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@poster ,if truly you are pregnant , do not abort the baby , provide to me your email address so that we can discuss in private .

@edo.girl , you really must be suffering from environmental delusion . Why must you display your ignorance in public . Here, we are talking about miscarriage judgment and you are there casting aspersion on the person of Festus Kayemo, an erudite scholar of note . Need I remind you that Bankole is a public figure , thus his case and its outcome ought and should be a subject of public discourse , this is the basis of Kayemo's stance and pronouncement to the press and the general populace . Enough !

@house, no one with useful info . Nawaooooooooooooo

Someone should help , please . In particular ,where are the people in this forum that lives in Badagry , please help .

Please, anyone with useful answer help . Thanks

House, help provide me an answer, please .

@toba , thanks for your concern . Yeah , no problem @ all . Please, I will be expectant of an update of any information about him .

Thanks as you help .

@nairalanders

Who knows the man of God by name ' Pastor Jehoshaphat ' that has a church in Badagry Lagos ? Please , tell me something about him , the name of his church and it's address . This is very important , my state government has a special gift for him . Thanks as you help .

It is quite obvious most of the contributors to this thread are not politically inclined , else , I do not see the reason why a true political informed person will denounce the ambition of a well refined , tested and trusted technocrat as Prof. Dora as selfish or inordinate . It is her type , persons of timber and caliber we need in the national assembly to have hope for good legislation . Carry go prof. , the true leaders of positive change are solidly behind you .

What refined a "successful person" is not the knowledge acquired through formal learning in the high institution(s) ,rather wisdom and self-education compounded with advantage gained on past failures and unfavorable risks ( failure is not a sign of ignorant but an act of perfection ) . My point is this ; academic qualification/formal education is good , but then , in most cases it makes the holder feel arrived ( living on hope and faith without practical efforts , always having the thoughts like " with my credentials my tomorrow is bright ), therefore depriving one the practical leverage to aspire/fight for true comfort of life ( economic freedom which brings developmental and infrastructural enabling system for healthy and happy living ), and the end result to this abnormality is abject poverty you see in the arsenal of most of the supposed formally educated people . I rest my case .

@Becomrich? , you had a sensible contribution there , kudos ! Knowledge ( academic certificates ) is good quite sure , but then, of what good is it if one has it and still lives in abject poverty ? Makes no sense to me . For all I care , the number of academic Laurel's one has does not matter , rather how productive ( economic-wise ) the Laurel holder is is the main thing . Wise up men .

@ Tink_sh, I contest some of the comments to get the best of advice , so it is not as if I have made up my mind to execute my thought , I do believe much in dialogue when in search 4 a solution to a need .

@ Tink_sh , it is not in my nature to insult people , but then I like it paying someone in his/her own coin . U were the 1 that made this comment " So you want a child and want someone else to raise it til your ready Unbelievable!!! Some peoples selfishness amazes me!! So why do you want a child? What is the point? Its not a toy its a life commitment. Grow up then think about it!!!" . According to u my seeking advice makes me selfish  , one that amazes u allot too . Well u can see I have reason 4 my outburst toward u , but for the sole reason that u are a mother as u have claimed , I therefore retract the abusive words I used against u, sorry ooooooooo .

But permit me to ask , have u heard about contract marriage before ? If u answer in the affirmative , tell me how does it work ?

@DapoBear, I need no one to tell me that you are a pauper and worse of all a psychiatric patient , so no need to engage u in verbal war , we are not in the same category hope u got it right !  

@Tink_sh , same statement above is 4 u too , both of u seems mate in the pauper & psychiatric union , sorry , take your medication serious , though I know u can not get completely healed from these 2 among other numerous deceases u too are suffering from .

@xxcarolxx, thanks a gr8 deal , your advice is well noted & appreciated .

@belamour, my broda na fight , lol . Well thanks , ime la .

@Beync, once more , thanks a gr8 deal 4 ur candid contribution .

@Beync, I couldn't remember where I made mention of being a Christian , though this does not mean to denying be one either, but as far as I am concerned been responsible does not mean Christianity , so religion apart. Well morality , yes , that I have had a thought about , thus it compounded the reason why I am seeking 4 an advice b/4 taking action .

@Beync, there is no correlation attached to my plan neither do I wish to have it as a trophy for my 30th birthday as some other people here has thought , rather I want to satisfy my inner passion that needs a child ( definitely I will make out time to care and love him/her, but the time will not be at maximum as I will want it be in the next 3/4 yrs when I will be fully ready to settle down , hope u will understand me better now ), having one will see my cumulative live happiness/sense of accomplishment rise to 85% degree VON circle. And hope u know 29 approaching to 30 yrs on earth is not common , thus escalation of this thought .

@Akinagirl, it seems u derive pleasure in hauling insult on another person , I fear u ooooo . So my post did not make much sense , well maybe u belong to the group of n'landers in the imbecilic union , else u would have know that my seeking advice from a public forum like this means I did not equate my self to God , I have no monopoly of wisdom . Please insult me not indirectly again .

@k-money £, u have a strong point bro , I wish u the best .

@Akinagirl , I hear u dear , no be fight though. lol

@hbabe , once more , thanks allot , it gives one of my kind a great sense of fulfillment having advice from mature minds as you have displayed . Kudos .

@K- Money £ , thanks allot bro , I appreciates ur candid advice .

@specialist900 , I can see that u are yet to take ur medicine , please why not take it now so that u can regain ur mental balance and thereof make a useful contribution .

@Beync , foremost , thanks 4 your well structured opinion . Really the question u have asked me are the puzzles I found in my longing desire that warranted me to seek for advice b/4 I will act , I hope u grasp me . The reason for my desperation though not do-or-die one is because having one will give me unquantifiable happiness and sense of average feel of accomplishment  , thus the reason why I want it within my 30th birthday year .

@Blazay , it is quite ironical you misconstrue my genuine desire , anyways , I owe u no explanations . However , may I add that if I had evil plans on my desire as put herein for advice , then may your wicked and evil wishes against me manifest , but if it is on the contrary , then I say may they be your portion .

@specialist900 , the above statement is also 4 u .

@hbabe , thanks for ur opinion . Note ; its not as if is a do-or-die need , but then I need it , the joy I will have having one will be immeasurable , I wish u will understand my point .

@Specialist900 , ur signature says it all , I quote " I speak my mind but not on all occasions" , now I need no one to tell me that you are in slumber ,therefore at the moment u are not mentally balanced to speak ur mind . Anyways, as soon as you take ur  medicine and regain ur mental order, then you speak u mind , hope it will not take eternity , I will be waiting .

@Blazay , I would rather channel my synergy to meaningful businesses rather than to engage u in verbal war . Y can't u be reasonable 4 once ? Need I tell u that if I'd wanted a child 4 rituals that here wouldn't have be my point of call .