handsomebeauty8:


I use to think that i am the only one that observes these character in naija girls.
So there is someone else that sees these bad nature of nigerian girls.
Men in naija are only interested in sex with our ladies to the extent that they dont observe these useless nature of our girls.
But after our men marry naija girls and their desire to sleep with the wife wanes,their eyes will now open and they will see the woman as she is.
Then they will start having quarrel and trouble with their wives.
They will start hating the woman.

If our men can look beyond the woman's body and his desire to sleep with her,he would have seen her true nature.

It is only after marriage when the woman's body no longer drive him crazy,that is when he will be shocked to discover the evil nature of his wife.

So men must look beyond her physical attributes.When you no longer desire her sexually after marriage,what should remain and sustain the marriage should be her good nature.

But most men will only discover a prideful,self centered,badly behaved woman after the desire for sex has reduced in marriage.

Hahaha. A Nigerian girl would come to your house, finish your food and also expect you to give her money when she's living. What a bombshell!

toprealman:

Enemy of progress.

Yes, that's one of them.

OP, don't listen to these guys. They want you to remain in Nigeria so that you will struggle like them, whereas you have the opportunity to build on your future with the right woman and earn $100K annually which is over 40m.

nextstep:


Nobody said Nigeria is a paradise.

What I'm saying is that the fact that she's Americana will not help you when you have to deal with being emasculated because you depend on her for remaining in America. The only thing that matters is that they love and respect each other, and where she is based should not be a factor. Heaven and Hell can both be found in America, and in Nigeria.

Forget about that. Nigeria is a shithole with terrorist government. If the OP goes into medical in the US, he cannot struggle. He would earn a jumbo pay and this is what the girl has seen so far. She already knew OP would add value into her life.

chibuzorAbia:


Novice! Wetin you Sabi for Yankee?

Because your brain is loaded full of fantasies?

Marry marry! Yankee! Big foolishness!

Haha. Have you ever travelled out of Nigeria before?

nextstep:


I tire oh... lmao too. He should be more focused on dating the girl and see if he like her. Of course her Americaness will cloud his thoughts and he will be convinced her shit don't stink.

Two years later we will be reading "I married this Americana, we have one child, and now my life is a living hell" because he fell for the glitter.

So, Nigeria is now a paradise, huh? Stop deceiving yourself.

oluwaahmed:


OP no listen to this guy, na local champion.
First you are in the medical field, if you are intelligent then u can continue your medical schooling in the US. It is strenuous but with the motivation coming from your wife you should finish and start earning at least $100k p.a.
Whether you marry her in naija or Yankee, it changes nothing as she's an American citizen and will always be protected by their laws. Most nigerian women are worse than nigerian-americans. Most naija wives now will play feminist for you even while you anchor the bills, nothing to gain from them. There's nothing more dangerous than marrying a Nigerian woman who has never travelled abroad but with abroad mentality.

Haha, that's totally true. That guy is a local champion and does not understand the law.

Trumptweet:
Please help me. I am in medical school. My cousin and his wife (both living in USA) introduced a girl to me. They want me to come over.

From my understanding the two families are friends.

According to my cousin, "she is a good girl from a good family "

I have already started chatting with her, she seems cool, apparently.

But I need unbiased views from those with experience please.

Put yourself in my position and advise me.

she's 27. She is doing her masters .im 29, finishing next yr.


Thank you.

If she's good and responsible and also from a good family, please go ahead and marry. Or do you want to settle down with a crazy woman in Nigeria?

dave4rella:


2014
The wife was doing business too

2014 was okay when the lifeless one hasn't become the President.

googlepikins:
Nigeria is a disgrace

Certainly. Some citizens who are somewhat blind keep on celebrating mediocrity. Tell the government this is substandard and everything would change.

post=93878776:
ON ENUGU AIRPORT.

The New Terminal Building International Wing of Enugu International Airport.

Right here is the new International wing of Enugu International Airport being constructed by Chinese company CCECC NIG LTD. This building is next to the type of building at Heathrow airport.

Here in Enugu International Airport, we have two wings currently, the old building will be converted to the local/domestic flight wing while the new building constructed by CCECC NIG LTD will be put to use as International Flight wing.

Stop celebrating mediocrity. With money from our natural resources, we can build a world class airport. Have you ever been to Hong Kong International Airport?

dave4rella:


You will dump him when you finally go for nysc
I have been there and I'm telling you from experience.
You should concentrate on having something doing.
My sister married her husband when he was earning 15k, they have 3kids now and about completing their own house.

My sister was a hustling business woman so she wasn't worried about the future.
though the husbands job started paying handsomely later.

What year was that? Because 15k in this present regime is so outrageous. It will take a near miracle for someone to survive unless the person is involved in illegalities.

Shukusheka:
Thank you o.

The babe is just asking for advice from people who are married but started with little earnings how they managed to cope.

These broke-ass kids are out in their numbers shaming her about being jobless without offering any advice whatsoever. As if she is the one proposing the marriage. Wtf.

You're right, brother. So many retardedd people on here.

Moyinoluwa35:
am 25 years and I love my fiance and we are planing to get married next year april but am scared he is earning N25,000 as salary right now but am scared about his income but he keep telling me things will get better, but I don't wanna marry and suffer please as any one been in this show before how did you work it out..

