Romance › Re: My Near Rape Experience. Young Ladies Learn From This by culf: 11:04pm On Jan 11, 2024 |
U flokii: Why did she agree to meet a stranger of opposite sex in a hotel?.. C'mon now, when eateries and open places full everywhere. The man obviously felt she was down for business too.
Ladies and deception are like 5 & 6. She didn't say hotel o, but home and secondly this is a man that has presented himself as a helper, that have been helping her, so he is not totally a stranger and even at that, but one demand for sex or any kind of payback before assisting (What happened to"Love your neighbour as I have loved you"  ? He obviously wasn't interested in helping but after what he could get, he was only pretending. |
Romance › Re: My Near Rape Experience. Young Ladies Learn From This by culf: 11:58pm On Jan 10, 2024 |
Some guys no dey try oo, I Thank God for you.
We should encourage victims to speak out about it and punishment should be increased.
May God help us |
Politics › Re: Over 163k Nigerian Enjoyed FG's 50% Discount On Road Fares, Free Train Trips: FG by culf: 12:24am On Jan 02, 2024 |
Some people see Everything in this country as an opportunity to make money. |
Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland Is Partially Back; A Work In Progress by culf: 11:12am On Dec 21, 2023 |
Thanks for the update. Nice! |
Properties › Re: Emeka Offor Donates 10 Houses To Widows In Anambra by culf: 12:54pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
One of the best in the Rotary Family those years, he has being into charity for so long and he is still going at it. God bless and keep him |
Romance › Re: I called my ex. Please Don't Make This Mistake I Made. by culf: 1:08pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
jeromestarks: I will make it up to her later. I know how to press her buttons. better, now you're talking. |
Romance › Re: I called my ex. Please Don't Make This Mistake I Made. by culf: 12:57pm On Dec 07, 2023 |
jeromestarks: I should show you video of breakup? I will slap you oooo. I like your sense of humour, you will live very long by God's grace if you don't change. Guy, an ex mustn't be an enemy, imagine what she said about your mum, that's a mature lady out there. NA you call, NA you still fu*kup unto person wey e obvious say una two love unaselves. You better send her apology text now |
Sports › Re: Victor Boniface’s Grandmum Cheers Him As He Scores During A Match (Video) by culf: 6:37am On Dec 05, 2023 |
proud Granny, this is lovely. |
Family › Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by culf: 5:37am On Dec 05, 2023 |
Maddict1: Lol, you didn't talk to me directly but you're talking about me oga!! It's obvious you couldn't talk to me directly cos you yourself know say wetin you wan talk no follow. Nothing is going to happen one day one day as you've said, your statement just proves that you're likely to become a deadbeat or you're one already sef, you're merely defending your kind I won't indulge you. Have a good day. |
Politics › Re: We'll Celebrate Chidoka If He Joins Apga-media Chief by culf: 5:41pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Nigeria Politics sha! No matter your qualification, you can't win until you enter a certain political party. |
Sports › Re: It’s Time To Leave - Nigerians Urge Osimhen To Quit Napoli by culf: 5:12pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Angelfrost: Precisely... The thing is funny.
You need to win games but keep isolating your main striker who is proven to be dangerous in eighteen yard boxes.
Napoli is all over the place this season.
Well, good for Inter Milan...!
They are just bringing down their profit on the sale of top players like Osimhen. Honestly! Let them keep it up, at the end we will see who will loose more, He is already a known name, they can't stop him now. |
Nairaland General › Re: 17-year-old Yusuf Abdullahi Nets 5 Goals For Kano Pillars Against Gombe United. by culf: 11:41am On Dec 04, 2023 |
Another Ahmed Musa in the making. I pray he succeed |
Family › Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by culf: 11:35am On Dec 04, 2023 |
Maddict1: This is lame. I know what I'm getting myself into, I don't have plans or intentions to contest in any election nor do I have any interest in family properties, na poor person or person with poverty mindset dey follow family fight for properties, i'm not looking for any recognition from any village, when you get money, people go recognize you normally. I just want peace! When i die, make dem carry me go cemetery, Life's not hard, na we dey try complicate am with the kind if restrictions wey we dey put ourselves.
