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Foreign Affairs / Re: Donald Trump Resigns From the US Actors Union by cozy7(m): 4:59am On Feb 05, 2021
Shey life don tire am ni??

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Romance / Re: Need A Girl To Bleep Badly by cozy7(m): 1:26pm On Jan 27, 2021
ndi4luv:
I'm a Hot guy based in Atan, Ogun state in need of sex. I'm a very good in sucking pussy, and eating that sweet pussy, fingering, giving you those widest fantasy.
I need a girl to f*ck so badly and I promise it will be worth it.
I want to you to have a feel of my big dick in-between your legs as you moan and squeeze the bedsheet as my dick is inside you f*cking your pussy so hard and you whispering in my ear that you love it and me eating your sweet pussy.
Here is my phone number 08087046198. I live alone. I will be expecting your call.
why is your lips so wide Bro? Rather than work on improving your pathetic life, your here fulfilling your village pple wish on u. You're truly a total waste of sperm.
Romance / Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by cozy7(m): 5:27pm On Jan 16, 2021
22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.
First your not d father, but more importantly, she doesn't even wanna tell u abt his, father? To crown it all up, she's "pressuring" u for marriage! MY BROTHER START RUNNING NOW B4 IT'S TOO LATE. She doesn't just hv a skeleton in her cupboard, she infact has a cupboard full of bones. My brother run oo

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Romance / Keep Checking Anyone Around Your Wife by cozy7(m): 10:40am On Jan 06, 2021
[B] Guys, since we all know that doing a DNA test is kinda expensive in Nigeria (averagely), I strongly suggest we go old school...

Visit your wife's office, if she has a shop, check her customers, if she does online business, check major customers, check neighbours, check her pastor..... Keep checking and see if there's any resemblance oo. If there is, do d needful before its too late.

U don't even need your wife's consent (or knowledge), quietly take a strand of hair, blood or finger nails and go check if you've been wasting your money on another person's child all these while.

Go to clubs, even olosho sef get husbands n bfs, so what are talking abt?


OR WHAT DO U THINK?? [/b]

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Nairaland / General / Re: What Did You Accomplish This Year That You Are Proud Of? by cozy7(m): 9:36pm On Dec 28, 2020
Odewaleadesoye:
Sincerely speaking, year 2020 has been challenging and a lot of things happened during the year.

It was a year we experienced total lockdown in the world due to Covid-19 pandemic. The lockdown led to a lot of unspeakable occurrences.

I came up with this question and thread so that we can learn from you. Despite all odds throughout the year, you were able to achieve something and proud of it simultaneously.

As for me, I was able to complete my University's education and I graduated with first class in Accounting. I'm very proud of that. Despite all odds, I still made it.

What is something you accomplished this year that you are proud of?

We would be glad to hear and learn from you.
For me, I'm most grateful to God for all he's done for me in 2020.

First, u bought my first car (an SUV)
Second, I got my first apartment n furnished it heavily
Third, I GOT MARRIED, did my trad on 6th Nov and white wedding on 7th Nov.

I honestly feel like it's me alone God blessed this year. All thanks to d success HE gave me in my business. I REALLY, CANT THANK HIM ENOUGH.

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Properties / Re: How Do I Recover My Late Father's Property? by cozy7(m): 1:41pm On Dec 19, 2020
Thegracefulness:
My advice to you is stemming from several years of experience, and also from professional intellect. I’m an attorney.

Being legitimate owners of the property, you can have a verifiable “Next of Kin” move to the Land Registry or Local Government Council office in your district, and begin paperwork for registrable documents. First of all, implore the service of a Land Surveyor to determine the extent of the property, and then file a claim for the ownership of that property. That property MUST BE REGISTERED! Take a quick step to do it now, because, according to the Registeration Act which came into force in 1986; Instruments of gifts and immovable property must be registered.

First you must show your family has possessed the land to the exclusion of any other party, without objection or consent. That you have also shown intention to possess the land (i.e. you people have fenced it in some way), and have carried out maintenance such as cutting the grasses and major renovations that could have caused your aunty to claim the property upon noticing.

Citing that you have not ever paid any rent to your aunty for the land is also a major shield.

Note that It is very important that you have met the above criteria openly, continuously and for at least the last 12 years, since you’re saying your father died over sixteen years ago, i’m guessing you must have been occupying the property within that period. That goes in your right.

