₦airaland Forum

Lamanii22:
I’m never lucky with friends….

That's unfortunate. I don't have plenty friends but the few I have are good. Some for many years now,

pozehnani:
Well... Since the Bible commands it, it's compulsory.

For me personally, if you can't find someone you're happy with, don't go into it because you'll still jump out or end up being miserable.

It's not a do or die affair. I'm single and very happy with peace of mind that most married people don't have as a result of the kind of marriage they find themselves.

Bible did not command it.

LauraClasikVibe:
Almost all and I repeat NEARLY ALL the married men I know above 45yrs have one girlfriend or the other.

It's almost normal now

How come almost all the married men you know have girlfriends? You should be careful with such circles of men around you.

I feel bad for the woman. This is why it is very important to ask your partner their reason(s) for marriage before saying I do. Its a big mistake to marriage someone that his/her only reason for marriage is to have children.

Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.

Don't be too harsh on yourself and don't consider suicide either, 2 wrongs doesn't make a right.
We all make mistakes, its good you're remorseful about it, forgive yourself and move on. Also use the opportunity to discourage anyone trying to take that part but if you don't survive, how do you then help others from making same mistake.

It is well dear, you will be fine. God bless and be with you

the edited version look more better and sexy.

coputa:
This shows lack of patient.Nigerians are impatient creatures.

You're right. Its not as if we are in a hurry to do or say anything special.
Aside patient, Most Nigerians don't like reading.

EmiDon11:
hahahahaha

I purposely did it to catch those that jump to comment without reading the post.

I wan see lazy youths

Shhhhhh!!!
many are still coming to say give me motivation

Nice One.

you nailed them, we need to seriously improve our reading habit.

EmiDon11:
Where can i get it pls?

Pls i really need this sniper

I cant take this anymore.

It keeps disturbing me especially in the midnight.

Who did i offend?

I dont have peace of mind anymore.

I will be happy in the daytime but wont be able to sleep at night.

I really need to poison this rat that keeps disturbing my ceiling everynight.

Our reading culture in this part of the word is very poor. Some have started advising and saying why without reading through op's post.

Op, you self no try oo

brain54:
I don’t think that’s quite possible though…

They must be some at least basic/minor form of interview maybe formal or informal.

You can’t just get someone on the street and say come and work for me.

Interview is just a way to know the person you would be working with potentially.

My 2 cents though!

you're right though. To at least get to know the person, that must happen actually.

brain54:
I once employed an employee…


With similar character. The dude ended up interviewing us the interviewers (I and my manager)

He got the job ( manager convinced me to employ him. I didn’t want wahala ) and we needed someone urgently at the time.

But funny thing is dude went on to be one of the best staffs we ever had.

Great guy Ralph… even though his over sabi might have cost him getting the job initially!

waooo, Hmm. Some over do it, some under do it (if they is anything like that).
I think when I become an employer I might not be doing all these interview (if possible), come and work for some time, if you deliver, carry go.

Omobithousand:
Thanks i promise not to make any decisions now

Good, just take your time and may God lead you.

Omobithousand:
My hubby cheated and has been begging me to forgive him but i can't find it in my mind to cos the messages and everything i saw really messed me up... never knew i could feel this way
Please I'll welcome Ur advice and bashing and if you also have a
Marriage counselor please share his or her number with me.. thanks.

Its your decision to make, if you can forgive and let go, then fine, but if you can't, well. its not your fault, even Bible permit divorce if one partner cheated.
You shouldn't make any decision now pls, just calm down, calm down first.

malaria:
Are you denying him his right ?

does that justify him making advances towards a minor, if its true?

waooo, what will be will be.

Ikpaitid:
If anything happens to Tinubu's mandate, the violence of Biafra war will be child's play compared to what we will do to you this time.Just pray that nothing like that happens because we will use all of una do peppersoup

Stop talking rubbish, can you stand ordinary crisis talk more of war? Stop saying things that can cause disunity.

Whatever is the final decision of the court, everybody will abide by it and Nigeria will move forward peacefully, simple.

Henry22:
Alright... keenly watching

yes ooo and you shall see...

Arda1000:
check the list of successful Nations on Earth none wait for God to do anything for them

we are peculiar, you will see that soon.

Arda1000:
May God help us Nice joke

How is it a joke?

Henry22:
Alright... keenly watching

You will see it, just be patient. His ways are different from ours.

Interesting times. Let me go and look for the details (body).

Let's watch how the argument go... it seems obi's attorneys are experience, this case I think its more about technicality than it look. Tinubu's guys have to sit up.

Henry22:
Then he better make himself known😡

He will, just watch and see.

Strafudeen:
The yoruba Christians pointed out other Christians to attackers

A lot are being mislead. Let's allow love to lead us.

Henry22:
He left us long time ago

He is still with Us actually, very much present.

Henry22:
He left us long time ago

He is still with Us actually, very much present.

This is bad, so bad.

I have been following discussions online and I'm wondering, with all these hateful words, anger, tribalism and so on... what then happen if court fault the election (or it's process) and either nullify or declare another person the winner...

We need to chill, we still have a long way to go, our leaders have achieved their aim and with what is going on I know they will only do worse, without accountability because we are not united and can't hold them accountable. Who then loses?

All this tribal war and sentiment is not needed. I once met an Igbo lady working in a Yoruba state owned establishment, employed by a Yoruba man and vice versa, now between that person and your tribal person, who should be your right hand person. All this tribal sentiment don't really makes sense, it should be who will do better, who will bring more benefit to us.

I feel pained seeing all that our youths are saying and problem they are causing for us. If this fire is not quench now, it may burn more deeply than we could ever think. Already, friendships, relationships and bonds are being broken...

May God help us.

I have a question to ask...

overseasnbeyond:
Just like a mistery, the people have reinstated the continuation of bad governance but good luck to you all.
fasten your seat belt and get ready to continue your trip to the next four years of hardship because you cant expect less from APC.
APC is the only government that will only promise $1 to N1 but you got $1 to #800.
NigeriaAir but you will never see none of that
Job that equivalent to unemployment
add yours

point of correction, Nigerians didn't reinstate them, they rigged and reinstated themselves, that's why there is so much distrust in the govt today more than ever before.

Its unfortunate we couldn't resist them because they brought up sentiments and a lot of people accepted it....

Its only by God's grace, our leaders have so much divided us and we allowed them. Nigerians have lost so much faith in our leaders.