My kids are also not going to be raised here with this your mentality, so this does not affect me in any way. Thank God I didn't talk directly to you because I know where it will lead. I saw a comment I like and I chose to acknowledge it and reply her. Nothing stop you from ignoring my lame and "my mentality". MR RIch man, if you like go and train your kids in moon, I don't blo**dy care, I only wish you success and goodluck. Finally Sir, save this as one day, one day, you'll surely remember this conversation. Have a good day Mr rich mindset Sir. |
Sports › Re: It’s Time To Leave - Nigerians Urge Osimhen To Quit Napoli by culf: 11:11am On Dec 04, 2023 |
They are punishing themselves thinking they are punishing him, funny. |
Family › Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by culf: 10:56am On Dec 04, 2023 |
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Family › Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by culf: 10:49am On Dec 04, 2023 |
frozen70: OK I have read your response
You have the right to bear your father's name or your mother's name as the case may be
Now if you want to bear both parents surname, you have to identify exactly which family you want to belong for life
If you want to be identified with your mums family, good and fine, his sibblings will have to be informed officially and they will embrace and welcome you by adopting you into the family
By doing so, you bear their names, have inheritance with them and have a share or assets and liabilities of the family
And you will settle down in their family as your original root
When you marry you bring her their she settles their have her kids their and they are part of the kindred of that family and that's how uoir own generations will go along and follow suit, whether you are still alive or not a
They will have to swore and affidavit and newspaper publication to that and you are now identified with them ab their son and brother
But if you know that you will return to your father's family at the end of the day, keep the name and don't change it.
Left for me, having understood your mind, I think you should go along yuoir mum family, if they will accept you as their son and brother
After all these are done, then you will use those documents to have a change of surname in national ID and international passport
As for uoir school, wait until you graduate before effecting any change . The reason being that uoir mother families will seat and have several meetings before they will come to conclusion
I wish you good luck oil dey your head. For this reply, i'm following you. I pray this does not affect him tomorrow. There is this family Where their father, wanted contesting election back then, it was trouble, thanks to God and the man's brothers (cousins from the mother side), the people said no that the man is not from there, I'm talking of a place the man's father married from, got lands, settled, birth all his kids including the man, brought his siblings and they use there as their home town, with the bit of influence they have and what they brought to all that side, the people are still rejecting them. I wish him well. |
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Family › Re: Yahoo or schooling by culf: 10:34am On Dec 03, 2023 |
Nothing good comes easy. Block that guy and continue with your education. Pharmacy is a good course, face front before they drag you into regrets later. |
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Politics › Re: Obi V Tinubu: We Haven't Received The CTC Of Your Judgement -LP 2 Supreme Court by culf: 5:57pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
What a country, God help Nigeria |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Everton Vs Manchester United (0 - 3) On 26th November 2023 by culf: 8:40pm On Nov 26, 2023 |
It was a good show today? Up Man Utd!
As man Utd do well today, those criticising ETH won't say anything now o |
Family › Re: She Caught Her Husband Red Handed, Cheating. by culf: 12:01am On Nov 25, 2023 |
countryman13: I doubt if he's truly seeking for advice coz i posted my experience as regard d topic bt he replied dt part of my my comment is a lie. He is cathing cruise. It is good to b faithful in marriage bt Na baba God we go still dey beg for d strength yes o. By our strength we can do nothing |
Family › Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by culf: 2:11am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Ginaz: The fool wants herself to be seen right cos she's not wrong in her eyes while she wants me to be wrong cos she feels she can get away with being an hypocrite. accusing me of same crime she commits. I won't reply any of you again since you have decided not to stop. If both of you keep at this, how will you feel when you meet tomorrow. Let's disagree to agree or let go of things please. It's late, both of you should go and sleep. Thank you and good night! Peace[img] Ginaz: The fool wants herself to be seen right cos she's not wrong in her eyes while she wants me to be wrong cos she feels she can get away with being an hypocrite. accusing me of same crime she commits. I won't reply any of you again since you have decided not to stop. If both of you keep at this, how will you feel when you meet tomorrow. Let's disagree to agree or let go of things please. It's late, both of you should go and sleep. Thank you and good night! Peace[/img] Ginaz: The fool wants herself to be seen right cos she's not wrong in her eyes while she wants me to be wrong cos she feels she can get away with being an hypocrite. accusing me of same crime she commits. I won't reply any of you again since you have decided not to stop. If both of you keep at this, how will you feel when you meet tomorrow. Let's disagree to agree or let go of things please. It's late, both of you should go and sleep. Thank you and good night! Peace |
Family › Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by culf: 1:57am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Ginaz: tell her to her face to stop using her student to give ideals which she receives to grow her business. since she said I'm using my friend's kids to run errands , she's liable to same offense for using someone her dad helped in the past.