If your family believes you have met the criteria, then the next step is for you people to contact a solicitor. The solicitor will ask you people to provide the Land plan that the surveyor gave to you, including photos of the boundaries, fencing and any documentation showing you have purchased and maintained the fencing and gates.

The solicitor will then prepare a “Statement of Truth” or “Statutory Declaration” that you must swear in the presence of a solicitor. This document will contain information evidencing your claim to ownership.

Once this has been finalised and sworn, your solicitor will use that document to make their application to the Land Registry. Usually, the Land Registry will then send a surveyor to inspect the land. The Land Registry will consider the application and then revert to your solicitor if they have any queries or further requirements.

Let me advice you to note that Notices will usually be sent to the owners of neighbouring land or anyone else the Land Registry may believe have rights over that land you people are claiming (i.e. a right of way) informing them of your claim over it. The owners will be invited to object if they feel they have just cause and they will be given an expiration date for their objection to be lodged.

If nobody comes forward with a contradictory claim, and if the application is successful, the Land Registry will award you people with a “Possessory” title and provide you with official title entries documenting your ownership.

To be honest, you don’t really have much issues to worry about. As any new documents you register after proving these, would foreshadow whatever claims she has, that arises later on.

You can contact me if you need intensive opinion on this. Just trying to limit space. I wish you good-luck.
This is really enlightening. God bless u sir.

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Romance / Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by cozy7(m): 9:45am On Oct 27, 2020
Shortyy:
A woman posted that she was beaten because she denied her husband sex. And all the comments from men here commended the man for beating his wife. Is this how low men have become because of sex? No atom of sympathy whatsoever! I do hope it's their normal jokes and trolling, becausw if truly this is how all men are, God will surely understand if I decide not to be with one.

Nobody bothered to know what could have led the woman to make such decision. Could it be she was sick, or she was having menstrual cramp, or she wasn't just in the mood! Fgs no matter what, bride price or no bride price, humanity comes first. How could you justify a human beating his fellow human just because of 2 minutes pleasure? Are you all beasts? Oh My God. I am disgusted.

A woman you dated, promised to love for the rest of your life against all odds. Then you turn her into a punching bag because of sex. You never married her for any other reason just for sex. How unfortunate.
Shut your trap. Sex is one of d main reasons marriage was constituted. U treated your husband wrong. Till now, you've not said y u denied him his right, which means that u know u were wrong. If u can't give sex, why get married? JUST SHUT UP and thank God he didn't divorce u. Make amends and hv a happy home. Thanks.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: China Warns US Against Sparking Cold War by cozy7(m): 12:53pm On May 25, 2020
Let this crazy Trump not put US into trouble oo

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Romance / Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by cozy7(m): 12:38pm On May 12, 2020
Crazeman03:


Thanks for the insult. The third I tested since we've been having sex was march and I'm still negative.
God in heaven will bless u beyond imagination. You're a blessing in disguise to mankind. Your type is rare. May God bless u again, again and again.
Celebrities / Re: Tory Lanez Tells IK Ogbonna To Stop Posting Nigerian Flag by cozy7(m): 12:51pm On Apr 14, 2020
Oharina:
I wonder if Ik Ogbonna derive joy from posting Nigeria flag.
your very silly for saying this. A man is proud of his country and u ask if he derives joy?? Let me ask u this.... If he isn't proud of his country, which country will he be be proud of?




Thunder fire u there.

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Romance / Re: Pls How Can I Stop My Girlfriend From Double Dating by cozy7(m): 1:31am On Apr 13, 2020
tilampa:
Hello house pls advice me how can I stop my girlfriend from double dating
First talk to her. But if u have n she's not changing, my brother WALK AWAY.

U can force a horse to d river but u can't force it to drink water.

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Phones / Re: How To Get Free 1gb Data On Airtel Valid For 7 Days by cozy7(m): 9:32am On Apr 03, 2020
There are so many airtel apps. Which particular one?
Family / Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by cozy7(m): 10:09pm On Apr 02, 2020
Honeydenz:
Today makes it exactly 5 years one of my aunts said a very painful word to me which I can never forget.

She said and I quote "the rate at which you are going this girl, 5 years from now you would have become a mother of 4 kids, all borne out of wedlock"

Today I have been able to prove her wrong, doing my masters program now whereas two of her daughters are university dropouts, as a result of unwanted pregnancy.

