Politics › Re: Police Kill 4 Wounded IPOB Gunmen Receiving Treatment In Rivers, Recover Charms by crafteck(m): 8:01pm On May 15, 2021 |
kettykin: The killing will beget more killings and turn into a vicious cycle . Right not what is needed is a cessation hostilities so that peace can reign . Could not the unprofessional police have arrested them and taken them into custody to provide more information to them about their activities Yes but wounded doesn't stop them from being armless, they aint your regular criminal either, if you can kill at will then you deserve no pity |
Politics › Re: Police Kill 4 Wounded IPOB Gunmen Receiving Treatment In Rivers, Recover Charms by crafteck(m): 5:07pm On May 15, 2021 |
kettykin: These people are really stoking the fire, People killed the police and you are saying police is looking for trouble you are strange |
Career › Re: Daily Pay Vs Monthly Salary: Which Is Better? by crafteck(m): 1:11pm On May 15, 2021 |
When people say daily money, it doesn't mean monthly income divided by 30.. |
Gaming › Re: How EA’s FIFA Destroyed PES by crafteck(m): 9:27am On May 15, 2021 |
E don teee wey i c ur post ooooo, hw every |
Career › Re: Is 60k Monthly Ok At My Age ? by crafteck(m): 9:41am On May 14, 2021 |
Has nothing to do with age, what do you have to offer |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by crafteck(m): 10:43pm On May 13, 2021 |
Then shes not ur gf, i no g9 elaborate |
Gaming › Re: !!! by crafteck(m): 8:07pm On May 13, 2021 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Israeli Forces Hit Hamas Military Intelligence Centre, Many Feared Dead by crafteck(m): 5:47pm On May 13, 2021 |
[quote author=Righteousness2 post=101657193]You are very ignorant, continue with book of bible stories |
Politics › Re: Army Arrests Ikonso’s Second-In-Command During IPOB, ESN Raid In Abia by crafteck(m): 9:45am On May 13, 2021 |
SLAP44: Why are they arresting people defending their homelands from fulani herdsmen?
Fulani men are killing southerners and none was arrested, but for people to move and defend their territories, you arrest and kill them? By killing police and army,.. Omo see selective view, police might have lots of bad eggs but without them, we are at the mercy of cultists, killers, rapists and robbers and those group have no mercy, did you think of that? |
Crime › Re: We Will Keep Baba Ijesha Until JUSUN Resumes, Police Tell Protesters by crafteck(m): 9:41am On May 13, 2021 |
Revere27: This man just disgrace himself publicly 
From the indication of things on ground now he is likely to spend more time with the police in their cell  I wish to have a friend like him who will stand by me through thick and thin with nothing to gain, not gastards that only want this and that and are swerved by social media. |
Celebrities › Re: Morris Babyface: I Used To Have Sex With Four Women A Day – Music Producer by crafteck(m): 11:42pm On May 11, 2021 |
Telegram234: Big lie... Just imagine if it is true, one woman equals to approx. 3 rounds.. Talk less of 4 women making it approx 12 rounds.... Or let's say he is doing fivesome, shebi he will release inside the four of them... After one day of banging, the next day, or in the next two days, nothing will come out.. He is a big lier.. U no nothing |
Gaming › Re: Used PS4 1TB Console For Sale At Addo, Ajah, Lagos by crafteck(m): 8:07pm On May 11, 2021 |
SodO9: All these shalaye for what Just by telling intending buyer to becareful and confirm what he's buying Nawa o Lots of shady sellers on nairaland |
Politics › Re: Gani Adams: Adeboye, Abina Sons’ Death, One Too Many by crafteck(m): 12:23pm On May 11, 2021 |
Forget, poor man children are dying every second |
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Romance › Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by crafteck(m): 1:10am On May 11, 2021 |
stanliwise: You get sense so? And who told you he is regretting? You dey reason as your level. Bill gate no dey your level and he doesn’t reason like you Assistant Bill Gates wey get sense...  |
Education › Re: Why Do They Always Request For Mother's Maiden Name? by crafteck(m): 7:45am On May 10, 2021 |
Cos fathers maiden name no sure until dna, even dna na probability e go give you. Percentage |
Romance › Re: In This Economy, Can You Marry Someone Who Earns 60k Monthly? - Nigerians React by crafteck(m): 1:20am On May 10, 2021 |
If you do, you are a hoodlum |
Politics › Re: Sunday Igboho Mocks Pastor Adeboye After Son’s Death [VIDEO] by crafteck(m): 4:30pm On May 09, 2021 |
GeeX: He just outdid himself... I am a Yoruba man, but this has gotten to another level, Sunday Igboho just shot himself in the foot.