y'all you turn a blind eye and do selective critism to suit yourselves. Haba, its OK NA, both of you should stop please. It's 2am, Please Stop, Please |
Family › Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by culf: 1:03am On Nov 24, 2023 |
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Family › Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by culf: 12:42am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Ginaz: That's how you all will say you don't expect anything in return. That's how that hypocrite has criticised me online but she's using her student ideals whom her father helped to push her business. 
after all the drags, she's committing same offense she accuses me of doing which shows no one can help without not wanting to receive something in return.
make everybody dey their day abeg. una fake personality is glaring. it's easier to abuse but not to practise what is being preached. Whatever I said is personal to me, neither am I judging you. No one is perfect in life, that I do things and don't expect anything in return don't make me perfect no judge you, Only God is perfect. By the way, I don't know you and someone are dragging each other because I wasn't following. You guys should let peace reign and take things easy. For fakeness, whatever I do is for me and my God, I have nothing to prove to anybody that I should be fake. As you advised, "make I go dey my dey". Do take care, Peace! |
Family › Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by culf: 12:15am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Ginaz: how many children have you helped in your life? I don't brag about such things my dear, it gives me joy to help and I see it as a privileges and it's never enough for me, I always pray for God to put me in position and give me what I will need to help more and more people especially people that I will not expect anything from in return. God bless you. Ginaz: how many children have you helped in your life? I don't brag about such things my dear, it gives me joy to help and I see it as a privileges and it's never enough for me, I always pray for God to put me in position and give me what I will need to help more and more people especially people that I will not expect anything from in return.
God bless you.Ginaz: how many children have you helped in your life? I don't brag about such things my dear, it gives me joy to help and I see it as a privileges and it's never enough for me, I always pray for God to put me in position and give me what I will need to help more and more people especially people that I will not expect anything from in return. God bless you. |
Family › Re: She Caught Her Husband Red Handed, Cheating. by culf: 12:08am On Nov 24, 2023 |
CHoccolaTE: Amen oo The sexual immorality in the present generation is too much.
Personally I support faithfulness in relationships and chastity no matter what. That is the Best and it will do everyone a lot of good to practice them but me and you know its not possible, Unless Unless like I said, by the grace of God for those that seek him. The few that believe in chastity and faithfulness, their partner will be the one pushing them out. It's crazy! like you said, sexual immorality is now a normal thing, those that try not to engage in it are the ones the world see as abnormal people. Again, God will help. By the way. The topic you brought, you post online, if it's personal or for someone close, I will say be careful of advise you take online especially here. Do take care |
Family › Re: She Caught Her Husband Red Handed, Cheating. by culf: 6:02pm On Nov 23, 2023 |
CHoccolaTE: Honestly, I can't help but feel bad for Nigerian women. The way a lot of men actually believe it's normal and expected for wives to forgive unfaithful husbands. It's a very cruel something. Cheating really wreaks havoc on the victim's mental health. it's both ways my dear and like you said, it does alot to the other partner but unfortunately so some men see it as anything, release and go, more unfortunate thing is women are beginning to do worse. Unless someone that fears God, if not, this era of couple denying each other sex, cheating will continue to rise. God will help us |
Family › Re: She Caught Her Husband Red Handed, Cheating. by culf: 5:51pm On Nov 23, 2023 |
Ahmed0336: This post reminds me of what a friend told me about his past. He had a fiancée whom he had finished paying her dowry. She visited uninvited from the state where she resides to where he was then only to meet him on top of a lady He wasn't aware of her presence,only for him to realise after Cumming that she's sitting, watching them. He was so shocked and confused but she was calm. She now asked them if they were through that she'd want to wash the bedsheet  After seeing the other lady off, his fiancée washed the bedsheet and even prepared pounded yam without showing any sign of anger.
My people my people, because of his fiancée reaction, HE REFUSED TO MARRY HER.
That she's capable of murder  I can't stop laughing, so funny. Best thing I have read today. |
Family › Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by culf: 5:35pm On Nov 23, 2023 |
Ginaz: it's not everyday o. well, I've heard. Let the mother not send the same children to me to ask me for anything . So the assistance you're rendering is a reward for the errand they run for you? You should see it as a privilege but no wahala, when one door closes, God opens another unless if they don't look up to God. Hmmm! |
Crime › Re: The Ordeal Of Solomon Bawa In The Hands Of The Nigeria Police Force, Nasarawa by culf: 9:38pm On Nov 19, 2023 |
mmadu5: how is this news? Are you kidding me? if you're serious with this statement then you're not normal; |