Hmmmm... How time flies, share yours.
my former boss (a young guy like me) called me "his boy" n threatened to snatch my girl from me bcoz I was broke. Today I'm self employed, far bigger than him. He now calls me MY OGA. Human being are really funny aswear.

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Celebrities / Re: Ultimate Love: Meet The 8 Gorgeous Female Housemates Of The New Reality Show by cozy7(m): 12:09pm On Feb 10, 2020
Another avenue to milk jobless youths who will keep voting nonstop.
Computers / I Need A Power Bank For Laptop by cozy7(m): 5:25pm On Feb 08, 2020
Hello friends, Plz I need a powerful power bank that can carry my laptop for good amount of time. Any recommendations Thanks alot
Family / Re: I Want To Leave My Wife For My Girlfriend by cozy7(m): 10:24am On Feb 08, 2020
papaejima20199:
This is my first time posting NL , although I've been reading a lot in the last few months . I'll try to be as detailed as possible. I don't even know if I'm asking a question, or advice, or what. I just have to get some things out of my brain.

I’m 36 and my wife is 32. we've been married for 12 years and have two children, twins age 1. I would say happily married. As in, we don't fight, , never any abuse of any kind, no major life disagreements. I love my wife. She is a great mother, a great provider for the family, and we make a great team when it comes to raising our kids. However, she leaves me feeling undesired. Sexually, just intimacy in general, not feeling wanted or desired, missing that flirtatious quality that we all enjoy in a relationship. Our sex life has been on a steady decline, honestly since we got married. Less and less and less every year, and yes, kids make that even more difficult (and provide very easy excuses)

About 2 years ago, I was close to cheating. There was a girl at work that I flirted with often. We started hanging out , and we always seemed to end up talking, touching innocently, flirting, but nothing ever happened between us. The feeling this girl gave me inspired me to tell my wife how I was feeling, what I was missing, etc. I told her how important sex was to me, asked her what I could change, or if she needed to change something. Her response was that she "just didn't really think about it like you do" and that she would try to work on it. Well she didn't work on it, at all.

The flirty girl didn't work with me any more, and I lost that "flame" with her and let it go, and went about life as usual. I've been working a lot of hours over the last six months. I fell into this flirty relationship with one of my coworkers 22 and we just would have a lot of fun with one another. Mad sexual tension. A few months back things happen and she blows me. Its great. Best sex of my life. We set up plans to meet up off work hours and we do.

My coworker is in perfect shape. Its like my perfect woman. I love the way she loves me. She appreciates me, she satisfies me, she matches my sexual drive, and even exceeds it. She is everything I was missing in life, and I'm as happy as I've been in a long time. She is also crazy about me which feels unbelievable. Its been a while since someone has just wanted me to be happy and wanted to please me. I now consider her my girlfriend.

I don't wish to hurt my wife. But I do wish to be happy.

I do not wish for my children to grow up in a home with divorce. I want them to grow up with myself and my wife still being the team we've been so far, doing equal parts to take care of them, and always be there for them.

I realize a lot of what I'm saying are things that can't go together. I want to be with my girlfriend, I don't want to hurt my wife, and I don't want my kids to suffer . I can't have it all. Now I feel stuck

I need help because I can't seem to go through with this alone, and I have no one close enough with the time and level of trust that I can confide in, so I would really appreciate it if you'd offer me some advice.

Thanks for reading
Try getting her tipsy, watch more porn while tipsy (with her), seduce her all over.

Get a nanny or relative to handle d kids while u do these to her. U should be glad she's not a sex freek, if not judging from d average woman we hv out there, she would hv cheated on u. You hv a good thing going with your wife, don't allow side chick spoil it. I promise you'll regret it. Work on your wife, employ d tips I dropped above n most importantly, engage your wife in alot of pre-intimacy before s3x... Women enjoy it alot. Trust me, she will gradually change. DON'T USE YOUR HANDS TO BREAK YOUR OWN HOME. GOODLUCK.

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Romance / Re: Sex With A 16 Yrs Old Girl & This Will Happen 3 Days From Now (Adult Pix) by cozy7(m): 2:38pm On Feb 06, 2020
Chizuru01:
Nairalanders, judge this yourself.



My Coursemate narrates when i visited to inquire why he has been absent from lectures since Monday
Believe it or not, your course mate won't stop fvcking under aged girls until he fvcks d one whose father's heart is worse than d devil's. Make God come punish am make all this child abuse NGOs come put mouth inside d matter. THEN HE WILL BE A CHANGED MAN FOR REAL.