Baba Adeboye isn't someone you will insult or ridicule and go scot free. Every Christian in Yoruba land is by extension, a child to Baba Adeboye and we say NO to this! Speak for yourself biko |
Romance › Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by crafteck(m): 4:17pm On May 09, 2021 |
bilulu: how was ur dad able to cater for ur mum abi u be baby mama product? Are you saying women are handicapped? |
Romance › Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by crafteck(m): 1:51pm On May 09, 2021*. Modified: 10:21am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Bill Gates believed ops, hes regretting in billion usd now |
Romance › Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by crafteck(m): 1:49pm On May 09, 2021 |
The hypocrites wont believe u, dont waste your time Cblessing: What a balanced view here! You do not only have depth, you've got great wisdom and pragmatic knowledge.
Well done bro.
Abeg no mind the OP my brother. Who says marriage provides comfort, happiness and long life in all circumstances? Nah it doesn’t folks.
1. Some married guys here in America that I know don’t even get regular s ex from their wife anymore because they feel they got the man caged already and if he leaves her, (divorce) - then financial calamity will befall him with regards to alimony, child support, splitting the estate and other drag on here and there.
2. The nagging too na helele. I have had one or two friends just before the pandemic who were almost living with me - they come in on Friday and leave on Sunday just to escape an irritating and over entitled wife from running up their blood pressure unending. You need to see the excitement on their faces when they arrive my place for the weekend and my wife initially didn’t understand why these guys were doing this but with time she got the picture, and she even validated my conclusion about the awkward complacencies most women display after securing the marital vow from a man - “for better for worse - love and to cherish, till death do us part..... bla bla bla”
3. There is a reason some companies here in America and even in Nigeria seldom hire permanent staff. They hire on contract basis. Now, I know someone may say what’s the difference if both contract and permanent staff can both be fired. However, it is harder to fire a permanent staff without incurring legal and financial liabilities. Same with marriage, when you tie yourself up with legal complexities just to cling to one individual for life, then you must be ready to go through the headache to untangle yourself when things go sour, and it surely will over time - because every man has his price and every dog has it’s day!
4. It takes 2 people in agreement to get married, but it takes the consent of just 1 of the 2 to destroy everything. Any human being can change, over time - because change is the only constant thing in life - and every human being is a sucker for one or multiple things of life - only known to that individual.
For a man - some of us can not resist a very beautiful and brilliant woman. Now, when she is the one initiating flirts with you, it becomes a level playing field between her and your wife for the battle for your love, affection and attention. If the beautiful woman respects you, cooks good for you and doesn’t nag you as a side chic, then your wife is in for a real fight going forward because every man appreciates peace of mind and sweet food. If she is good in bed and your wife over time has become a boring, entitled and nagging sister at home, then calamity has come knocking on the marriage and a divorce is imminent.
Same for the woman, if she is a sucker for money, sweet talks, material things and good looks, but somehow got married because her biological clock was ticking and she is getting pressured at home to get married by her parents - then whatever is available (which is you becomes her dream man at that period) . However, when all dust settles and she is no longer on the edge about her biological clock because she now has a kid or 2, and a man who she exploits financially in a marriage, she is now in a vantage position to use positive screeners to find that which her mind truly yearns for and whenever she finds it and that person is a willing collaborator, she will turn 360 degrees against you. You will keep wondering what has gone wrong? Nothing went wrong foolish husband- your wife has been dealing with you as an alternative to her real dream man. Now she has found him and she sees you as a mistake she urgently needs to correct.
5. Money, power, fame or spiritual superiority can’t tame any partner in a marriage. We have seen that with Bill Gates, Micheal Jordan, Brad Pitt, Chris Okotie, Chris Oyakhilome and even Aso Rock’s own Aisha Buhari here in Nigeria where she feels very comfortable staying away from her husband in Dubai for half a year. So what are we not talking about ?
