Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.

There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.

It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.

Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.

Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

It is because she knows her husband is a weak simp, that is why she has the license to do anyhow. Better forget this farce of a marriage and move on. Any wife who exchanges sexual energy and body fluids with another man now belongs to that man and she no longer belongs to the husband. Unlike men who in most cases use sex to relieve stress and reduce high testosterone levels, for women, sex is spiritually deeper and is a bonding ritual. Wake up this man, stop opening foolish Nairaland threads and do what needs to be done as a real man!

No sympathies for these Northerners. They have ruled Nigeria the most and have little to show for it. All they know how to do is nepotism, bribery, corruption and national looting. Yahweh, the God of Israel has cursed the North. And so shall it remain until they become good people.

Tellmeastory:


Are you aware we manufacture cars, buses, and even armoured personnel carriers in Nigeria?

Why did your head go to keke if not for your tragic inferiority complex?

Made in Nigeria - Proforce

He is from the North. Common toothpick they can't manufacture there. All they know how to do is almajiri, steal government money and be national parasites on other regions of the country.

coputa:
There's much hunger in the north ,their leaders took advantage of the almagiri system to loot , without any provision for western education

They love claiming to be the most righteous in the name of their religion but they are the most evil and most corrupt tribe in Nigeria. Always looting in billions. When the North eventually collapses, they should not come to the South at all!!! We will send them back by fire by force!!! Useless parasites!

Nigeria as a country should never have existed in the first place. It is too big with too many cultural, tribal and religious differences to be able to progress in unity into a great country. Best thing is to divide, let all regions go their separate ways and develop according to the best of their ability in peace.

Mayng01:
Useless , corrupt, and immoral show. Mtchew

Cos na you holy pass. Hypocrite. Ozuor!!!

madridguy:
Stop deceiving yourself, before the arrival of the colonial masters Lagos State is already doing fine.

Then why is the rest of Yorubaland including brown roof Ibadan, Abeokuta and Ife backwards looking compared to Lagos? Even Port Harcourt, Warri, Calabar, Uyo, Enugu, Kano are more advanced looking compared to all your Yoruba elite cities. Una go just dey deceive unaself. Lagos state doing fine before colonialism FIRE!!!

Draslo:
No levels. Let's be honest though, many Nairaland feminists will collect money from this guy for a night stand. They will be quick to accept the discreet offer

Yea, like that small breasted bit<h called siofra

siofra:
And you were fuûcking somebody's daughter with this kind of prick.
Omo! Nigerian men are too dirty.

Better go for test to ascertain what's wrong with you, I don't think it's the end.

Always posting rubbish. Cheap, broke, man-hating lesbian. Feminism kii you there!!! Ozuo!

SultanYoung:
You go get sense by force

Make una stop to dey spoil person market thread. If u no like the price when op call, waka pass. Nigerians and bad belle is too much. If you sef get sense and maturity, u no go make this kind statement. Abi you and op know una self for real life?

From a tribe of envious, bad-bele people.

azizsystem:

Lol. Are you really asking this question?

Your region is the poverty capital of the world. Please shut up abeg. Your almajiris are all over the South, begging and spoiling our environment.

backnbeta:
Bubu is not at war with Tinubu because Tinubu is a bad person, NO. He's at war with and not supporting Tinubu because he will rather have another Abokey become the president! Good for Tinubu though; he forgot the golden rule: trust and deal with an Abokey at your own peril. The plan is for them to enthrone Atiku, I hope it fails

Yorubas will never learn. And because of their love for money, a lot of them don't care.

BossGerald:


Yoruba and tribalism

I am a Delta man, that has travelled to all parts of the country and the Yorubas are the worst at tribalism, pride and arrogance. Living in dirty environments. Idiotic ridiculous set of people. I am based in the US now and I avoid them here. So loud and annoying set of people.

Ogonimilitant:
You paid N49million for 30 units of buses.
Which is less than 1.3m per bus. This is how you want to patronize your country.

Innoson was founded in 2007
Toyota was founded in 1937
And you want Innosson to be like Toyota. The government of Japan funded Toyota why innoson started and funded itself from the scratch.

The government of Sierra loan bought vehicles from Innosson and have not had any problem but Nigerians instead of supporting their own brand keeps marketing their brand because he is an Igbo man.

Obi is coming and Nigeria shall be great again.

I don't even know why Innoson took that rubbish contract sef. N49million for 30 units of buses is trash. The National Assembly bought what they paid for. Innonson should not expect all these abokis and their afonja slaves to patronize them. Innonson should focus on conquering other African markets. Innonson has what it takes to dominate there.

OsunOriginal:
What do you expect? Ibo-made vehicles

Which one is Osun manufacturing? Is Osun even manufacturing anything at all? Ordinary toothpick you can't manufacture, you come here dey make noise. Ode!

Ttalk:
Asiwaju Bola Ahmed has no rival as far as this election is concerned.

Our God is not a partial God that would reward hard work with failure and reward laziness with success.

Bola Ahmed Tinubu has been working for democracy as far back as 1992 while building and mobilizing for democracy to grow and for Nigeria to become a better country by bringing his ideas of development experienced overseas into governance in Lagos State.

Compared to some Dubai tourists and other IPOB enablers with zero knowledge about governance other than wack and mediocre achievement that is below the standard of a great country like Nigeria.