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Romance / Re: What I And My Female Colleague Did This Morning. Photo. by cozy7(m): 1:51pm On Feb 05, 2020
stupidity:
I got to the office early today. Met one of my colleague at the office already. She wasn’t looking happy so I asked what was going on with her, she wasn’t ready to say but after much whining, she opened up. She said she and her man got into a fight last night because her man told her to stop talking to one of her toasters that seems to be a problem to the relationship. Her man has been her pillar from what she’s been saying about him.

I tried to advise her to do as her man says to save her relationship but she was saying he’s not paid her bride price and have no right to tell her what and who not to talk to.


What nonsense?? If you are female and you are reading this and you are guilty of this, thunder fire you o!! Your papa.

Una wan use style legalize hoeing business. Why not employ yourself full time into the business instead of fooling around?


Na small small dance take Dey start. Before we know it, devil will be blamed for what he knows nothing about.

Why be in a relationship in the first place when you know you are still open to options just because your bride price hasn’t been paid yet. You think it’s easy to save money and marry? Money for marriage can be used for good investment with good returns.

Someone is out there working his asx off to take care of you and as well save enough to marry you but you are about to bring devil into the picture.


“He’s just a friend!!!” A lot of things has happened with this line.

Don’t go and do things to better your life instead of thinking and looking for a better option.


PS, this isn’t a female bashing thread. I bash both male and female when e enter my head.

Nonsense and lalasticlala. angry
You make sense brother. God bless u for this piece.
Crime / Re: Policemen Assault Man Who Refused To Unlock His Iphone In Enugu by cozy7(m): 2:42pm On Jan 30, 2020
LOGOBELT:
Bro I advise you to quit, blogging is not in you
You're so stupid and idiotic. Sorry how old are you? Someone saw an fellow Nigerian being embarrassed n he brought it to d world to see and u say this trash.? All I wish is for u to experience same thing. IDUOOT
Health / What Kinda Blood Group Is This? by cozy7(m): 11:13am On Jan 07, 2020
Hi, Plz I need some medical understanding of this.
So I went for necessary medical test with my fiancee, but the kinda blood group she has, honestly I've never heard of it, I asked d nurses, but they couldn't give me agood explanation, all they said is that this blood group is rare. I googled it but seem to be lost d more. Plz which one is O RHESUS D POSITIVE?
By d way, I'm A+

Mod plz help push..

Romance / Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by cozy7(m): 4:55pm On Dec 30, 2019
IyaTola:
After seeing the post https://www.nairaland.com/5456607/ladies-marry-guy-earns-n30k of a man earning 30k shouldn't consider marriage Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by ejitest1(m): 6:04pm On Oct 06 - felt I needed to post my opinion so others can learn.

If your idea of a good marraige is to get a man or woman with a good source of income from both parties and a comfortable lifestyle..

It's fine BUT>>>>

let me tell u the truth..

All those things can be wiped in days.. e.g job's good lifestyle wiped in a matter of days...

So what if he or she was a multi billionaire b4 you decided to marry them.

After few months or years, demons of parking everything appears and parks everything? Oh you forgot 1 bad loan gone south can cripple everything?

We focus on one thing, always related to money gain.. nobody talks about the spiritual aspect of marriage.. everyone always goes with - he must be working in shell or NNPC.. We have seen people who retired from those places and went back to square minus 0.

I told my sisters, never should a man bulk salary or business profits energize you to be a reason to want to marry him because if anything happens to that job or business - you will lose interests in the marriage - then divorce...

Marry a man who got a purpose, drive, vision, someone you can support to be something.. from scratch so that even if he crashed you can always advice him back to the top.

Those kinda marriages last long, majority of those men will love you till death.. even if they cheat, you will never find out... and they can never say "where were you wen I was building my wealth?"

When my uncle's friend (Now working in NNPC) a muslim was told to add another wife, I was in that room - he said in Hausa and I quote "you guys were not there when this lady (his wife) had to sell akara to sponsor his transport fares looking for jobs, so I don't want anyone competing Me with her."

If it was all about the money, you think faith Oyedepo would have married David Oyedepo? Am sure he wasn't seeing 30k monthly salary when he started Living faith church...

Btw, ladies - am not implying you should go marry a lazy broke man, rather marry a man who is starting little with dreams and strong visions, such that if everything crashed, he can pickup again and fight back.
May God bless u abundantly for this piece. I really hope ladies who read this adjust their ways.

