₦airaland Forum

MISSCONGENIALITY:
And because she was urging bher friend to say the truth you think she's good. What did the truth achieve? Obviously she knew the truth will lead to break up and that's the only way she can have you. Girls don't urge their friends to say the truth when bit comes to cheating. Especially when they know it will lead to break up. Girls don't report their friends to their boyfriends if they don't stand to gain something. Except it's a plan by the two to use cheating bto keep you off the other babe so that her friend can continue from where she stopped.
No good friend goes after her friends boyfriend. The relationship never lasts longer than a 2minutes man.

Babe, you got it wrong. I asked my ex-gf to tell me the truth that I was ready to forgive her. Her friends also asked me if I was ready to forgive her once she said the truth and I said yes but if she keeps on lying that I would call it quits, that was why the girl in particular was asking her friend to say the truth.

Girls(not all) think all men are dumb. But what they do not know is there are intelligent men out there.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Very important.
Even though you may have considered accepting the offer several times since she's good. Gooder than your babe.
How did you even know she's good sef?

She was just urging her friend to say the truth. She was trying to make peace between me and my so-called girlfriend. She was telling her friend that I'm a very intelligent person and stuff like that.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
My brother remove your shoes and run from that one. Go into a relationship with yourself for a while. your babe must be a student btobhave such a friend.

Okay, nah. Keep your knowledge of menstrual pain cure for your daughters in case they need it. Thank God nature cured me of mine and I've been free after so many years of agony.

She isn't a student. She's already graduated without a job though. Her friend might be good but I need to protect my dignity. Dignity is vitally important for me.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Sorry brother. Is that why you created a new Monica and then that topic about Nigerian girls being cheats? May God bless you with a foreign and faithful girl. Amen
Please how did you stop her menstrual pain?

I'm sorry, I cannot share the knowledge publicly.

I don't need a foreign babe either. I just want to be alone for now, though one of her friends want me right now, but I don't think I would fall for her. I have to protect my dignity.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Why did your break up with her? Who gave who conditions that let to the break up

I broke up with her because she cheated on me. Though I was ready to forgive her but she was still lying to me and her friends, then I had no other option than to prove it to her, after that she was speechless. Her friends were also in dismay.

The thing that I hurt me the most is I stopped her painful menstruation.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
You will have daughters one day. Either as a married man or a baby daddy. Work hard make your girls no see this kind conditions.

Hahahaha. Please wish me good. I broke up with my girl last week.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
You better be desperate let someone not give your daughters such conditions for help.

My daughters? Hahahaha. I'm not even married yet.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Lol. Even buhari, dangote, bill gate, okonjo iweala, opera Winfrey are desperate for money. Money is the roof of not just evil, but the root of everything. We are all desperate for in in one way of the other. Just as a lady desperate for money will sleep with a dickhead like OP to pay for shop rent so as to be able to take care of herself without being subjected to such evil condions, a man desperate for money will chop up another's head for rituals, of join a robbery gang or Bleep a fellow man to get the money. We are all in this rat race for money my brother. And when you are in dare need of it and nothing sames positive, even the devil will look like a savior to you.
Life get as e be.

Not really. I am not desperate for money, if not I would have been a multi-millionaire by now.

OP, you aren't smart enough. You can easily sleep with two sisters if you know how to play the game. No need to give the condition in the first place.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
They are the ones that make girls see everything bfrom a guy as payment bforbtye sex they both have. With this mentality, even his wife will feel and behave like a LovePeddler. No woman will ever genuinely love him. He doesn't deserve the love of a woman.

That's correct despite the fact that women are always desperate for money.

ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

Polar Bear, if you are playing the provider role in return for love and sex, a woman will generally expect you to maintain a level of providership.

You really have to be careful here, otherwise these two women would ruin you one day.

senatepresido:
"One" as in "One Nigeria" are are words used by a people so divided... have you heard of "One Ghana?"

We are Peace Loving People are phrase used by terrorists...
Herdsmen and Religious Terrorists make use of it...

Do you think I am cheating on you? are mostly used by Nigerian Girls when they have used cheating to finish you kpatakpata...

Bitches aren't loyal.

fati2001:
eyah, doh
sorry oh, give ur life to Christ en go better.

Hahahaha. Why did you say that?

Finnese001:
Brother we all know the story already, we just dey make Baba God no shame us

Lol...

Finnese001:
Gist us small nah

Hahahahaha.

Finnese001:
Lol


And I'm just planning on engaging my girl this December

Check if she's cheating on you first before you do that. Most of them are not faithful.

Finnese001:
They Don do you strong thing

Almost my brother, if not because I am a guy man, they would have succeeded.

Finnese001:
Lol

Yes, my brother.

These women are cheaters. Do not always believe in everything they say. For most of them have nothing to offer except sleeping around.

Not everything you see out there worth it. Some are just there to make up the numbers.

A politician. Apropos, he is occultic.

IntersexSherry:
I really love him a lot, still can't get my head off him, i knew he was poor from the onset but still accepted him, i gave him money to support him, gave him foodstuffs but it seems all my efforts were in vain because he kept on doing his yahoo business and i just can't be with someone that scams people of their hard earned money. I told him to stop and he said he doesn't give a Bleep so i cut off the relationship and he blocked me immediately. I have been waiting for him to even call to give an apology or unblock me but he never did. I miss him so much, even sent him text messages begging him to come back but he never replied back. I really love him a lot and want him back
Update: This is someone i can die for. Now i understand the reason why some people still date criminals. If you ever witnessed true love, you will understand how i feel and how hard it is for i to let go. I loooooove him pass my life. I can't even think of any guy except him. Apart from doing yahoo, he is really a sweet guy and cute AF.

What do you expect in life?

Erica, if you win this year's BBNaija, I would be the happiness person on this planet.

idibadadanme:
Most of her friends are either divorced, husband stays abroad and she’s living with another girl and yet to visit me is a huge task but she want me to marry her.

Help me please....I never intend to be this confused in my life

Hahahaha. Do you really want her visit you? I would probably tell you what to do.

The girlfriend should leave and never return because she's so arrogant and bossy.

I need a chick for relationship and marriage. A nurse with at least 3 years work experience.

He should be arrested as soon as possible.

Spaxon:
I'm still schooling.

Oh I see.

PrinceOfEast:
i scored 2 stubborn nuts Life is good when u accomplish a difficult task.

Hahaha. A difficult task? I know the feeling.

Virginnn:
Spotted:: a typical rapist and paedophile.

He's none of that. He's just an alpha guy.

PrinceOfEast:
Imagine the joy you get after fvcking strong headed holy girl
Deeper life, JW and Christ embassy girls can form holy holy,but if u nack them,na sermon dem go dey preach as u dey nack them(Jesus! Ouch..radabastoribobo!!).
No girl is unfvckable,unless ur punna dey smell.

Looks like you are elated for scoring.

Spaxon:
Hello Nairalanders....,

Please this is a family...
I need ur help
Someone gifted my boyfriend with a Car, actually a (Cadillac) as I saw in the pictures... and it's just so annoying. I came back to Nigeria to vote,
And he posted it online and later sent me photos on WhatsApp.
I asked him to return it but he is unwilling..
How can a Lady do such...?
Knowing fully well that he's in a relationship.
I asked a few people,
Lol some said I should allow him,
Others said I shouldn't.
Right now a car isn't his or my problem.
We all do have cars our parents gave us.


I don't just know what to do.....

You sound like a good chick but I'm not so sure. What do you do for work?