6. I honestly don’t believe a man will ever stay with one woman and not stray for maximum one year and I don’t believe a woman can be committed to one man and not stray for 2 years. If she is not straying then she must be an ugly and irritating sit-at-home-all-day lady that nobody wants. IF if he is not straying, he must be a dirt poor loner who lacks basic confidence to initiate and hold a conversation with a lady for even 30 minutes.
With all these being said, baby mama comes from the freedom it affords both parties (the man and the woman) to stop breathing on each other’s neck and give each other the space and opportunity to keep excelling without the suffocating complexities of an irritating spouse
And who says products from a baby mama can’t be great? Barack Obama is one, and he is one of the greatest black men to ever walk on the surface of the earth and a role model to hundreds of millions of people world wide. I know someone will say but his father married his mother - yes, they did just to take pictures lol, because the father was off before Barack even turned 3 years old and since then his (now late) mom and her family took care of him
So, OP stop propagating neediness, insecurity and lack of capacity for adults to stand their ground and hold on to face the vicissitudes of life because you want them to desperately cling to another human to bail them out with pity parties when life throws them a curve? nah- Instead I will encourage everyone to get on their A game and enjoy their life, independent of any other human being’s perpetual manipulation and psychological slavery.
As for kids born out of wedlock, they will be fine. A baby daddy can support the welfare of the kid as the spirit leads him because even kids you raise in a marriage sometimes will turn against the you their father and give priority to the mom when they grow up because right under your nose, the indoctrination was taking place whenever you are away to work and you didn’t even realize it
So baby mama or marriage is ok for anyone- it all depends on what you are comfortable with
I rest my case!!! |
Romance › Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by crafteck(m): 1:46pm On May 09, 2021 |
jeromeekugbere: Are you serious right now?? U know how many married women i dey jam? High percentage of marriages dey unhappy.. |
Romance › Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by crafteck(m): 8:55am On May 09, 2021 |
pure nonsense, you have one kind funny imagination biko, all things listed here are same for a normal marriage� |
Politics › Re: Sultan Of Sokoto Alarmed Over Insecurity, Calls For Prayers For Nigeria by crafteck(m): 9:03pm On May 06, 2021 |
Prayer is not the answer, make everyone get gun and prepare |
Romance › Re: What's Stopping You From Tying The Knot With The Person You're Dating Right Now? by crafteck(m): 9:02pm On May 06, 2021 |
What is the essence of marriage, Also right person is a dynamic factor based on so many things, right person might not be right after showing some formerly hidden characters |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: When Are We Going To Talk About These Lebanese And Chinese Companies by crafteck(m): 9:00pm On May 06, 2021 |
lavylilly: When are we going to talk about these Lebanese and Chinese companies running a modern slavery in Nigeria?
This Chinese company of a thing is total slavery o. Come to igbesa ogun state, you will see lots of Chinese company. Lemme start with viju milk company, their staff work 7am-7pm everyday and get 18k at the end of the month. There are lots of Chinese companies with low. Nigerians in those companies enabled them! It wasn’t always like this Its high time government does sometime |
Family › Re: Cheated With A Church Girl! I Have Finished Myself, What Do I Do Now? by crafteck(m): 10:59pm On May 05, 2021 |
yomi007k: Oga Go Hospital. Nairaland no be hospital.
So Depper Life babes self dey do that thing...I be Jew man o.  Na dem sweet pass, one almost gave me stroke |
Travel › Re: Keke Napep Vs Korope Bus: Which Is More Profitable? by crafteck(m): 8:55am On May 05, 2021 |
Agbero go make life tire u.... Dont |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar: The Time For A Total War On Terror Is Now by crafteck(m): 6:19pm On May 04, 2021 |
Make hin shut up, na him brothers |
Health › Re: Nigerians Force Hospital Staff To Accept Injured Man They Rejected. by crafteck(m): 6:06pm On May 04, 2021 |
AutoRedux: Editing my quote makes me even a more stupid Useless junkie. Ok |
Health › Re: Nigerians Force Hospital Staff To Accept Injured Man They Rejected. by crafteck(m): 5:13pm On May 04, 2021 |
AutoRedux: Idiot, I have but what of you? I Have to fix my generation transmitted stupidity? Ok |
Health › Re: Nigerians Force Hospital Staff To Accept Injured Man They Rejected. by crafteck(m): 12:33pm On May 04, 2021 |
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