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Celebrities / Re: DMX: Hundreds Of Bikes Escort Monster Truck Carrying His Casket by culf: 11:45pm On Apr 24
may his soul rest in peace

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Romance / Re: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by culf: 1:01pm On Apr 24

Don't vouch for anyone, it's better to say you have not caught him!

I know these people I'm talking about, we do stuffs together
Family / Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by culf: 11:11pm On Apr 23
if you can hustle to see yourself through school, I will advice you leave there to somewhere else.
Be strong and patient
Family / Re: Sad Day, Tribute To My Elder Brother by culf: 11:06pm On Apr 23
hardluck, may God console you and the entire family.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Got An Invite From AXA Mansard Insurance by culf: 10:34pm On Apr 23
Hi Family,

Please what do you know about AXA Mansard, is the company flexible. Anything that concerns insurance scared me a lot.

forget all the fear they are trying to create in you. if its marketing, thank your God.
All you need is prayer, consistency, sincerity and patient. If God connect you, one business and you're settled for life.
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by culf: 7:39am On Apr 23
Hi, am I late to the party?
Family / Re: Indecent Dressing Among Teenage Girls by culf: 11:32am On Apr 22

Thanks my brother , it's a problem,I sat In a commercial bus with some teenagers,God,their laps all out,let's say no to rape,but we must help our men too,some are drawn quickly by what they see.

Go to lecture houses,if you are a genuine and caring person,it will break your heart

its everywhere, undergraduates even dress more decent now compare to what we see in streets and our environment.
my neighbour (young married man ) came back one day and was coming how he saw a lady wearing net and everything was out. I was laughing and trying to change the topic but he wouldn't because he was pissed.

God will help us

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Family / Re: Surprise Alert by culf: 11:22am On Apr 22
God bless her more

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Family / Re: It’s My Birthday Yaayyy! by culf: 10:55am On Apr 22
happy birthday. May this age be more fruitful and memorable than the previous ones. Enjoy your day
Family / Re: Why Are There More Birth Complications IN Marriage Than Outside Marriage? by culf: 10:52am On Apr 22
because outside marriage, people don't usually look forward to having kids like in marriage and as such, no need to put keen attention to complications

Some see kids as fruits of marriage.

some of the complications in marriage are results of incidences or actions some took when they were single.

Again, this is Africa, sh*ts happens in this part of the world and don't forget that people; family, friends, neighbours etc put eye in married couples more than the singles.

Family / Re: Indecent Dressing Among Teenage Girls by culf: 10:39am On Apr 22
Don't they have parents? Do the parents not see them leaving the house dressed like that?

I wonder why you're stressing yourself and bothering the other man. If the parents cannot give their children good home training, then so be it. When the time comes they'll be the ones to bear the brunt.

but its wrong, some parents don't even see anything wrong in it. Some men are like dogs, when some see small young ladies dress like this, they may start disturbing them, following them up and down until they have their way which could lead to pregnancy and even destroying such ladies future.
What is wrong is wrong.

remember, most men are mostly control or attracted by what they see
Family / Re: Indecent Dressing Among Teenage Girls by culf: 10:33am On Apr 22
Honestly there is something which have been bothering me,I happen to hustle in a Jamb lecture centre where I teach Jambites and others somewhere in South Nigeria, they way these teenagers dresses is very abusive and hot.

They seduce their male teachers and I don't blame them.
these girls dresses like prostitutes to lecture centre. I have complained to my boss several times,but he said he is after his money.
pls parents help your children.

its really an issue now, had same thing in mind for sometime now. The most unfortunate part is that alot of older ladies and even some married ladies are joining the trend and its very unfortunate.
May God help us
Family / Re: I Feel Like I Am Being Used ! What Should I Do? by culf: 10:23am On Apr 22
let the Child's father take care of his Responsibility, you can only support when necessary and when you have the means but don't start what you can't finish.
Don't take over the child's responsibility unless you have the means and you are capable.

its time to give your people small space, move out if you're still living with them. Support them from afar when you can.


Politics / Re: Rising Debts: Senate Approves Buhari’s $1.5 Billion, €995 Million Loan Requests by culf: 9:23am On Apr 22
Nigeria is in serious trouble!
may God help us
Education / Re: I Ran Into My Classmate After 10 Years And She Did This by culf: 8:57am On Apr 22
i just had a rude awakening...

i feel so lost!

i ran into one of my school mates after 10 years... and there i was holding a black water proof bag while she called me from her mob...

no words, e b lyk say make ground swallow me!

we exchanged numbers and she showed genuine concern but its so fuxked up i cant dare ring her

am such a loser

call her and tell her it was nice seeing her after awhile, not necessarily for help, just normal discussion. If she ask how things are with you, then you can tel her every every.


Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Guys Let Play by culf: 10:20pm On Apr 21

Old enough lol

Ok ma
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Guys Let Play by culf: 3:41pm On Apr 21
how old are you?
Romance / Re: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by culf: 3:34pm On Apr 21

Ma'am, If u want a loyal man then u have to know he ain't gonna b the type of man u want.

A loyal high value man is a feminine imperative myth because a high value man has the leverage and has options.

Most men lie about their cheating because they are fighting their innate sexual mating strategy which is fucking as many bitches as possible.

A man is as loyal as his options

I disagree with the last statement, I know a lot of men that have options but chose to be faithful. Its a personal thing alongside God's help
Family / Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by culf: 2:21am On Apr 20
I noticed he has been exchanging calls alot with a particular number on Whatsapp. So I asked him about it and he bacame defensive. He angrily asked for me to give him back his phone, and when i refused he forcefully collected it from me, twisting my fingers in the process.