BUT no, they prefer chasing old men with fat pockets, putting their future in danger..... Later when d guys they've been cheating on (with d old men) makes it n refuses to marry, they call him names. NONSENSE!

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Romance / Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by cozy7(m): 2:23pm On Dec 30, 2019
Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....
I know I'm commenting late but I really hope u read this, bcoz I'm not d type who comments Alot.

I understand y your sad, but u should look at d bright side. Call this babe, sit her down n let her know d plans u hv for her, also make it clear (assuming she doesn't know) that u don't hv d means to spend that much on her now. IT IS VERY IMPORTANT U TELL HER YOUR TRUE SITUATION, PLANS N HOPES (don't u dare lie).

Then tell her to follow her heart. Bro, when she leaves your presence, don't call, text or chat... ALLOW HER THINK.... U just watch.

This a true test of her luv for you. If she goes, trust me, a better girl awaits u in future. Remember one door must close for another to open.

I've been in your shoes where I couldn't even afford N4 SMS on her birthday, today I'm training her in university n paying all bills.. WE ENGAGED.

So Plz be honest with her, allow her decide. Most importantly, PUT YOUR TRUST IN GOD. CHEERS!
Family / Re: My Husband Is Too Jealous by cozy7(m): 11:21pm On Dec 08, 2019
SmellingAnus:
So you regret the fact that he found out about what you did or regret what you did undecided
Let me tell u d truth... U fuucked up. Even me would be angry. If u don't hv d mind to cheat, then u shouldn't hv given your pix freely. Better go beg your man, then watch your steps henceforth. LOVE IS JEALOUS.
Politics / Re: If You Were Opportuned To Choose A President For Nigeria, Who Would You Pick? by cozy7(m): 6:58pm On Dec 07, 2019
computergeek:
Hands down.... If in some sort of dream I got a chance to pick a president for Nigeria, my vote goes to Femi Falana (SAN).


This man has proven to be a sturdy-spirited activist and literally a national hero. With what has been happening in the Sowore and DSS case, you can imagine how bold this man is that he's actually standing up to dictatorship and insisting that the rule of law be upheld. Of course, they may have tried several means to pay him off or shut him up, but Sir is not backing down.


A king I stan!


And before this case came up, Falana has always been the poster guy for human rights activism. This is no way tribalistic because I'm Igbo and no Igbo person comes to mind.

In 2007, Falana contested in the Ekiti state gubernatorial elections and was unsuccessful. So for those who will say he has no interest in politics, check your facts.



If you think there's anyone better, let's see.

SOWORE 24/7

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Celebrities / Re: Davido Reveals The Face Of His Son On N150M Customized Diamond Necklace by cozy7(m): 11:10am On Dec 03, 2019
gurunlocker:
150 million? These guys and price inflation grin
u dey mind them? I'm not doubting he bought it expensive. But 150m?? lets not fool ourselves plz.

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Crime / Re: Wife Catches Husband Defiling Their Daughter In My Neighborhood by cozy7(m): 2:12pm On Dec 02, 2019
Hardeybaryor:
Advise Needed!!! This Happened In My Neighborhood

Good morning Nairalanders,

Some strange things are happening nowadays.
There is this man in my neighborhood who is having carnal knowledge of his own daughter. He has been cautioned some time ago to which he denied and after some confrontation he confessed to it and promised never to do it again.

This girl in question was then taken away from his vicinity to avoid repetition of such only to find out few weeks back that she has returned.

Now the problem is that the man has started again and this time around the wife caught them in the act but pretended not to see it. She reported it to my brother who told me about it and we called the man immediately to let him know what he is doing. He found out that the information was revealed by the wife and then started beating her.

Please what do you think we can do to help the poor girl and savage the situation.

PS
Pardon my way if reporting.
Mods please help loud this.

Report the b@stard to d nearest police station. CASE CLOSED.

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Car Talk / Re: Negotiating Car Price With A Dealer: Top Tips To Know by cozy7(m): 8:45am On Nov 26, 2019
Carmartng:
How To Negotiate A Car Price With A Seller: Negotiating Like A Pro

Chances are that you have had to negotiate item prices a couple of times in your life. Negotiating is part of our daily life. The seller wants their item to sell at a profitable price, you want to buy at the lowest reasonable price. So, you both start haggling back and forth until you find a mutually satisfactory bargain. Negotiating is involved in every trade, even when you want to buy a car.