What does he do for work?

That place is unfit for animals to stay let alone human beings.

helinues:
Truth be told, this is how average male hostels are across the country

Hostels for future leaders. Over 90 percent of these students would be criminally-minded and the cycle continues.

Kidd contributed to Erica's downfall on the show and as a result, she snubbed his dad. Life is intriguing. Nobody knows what would happen tomorrow. I think the family should leave Erica alone for now because she's downright downhearted and wished to have reached the final.

I am also sad because I placed money on Erica to reach the final but she ruined me. Indeed, life is a lesson.

That man in Aso Rock Villa is not Buhari but an imposter.

Zzor:
Please,i need a serious man to marry latest by December and these are the qualities I want in my man 1:He must be very religious,,2:He must be a virgin that has never been involved in any form of sexual act,,3:He must be between 30-40yrs of age but an elderly man is highly welcomed if he's a serious billionaire,,4:He must not be a first son (preferably last in the family) except he's a Heir to an empire ,,5:He must not be a medical doctor,,6:Short men(1yard people)should mind their business,,7:If you stay abroad please mind your business,i rejected studying there myself,,8:You must be a very clean person,,9:You must not be a smoker,you must not drink or do drugs,,10:You must be very rich,im rich already,so you must be richer than me e.g if I'm a billionaire,you must be a trillionaire.

Looks like you aren't ready yet.

VirginDiva:
if only I were sexually attracted to men... I'm bisexual, prefer women though.
No intention of having kids...

Clap for yourself. Beyond a shadow of a doubt, I do think you need help because bisexuality sucks and is a drawback.

VirginDiva:
should I send you a pic of my hymen??
I manipulate with the PROMISES of sex.
Guys and obsessing over virginity. Pttt

Not me. I have seen it all in terms of pussy. Different shape. Different size.

Looks like you are still in an experimental age and wants to explore more. But by the time you hit late 20s and early 30s, you feel your biological clock ticking. You may be interested in fun sex to win a man over in "the dating phase", but you will be more interested in having babies and making money to support those babies and less about being kinky.

stanliwise:
I am more OG(socially intelligent) than most guys you think. I won’t over blow my trumpet.
You are just intoxicated with the books you have read. And whatever secrets of people manipulation you wanna spell out, then chances are I know them. I have been a sidekick of PUA Ideologies, following their post and blog religiously for years. Until I later developed deep insecurity for people especially women. I saw social settings like a chess board. I was eager to always play games. Until I knew games are just perception we create, it ain’t always necessary.
Let me introduce you to the Purple pill
You can join us on reddit if you choose to. It is a forum for developed minds, we are called the white hackers, we don’t use our social skill to manipulate people. We instead try to create healthy social environment and ofcourse defend against social manipulators like your likes.

Exactly. She's a manipulator who trade her body with money.

VirginDiva:
when you come across a 4page topic, it's common sense to read the entire thread. Do so first before commenting.

Most of you come online to boast but in real life, you are nothing. I only blame desperate guys who follow you like puppies.

Juliet11111:
Being single rocks . No PMS pls cos I ain't searching.

Did anyone ask if you are searching? Or are you fond of attracting desperate losers?

VirginDiva:
Make money and stop complaining about an expensive woman's taste. Better still, go for women in your financial category.
My honest opinion!

Go get a job and stop relying on men for living.

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

What an emotional story. You didn't do enough for him. Love is all about making sacrifices.

The main problem here is maintenance. In couple of years, this airport will look dirty.

Nwaotu:
Guys, I want to be fucking prostitute. Anytime I need it, I will just go there and do. I don't need any emotional whatever from women any more. What do you think?

Just get a girl and tell her you don't want something serious. If she agrees, then it's a win-win for both of you.

Sleeping with call girls is very dangerous.

What if the stuff is wide, why should a man be interested in you?

OP, so this is your achievement in life?

vickydevoka:

Dats not an excuse brother. 99% of Igbo gals don't marry who they have relationship with, de marry from either dere village at Xmas or arrange marriage, they marry who ever is ready n can afford de bride price

That's very true. Being a man in a woman's world.

Sessanvandy:
Good evening Nairalanders, please i need your sincere opinion on this issue bothering me.

I have been dating this guy for 9 months and our relationship has been going well except for this issue.

My boyfriend or should i say fiancé ( he has introduced me to his family as the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with and my family is in support of the relationship) has been in contact with his ex-girlfriend who is married with a son.

My man spends 1-2hrs on phone with his ex girlfriend in my presence and when i confronted him, he told me to bear in mind that he can never stop talking to her because she didn't offend him and if she needs any monetary support, he won't hesitate to help.

They have no intimate relationship maybe cus of distance, He agreed not to call her but promised to take her calls when she does and she calls frequently.

Her husband also warned him to stay away from his wife but he wouldn't listen.

He is a nice guy with a good heart and we are planning introduction by December

I told him that if he can't stop communicating with his ex girlfriend the relationship is over but he still insist on maintaining contact with her...

Pls am i overreacting, How do i handle this??....mature advice needed!

sorry for the long post.

Move on with your life. He has no respect for you and already cheating on you.