₦airaland Forum

CrazyMan:
Everyone knows that pastor biodun had sex with busayo. The question here is was it r.ape or consensual sex. Cos I believe that if indeed she was r,aped she shouldn't have had anything to do with the pastor in question.

Her continued presence in the church, and even allowing the pastor join her and her husband in holy matrimony after the incident speaks volumes.

My take.

1. They both had sex.

2. She was pissed of after the first sex but kept quite maybe because the guy in question was her pastor.

3. She developed likeness for him, something he noticed which made him come back for more romps.

4. The relationship went sour at some point which made the pastor regain his full pastoral authority over her. Maybe that was during the time she got pregnant for her current husband.

5. She confined in him after the second pregnancy. He suspended her, and he advised her to get married to the father of the baby.

6. He bought her a car gift and wedded them personally in his church to settle her off.

7. She resurfaced years later and began to claim she was r.aped.

From this I believe it's safe to conclude that if pastor biodun should be scolded it should be for fornication and not r,ape

Now on the issue of apologizing, would you apologize to a girl you had consensual sex with, married her in your church to her husband, gifted her with a car?

What exactly would you be apologizing for?

That ur point No 1 get as e be. If she was pissed off about the 1st act, then its two things. 1. She was forced which equals rape. 2. She was disappointed cos her expectations about first time sex was dashed. Perhaps she expected more acrobatics from the pastor

Sanchez01:
Fact finding is the least of her focus in the post. It was largely about righting the wrongs and she apologized. Why would she apologize if she has no hint of a thing? Why do you think she mentioned 'forms of abuse'?

Its ur type that like to put 'jara' into things. She apologised that some people where hurt by this news. She never apologised to the accuser about being 'raped'. Stop making a mountain out of a mole hill.

xtycool:
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She has stopped going to the church since that incident, I don't know why people r saying she still attend the church, if u watch d video, she didn't kept quite about it, her family knew and some church pastors,but they kept it secret. In some months ago, that same pastor was alleged of rape they silent them as usual, Bukola used that opportunity to speak up, now people r blaming her.

Oga stop lying. She was still going to the church after the 'alleged' incident. She joined their choir even reach abuja sef.

cococandy:
Because someone posted it on social media doesn’t mean it’s true. Y’all jumping on that wagon beer so eager to discredit her story because of your bias for the alleged rapist.

And even if he did say it, it might hold some personal truth to them.
If she didn’t have an sexual intercourse with anyone after the rape incident then maybe she still viewed her virginity (which is a spiritual thing to some people) as intact because she refused to give power to the rapist.

U so beat that I believed what someone posted online. Ain't u guilty of believing what u heard online without substantial proof? I call it double standard

thorpido:
This one knows nothing about rape,it's effects on the victims and how letting it out is the greatest path to healing.

Perhaps,he is a rapist himself.

Silence enables rapists.

Abi. Especially where the victim lied cos according to timi, he found his wife as a virgin.

dyydxx:
what kind of ignorance are you spewing if you dont know there is no consensual sex at 17 years. That's statutory rape. And you are quoting international law....smh

Check kwara state constitution for the age at which someone is regarded as an adult. This is speaking from a Legal point of view

Lovelyn451:
yes, she said so

Lol @ she said so. Madam u just fall my hand.

dexterinc2003:
Why is the pastor yet to deny the allegations directly?
His wife, his senior pastors and every other person apart from him have denied it.(looks like a guilty conscience)

Him and Busola dakolo should undergo a polygraph(lie detector) test. Plus pastors wife and pastors (everyone alleged to be covering up for him).

Then we can face the court after that.

Simply stepping down is not enough.

How u wan make him deny am again when he outrightly and expressly refuted the allegations. U want him to sing it again? He denied it but people drowned him with social media jungle justice.

MrTrend:
Must he speak?

Must u comment?

LordKO:
Lol. Why not jump and pass naw!

I wanna understand na

DameB:
That psychological manipulation by people preying on the vulnerable is the point people overlook. Those saying they have an affair, is it right for a married pastor to have an affair? Or isn't that adultery albeit consented?

The contention here is rape. Nobody is talking about extra marital affair. Rape is a crime not extra marital affair. She accused him of RAPE.

