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DonroxyII:
Same Way we guys get angry when a woman Reminded us ,You are a Man.

Two Ways:

When we want to take advantage of each other and the other party doesn't want to be fleeced.

No woman/Man will get Angry when you call them their gender as a form of Eulogy.

Kai, Na woman you be, Confirm, Gbam!

Real men don't get angry when you tell them " You are a man".
I won't get irritated when a woman tells me " you're a man, get this done" - it's a reminder of my ability.
But I would be angry if a woman told me " but you called yourself a man, why can't you get this done". Now, this is an insult in every word of it, because she had completely stripped me of my abilities as a man. She had doubted me and written me off.

pocohantas:
You think he doesn’t know?

Men and their usual mansplaining. Always looking for who to gaslight with offensive questions disguised as logical-curious-questions.

Why doesn’t he remind his mother and female bosses of their gender when putting things to them. Mtcheeew

I have always said to her "you are my mother" and never for once had she been offended.
As a matter of fact, the men in the house always reminded our female siblings that they are women and must not stay out late. They wouldn't take it as offensive as much as you would.
"You are a woman" is not a question, much less offensive. It is a statement of fact. Who gets gaslighted with facts?

cococandy:
Why do you feel the need to remind her of her gender? What does it add to the conversation?

Does it take anything away from the conversation?..
If I say, Coco, you're beautiful, does it take anything away?. I can tell you'd blush.
If I reminded a student that he is a student, what negative does it connote?
If you reminded a provider (man) that he is the provider in the family, it doesn't demean him either.
We are being reminded of our roles at work despite being aware in the first place.
Reminding a woman who she is should be greeted with appreciation rather than condemnation. We are naturally wired to remind each other.

Mindlog:
You are right, it is like a Caucasian or even an Asian telling the OP, "you are black"....of course, OP is likely to get angry despite the FACT he is black.

I don't think we are ever angry being referred to as black. We only react to racist chants such as monkey, Neanderthal, etc. We trying to correct the misconception that we evolved from Ape family. Aside that, our skin being black is never an object of ridicule.

Victerica:
It's insulting and disrespectful, especially with regards to the conversation and the intonation...

It is a way of shading someone surreptitiously...

How do we fare better in this world if we are too deliberate over the littlest of things?
Shall we begin to set rules as to when it becomes appropriate to say certain things to the opposite gender, something as fundamental as " You are a woman". When does it come off as eulogy and when does it come off as offensive?

Mariangeles:
This whole comment in itself is demeaning and disrespectful.

The same way you should not “remind” me that I’m a woman, is the same way I should not ask you whether you’re a man.



How can you be so sure?
Are you in my mind?

No, it's neither demeaning nor disrespectful, rather it's instructive.
" my reminding you of yourself" is miles apart from "your asking me if I wasn't a man"

Consider these instances;
1. Why are you crying, are you not a man?
2. Why are you scared/ running away, are you not a man?
In the minds of a woman, you believed if I cry,
I tend to exhibit the trait of a woman as women are generally considered the emotional gender. Such that you'd see me as a weak man. Impliedly, it is acceptable for a woman to cry but not a man.
Same as applied in a situation whereby a man is usually expected to stand bold in the face of anything while the softer/tender gender in a similar situation is allowed to scream out loud when an earthworm glides through her feet.

"Are you not a man" is an attempt to veer off the tangent while projecting the opposite gender on the man.

ReneeNuttall:
That statement alone is like a racist comment.

It's just like saying because I'm a lady I don't count,or add up, or matter....its like I can't contribute anything meaningful to the society. A weak gender with no capability. It's demeaning. Y'all should desist from it. Unless u mean it in a different context. And always add an explanation so we know u ain't tripping!

Thanks for the honest input yet confusing, shocking and dumbfounding all the same.
You're a woman and that's your gender - fact!
Why should you get triggered?

When I say "you are a woman" ;
1. I'm reminding you of whom you are.