I later got my hand on his phone at a later time and was able to get the number of the person. I called and i received the shock of my life when the female who answered the call said he's her boy friend and they have been seeing for a while now. She admitted they have been having sex in a hotel, that my husband told her he isn't married.

Thank God my call recorder was on. I have the qhole conversation stored on my phone. I was very calm although my conversation with the lady, wven though it's the hardest thing i have ever had to do.

I confronted my husband and he denied it. I played the recorded call and guess what? He still denied!

We have been married for 4 years with 2 kids. I feel so devastated and awful right now not knowing which way to turn.

He's not apologizing or feeling remorseful. This is too much of a betrayal and I just don't know how we could ever get past this. I feel so betrayed and can't believe he would do this and not think of the impact it would have on me and our kids. I thought we were soulmates and would grown old together.

I have been sobbing all day since i found out.

Has anyone ever gone through this? What is the right way to handle this?

Moderator* (Please no front page. Pls i beg of you cry

Make up your mind on what to do, most advise that you will get here are from singles and people that don't have experience

Make up your mind what you want to do; either divorce or forgive.
I will advise you forgive and pray for God to change Him, genuine forgiveness but if you can't and if you know you can't be faithful to him then leave, You have right to walk away since he cheated.
Whatever you decide, consider your angels and know that it's not always best to make decisions when angry. May God see us through.
Romance / Re: Avoid Replying All Your DM: Not Everyone Here Is A Human Being.My Experience. by culf: 2:37pm On Apr 18
Weird. Are you serious?
Family / Re: "My Father Checks My Private Part To See If Someone Sleeps With Me" –Young Lady by culf: 10:12pm On Apr 17
imagine! This family needs deliverance, both father and daughter

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Romance / Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by culf: 10:06pm On Apr 17
he should better invest his time with something positive, all relationship has expirary date either it will last or not

simple and short
Romance / Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by culf: 10:04pm On Apr 17

Wrong statement. You can only say this when you don't really love her

you're the one that is wrong. When you love someone, you have a level of trust for the person, that means you're not really worried about what the person is doing because you trust the person until the person betray such trust beyond redemption.
Romance / Re: Witches Are Everywhere! by culf: 9:45am On Apr 17
Nice One. Now Know Dis, Dat A Person Is A Witch Or A Wizard Doesn't Necessarily Mean Dat D Person Must Be Stubborn. Stubborness Is Just Part Of Their Nature But Not All Witches/wizards Shows Dat Stubborness. A Person May Be Quiet Or Gentle Person & Dat Person Could Be A Witch Or A Wizard. Intercessory Prayer Is A Gift. If U Aren't Gifted In It, After Sometime, U Will Get Tired. Dis Doesn't Mean U Shouldn't Interceed Or U Can't Interceed 4 People. A Person Who Is Gifted In It Won't Get Weary Of Doing It. As 4 D Dream Abt U Giving To Help People. I Would Advice Dat U Start By Giving 4rm D Little Dat U Av. As It Becomes Part & Parcel Of U, God Will Gradually Increase U When He Sees Dat U Are Now Committed To It.

nice one, thanks.

I don't get tired praying for people, the dreams reduces and become less clearer when I reduces my prayer life and become unserious.
Thanks for the advise, that's what I've decided to be doing now.
Family / Re: Those That Have Lost Mother.. by culf: 9:15am On Apr 17
Look up to God, keep your head high and makes her proud. you're lucky you enjoyed her until your 23, some of us are not that lucky.
You will be fine, Go closer to God, you will be OK! hard luck for your lost.
Romance / Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by culf: 8:11am On Apr 17

Ohhh so make I trust blindly a woman that refused to talk to me but find it easier to talk to stranger Wey go kidnap her in Lagos island ?

E go shock u say your girlfriend Dey under dick right now ( if she’s not with you at the moment )

I didn't say trust blindly, I said if she is giving you reasons to doubt her and not willing to change after talking to her, then move. What will be will be. relationship needs at least small level of trust, blindly or not

well, what my woman decide to do or not do is not my business. Any human being on earth can disappoint except God but that doesn't mean I don't trust her.

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Romance / Re: Witches Are Everywhere! by culf: 8:04am On Apr 17
@Truvel , nice one. just saw this thread now and I read through.

I always believe most things that happen in physical are controlled by the spiritual. I know someone who had experiences too.

for me, I'm not a witch nor a wizard but God has bless me specially even in my sinfulness. Some things you mentioned may just be mere coincide like flying and hopping in dreams sometimes. I'm not stubborn but if my mind is made up or I believe something is important, I go for it the matter what, which is my reason for my so many crazy night journeys but God has been faithful

I believe I have that intercessor gift too but I think I'm not fueling it. My off and on lifestyle and again, its not easy, being so tired, having such dreams especially the crazy ones and waking up to pray. its very refreshing and soul lifting but not easy, thank God all the same. Another issues with it might be my dreams mostly needs interpretation, I think that's another factor because I don't think I have that gift, I just do general prays. The few interpretations I got, aside God's processes and hindrances, is that I should help people; feed people, monetary help, even to pastors but God's knows I love to but I don't have that capacity yet

somebody said he believe he is a wizard because of what he had survived, well, his case is small compare to mine only that I'm not stubborn and I'm not a wizard nor a witch. God just decided to keep me alive against all odds though the enemies is fighting hard especially with setbacks and disappointments but I believe God is the final and what God says must surely happened. When I was in school, my neighbour jokingly asked if i'm sure my grandfather didn't cook me, the truth is, its just God, He always come through for me,...accidents, attacks, several experiences but he is faithful. Crazy movement, stubborn (necessary) night journeys... God is awesome.

all these have help in building my trust and confidence in God.

thanks @Truvel

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