For brand new cars, there might not be enough space to negotiate prices. There is always a standard market price or something like it. If you want to buy used cars, however, you are on fertile ground for price negotiations. You can even find used cars for sale online or offline.

So, do you want to buy a used car without being overcharged? Do you want to know how to handle car price negotiations like a pro whether it is your first time it not? Well, you have come to the right place.

Do your homework thoroughly: Research like crazy
This is the very first step for obvious reasons. You want to have an idea of what car you to buy its price range before you walk to a car dealership. Otherwise, they will eat you raw, eat your money raw, all with smiling faces. Don't blame them though. Just like you, they are trying to get the best price they can get from the car sale.

Visit websites that have used cars for sale. Research on different car models and their prices. Most preferably, the particular brand of a used car that you want. This independent research gives you an idea of what to expect.

When you're going to buy your car at the dealership, go there like someone that knows their onions.

Do your fieldwork thoroughly: Visit different dealerships
This always works.

Visiting different dealerships would help you get the best deals. In fact, If you can even drop hints about how you have been to other dealerships and how you might return to them if you're not satisfied with the car price your current dealership is offering. The negotiator would then be trying to beat the prices of dealerships.

Stay level headed. Don't fall for sweet words
After you have done your research and are well armed with all the knowledge and facts that you need, the last thing you need is for your emotions to ruin things for you.

The car sales representative or the car seller (or whoever you're negotiating with) would definitely try to sweet talk you into getting the car at their own price. It is their responsibility. However, it is also your responsibility to remain calm and focused.

If you did your research well, there's most likely nothing they would tell you about the car that you didn't already know. Stick to the facts of your research.

Know when to make your purchase
There are times when you would most likely get the best deals. This is when you should visit a dealership to buy used cars. You can also buy new cars at these periods but remember I said earlier that there usually isn't much to negotiate on new cars.

For instance, dealerships often have timely sales goals to meet. It could be in every four months, 6 months or annually. Visiting them towards the end of these periods could increase your chances of getting better deals.

Also, buying on a weekend is out of it. During workdays, most dealerships often have fewer customers. So, when you visit on a workday you would have more time to convince the negotiator.

Negotiate the price in bits
The car seller would want you to negotiate the total price. You should not allow this. Negotiate every stated price every step of the way. This may take a lot of time but it would be worth it eventually.

Look out for imperfections
Inspect the car thoroughly. Especially if you're buying a used car, check for scratches, damages, or just about anything that gives you a hint about the past of the car.

You may be asking yourself, "why do I need to look for imperfections on the car I want to buy?"

Well, doing this gives you a bargaining chip. Discovering damages like that would help reduce the perceived worth of the car. Hence, reducing the car price and allowing you to be able to negotiate some more.

You could even take it a step further and go along with a professional car mechanic. Have them inspect the car and report whatever isn't perfect about the car. That's some extra bargaining chip for you.

Final words
At first, this could be quite intimidating for you, especially if you're new to this. However, if you stick to these guidelines you shouldn't have any problems getting a cheap car price. You just have to be confident. Even if you aren't, act like it.

What next?
Get along now and start searching for your dream car. Also, when you intend to buy a car online, you might not have enough space for price haggling, but you are most likely to get a cheap price online.

Don't forget to drop your questions or inquiries in the comments section below. I am more than eager to attend to you.


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Plz what did u mean by NEGOTIATE IN BITS? U lost me there. God bless.

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Family / Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by cozy7(m): 11:49pm On Oct 30, 2019
igwegeorgiano:
Friends on NL I greet you all. Trust your day is going well? It is with very heavy heart and confused state of mind I sent this post on this platform so you can advise me on what line of action I should take. Pastors and genuine men of God should also advise me on what to do as well.

There is this lady i have been dating for about a year and 6 months now. We love each other to the moon and most importantly we respect each other opinion and decisions. She is a born again christian who appreciates the things of God more than she appreciates me which of course I have no issues with.

When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious.

Fast forward, on the 15th of July 2019 the traditional marriage was done in her father' compound in the east and all I was asked to pay and give was paid and given without any remainder . after the traditional marriage we went back to my house in abuja. Note that we were not staying together before now. I am base in abuja while she is in owerri. When we got home that night I told her we can now make love as husband and wife hence the traditional rites has been done and most importantly the bride price paid. To my amazement my wife bluntly refused. She told me she will never compromise her stand on pre marital sex

I have been very faithful to our agreement based on her claim that she is a virgin. But refusing me my right over her body after every thing including the bride price has been paid is something I can never subscribed to and to this end I have I have involved her parent and her pastor her decision however, still remain no sex till the wedding night. I am putting the wedding on hold for now until she willingly allow me make love to her and she seems not to be comfortable with my decision as well.