2. I'm emphasising the fact that you're a woman

3. I'm awakening your consciousness to your place as a woman - to be more aware of yourself being a woman.
There's nothing condescending or demeaning of a woman being reminded of who she is.

Mariangeles:
It’s the same way are you not a man? could get a man angry.

When you say things in a demeaning/condescending way, people can perceive it.
You don’t expect them not to get offended.

This is a smart deflection. "Not" is often used to express the negative or opposite.
If you say "Are you not a man", you are implying that he acts as though he is not a man. In other words, you're implying that he acts like a woman. Therefore, advertently or inadvertently, you are projecting on him the opposite gender by virtue of his actions/behavior/decisions.

Let's bring logic to the table, If a woman refuses to cook and I said "why don't you want to cook, are you not a woman". I'm implying that she is not a man to avoid the kitchen, it is incumbent on her to cook as a woman.

Why do women often get angry or irritated whenever you tell them " You are a woman" during the course of discussing with them?

Why do they always lose their temper when you remind them that they are women

Walkee:
oga, alcohol, betting even eating, driving etc have ruined many people yet people still engage in these things. Do you know the number of women sex have ruined? This guy is just a dull guy deluding himself by thinking he has access to some hidden secrets

A woman is the creation of nature, you can't satisfy your lust with Alcohol & betting but only with a woman.

Pelumar:
Weytin concern people wey dey do blue film with this myth you wrote login snapchat you'll see girls doing sex like ABC I even saw this my neighbor daughter bum bum last week on her snapchat story... Sex is like a business these day. God help us

Do you wish to have a destiny of a pørnstar?

Candidlady:
Means for two years


You would be the Greatest Of All Time!!! Be observant so you don't miss this opportunity when it comes knocking


Cumonher we need your presence please

You're horrible

timeminister:
Are we not supposed to handle the body anymore

Føndle during sex, if you must føndle after sex, follow the rules above. Her body is a different element after sex.

Candidlady:
If you cant reveal me without interrogating me.... Then you got cum in your eyes

I can't reveal you without contacts, that's why you need to answer a few questions.
But why are you scared? You believe i can turn you into a cat.

Candidlady:
If you cant reveal me without interrogating me.... Then you got cum in your eyes

hmm.. woman, you just insulted me right there. Ain't you scared of the repercussions?

Candidlady:
You such you don't have cataracts ... You are a terrible seer cuz igot no man


Say something else

I asked you a set of questions the other time but you refused to answer. I was about revealing you.

People are resistant to change but we must keep preaching the message.

MrBrownJay1:
all the above is pure undiluted garbage....bro, lay down the pipe!

Have you put the message to a test?.. It's strange to the mortals, I knew it.

Candidlady:
Ain't you the self proclaimed seer ?

I'm a messenger. Woman, please deliver this liberation message to your man.

The server changed "Nàckedness" to "unclothedness" ... Why?

Candidlady:
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Can't believe iwasted my time reading this trash !!!

Woman, what makes you believe you are spiritually inclined to pass a comment on this?

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE!!!!

Young man, please, don't joke with your destiny. Put on your spiritual lens.

We live in a world full of empty rhetorics where words like 'nudity' or 'unclothedness' are easily manipulated. Getting naked is more than stripping off clothes and fulfilling lust or satisfying primal urges. We often limit the understanding of women's nàkedness when we only equate it with sexual nature. It is way more.. Women's nàkedness is a spiritual language.
When a woman strips down to her bare skin, she is exchanging energy with nature. The secret of a woman being powerful lies with the fact that she is more relatable to nature, hence her being regarded as a nature in a human body. And if nature would be regarded as a human, it would be a woman - as in 'mother' nature.
Both woman and nature shares a lot in common, as we know, nature is revealing, soft, kind, sometimes harsh, caring bares it all, unhidden, bearing, reproducing, etc. Likewise a woman receives, keeps, reproduces, natures,etc. A woman's body is an embodiment of nature. Interestingly, the only set of male close to being as powerful as a woman is a male virgin.

