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Dukeolumidemans:
Nice...Can I send a DM?

seen

sinaj:
She is the darker version of her mum

Affirmative

Dukeolumidemans:
No it does not hold water...just see me as the same or u call me superman

Lol we cool then

R.I.P

Dukeolumidemans:
Nice

thank ya

Dukeolumidemans:
Lol...it's true. It makes u fresher than before but u need to watch it too. When u see the things available there to enjoy, u won't like to come back. I have two offices in Nigeria and it's one of the things holding me back...

Awe should use sir onwards. I'm an undergraduate :

soliddust2020:
Aunty kemi is typing...

This cracked me up

Dukeolumidemans:
Yes now. The difference is clear. It's just the weather I don't like. But amenities is second to none...

As much as people complain about the weather ,I don't see them coming back cause of it

Dukeolumidemans:
K that's nice...I go and come but am already planning to leave for good. This country is messed up and is not likely to improve any time soon, because of the way they are running it.

IKR? My school friend left last month and there's already noticeable changes in him

Dukeolumidemans:
True words...their problem is based on TRIBALISM, religious sentiments and the way they think... Most people I know have already lost hope concerning anything called Nigeria. Most have left...

Who could blame them. I'd leave If I could too

Dukeolumidemans:
His information is very accurate and true...

Meanwhile Nija (Giant of Africa) will be like....and we be number emmnnn...no mind them jare, that list was "doctored"...

Lol if you want to grade Nigeria look for countries like Cameroon Sudan Mali burkina faso and other third world countries ,to be a powerful is not by size of your country but what your country can do afterall after all Nigeria is bigger than south Korea both in landmass and population five times

Callmeibironke:
still available? Although, for 3 months or so

Hi please mail here

Ykol:
thanks for this

welcome

I am not married but,,
Advice for Those Not Yet Married
If you have not yet married or even chosen a partner, you have, by far, the most power to affect your eventual likelihood of divorce. Those who are already married can only change how they think and act in their existing marriage. Singles who have not yet chosen a partner have a lot more that is still on the table for change. In other words, your stage of life shapes what is dynamic and static in terms of factors associated with your risk for divorce. The earlier you are in the process of finding a mate, the more your choices going forward can affect your future. Here are a few tips to keep in mind as you proceed.
1. Take it slow. Get to know a person very well before deciding to marry. We all know people who fell in love at first sight and married within months, and who have done well over many years in marriage. But there are many other couples who married fast and blew apart. By taking more time, you can see how a potential partner treats others, responds to stress, and handles disagreements with you on things that matter. Also, if your relationship is moving toward marriage, take some time to clarify expectations about marriage, family, and life.
2. Pay attention to major red flags. If you see evidence of controlling or abusive behavior, or serious substance use problems, don’t move blindly ahead hoping things will work out. Love does not conquer all. If you have trusted friends or family, listen to them about concerns they see in the person you are dating. Don’t marry a makeover project—or, at the least, don’t do so until there is great evidence of real, lasting change when there are concerns. And don’t move in together to test such a relationship. That’s the worst reason you can have to move in together.xiv
3. Look for someone who shares your beliefs and values. What are your central values in life? Are they shared? Avoid situations where you might fall for someone prior to determining these things. Once you sense some chemistry, it’s hard to hold onto what had been non-negotiable for what you wanted in a mate. This is where people can use online dating sites effectively: You can be clear about the big things you are looking for in life before you meet someone and it gets all complicated with chemistry. Chemistry is great. You want to have that. But chemistry is best developed in a sequence, not as a blinding, binding glue in a relationship you’d otherwise never have chosen.
Love does not conquer all.
4. Look for mutual dedication. There should be sustained evidence that you and a prospective mate are equally devoted to the relationship; for example, that you are both willing to make sacrifices for each other. If you consistently think you are more dedicated to the relationship than your partner, consider moving on. That’s a bad sign for future marital quality. It’s fine to be looking for love, but it’s smarter to be looking for sacrifice.
5. Don’t let constraints for staying together increase before you establish mutual commitment to be together. Many people slide into situations that make it harder to end a relationship before they have made a clear decision about what is best. this is what many people do not see about the risk of living together prior to marriage (or at least before engagement). For too many couples, living together makes it harder to break up before it’s clear that they really have a future together.
6. Do premarital training : While marital experts debate everything, there is solid evidence that completing premarital training (education, counseling, whatever it’s called) together can improve your odds in marriage

lightwind:
not a clean money from God, not a blessing from God

How did you detect that through a photo

lol bloke

ADRIAN88:
_{No weapon fashioned!! Not today! Not tomorrow!! Not next year!!}

she's married.

Canada.

Aww kind woman.

OP career not "carrier"

EternalBeing:
Yeah, thanks for sharing. The purpose of creating this thread is for us all to gather here and reason of finding solution(s) to this endemic problem. We are not supposed to just cowardly, selfishly or stupidly resign to fate as if we can not do anything to make things better. Change is the only constant thing, and we can influence the change direction to be positive. Did you watch the short Video? What do you think could be done to drastically decrease divorce rate?