God cannot reward someone who ran away from party primary only to purchase the ticket of a dying party to displace those that laboured for the party.

God through the generality of Nigerians will elect Asiwaju Ahmed Tinubu as President of FRN come February 25

Not sure which god you worship but the God I worship, Yahweh will never support a drug baron, serial embezzler (embezzling Lagos monthly since 1999) and proud man into power. Stop making a mockery of God's name before he punishes you.

This is one of the reasons I can't marry from this area. No matter how fine or educated the person is. In 2023, and people are still believing all these nonsense.

isan:
you idiots keep trooping to southwest

And we are the one carrying your SW economy and fu<king your bit<hes. Ode!

FreeStuffsNG:

Yimu. Everything is slipping off your predictions today because most of you are lazy and unrealistic. Elections are not conducted on the social media.
I know most you will repeat same mistake of politics of lies, hate and bigotry in 2027 when Asiwaju is gunning for second term.

It is not yinmu matter. It is the voters that will determine. These governors are just eating Tinubu's money cos he is desperate. He has no national support outside SW because even the core Northerners are disappointed with and fed up with Buhari himself. The so-called G5 whatever will not be able to deliver. Cos anybody that tries to come and rig in the Niger Delta, Iboland or Christian Middle Belt will face raw justice on the spot. We are not docile like you Yorubas and that is why the Fulani herdsmen can only act with impunity in the SW region. The only rigging that can happen for APC is in Yorubaland. Take that to the bank. I am a Delta indigene, a proper coast man. We will collect your APC money, attend your conventions and at the end of the day vote who we are voting for. Maybe you like the madness that this country is in now, you can keep that madness in SW.

siofra:
God forbid!
The last thing I'll ever do is beg a Nigerian man to take me back. Even if I'm at fault

Man hating bit<h. We don't fu<king care.

lhordspy:
Psalm 27:3 says:
“Though an army encamp against me, my heart shall not fear; though war arise against me, yet I will be confident .”

Listen, the Australian professional golfer, Jason-Day once also said:
“When you have a lot of confidence and you feel like nobody can beat you, it’s game over for everyone else.”

We dont need to stoop low to wrestle with pigs to beat them silly. Because E sure for us, e sure for you?

You think God will have anything to do with a drug lord? A serial embezzler? The man has been out of office since 2007 but he still embezzles from Lagos billions monthly. The God that you are using to play will shock you big time next year. And the shock is not in a good way. You even have the audacity to quote the Bible, over a criminal!!!

All states in the Niger Delta, East and Christian Middle Belt - Benue, Plateau, Taraba & Nasarawa are going Obi. Let's pray he achieves at least 25% in each SW states, a few core Northern states and possibly win Kaduna since his VP Datti is from there and Kaduna South is full of Christians.

These incompetent Northerners have killed us!!! Kai!! Lugard why??!!!!

LaSenior:
Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

Better run for your life and stop coming to Nairaland to open rubbish threads. All these weak men sef.

This APC na very badddddddddd market. All these urchins their eye go clear next year.

MissLAP:


Please exclude Hausas from your criminal activities!

Hausas are the calm ones, involved in various businesses across the South. But the Fulanis are a big issue. Even the Hausas dey fear them and that is why all their Hausa communities are ruled by Fulani emirs as Hausa are regarded as 2nd class. There are places that the Fulani cannot misbehave in the South, like the Niger Delta or the East. They need to be made to understand this.

asanausana91:
This is a declaration of war. Their crime is just for being northerners.
I told some fools that the igbos don't care if you are a Christian or a Muslim as far as you are not an Igbo man, you are their enemies.
Peter Obi should not decieve you that he is a Christian. My elder brother who is a Christian was killed by the igbos just because he is a northerner.
The northern elders must speak.

The same community was attacked 2 weeks ago by herdsmen. anyway let the people there show the weapons they confiscated to justify this act. Besides when your Fulani brothers are killing up and down, I don't see you making comments against this. You people think you can act anyhow in any place in Nigeria. No respect at all for other tribes especially Southerners. The future will surprise you and then you will know that it is not only Northerners that have a monopoly to violence in this country. Las Las, let all regions/tribes split up and disintegrate Nigeria cos it is not working, it will happen soon by fire or by peace.

Northernes have destroyed this country. May God punish all the corrupt nepotistic ones.

Onyiiobi7735:
Obviously the lizard isn't an ordinary one.It is an arrow of evil sent by the evil ones.

Go to school mumu. It is people like you that are holding Nigeria and Africa back.

SugarGirl44:


You keep trooping to SW daily bringing all your family members to constitute nuisance but claim to be developing the place.
You focus your attention on Lagos governor and Tinubu while neglecting your own failed leaders.
And you haven’t seen your people whose dream is to become governor of Lagos?
If that’s not an obsession, what is it?

If the Ibo people you hate leave Lagos and the SW, your economy will collapse in under 10 years. You are a tribalistic bit*h blinded by hate that does not have sense. Your drug lord godfather Thief-nubu will not win a single state in the Niger Delta, East, Christian Middle Belt. Core Northerners will vote their own - Atiku or Kwankaso. I love the taste of your frustrated tears. Dirty human being.