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AbdelKabir:
so in essence, in your understanding, ALL sunnah are not conpulsory, and if you don't do them, you not are sinning?

Mr Know all. You don't have to sound sacastic. If you want to make a point,please make it.

I'm specifically referring to Islamic laws and ethics. The first source is the Quran and the laws from the Quran are fardh i. e compulsory. The sunnah are liked acts. There is no sin if you omit them. And the other sources are qiyas and ijma. Just trying to make myself clear.

In Islamic jurisprudence, fardh comes before sunnah. So, what about a fardh loving sister?

So, who turned you down? Please, give us your own case study. Let's learn.

What about the hadith that says a wedding should be joyous and merry?

hammak1993:
Image is different from picture. what the hadith's is referring to is those that draw images, just like the artist and sculptor that creates images. Just like the people of Noah that create images of their pious ones after their death.

Islam doesn't condemn pictures, the only condition pictures are not allowed, is when using pictures of sheikhs as necklace and other aspect which can leads to 'shrik' (associating partner with God)

Allahu Allam

Thank you for pointing this out. I've been speechless.

Please, anybody has an idea who this people are. There was no company name in the text message i received.
You are invited for an ASSESSMENT by 10am at 160 Herbert Macaulay way, off carter st., Adekunle B /stop, yaba.

walexsho:
Bro, You need to consider a lot before taking that Job.
Will the Job add value to your Credential...
From experience, After NYSC Feb 2014 I was at home for 7 months, Out of desperation I took up a Teaching Job of 26k with the hope I'll get a better offer, I didn't Study Educational course in school but switched to Educational line, After 2 years 2months of Teaching I decided to resign knowing I'm only killing myself cos age is no longer on my side and the Job has not added value to my career except I want to remain a Teacher all my life.
I've resigned and searching for Job but they have been telling me I do not have the required Experience... So painful that I've wasted 2 years of my career life

Exactly my situation. No value added whatsoever.

thesicilian:
Nigerians are indeed an interesting set of people. Someone comes out to share his experience as an expert (yes, 25yrs experience in any field gives you an authority of some sort) to the upcoming ones, and you all begin to attack him even before he finishes what he's saying. Where did you see him arguing with anybody?
No wonder many accomplished Nigerians don't feel it worth their time to mentor anybody.

Nairalanders can be so rude! This is a person with 25 years experience. My dad retired after 30 years. That means the op must be quite elderly or at least middle-aged. Just recently, i was discussing with someone how difficult it was for Nigerian youths to find mentors and now i have my answer. The Nigerian youth indeed has a long way to go.

jeff1607:
This question has been bothering me for quite a while now, how do men or husbands cope with their wives when they give more attention and care to the kids and you feel all left out. I wouldn't like to generalise here but why is it a common thing in marriages same applies for single moms too when they shield and put more focus on their kids rather than helping the spark glow.

Some women not all are on the defensive when the husband tends to shrug that stuff out.

please would need experienced minds mostly the men to help explain or proffer a solution in getting round this without causing misunderstanding or bad blood

I strongly recommend that you discuss this issue with your wife. Communication is vital as always here. Let her know how you feel and pick a time when she's in a nice mood. You can also help in relieving her work load either by helping around the house or hiring someone.

That is the beauty of Islam. It touches on all aspects of life. I wonder why Islamic banking is yet to take a foothold in the Nigerian banking scene as it has in some countries.

hats:
Hello,
Very soon, I Will start hiring employees for my company. They are going to be paid well with the least salary at 50k down to 300,000 naira. So I have been wondering; by the time I start hiring, how do I do it? Someone recommended Workforce while another person said I should do the interview myself along with my board. What do you think? Which is better? because I want staffs that are good, willing to work, not afraid to fall and that can share in the company's mission. So which one should I go for? Personal hiring or through workforce.
Please Note; It is an online company meaning the staffs won't be meeting the users or customers physically. All they will do iss to sit in an airconditioned office and do their work on the company's laptop.

If your company is a startup, i strongly recommend you carry out the recruitment yourself. You need people tailored to your company's needs and vision. Who better than you to carry out this selection. I have experience in customer service. Please notify nairalanders when this recruitment starts.

calltalk:
I can be of help if you're in Lagos. Please indicate

Hello, i sent you a pm. Please reply, thanks.

sben2308:
Okay dear frnd Pls send but use this quote as subject of d mail. And kindly follow up on Friday by exactly 12noon for update via mail. God will help us all.. Nd v a blessed week

Mail has been sent, sir. Thank you and God bless you.

sben2308:
yes u can, kindly use ur moniker Nd dis quote as ur subject. Thanks

Pleaseeeee sir, can i also send my cv? I have a B. Sc. in Economics and also an OND in accounting and audit. I've been searching for over two years now with no break through yet.

Rasana:
I am very happy to have come across such a forum as much as i agree with some of the comments i disagree with treating her like a rag, for me i met a girl who is a genuine lair, she lied about been in the another continent while she was in Africa i still tried to give her a 2nd chance but after months she changed and started giving me attitude telling how she will get married to another guy in a year saying it was a joke, the moment i started dealing with her nd showing her i dint give a damn shes now the one chasing , i av dated many Nigerian girls nd all i can say from experience is that most of them re liars nd re always looking 4 aw to suck up a mans cash they prefer men that re bullies to gentlemen . A word is enough 4 d wise

This simply means you've been dating the wrong kind of girls. You shouldn't expect a different result when you keep applying the same kind of logic.

