Family › Re: How Relevant Is Bearing A Male Child In Today's World? by Creamish(f): 9:27am On May 24, 2016 |
byvan03: I deal with teen girls on daily basics so I have an idea of what's like to have them around. There is nothing I won't do to protect my female child, so everyone is safer that I don't have one to protect.
Girls are so adorable, but I rather not have them. Let mine remain safe wherever they are. No one will come to my house yarning some gibberish about seeing ripe agbalumo just to take away my child. Then what if she doesn't have balls to deal with life issues? She will call me crying when hurt abi? That will shatter my heart, I just can't, maybe God knows that I can't deal. I pray it remains as it is. Lolz. .. UV got a phobia for female kids.. I see ur point.. but then again some male kids come with drama..eg Denrele  . Regardless of the gender of my kids, raising them right determines the level of headache I'll have. Cultism issues is my biggest scare for male kids so I'm thinking of taking mine abroad for their Bsc and Masters... Naija universities get as they be... |
Nairaland General › Re: Can Someone With Vision Tag This Pics by Creamish(f): 9:49pm On May 23, 2016 |
King Kong's ding dong gone wrong.. |
Family › Re: How Relevant Is Bearing A Male Child In Today's World? by Creamish(f): 9:45pm On May 23, 2016 |
I guess male kids are as relevant as the family makes them. |
Celebrities › Re: Famous Personalities & Celebrities From Enugu State(042). by Creamish(f): 9:50am On May 23, 2016 |
joseph1832: Nice. Was born in 042 also, New Heaven. Cool.  |
Celebrities › Re: Famous Personalities & Celebrities From Enugu State(042). by Creamish(f): 9:41am On May 23, 2016 |
joseph1832: Born and bred, or cos dada is from 042? Born, partly bred n Dada is from 042!  |
Celebrities › Re: Famous Personalities & Celebrities From Enugu State(042). by Creamish(f): 7:22am On May 23, 2016 |
collinsdera: Zain Asher
Zain Ejiofor Asher (born 27 August 1983) is a British news anchor at CNN International based in Atlanta. She currently anchors CNN Newsroom weekdays at 2:30pm ET on CNN International. She is the sister of Chinwetal Ejiofor.  |
Celebrities › Re: Famous Personalities & Celebrities From Enugu State(042). by Creamish(f): 7:21am On May 23, 2016 |
Proudly repping 042!  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Guys Post Your Favourite Babe On Nairaland Here (popularity Poll For Babes) by Creamish(f): 2:53pm On May 22, 2016 |
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Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 3:16am On May 22, 2016 |
PunterTim:
.That's laughable. It motivates 'the others'. Dheartless,don't lose heart,go on and get that lass.. It's a good thing she's creamy! Dheartless: this is my kind of guy .....yeah creamish is always a tasty status.
I promise to take every bit of your advice ...... Lolz.. u guys r not serious. SMH.. Dont even bother. |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 3:47pm On May 21, 2016 |
PunterTim: Emphasis on "as much as i can" Its good enough to discourage anyone..  |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 2:33pm On May 21, 2016 |
postmann:
What should I dub thee, O woman of wisdom and virtue? You come as pure as gold, and your values endures through the rusty times of perversion and rebellion.
Young women shall learn at your feet and build a healthy tomorrow for themselves; young men shall sing your praise and be comforted that our mother's advice didn't go down the drain Postmann....  I am humbled. Thank you. |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 1:39pm On May 21, 2016 |
Dheartless: heartbroken I am, why didn't let me know from the very start but you allowed me to build up hopes . this is saddening , if only it were morally right to seduce another mans wife ........ right now I am beginning to consider the truth that "God always forgive us our sins" to my advantage and sanity . I always thought u were someone else... now I know different. I don't broadcast my status unnecessarily...its needless. I avoid flirtation as much as I can. Im Sorry dear..  |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 1:35pm On May 21, 2016 |
PinketteDawn: If you have read one of my previous posts, I mentioned that I want my man to lead me. My man is not above me neither am I beneath him. We are also not rubbing shoulders together. He is the leader and the head of the home. I love the fact that you agree with me that He, the man, the head, the leader, also needs to love and respect his wife as his better half. Most men get carried away in their bid to head that they forget this 'love and respect' which they owe their wives ordinarily. They see their women as tools who exist merely to always please them.
A leader is a visionary who carried his people along. A leader can only win through his followers and most successful husbands today know this. Humility does not mean enduring and tolerating abuse from your husband because he is the man. Valid points. We share the same views here. |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 12:32pm On May 21, 2016 |
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Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 12:31pm On May 21, 2016 |
PinketteDawn: Please include verse 21: Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
Both husband and wives submit to each other. It is not sequential. Husbands do not wait for your wives to submit to you before you love them. The same bible also told us to love our neighbour as much as we love ourselves meaning that even as a wife, you should also love your husband without waiting for him to love you first. Love and Respect for God and each other ensures a successful marriage. The woman does not stand above the man. She must respect him as the head of the home. She is his partner. He must love and respect her as well as his better-half. This is not about the new generation belief that women are equal to men. That sh!t does not apply in marriage. The way u treat each other determines the direction ur marriage takes. It also tells how well the kids' home training goes. Pride should be kicked out the door for the sake of peace. Both party must remain faithful for no one has the right to cheat on the other. |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 12:07pm On May 21, 2016 |
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Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 12:03pm On May 21, 2016 |
Dheartless: i am inclined to believe you my creamish-murderer , ever since you shot me on the first thread of encounter , I think I need a lot of healing on emotional-vulnerability when it concerns you. I sure know you good and I am willing to know you better in all practices of life and living " which includes ......." . Lolz... which includes..?  |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 10:07am On May 21, 2016 |
postmann:
Creamish is Godly. And that's why she's priceless. Who can steal her crown? Neither betrayal or name calling can unseat her from the seat reserved for the virtuous.