Advice for Those Not Yet Married
If you have not yet married or even chosen a partner, you have, by far, the most power to affect your eventual likelihood of divorce. Those who are already married can only change how they think and act in their existing marriage. Singles who have not yet chosen a partner have a lot more that is still on the table for change. In other words, your stage of life shapes what is dynamic and static in terms of factors associated with your risk for divorce. The earlier you are in the process of finding a mate, the more your choices going forward can affect your future. Here are a few tips to keep in mind as you proceed.
1. Take it slow. Get to know a person very well before deciding to marry. We all know people who fell in love at first sight and married within months, and who have done well over many years in marriage. But there are many other couples who married fast and blew apart. By taking more time, you can see how a potential partner treats others, responds to stress, and handles disagreements with you on things that matter. Also, if your relationship is moving toward marriage, take some time to clarify expectations about marriage, family, and life.
2. Pay attention to major red flags. If you see evidence of controlling or abusive behavior, or serious substance use problems, don’t move blindly ahead hoping things will work out. Love does not conquer all. If you have trusted friends or family, listen to them about concerns they see in the person you are dating. Don’t marry a makeover project—or, at the least, don’t do so until there is great evidence of real, lasting change when there are concerns. And don’t move in together to test such a relationship. That’s the worst reason you can have to move in together.xiv
3. Look for someone who shares your beliefs and values. What are your central values in life? Are they shared? Avoid situations where you might fall for someone prior to determining these things. Once you sense some chemistry, it’s hard to hold onto what had been non-negotiable for what you wanted in a mate. This is where people can use online dating sites effectively: You can be clear about the big things you are looking for in life before you meet someone and it gets all complicated with chemistry. Chemistry is great. You want to have that. But chemistry is best developed in a sequence, not as a blinding, binding glue in a relationship you’d otherwise never have chosen.
Love does not conquer all.
4. Look for mutual dedication. There should be sustained evidence that you and a prospective mate are equally devoted to the relationship; for example, that you are both willing to make sacrifices for each other. If you consistently think you are more dedicated to the relationship than your partner, consider moving on. That’s a bad sign for future marital quality. It’s fine to be looking for love, but it’s smarter to be looking for sacrifice.
5. Don’t let constraints for staying together increase before you establish mutual commitment to be together. Many people slide into situations that make it harder to end a relationship before they have made a clear decision about what is best. this is what many people do not see about the risk of living together prior to marriage (or at least before engagement). For too many couples, living together makes it harder to break up before it’s clear that they really have a future together.
6. Do premarital training : While marital experts debate everything, there is solid evidence that completing premarital training (education, counseling, whatever it’s called) together can improve your odds in marriage

It is commonly believed that 50 percent of marriages will end in divorce. The statistic has been roughly accurate for the last 40 years, but there is much more to the story. Changes in the law and society may explain why the rate of divorce has increased, and why it may increase again.
Why Divorce Increased
Before 1970, divorce was relatively uncommon and difficult to get. Fault was usually required-one of the spouses must have committed a crime or sin that justified the divorce. There needed to be adultery, abandonment, cruelty, intoxication or some other reason that made it necessary to end the marriage.
No-fault divorce became an option in some states in the 1950s. Couples no longer needed to prove that one person was at fault. They could simply say that the marriage had broken down. By 1970, almost all states had laws allowing no-fault divorces.
A long separation before the divorce used to be mandatory. Many states also passed laws that greatly decreased the separation time, making divorce easier and faster.
These laws had a great effect on the divorce rate. From 1940 to 1965, the divorce rate remained near 10 divorces for every 1,000 married women. By 1979, the rate had doubled.
When Society Changes, Divorce Changes
Changes in the law explain part of why divorce was on the rise, but it does not tell the whole story. While the law was changing, society was also changing.
Women became a strong presence in the workforce. They no longer depended on their husbands to support them. This independence allowed them to leave an unhappy marriage and still provide for themselves.
Divorce also became more acceptable. The guilt and fault of the old divorce laws were gone. As more couples separated, divorce gradually became a normal part of life.
In short, many couples that would have previously remained married now chose divorce.
Other changes may also explain why divorce increased, including:
Cohabitation (living together) has become acceptable. Research shows that couples that live together before marriage are more likely to divorce.
A divorced person who remarries after a divorce is much more likely to get divorced again.
Children of divorced parents are more likely to get divorced. As the number of divorced parents increases, so will the number of their children that get divorced.

some bosses can be very frustrating they'll have you working tirelessly for months without pay

gorgeous

Integrity is a personal conviction that you will not do anything against your inner feeling no matter how bitter the pill which you have to swallow.
A person of integrity always does the right thing…Always…when no one is looking….no matter what the consequences of doing the right thing will be,
At the end of the day there is nothing more valuable than your integrity, both in life and at work. There will be times in your life when there will be no congratulations ... when people will challenge your beliefs … when you will have the opportunity to take shortcuts into the gray areas that may very well help you get what you want more quickly or more easily.
You may even tell yourself that everyone else does it so why shouldn’t I? The reality is that no matter how tempting those shortcuts may appear they will never lead you to where you ultimately want to be in your life. Success will come and go but integrity is forever.Building a reputation of integrity takes years, but it takes only a second to lose, so never allow yourself to ever do anything that would damage your integrity.

looks plain tho