₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkiee:
Interesting! So, rather than call the cops to save her at the time of the attack, she should have allowed her attacker to beat the sheet out of her and then if she survived the assault, she should then report him to people(all so the criminal assault can stay covered up), or moved out afterward... WOW... Nigerian culture indeed seems tailored towards protecting culprits and not victims at all. No wonder!

How did you know she called the cops at point of attack, with which phone? the one smashed? This is Nigeria, twist it any way you like, her marriage need serious prayer. even in mediation to lay man, police and court is not the first point of call for someone that want peaceful resolution and stable existing relationship
I want to believe its someone like you that misled her.

Like I say, the man is very wrong, his action is totally wrong but for the marriage, the woman have complicated everything.

Kobojunkiee:
This is conflicting at best! He did wrong but she should bring people to apologize to him? How would you feel if your sister called you up after being pummelled by her husband to come beg him?

YES, if my sister is in Nigeria and still interested in her marriage.
This is Nigeria, This is marriage and this is culture.

All these talks would've been avoided if she reported her husband or move out with the kids without getting him arrested.
The man 4ked up but her action put her marriage off completely.

1, what he did is very wrong, very wrong of him. Sorry about all the abuses and violence.

2. For your Marriage, if you're still interested in the marriage, get elders, friends and people he respect to come talk and apologise to him for you, tell him in their presence that you love and cherish your husband that its fear that made you do what you did.
.May God help your home and marriage

Verokeena

my condolence. May God console the family.

DenreleDave:
To all the men out there that are married and blessed with kids..... How are you coping?

How are you surviving with no job?

How are you surviving with low source of income?

How is your home? How do u keep going despite the hardness?

My experience today seeing a family man is not good ....

I feel so bad that I am so helpless to help forever......

Your sadness will be over... Every difficult thing in your life will be solved... You and ur family will smile......

God bless all struggling married men with responsibilities....

God bless you greatly

jamesversion:
Mtcheeew, Which team to beat.
Guy na Chelsea be Odogwu this season.

which Chelsea, its not by buying new prayers everyday.

LagosFirstSon:
Less than N500k

NA hard currencies you dey see there o.

Like play, foreign currencies are replacing our naira in our country, them don turn legal tender for street. Why naira no go die?
What a country!

arejibadz:
man u was just playing rubbish dem get luck

Calm down, season just start, dem no dey form yet. United is a team to beat this season.

dollar account

You've said it all, nothing more, nothing less, God bless bless you

Goodlyhrt:
If not why are things going south no matter how hard someone prays.

I tell you what works smart work with a lot of luck.

I try to be smart but I don't have much luck so I get stuck each and every damn time.

I am a failure in all ramifications health, business, love, family.. just fucck!!

It does but you should first seek and Know him.

We shouldnt be making up stories as sensitive as this just for traffic.

The marriage institution is going through a lot already, let's not add more please

Its my number one news channel among other things.

This is 90% me but I don't consider myself as an introvert though

God bless you greatly. Thank God.

IconicR:
lies, a woman will forgive and forget totally because somehow African women are weird to believe that all men cheat.

fortunately or unfortunately, its not all men that cheat

skultrick:
So this question is for the men, I was watching this movie, and this woman despite having a sweet home cheated on her husband.

The husband loved his wife so much but after finding out about her infidelity told her it was over. The wife couldn't bare it, she just jumped in front of a moving car but luckily she survived it.

Now the husband is finding it difficult to call it a quit considering the amazing children at stake.

Would you divorce your wife for cheating on you even though she is an amazing woman?

Aftermath of the movie, the man took back his wife after so much pleading from the wife's mom. Turns out the wife was raped when she was 10, and that act seemed to have made her addicted to sex. The husband couldn't go the marathon sex. Moreover, their sex life became boring. It was always in the bedroom but this woman wanted to be banged in the kitchen, hotel, any other out of the norm setting. I can’t really say with all certainty that i can take back a cheating wife but i wouldn't want a broken home. I want my kids raised by both parents.

No one prays for it but yes, I can.

nickyvil:
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please take down your number pls

HanisahZuwy:
You mean in the whole of Abuja and FCT, I can't find love? And work too?

You can easily get job in Abuja but I can't say same for love, who knows, you might be lucky but finding genuine love in Abuja hard oo

HanisahZuwy:
You mean in the whole of Abuja and FCT, I can't find love? And work too?

You can easily get job in Abuja but I can't say same for love, who knows, you might be lucky but finding genuine love in Abuja hard oo

truespeak:
You too, brother.

Thanks

truespeak:
You too, brother.

Thanks

truespeak:
I always say it is a blessing from God to desire to do good and even more good even in the face of adversity!

That is God at work, that you be like Him as He said.

Let all men see God, even in little us.

What a mighty Good Thing and a Privilege to be like Him.

Do not lose Him, brother as you encouraged another so do I encourage you.

Remember these words for I hold them dear: "He that is unjust, let him be unjust still: and he which is filthy, let him be filthy still: and he that is righteous, let him be righteous still: and he that is holy, let him be holy still.

And, behold, I come quickly; and my reward is with me, to give every man according as his work shall be." Rev 22 :11-12

God bless you more

truespeak:
Rightly said!

And then with understanding it becomes sweet and easy inspite of any and every thing placed in your way.

Na laugh you go dey laugh sef.

exactly. On different occasions I have been accused wrongly for doing good but then, you feel like doing more

truespeak:
Thank you for this.

When I was going through hardship and wickedness because I found that I was suffering for being like the Op, I was thankful that I had at least one person who told me not to change.

Today, I am very thankful, for God has turned all my pains and disappointments into blessings and appointments.

All who see me today are amazed.

Even I am Amazed!

Thus I borrow the words of my brother in the Lord, Paul and say "let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not."

Thank you too dear and thanks for not allowing people to change who you are, it's not easy but it pays to be good.

Hmmm, just ignore her provocation (it might be the pregnancy), nice people are always taken advantage of, it shouldn't change who you are, always do what makes you happy but avoid people that will want to add

IconicR:
Let go please, it's not worth it. Never marry a man you love too deeply, he'll take advantage of your love and hurt you if he realizes you love him too much, men don't appreciate women that genuinely and deeply love them, they prefer a touch of stubborness laced with a caring habit. Very funny gender

that's not true sir, maybe you but not everybody.

@op, try to move on and reduce the blame on yourself, its past already but next time when you see a good guy hold him well o, forget that you're the lady and go for it, that is why the so called 'bad girls' are getting married every weekend more than the good ones.

God bless you greatly TheNoble007
. May the grace of God continue to abound in you. i'm someone that is usually very careful when it comes to Men of God but from day one, its been peace reading and following.
Like you said, in years to come, this thread will keep leading people to Christ and following the right part.

Most of your prophecies have come to past already.

What a time to be a Nigerian.

One of my person collected salary yesterday and it was exhausted same yesterday, she has thinking since how she will survive.
What a country!

God no shame us.

Unbelievably Interesting....

Lostchild:
1. The exams dreams is a very stubborn dreams. You have to be careful over your decision making in life, including those around you. Because that exam dream can re-occure

2. Do you smoke in real life, or have you smoked before? I asked became you need to have healthy dreams.

3. Flying in the dreams is very healthy. It is a sign of spiritual awakening via prayers. You possessed spiritual powers.

4. The village and home dream is a sign that you are still connected to powers of your father's house. They are still at work against your life.

I think I need to write my own experience here on nairaland and how I overcome.

thank you

please what's the meaning of frequently seeing a late close relative like the person is still alive, doing things together sometimes.