The University of Jos, yesterday evening at about 7:00 pm recorded another bad incident as the biggest and tallest building in its permanent site was ablaze. The fire, which spread very slowly and steadily affected the departments of Sociology, psychology, political science, and the library. Virtually all the offices on the first and second floor were affected. I was there, but as a spectator as my little effort would have yielded just little or no result. Who or what is responsible for this unfortunate incident?
There are different views to this question.
The first view has it that the incident must have occurred as a result of some electrical faults.
The second view holds that some students who have issues with their academics and have little or no hope of graduating soon are responsible.
The third view has it that it could be the handy work of the antagonists of the new Vice Chancellor, who attacked his house some months ago killing one of his security aids and are committed to disrupting his tenure .
Some people even linked it to the activity of some unserious students who are not ready for the ongoing exams. These views sound meaningful and logical, but not scientific as they are for now not accompanied with facts and evidences. However, they may serve as guides for intelligence gathering and further investigations. What was the response of the authority ?
I arrived the scene after the library, sociology Department, and some parts of political science was already burning. The fire service, who also arrived the scene lately could do little or nothing as they brought only a tanker of water which meant nothing to the slowly and yet steadily consuming fire that was already spreading all over the first floor. The The fire service also had difficulty in gaining access to the building as the building is surrounded with wires and the ground full of gully drainages.
The students (great Jossites) must be commended for their adroitness by getting water from the near by Wells and taps to complement the effort of the fire service. However, it is regrettable that some opportunists utilized that avenue to bugle some offices and carted away with some items.
The security man on duty said the fire would have been prevented from spreading further if the fire extinguishers that were available in the building were working. He went further to say that he tried all that he could but the fire extinguishers refused to work. This is unfortunate.
While others consider the incident a bad omen for the University, some people see it as a challenge to the university to build lecture halls as the big building seem to be the major lecture theatre in the permanent site. The second generation university is lagging behind in terms of infrastructure. This is an ordeal.
Students of the faculty of social sciences , who just graduated and are waiting to be mobilized for the NYSC are also recounting their fears as their hope might be dashed out as they suspect that their results and other details might have been consumed in the inferno. What next?
The ongoing exams schedules may be shifted.
There will be doubled problem for the faculty of social sciences in the forthcoming NUC accreditation as most of the departments are under partial accreditation. There is more trouble for the new Vice Chancellor who is faced with emerging challenges - security threats, ICT scam, etc.
Availability of lecture halls will become a problem, and many other issues. (Philip Dade Simon )

euchaaria:
Why are Nigerians like this na...
Some are advicing me to go to the hotel.. What for?

Wey dey transport fare self?
Broker than a stock broker

I am not concluding o but that man doesn't look like a man who wants to do any official work but his own lustful motives

Deep down inside of you, what is your guts telling you? You know this man is only trying to take advantage of you. Will you let that happen? Destiny has already decided that whatever is going to be yours will always be yours. No man can stop that.

May Allah accept this act of worship from us and from you. Eid mubarak!

Geist:
Does anyone have materials for the QUANTITATIVE TECHNIQUES IN BUSINESS A1? I don't have one yet.

Cc Mattex001, coveredchic,

No, I don't. Keep seeking, you shall find.

What about those living in the north?!

ogedanny:
i have all d ICAN Study packs

Hello! Please, please, please, can you send foundation level or if possible all to me. I'll send you a pm now. Thanks

Geist:
Please were you able to get the study packs

Did you get the study packs sent to you? Please, help a sister out. I'll send you a pm now. Thanks in anticipation of your kind help.

Mattex001:
Yes I was....
Drop ur mail I'll forward it to you ASAP

Hello! I noticed you were able to get the study packs for foundation level. Please can you help a sister out? I need to study ahead before registration. I'll send you a pm now. Thanks in anticipation.

Hmmm. May Allah guide us.

I am happy with this development. All these lecturers who feel they are demi gods and ought to be feared by students should have another think coming.

sas91:
Pls I need your honest opinion on this matter , i'm a lady with an average height and weighing 70kg, my fiance always complain about my weight and I know I'm trying my best working on it. But this time around he compared me with my friend and said my friend has a better body structure than I, that i'm not more beautiful as I used to be and that if I want to be his wife then I must Slim down. And so many things I can't even mention. He finally asked if I am ready to do all he wants.
my fear is did he truly love me? what if I Slim down now and even get fatter after giving birth to a baby, wld he then hate me so much? i'm confused and scared of going on with the relationship, Pls I need advice from experienced people.

I once dated a guy who complained that I was too slim. He said he preferred women with big boobs and hips. Now, the last thing you want is to feel you're not enough for your man. God created you in his image and for that, you're beautifully and wonderfully made. If he doesn't accept you the way you are, let him go. There are a thousand and one men who will accept you for you, just the way you're. Stay positive, he'll find you.

I did. Did you attend the last one on the 8th of march in Abuja?

Pinky:
Hello Nairaland Users,

I am opening this thread so we can all post in our disciplines & qualifications so as to assist me in getting us job placements.

Let me start, I read B.Sc. Computer Science.  What about you?

Note this thread is only for those searching for jobs or wanting to change their current jobs

Hello! B.Sc. Economics

unlawfulact:
Pls for those that were invited hw did u apply. Ve sent my cv to abuja workforce countless time bt no avail

Some weeks back on job vacancy section here, there was this post on workforce sales executive vacancy. I applied, was sent an invite some few days later but couldn't make it. Now they're sending another and we don't know if its still for the sales executive post.

This is despicable! The NLC will see this and still do nothing. Whither Nigeria?!