MadCow1:
SAI APC!!!!!!!!



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But guy!! Which Kind Mickey Mouse house be this?

Pink and Green Chair..

..e be like Tantalizers Head Office..

Why did he bother to reply that dude? He asked for it..

Nice piece.

21. Nkiru Sylvanus: She is that "last born" in every home who will cry to get anything she wants.

Funny thread.

postmann:



Aaahh!!!

....did u discharge any fluid?



I swear Joeseph1832..that bit of ur poem will transcend time!

Stalker365:


Watching Rambo again recently is the worst idea I've come up with this month. The movie kinda sucks now.. though it was the bomb back then

I noticed it's been aired on DSTV lately but iv refused watching it cos I don't want to spoil the luv I have for the movie. I'm a hardcore critic.. Can't take that risk.

lezznjr:
he is saying anal sex has a wild pleasure for ladies too

Really? The thought of it is repulsive actually. Which lady finds it pleasurable? lolz.. strange people exist.

joseph1832:
Well like they say. "Variety is the spice of life".

Why don't u be more specific?

joseph1832:
And he chose Anal? LOL. How intriguing.

What would you choose?

Lolz... Found this funny. Maybe he's looking for some variety to spice up their love life.

McBrooklyn:


Madam Creamish, why are you shaking your head?? Are you 30 and above??

I search for words...but when i think iv found something, it vanishes.. Seems my tots are allergic to BS.

smh..

The list isn't complete without you Lezznjr ..

Nancy2016:


majority of girls raised by both parents are even more wayward:

This is not true. While I don't agree with the OP, I think this statement is totally false. Families where there are both parents tend to have a higher income than single-parent families. Therefore, the children tend to have a greater allowance and thus lesser need to sell their bodies. Also there is a likelihood that discipline will be tighter due to both parents sharing responsibilities.

If only they will bother to conduct an actual survey instead of basing their arguments on hearsay.

CuteMorriz:
creamish paperlace cococandy ladymercedes et al...pls look at real life experiences

....Seems u have selective understanding. Of course there are those who the parents try to raise right but end up wayward..it exists in all families..whether single parents or both parents. There are also daughters who grow up respectful under the tutelage of her single mom or dad or both parents. Why are u hellbent on pinning it on single moms alone?

Nwayz... U can stay away from them. It does not guarantee u a long lasting marriage as it is not d sole determinant of a healthy marriage. Whatever rocks ur boat.

NobleG1:


It seems your uncle is an illiterate or completely nuts! His reasons are totally absurd and illogical! His mentality is horrible. What your dumb uncle is saying is that every woman behaves and does exactly what their mother did in life, which is totally false.

Haven't he seen a man or woman who came from a very good home, whose parents are still together but he or she turns out to be terrible?
There are people who come from bad families but they turn out to be great people! There are orphans who are great people today.

Being a single mother is not a crime. That a mother is single doesn't necessarily mean it was her fault her relationship didn't last. What would your uncle say about a woman who was raised by a single father? What would he say about a woman who was raised by her mother and step-father? Take him to see a psychiatric.

And please, send him the url of thread to read.

I just tire o.. He has refused to see the other side of the coin..

CuteMorriz:
creamish, cococandy, paperlace, cute hector...you see people who are in support of my opinion have real life experience of what am talking about you guys are just trying to be termed "rational"....

I don't need to tell u about the real life experience I have of a single mother who raised her kids right. My ish wit u is ur need to write off the good ones just cos of the few bad ones.

joseph1832:


I'm afraid that is something I can't do. The internet thrive on opinions to survive, i'm just giving my own share of it.

Then im afraid my threat to u offline will come to fore..

possibilita:
who told you to scout for girls raised by single mothers only to make them your Ex-es

Its also possible he is the one with the issues..

joseph1832:
Well Same thing applies to a woman who marries a man who is close to his parents, don't you think so?

Yup. It is not gender discriminatory.

joseph1832:

LOL. Catholicism have never held sway for me. That's why I damn well make sure I don't get myself entwined with people who profess something they themselves can't follow or adhere to.

Na u sabi. Just keep ur opinion about the catholic church to urself doh..

joseph1832:


I have absolutely no idea what it takes to be a single mum. But what I do know is I have friends who were brought up my single mums, some turned out right, others didn't.

Hun, my question was directed at the OP. Yeah some turn out right, others turn out different. Same applies to children raised by both parents.

To those crucifying single mothers, please read this.... everyone has their own issues.

freecocoa:
Call me crazy but I'm thinking the babe shouldn't even marry you if something like this is reason enough to tell her to find someone else, where is the love then? Mschew.

My thoughts initially till I read the bit about her meddlesome mother..

When u marry a lady who's close to her parents, U also marry the inlaws. Pray over it. If your mind tells u to stay, stay.. If the doubt persists, pls find someone else.

achieverme:

Boy, you are not a catholic. Stop talking about things you Dont know a thing about. You may be cursing yourself in the process, while yuou think you are making sense.