This is the dilemma I have found myself please I need your wise counsels on this. Thanks and remain bless. Moderators kindly push this post to the front page so it can have adequate views it deserves thanks
My brother, Plz take her for a virginity test. Most likely, whatever she's hiding (if there is) will be exposed.

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Politics / Re: Governor Makinde To Refund Tuition Fees Collected By Ajimobi To Parents by cozy7(m): 10:56am On Sep 11, 2019
GoTV:
sad Even though I'm a born again Christian, i think this silly move by the governor is to score cheap political points and blackmail the previous Administration because it was headed by a Muslim governor. No matter how we Christians try, our religion can never be as popular as Islam sad
your d biggest fool and sadist I've ever met. A governer is doing well for his pple, rather than appreciate his good leadership, u come here to cause division among well meaning Nigerians. Your a disgrace to your family and Nigeria as a whole.

Plz note, Islam or Christianity... WE ARE ALL ONE.

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Politics / Re: How Japanese Woman Led FBI To The Arrest Of 80 Nigerian Scammers In U.S. by cozy7(m): 11:21am On Aug 24, 2019
helinues:
Nigeria scammers are less than 5% of scammers and hackers in Usa only.

I am not justifying crimes oo, but Nigeria can't near Vietnam, Kosovo, South Korea in cyber crimes not to talk of the western countries

See the way they are making scamming looks like as if Nigeria is the headquarters
Nah who trap catch be thief...
Car Talk / Re: 5 Things You Should NEVER Do With Automatic Transmission Cars by cozy7(m): 8:44am On Aug 23, 2019
MotorGuru:
Automatic transmission is a torque multiplication device that is attached to your car's engine, which enables your car to shift gears automatically with little or no driver input. it is different from manual transmission in that there is no need for a pedal operated clutch. this makes your vehicle (if equipped with one ) to be very easy to drive especially in traffic jams. The ease it provides makes it very complex in its design and operation and if used incorrectly, can be easily damaged and can cost a lot of money( in some cases hundreds of thousands of Naira) to repair or replace.


The following are some key driving tips that will help keep your automatic transmission in good condition:

1.Only change from Drive to Reverse and vice versa at a complete standstill: Always ensure your vehicle comes to a complete stop before going from drive to reverse or vice versa. Shifting from reverse to drive, or vice-versa, while the car is still moving can cause increased stresses to the drive-train constant velocity joints which can lead to breakage/damage. This can also cause damage to the transmission wet clutches/ brake bands which can be a very expensive repair.so be patient and learn to use your brakes properly to stop your car.

2. Only shift to Park when you’ve come to a complete stop: You can damage or break the locking pin and the pawl mechanism that’s used to ensure your transmission is properly engaged in park. repairing this may be very costly.

3. Don't put your gear in neutral in a holdup/ stoplight : Yes i know, you will say i need to save fuel, right? No it doesn't. Your RPM actually fluctuates and, in some cases, rises when you shift from Drive to Neutral. Not only does this not help you save fuel, but the fluctuation in RPM also stresses the bands and clutch plates in your transmission, which, over time, will wear them out.

4. Putting your car gear in 'L' when stuck in a muddy place: This is bad practice, as L means your car starts from gear 1, and gear 1 gives a high torque condition which will cause spinning of your driving wheels and in severe cases overheat your transmission (Heat is a major killer of automatic transmission!)In such situation , engage your transmission in '2' so that your car can start in(or immediately shift into)2nd gear and remain in that gear until you are out of the situation.

5. Launching your automatic car by revving in Neutral and shifting to Drive: Hmm. For the awon Jason Staham (Transporter) that will put their transmission in Neutral, hold down the accelerator, then shift to Drive. This is very bad practice as this subjects the clutches and bands in these cars' transmissions are placed under huge amounts of mechanical stress due to the abrupt mashing of a stationary clutch plate with an engine that has been revved too high. this over time will wear your transmission and may call for a rebuild/ replacement sooner than expected.



Thanks for this great piece. Plz I'd like to know what the "L" stands for and what that part of d gear should really be used for

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