WHENEVER A WOMAN GOES NAKED, TWO THINGS ARE INVOLVED:
1. SEX.

2. COMMUNICATING WITH NATURE.

TO THE MARRIED MEN;
As you would dip your two legs in a river, how shallow or deep it is determines your chances of survival, such is any man who had signed up for marriage. The nàkedness of your wife goes a long way to affect your destiny. As a married man, the unclothedness of your wife is all up in your face every section of the house, much more the bedroom where all things go down. She becomes your wife the moment she agreed to love the rest of her life with you. What qualifies a man and a woman as husband and wife is the agreement not the fanfare of wedding. Agreement is the bond, no more, no less. Henceforth, her body becomes your body and her unclothedness becomes your unclothedness. She fulfills your sexual desire and her obligation for your sexual satisfaction. Therefore, how positively or negatively her unclothedness affects your destiny is solely your cross to bear.
We have seen in different occasions how the dwindling fortunes of a man peaks or his bright fortunes become brighter the moment he gets married to her, on the other hand, it could lead to his bright fortunes dwindling faster. Many homes have had a myriad of misunderstandings, fights, irreconcilable differences and divorce due to the fact that the presence of the woman is not perfectly matched with the destiny of the man. When a man is constantly exposed to a woman's unclothedness has spiritual implications on his destiny. When your home is successful, you must ensure you enjoy your Women's nàkedness as much as possibly as you can. But if your home is in constant mess, aside the woman's character ( which is usually the main focus) her nàkedness is equally as bad for your fortune ( we usually ignore this important aspect).

TO THE UNMARRED MEN
To the single dudes who are getting sex from as many skirts, ever battle ready at sticking their veined rod in any wet hole. Here is something you must understand - You can fucck any wet hole available but not every nàkedness of the wet hole is expedient to your destiny. Some women could have the sweetest hole in between the legs but their unclothedness are the fastest way to have your fortune nosedived in the shortest of minutes.

DON'T BE NAKED WHEN SHE IS NAKED.
Sex is primarily to fulfill the lust, like an hungry lion, after he is filled, he lays on the field starring contented at the carcass of his prey until there's a need for another round of feasting. So does a man, after he cums, he lays on the bed starring at her body until there's a need for another round of conquering.
Here is the take home guys - After sex, cover up your body. A woman is naturally inclined to sleep all night naked after sex ( most likely in anticipation for more rounds of sex).
Listen guys, not all nàkedness is rightly connected with your destiny. When a woman is naked, she is either having sex or communicating with nature. While a woman is having sex, she can't possibly communicate with nature. At the time sex is happening, she is satisfying a lust, her body is communicating with the man's body at the time of sex. There are consequences to this, your destiny is directly or indirectly affected.
When she was having sex with you, it's a skin-to-skin exercise. When she is in contact with nature, it is called skin-to-nature ( this is a period she is most powerful & deadly). There is a reason a woman's unclothedness is a potent requirement for almost every spiritual practices.

A POSSIBLE WAY OUT; The easiest and cheapest way of being safer with your destiny is to cover up yourself after sex. Put on a boxer, wrap your towel to your body if you want your dick to dangle around for some fresh air. Both of you should not be in the house starring at each other's unclothedness ( she's not your wife yet, she is a strange woman ). Let her be on her bra or spaghetti top and bum short, g string or panties.
Young men need to be aware that a woman's nàkedness may make or mar your destiny.

I am very angry reading this

They promise you more pussy, it all revolves around the pussy.

Klass99:
At the text in bold, you made me smile
I'm glad you think so and the feeling is mutual where you are concerned.
A thread authored by you will be a pleasure to read, for your exposed mind and great articulation of thoughts.
I will gladly participate on it too, from my knowledge of the topic or any experience with it.