She will drink from the fountain of love and fulfilment. The fangs of greed and rebellion will not come near her borders for she's firmly secured by truth.
She's loved.  Aaaawwww... thanks. I'm honoured.  |
Family › Re: How Can I Tame My Mother In-law by Creamish(f): 10:02am On May 21, 2016 |
Becqueen: How do I tame my mother in-law to be?my fiance has been telling me about his mum, how harsh and strict she is, even my fiance in-law,has told one or two things about her and now I'm scared, what if she doesn't like me, what will I do If ur sure about ur hubby, then get into d marriage first. U tame strict MILs wit good attitude n respect. I hope for ur sake that ur hubby luvs u and is ready to stand with u when MIL is acting all out mean. No matter what, dont disrespect her. This will encourage hubby to stand by u. Cheers! |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 9:47am On May 21, 2016 |
Dheartless: this is surprisingly sad, if only I had seen this earlier....... Oh c'mon.... u shuld know me better. I just quoted Acidosis. His view is my view. It can't work any other way.. God who knows all made it so. Man who knows naught drowns in self deceit! |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 9:40am On May 21, 2016 |
Acidosis: It's simple!
Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands.
Husbands love your wives.
This principle has worked for all successful marriages I know. It worked for my grandparents; it worked for my parents (over 30 years in marriage, yet I've never seen them fight/yell/or shout at each other).
This same principle/ethics will I uphold in my family, and same would be passed to my children. Even if Obama legalizes marriage between man and pig, my own ethics and principles STAND. |
Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by Creamish(f): 9:14pm On May 20, 2016 |
Dheartless: lol you are truly not sincere. I wanted you to say " yes I don't like you" , which would mean " you hate me" , but no , you chose to be clever  OK u win... I yield.. Dheartless... UV got a head d size of a cauldron...  |
Romance › Re: Sai-mimzy by Creamish(f): 9:08pm On May 20, 2016 |
MUVA: Olihilistic pucelle and everyone please let's not indulge trolls or give them something to feed on. That moniker was registered barely few days ago for the purpose its currently serving. TeamMimzy won't fall for cheap attempts like this one. Since the OP has registered with us, there's no need trying to prove anything.
#TrendMIMZY! ....the Agony of MimzyHaters... #SaiMimZy  |
Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by Creamish(f): 8:06pm On May 20, 2016 |
Dheartless: this one you dey laugh me so....  according to the op, if you don't think i have a big head, it means you don't like me abi? OP is entirely on her own. If I tell u ur head is big, ur head is truly big..  |
Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by Creamish(f): 5:11pm On May 20, 2016 |
Dheartless: long time ...creamish . please do you think I got a big head?  |
Romance › Re: How Do You Vote For Miss Nairaland? by Creamish(f): 2:46pm On May 20, 2016 |
Join the. mimzy craze! #MimzyZombie #TeamMimzy™  |
Romance › Re: If A Nigerian Girl Likes You, 13 Sentences You’ll Hear by Creamish(f): 12:18pm On May 20, 2016 |
Lolz... Continue exposing us! We go waylay u soon..  |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 11:21pm On May 19, 2016 |
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Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 11:01pm On May 19, 2016 |
postmann: Has creamish too been taken by the current tide of new generation male prejudice? Nope...but I've seen how some NL boys are getting sidetracked..thinking they're Alphas who have women at their beck n call.. lost souls.. wit no regard for the values of marriage... |
Celebrities › Re: Who Wore It Better-genevieve Nnaji And Lola Rae by Creamish(f): 6:58pm On May 19, 2016 |
Obviously Genevieve.. |
Romance › Re: How To Spot Sex Starved Guys In Public Places by Creamish(f): 6:43pm On May 19, 2016 |
Smellymouth: Ma'lady.. it woss nut somhin like a djoking sturvs oo Yes Yes...I'm sure u were only joking...  |
Family › Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Creamish(f): 6:39pm On May 19, 2016 |
Onegai:
You should be worried. These boys will want to marry your daughter. And with what I read on NL, I refuse to allow Baby E marry a Nigerian man. Because it's getting worse. This is how corruption started and no-one asked tough questions and it was left unchecked. Now it is a huge hydra-headed monster that cannot be killed. Same thing with our Family, Community and Menfolk. If men are truly the heads of the family, what does it say that infidelity, domestic violence, shifting of responsibility and blame, child rape and children out-of-wedlock are accepted nowadays. At the rate we are going, the next generation of women will be glad that their husbands only beat them once in a while. This is how India started, to the point where getting on a public bus became an invitation to rape, assault and Murder. This is how South Africa started and look at them now.
I am not demonizing men. But for God's sake, all you guys not worried when you read NL's frontpage? Is there no little part in your brain going "yeah, I love fighting in Family section's on-going Gender wars, but sh.it, the level of craze I see exhibited by a lot of men is getting frightening". @bolded.. Not sure if I should be thankful I've got sons only.. Nwayz.. in all d craze, there r still good men there so all is not totally lost. Let's hope all they r doing now is bragging. When they get mature and ready to settle down wit responsibilities, they will change for the better.. |