LordKO:
He meted out predaceous acts against her for many years, not rape - it's literally worse than rape though. His actions and inactions damaged her emotionally, psychologically and morally. Meaningful physical evidence isn't obtainable in a case like this.

Almost all religious leaders are predaceous, just as their followers have penchant for commensalism but always end up becoming victims of the predators - opportunism binds them together.

All this ur grammar yet u didn't communicate.

Louis I know. Who be this one?

deomelo:
This is good news for the people of Nigeria.

God Bless Nigeria

Or good news for tinubu's bullion van

ayatt:
If there are people still doubting this rape story then they can believe that Buhari can change Nigeria's problem.

Same way. If there are people gullible enough to believe the rape story, then they can believe that Buhari really won the election in bayelsa

From all this comments above, it is true when they say that most Nigerians don't even reason at all. Very sad.

swiz123:
The Holy Spirit directed you to postpone the programme after you were accused of rape...

Why not at least have the courtesy not to lie with the Holy Spirit...?

Hope u know some bloggers try to twist words. In another post, I read where he said it was his mentors who were more senior pastors in other ministries.

Bia OP y are u repeating the post na?
In other regards, I am very disappointed with all this 'celebrities' who just dey talk rubbish since with exception of Kehinde Bankole who was on the fence.

This one I might believe. But the fact that he was accused of rape, that's something else entirely. Rape is an extremely serious issue not to be used to accuse anybody anyhow

ricon:
There will be heavy security presence at COZA church tomorrow

That I'm very sure of


I don't know about formal complaint or court case, Timi has not been speaking in that direction. I'm sure some bigwigs in COZA are begging his family already.

What would they gain by begging the family? The damage has been done. They must file an official report of he truly is guilty of what they are accusing him of

DaddySpyce:
That is exactly what should be done. The police can't just arrest him without a formal report from the accuser. Now this is were the real truth will come to live.

Exactly. No this social media nonsense

Abeg this thing is not funny again jare. What's all this nonsense

Inflation in football. Gone where the days when stars like Torres was bought for the same amount by Chelsea. It was the then record purchase of the season. Now an unknown player dey command 50m for transfer market. No matter the players they buy even if they bring Ronaldo and Messi, that coach no fit win anything for Man U.

MetaPhysical:
Is there anyone in Nigeria who doesnt love Timi Dakolo?

When you mess with Timi's family you invite bad blood from Nigerians.

Fatoyinbo is on his own, me i no know you o!

Yea. There are people who don't really like his music.

Benekruku:
"CAN deals with intrareligious matters and stands between the church and the government.”


CAN is a disgrace to Christianity if truly, this was said

How? Its not CAN's job to deal in this matters. Its either the courts or at best PFN. Pentecostal Fellowship of Nigerian. I think that's what they are called

Luciferlove:
One fact,she was raped at age 17... But I don't know who did it

According to her. Only two other people where there to either dispute or confirm what she said. The accused and God.

I still don't get it? People should define the meaning of rape. I think it is the unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury ...
Did the pastor threaten u? Even the second time u still describe how he 'raped' u from the back behind the car.... With what? Gun on ur head or what? I don't get it. All this other ones coming out to say he raped them did he take u by force?
The pastor is randy. Its glaring. But rape is a serious allegation.

Na this kain people dey come out say pastor raped them

Freestainworld:
my brother e make sense, he is a member of that organization and so should be questioned, it is called interrogation, not a bad thing, if he is innocent thanks to God , if he is guilty, he could be penalized.

That's the job of the courts not CAN

Its possible Fatoyinbo slept with all this ladies but do they know the meaning of rape? Rape is when u forcefully have sex with someone not when its consensual. The said pastor is charismatic I agree and can sweet talk ladies to submission but most ladies that are crying foul now should also be termed greedy. Because this stories they are bringing out is a case of relationships (side chick) going south.
And for those that are saying they should close down COZA, abeg this case is about a man not a Church

OKorowanta:
Seriously, the boy is hugely talented.
He traps so good,he does commercial music flawlessly.
He deserve all the celebrity endorsements he's getting.

U forgot 'he sings through his nose'

Hoodbilonia:
Niggi i dont listen to wack commercial artists .fake ass homos who dont want to flow except qot a fake local phonetics shiiit. Fuckkl dis is noise

Who u dey deceive? No be u dance zanku for church last Sunday? Where u learn that one from? Eh? 'Niggi'?