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[b] Ladies, while you might be doing some things happily, there are some crucial aspects in which you should never compromise evem when you are in love. Here are some things that you should never do for your man

1. Ignore Your Dreams

Just because he wants you to spend time with him or be around him always, should not make you feel guilty into turning down that big promotion or the chance to go for thyuat prestigious conference abroad. He should never ask you to make a choice between your dreams and him. There should always be a common ground to work on. Ask yourself, would you be happy in a relationship where you have to give up your hard-earned dreams? If he loves you, he will understand that your dreams and career are as important as his.

2. Modify your values

All of us have our own set of moral values and principles that we believe in. These values form our identity and individuality to a good extent. Never try to change your morals just because your man wants you to. Even if you two don’t share common values, he should always respect yours, rather than change them. This is not just about moral values; it is also about religion and beliefs. Such things cannot and should not ever be changed just because someone else wants you to do so.

3. Change Your Look

woman should never change her appearance or the way she looks only because her man desires so. Subtle changes are acceptable, like dressing and styling ones. But if he wants you to go for surgeries to change certain aspect of your appearance then never agree to it. He should admire your natural beauty and not work towards changing it. Just because he doesn’t like the way your nose looks or if he finds your ears too pointy, it should not guilt-trip you into going for something as drastic as a surgery.

4. Sacrifice your personal space

Even your family and friends need your time and attention, and this is something even you enjoy, right? So, never sacrifice your personal space and time that you should be spending with them just because he wants you to. Try to divide it and strike a balance. Just because you are in a relationship does not mean that you do not need anyone else apart from him. And, he should understand and respect that.

5. Forget Who You Are

Never try to act what you are not. Do not show that you are less intelligent than him just to boost his ego or only because it will make him happy. Men like independent women, so acting silly is not going to help at all. Also, you should not change your likes and dislikes for him. These things make you unique. So, do not lose your individuality and identity for a man. At least, not when you are being forced to do so

6. Starve Herself

There’s nothing wrong with being healthy. If you want to go on a diet or begin exercising, that’s great! Of course, you should only do so because you want to better yourself. Don’t do it in order to please the opposite se.x. And, of course, never use extreme methods like purging or starving yourself. There are plenty of ways to lose #weight and feel fit that involve healthy methods. [/b]

musiwax:
Based on Galaxy S3
Samsung Galaxy S4
HTC ONE M8 - 16 Gig with 32Gb memory card
Samsung Galaxy S6 - 64 Gb
Iphone 6 - 64 Gb

I've really developed a lot of interest for iPhone, but I'm using 4lines. So I'm still using Android, not Bcoz I like it but bcoz it's dual SIM......as I don't wanna be spotted with plenty phones.
So plz I'd like to no if any iPhone is dual SIM?

glimpse33:
OP, you should be greatful you are handsome!

let the ugly guys tell you their pains first, then you would be thankful to your creator!

note* ugly guys shouldn't quote me

I've never really believed anyone is handsome or ugly.....I just think we're all creation of how mch we take care of ourselves.....some pple call it "packaging".

Teempakguy:
Why are all of them over 50
And why are most of them based on oil

Bcoz wealth doesn't fall from heaven, it takes yrs, to build it....hence their ages.

K

CSTR2:
You are an idiott.
Look at all your old posts riddled with crap about a useless one-nigeria.
Let me catch you on this forum insulting biafra again and see the wrath of God fall upon you.
Nonentity.

Thank u, I'm so sure d id*ot isn't more than 17yrs n therefore doesn't realize that some of his mates n families like his are doomed due to this demolition. Kids just coming here to express how mch they lack home training.

westernhub:
alaba is next

This is an example of a "tribalistic sadist".

gwales:
Hahaha..... One particular tribe would cry all day

Why are u laughing n what's so funny? People's means of livelihood are being destroyed, bread-winners are grieving, as kids will hv to drop out of schools n affected families will be thrown into abject poverty and u laughing "Bcoz it's a tribe that looses d most"? You're a true example of a sadist.

Yustash001:
you get it....thank God the trekking things has stopped...

Didn't you hear abt d last trekker who got lost n still not found till now? Sure, trekking will hv to stop, Bcoz no one wants to disappear.

prettyjo:
1 and 6

Now I know d one to get u when I'm ready.........plz hang on, I'm coming to get u.

Most times wen I read stories like this, I seem (not that I don't) not to blame d sellers, But u totally blame d consumers. This is Bcoz, till date, consumption of these drugs is always by will n never by force......THANK GOD FOR THE LAW.

[b]I really don't no where to start...alright, from d beginning.
I had a frd who was more of my colleague than a frd, always complained of being broke.So I decided to link him up with some other places I work, so as for him to earn more. Essien never had d patience, he always wanted to earn as much as d boss does. He resigned from d job I connected him to, he got another, resigned....another n resigned. I met one day, looking so haggard n broke, he narrated his ordeal to me, once again I decided to help, I asked him for his phone number n he said he'd sold his phone (was that bad). I condemned him n accused him of being to desperate to make it, I gave him a small phones (Nokia) told him I'll call him on that line wen I get sth for (job) for him. He thanked n promised me to work hard and be patient.
Days passed, weeks passed, then moths.....I couldn't reach him on phone n didn't even no where he stays. I got several offers for him but couldn't reach him.
Just yesterday (June 13th), as I drove home, I saw him standing (obviously) waiting for me......This time, he looked terrible, he looked broke, hungry n dried, I really can't explain it, but sth was just off. In tears, he told me his story........"I sold d phone u gave me when I waited for abt a week n didn't hear from u, I had to feed. I was living with my frd who was a bus conductor, that's how I was till last week, we both agree to go do money rituals, after we had made d plans, d "baba" (native doctor) told u to come back in 5days time. Oh God (now in tears) how was I to know that my frd had made extra plans behind my back for d native doctor to use my manhood for his rituals?
On d 5th day, we got there, d baba made several incantations, gave me sth whitish to lick and I lost consciousness. By d time I regained myself, I was standing at d bus stop alone.....my frd was gone, I felt empty, then realized my manhood was gone!!"
I opened my mouth to talk, but no words came out......finally, I asked him how he urinated, he said he's "never pressed ". Man to man, he stripped and I saw NOTHING! I MEAN NOTHING!!
Honestly, I'm scared scared, he's refused to tell his family or d police. I wanna help him But I don't no how, besides I've got a strange feeling that I shouldn't hv anything to do with him this time......
Plz house what do I do? What do I tell him? Currently, he's in my house, my girl is coming over today n is usually scared of this kinda spiritual things...as he cries all night long. ADVISE PLZZZZ [/b]

Colonel27:
Bad boy refers to that guy that has at least one of this xteristics: brilliance, rich, good looks. He is an ALPHA male. He does not see ladies as a special being (doesnt take shit from girls) though he has a way of making thrm special when they are around, flirty, he is loyal to just one person (which is himself), quite insensitive, fun to be around,etc

U nailed it bro. *nothing to add*