women.

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Business › Re: High Production Costs Make Nigerian Factories Uncompetitive — NSDC Boss by Cousin9999: 5:58pm On Jul 27

It's all by design.

Politics › Re: There’s Nowhere Like Home” – Tinubu Appeals To Nigerian Doctors Abroad To Return by Cousin9999: 3:32am On Jul 26

Many of these doctors would stay if they were actually paid. It's not even the amount. It's actually getting their check when they should.

But Tinubu is a western puppet.

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