Don't mind dat nigga. Ignore him.

Joseph1832.. keep kwayet!

Beautiful! Congrats!

achieverme:
Not true.

It is the husband that determines gender of the baby and not the wife

True.

Cutehector:
creamish, I totally understand where you are coming from. But where I won't agree with you is you thinking all children raised by a single parent will never likely follow their parent's footsteps.

That's why i asked if you got my point. Clearly u didn't.

My issue with the OP is the write-off he did to the single mothers who raised their children well simply because he believes they are in the minority. He also refused to acknowledge the fact that single fathers who raise their kids alone exist.

Remember the example i gave?

Creamish:

We don't all commit suicide when our girlfriend or boyfriend dumps us. Some do ..others don't.

How does this equate to me thinking all children raised by single parent will never likely follow their parent's footstep?

Cutehector:
Come who are those that are fighting in here?
Respect ya old ages!




Cutmorriz your logic doesn't apply in all cases. The ladies attacking you are quite correct in their opinion especially the one asking if those being raised by both parents are any better than the ones from a single parent.


I also read a comment from a dude stating his girlfrnd is from a single parent family and that she is all nice and homely and respectful and all that and he really loves her but can't marry her due to his parents standing on marrying a lady who'z been raised by a single parent.




It's quite through that a good number of them are likely gona tow the part of their parent in their own marital home, but nevertheless, it varies due to one own's training.


Not all single parents(especially mothers) divorced their husbands.. some lost their husbands through death at an early age. And I believe such women in this category understands the importance of a father in the family.



To the ladies attacking cutemorriz, he is also right because people tend to follow the footsteps of their parents. Trust me, if I came from a home where my mum always disrespects my dad, to d extent that they got divorced, I will actually do thesame if my wife makes my home a living hell for me. But my dad is a dad who i've come to admire when it comes to being a Husband. He has grown to take my mum's bullshit! Sometimes I wonder why he even fell in love with her cuz sometimes she can be so so so wicked. Buh he really loves her to death and that alone has really really inspired me.


My dad is my role model when it comes to being a Husband.. and most times I tell myself, nothing can ever make me divorce my wife due to my dad's way of handling misunderstandings.



So please, let's not all fight and attack each other.



They say everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I say, receive wisdom from the Lord.



Cc: coco.candy, cream.ish, itsqu.inn

U just spoke for urself. A billion and one other children raised by single mums wont go down the same road with you. Ul never know what ur reaction will be till U actually live in their shoes. This is where individualistic traits comes to play. We don't all commit suicide when our girlfriend or boyfriend dumps us. Some do ..others don't.

I hope u get my point?

joseph1832:
Not necessarily. What's good is good and what's bad is bad.

Someone who was raised by an abusive parent might turn out right, thus not being abusive to their kids.

Same goes to a child raised by a single mum. There is no hard-fast rule that the child's destiny must be the same as the mother's. The fact that the mother did not abandon the child and decided to ensure the child is raised regardless of the reason why the man stayed/ran away tells a lot about the strength and courage of the woman.


..and then some know-it-all judge who dint lift a foot in her journey thinks he has the right to pen down crap about single mothers? D'u know what it takes to be a single mum??

cococandy:
what about the men raised by single parents? Oh wait we don't care how they turned out. Any man is good for marriage. Only the ladies must be perused and observed under a magnifying glass just to make sure they are perfect.



And why is that? If not irresponsibility on the men's parts. So the men walk off as they mostly do and the women who stick to raising this children by themselves should be punished and made to look bad for it? You're what's wrong with the world. You and your ilk. Maybe they should have thrown the kids into the gutters (like some do) so that your retardedd asses who judge them for being single parents. Umm but you still do (judge them I mean).



Only God knows what frivolous in this context means. As she wasn't dead yet, it was probably frivolous in their opinion. Like they lived in the marriage with her.

nothing wrong with strong will. Except when you're dealing with a control freak who must always have their way. Then your strong will becomes a problem to them. Because those people's existence is hinged on the subjugation of others. When there is no one to impose themselves on, they don't know how to live.

true if the man is an asshole. The lady has learned from experience that she doesn't need to be miserably married to be a complete human being. Hence she's willing to leave than sit and whine and look for pity party like a helpless 5yr old who's trapped behind a chair.

don't you mean safe way out? Rather than in a body bag? Or wait. What if the man was the one who left? Never mind. It's still her fault for being a single mom. She didn't have enough red pants to keep him from wandering off. Whatever led to the situation, it must have been her fault.

if he's an asshole, the probability is high. I agree.

5.
Hmm. Professor without research. Where's your proof that only raised by single parents have psychological issues?

6.

What ugly parts? before I comment.

maybe. Maybe not.



Yea she probably killed him. We have to find something she's guilty of. There's not way that woman is without blame. If we don't find one, let's make up one.

Bless u!

I really hope your ability to communicate with your wife isn't affected too? cos U can only resolve ur issues via communication. If the spark in your marriage is lost, try get it back.