Are you passing on the baton or declining

Farfalla:
I'm fond of writing epistles but I was way too exhausted to get into that thesis mode to be honest.


I get that a lot, but still very reserved in real life.


I've honestly thought about starting a topic to discuss cult activities, human sacrifice and its relation to wealth acquisition but I thought against it. I have a series of questions but I'm doubtful of whether I'll obtain the answers I want. I imagine the ritualists may not wish to expose themselves and their vices.

And also, Nigerians tend to make light of serious matters and that thread will probably attract the usual clowns, not forgetting the endless Yoruba vs Igbo e-fights.

Perhaps Klass99 will oblige you. I also like reading her posts. She is smart, composed and usually very objective. She doesn't get easily agitated or get carried away like Farfalla.

For the human sacrifice, if at all you'd get an honest answer, it'd be gross, creepy and grisly.
If you want random opinions, you may open a thread but if you want to investigate up-close, you have an idea where to get it.
For the fun of it, let's have what people got to say about it.

Farfalla:
I have heard you mister.

Although, you didn't say much on the thread but you caught my attention and that's because my instinct often sees through people. You seem to me like a strongly opinionated individual.
If you would, l'd be genuinely interested in reading your thread on any subject. Same demand goes for klass99 - read a page or two on her profile .
In my short time being here, I have noticed a few ladies on FP usually shouting down the rooftops on men but it's funny how you cheer them up at the back seat. So, I'd looking forward to reading your threads & klass99's too.

Besides, I found this thread on FP:
https://www.nairaland.com/7006405/prettymike-storms-event-women-dressed

Farfalla:
Games are for children.

That's an idiomatic expression. Are you not supposed to pay me for the Education.

Simran94:
How some of you will just open mouth waaah and write nonesense epistles just to belittle women is what I don’t understand. What do you mean by no man comes to the table empty?

https://www.nairaland.com/7003061/wisdom-joseph-run-after-strangling/4#110529741

This particular scenario and many others are somethings we have seen repeatedly on the internet and even in real life where women are the ones feeding and clothing their bfs and husbands who have no job.Sometime ago Police arrested A man who killed his wife just to inherit her riches after she gave him money to better his life because he had no job, he had no job and money and yet she married. Go to Abuja and see the so-called BIG BOYS who have no job riding their wives and gfs exotic cars and leaving in these women’s houses. All they know is to come online and be doing fine men and putting on expensive clothes bought for them by these same women, doing fine man on IG. Same in Lagos. One of my aunt actually gave her husband a job in her company as the manager, she pays him salary and he still lives in her house. And yet you say no man comes to the table empty? Really?

Woman, you can't use an example of few isolated cases of either a gigolo or a wife offering to help her husband, to dismiss a general fact. By all standards, a man is expected to come prepared with something sufficient to offer while the woman comes not with the pussy but something as substantial.
Opinions may be formed based off on some few isolated cases that suit your narratives as you just did. However, it would be a poor mental judgement to misrepresent facts with opinions that stand no good ground in an ideal situation.
When a woman comes around to support the man at a time of unfavorable situations, her motive is projected on the immediate or future rewards she stands to gain as soon as the man gets back his footing. When a woman gets you a wristwatch, she's expecting a car, when she gets you a pair of shoes, she's expecting a house and when she gets you a job, she's expecting a lifetime of indebtedness.

Farfalla:
I don't need to decipher anything from someone who's learnt the art of cherry picking and feigning ignorance. Pick one sentence in a post and make an argument out of it while ignoring the real points.

Sincere gender indeed.

You're smart but I hope your man is able to beat you at your own game.

Farfalla:
If all you grasped from that simple post was that I was blaming men for the woes of women, then it's obvious we cannot even have a discussion.

You couldn't decipher that I turned your logic against you. What you wrote up there was way off the intention, you trivialized the issue by talking about how guys here slut shame women.