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Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by stanliwise(m): 10:30pm On May 13, 2021 |
chii8:Abeg dey calm down. They know what they are doing 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by dmgr(m): 10:31pm On May 13, 2021 |
samwash: You have said it all |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Ingriid(f): 10:32pm On May 13, 2021 |
Sebastine1994:My dear, bringing this to Nairaland will not give u d answers u need , we all know this is site that they tag every girl olosho. Some are even saying she’s playing mind games with u. Pay no attention to them brother. U definitely know ur girl better, if she’s a true Christian , it may be d reason for her shyness; like she has sinned against God. I thought one should feel shy after fornicating , or am I wrong? 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Emperor88(m): 10:32pm On May 13, 2021 |
Masturbator2020:Fear of God ko fear of god ni...you keep repeating the act and you dear call it fear of God! 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by mytty: 10:33pm On May 13, 2021 |
Make no Mistake my brother man, THE BIBLE EMPHATICALLY SAYS THAT NO FORNICATOR HAS A PART IN GOD'S KINGDOM, The fact that you enjoyed it doesn't justify it, PLEASE DON'T BE THE DEVIL THAT WILL MAKE THAT GIRL WHOSE HEART GOD IS STILL ALIVE TO MISS HER PART IN GOD'S KINGDOM BECAUSE OF YOUR URGE, WHY NOT GET MARRIED, AND Bleep AS YOU LIKE, THAN LOOSING YOUR PART IN GOD'S KINGDOM, BIBLE SPEAKING ABOUT MOSES UN HEBREWS SAID,. WHEN HE CAME OF AGE, HE CHOSE RATHER TO SUFFER AFFLICTION WITH GOD'S CHILDREN THAN TO ENJOY THE PLEASURE OF SIN FOR A SEASON, IN THIS EARTH "FUCKING" WITHOUT MARRIAGE SEEM A NORMAL THING, BUT I TELL YOU, ABOVE THIS EARTH, IT'S DEADLY, CAN COST YOU YOUR ETERNAL LIFE, WHY NOT BECOME A FOOL IN THIS EARTH, THEY MIGHT LAUGH AT YOU THAT YOU ARE NOT FUCKING, BUT I TELL YOU GOD UNDERSTAND S,selah 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by MrFlavvor(m): 10:33pm On May 13, 2021 |
Masturbator2020:sharrap! You feel guilty after masturbating |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by IBRAHEEM8(m): 10:33pm On May 13, 2021 |
ahiboilandgas: Wow you got it right. ���� 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by dochenaj: 10:35pm On May 13, 2021 |
immortal2:The flesh yearns for it, and in that moment she yields and after the deed is done the wave of guilt comes sweeping in. "Oh wretched man that I am, who can deliver me from this great death..." 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by bobluck: 10:37pm On May 13, 2021 |
Sebastine1994: Bro, be wise this is a setup. That gender can be manipulative. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by dochenaj: 10:38pm On May 13, 2021 |
Masturbator2020:The fear of God is to depart from evil. You have a lively conscience, one that still believes the truth about sexual sin. |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Lastmankc(m): 10:38pm On May 13, 2021 |
[quote author=Sebastine1994 post=101628030]My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless. |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by des4ella(m): 10:39pm On May 13, 2021 |
Sebastine1994:My wife still feels ashame after sex despite being married for about 7years now.. It was worse when we were single; Don't mind those ignorant entities telling you she's using reverse psychology on you for marriage. Most decent ladies are shy after sex. 9 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by IkemChris(m): 10:39pm On May 13, 2021 |
ahiboilandgas: You are very responsible my gee chop knuckles 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by ceejay10(m): 10:39pm On May 13, 2021 |
why can't you ask her? must every thing be online? na wa. nothing Musa no go see for gate. we are not sex therapists here, so duss off . |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by dochenaj: 10:39pm On May 13, 2021 |
Ingriid:Sadly in our world today, good is bad and bad is good. The ceremony of innocence is drowned, the best lack conviction while the worst are filled with passionate intensity. |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by weddingchannels: 10:40pm On May 13, 2021 |
This girl still have some fear of God in her, you feel you are hopeless, why are you still using her, tell her so she can make amends with her maker and find a better man that will wait and honour her body not fornicators that have no shame, abusing the temple of God. You don't love her, all you wanted was sex. Sebastine1994: 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by ekenzify(m): 10:42pm On May 13, 2021 |
You have already stated the answer to the problem. Marry her bro. Obviously she is the churchy type of girl who wants to take her Christian life serious but she's engaging in pure sex with you. I guess she's feeling her worst fears after the sex; that once you get a taste of the cherry, you would back pedal. Looks like her fear is coming to pass judging from your last statement. Make plans to marry her or leave the poor girl to someone that would be serious with her. 8 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by crafteck(m): 10:43pm On May 13, 2021 |
Then shes not ur gf, i no g9 elaborate |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Richieniit: 10:43pm On May 13, 2021 |
Bro Bleep her good... She will be happy and even blushing in the mirror 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by AlphaBeta130: 10:45pm On May 13, 2021 |
It is normal for most people. It is called "post coital dysphoria" and it is worse in people who fear God more and still have living conscience |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Qoko: 10:48pm On May 13, 2021 |
koladata: And each time you deceive them for sex, they feel so disappointing in themselves |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by asapants: 10:49pm On May 13, 2021 |
Premarital sex lead to destruction. The society has been lying to you. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by ayusco85(m): 10:49pm On May 13, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: So what should he do with all the urges? U think sex is bad? Why do u think it is? |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by jaxxy(m): 10:50pm On May 13, 2021 |
Sebastine1994: She gave u the reason as being due to her conservative background and not being married which u broke for u and u are here whining?? Are u the one who disvirgined her? If yes u should not be complaining here bt if no then u need to think and understand what her motives are. |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by SeriouslySense(m): 10:50pm On May 13, 2021 |
Don't worry at all, She feels ashamed because she is having fun outside marriage, once you marry her, it will go away automatically. Sebastine1994: 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Cnach: 10:52pm On May 13, 2021 |
Sebastine1994:I feel she has another guy 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by BrainSanitizer: 10:53pm On May 13, 2021 |
Sebastine1994: Send me her number let me ask her why. |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by WoundedLamb: 10:53pm On May 13, 2021 |
I wonder if people really get any helpful advice when they bring relationship issues to Nairaland. 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Blakpot: 10:54pm On May 13, 2021 |
Hehe... If she isn't faking it, u should shag her more often, the more she gets used to it, the less guilt she feels. On the other hand, maybe she's exaggerating a bit, probably just doing it for ur attention or to keep up the "im a good girl" appearances. But hey! I could be totally wrong, after all u know her better than any1 here so... Edit: On a second thought i hope ur not pressuring her to have sex with u, and she does it anyway because she likes you, but feels guilty afterwards? |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by bluefilm: 10:55pm On May 13, 2021 |
Sebastine1994: Maybe that's because you're hopeless true true. |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by biggy26: 10:56pm On May 13, 2021 |
Sebastine1994:Forget all the nonsense some people are saying about reverse psychology. If you come from a Christian or conservative background, you will naturally feel guilty. She knows it’s wrong and you know it too, you are only trying to numb your conscience. Even after marriage, some virgins feel uncomfortable after sex, cos they have lived all their lives without it, but they eventually come off it. But no genuine Christian can wish that guilt away before marriage. 6 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by RPG2020(m): 10:58pm On May 13, 2021 |
uboma: Abeg add my own join She dey play you assurance love by Davido |
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