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Agadi anaghi aka nka na egwu o ma agba
An elder does not outgrow a dance he/she knows too well




Like I said earlier, I'm back oo, watch out for cute-ass part 2 lol

Your lights are quenching oo, soon I'll be dancing with the Igbo authorites


Ihe Ogidi ga-emesia wee mee "Nwafor"
What the Ogidi town will have to go through before doing their "Nwafor" tradition

Onye ajuju adighi efu uzo
He who asks will never go astray


Onye ayiyo ka a na-egbu mma n'obo aka
Its a begger that gets hit with a knife in the middle of their palm

Mmadu abuo di anya nanô
Two people have four eyes (two heads are better than one)




@ all, I'm ready for all of'ya, bring it on jare!!

High on what??

nikynike:
Missing Cuteass,Acidrop, Jaybaby ,Tafari Kennis,Perle,Chiefoheart.

I'm missing you too dear

Omo Eko:
My sweetie she isn't here

I'm here now, and you're nowhere to be found, I'm missing you seriously

ogbdcm:

I MISS MY CUTE ASS

Oooooh how sweet., I missed you much too but you're back now

ogbdcm:
i can imagine how sweet your LOOKING RIGHT NOW

aawwwww , but where have you been hun

A grey fitted long armed top with white inscriptions
A black stone washed jeans
A grey plaited belt
My ceriseand white jewelry set (necklace, ring, earings)
An extra earing pair, my nose ring
A pair of pink pink canvas
Hair -- curled and down
Pink lipgloss

@ proverbial

Exactly my point oo, How can he be wondering if his brother is a "victim" just becasue he shows love to his girl but the girl doesn't widen her legs for him

When did "reciprocation of love"  =   Sex ??

The girl hasnt done anything to jerpardise or belittle his trust and love for her, and until she's proven guilty of that fact, the girl is as good as gold. The brother isnt complaining, but he takes it upon himself to be a watch-night . . . na wa ooh!! The things "Ogidi" will go through before celebrating the "Nwafor" tradition

When you're in the real love, love love  . . no , you're not a victim,but if that's his definition of victim then i'll be honoured to be served

ghengis:
@cute-ass
thats some deep stuff, hmmm, interesting to see u talk about love like that!!!

My brother na so i see am too ooh

proverbial:
what
can't you tell she's in love. I mean "the real love, i mean love love . .mutual love, unselfish love and patient love and enduring love and understanding love and trusting love"

I didnt tell you that ooh, hmmmm

proverbial:
Love isn't necessarily a good thing to be a victim of. Love can hide all faults and make you do things you don't want to do. Love sometimes will leave you feeling sad and blue; two people who're supposed to be in love, and one decieves the other through their love.   

Thats the point, some misplace "love", and make it to be what its not

When you've been in the real love, i mean love love  . .mutual love, unselfish love and patient love and enduring love and understanding love and trusting love

Believe me, you'll not want to look back, and you'll see what a desiring feeling it is.

The problem today is that everything that waves by is termed love . . if its "a victim of love" in the sense of being very much in love with someone who is in love with you, there's absolutelty nothing wrong with it

Being a "victim of love" in a case that you're used, dumped, and left heart broken, then its a different story altogether

But this poster's case is the first instant, hence my answer

Your brother is a catch

But i'm yet to decide a name for you - - its your kind that put evil thoughts to a relationship and talk them to a break up, why? because you stick your nose where it shouldnt be What biz of yours is it if he hasnt seen her bra? *bussybody*

If both of'em are happy where and how they are, buzz off!!!

Love is a good thing to be a victim of, but how could you know, when you're busy moving from spot to spot looking for who sees pants and who doesnt see boxers

Not in a billion years






Are you (a) gentleman/lady-like

Most creative

There is time for everything . . .

@ ayosomething

God bless you too dear Don't worry, take your time, you might just need a week, or 2 months, or 3 days to come to terms with it. Either way pray about it too, I'm sure you'll get the courage and will if he's the one for you.
If hee is, I'm sure he'll be waiting for you, it goes both ways . . if you're his, then after your mind is made up, it'll be the two of you walking down the isle.
Take care!!


@ luxoire
twin, why the hell are you hiding from me? You've been distant, hope evrything is ok?

@ tommy

This girl loves you, and you obviously love her too. You got to let your heart take a chance.

We're not fortune tellers, neither do we do magic Its two things, either to tell her you're not interseted, or you take the risk and see where it leads you, damning the consequences.

She might turn out to be your dream, imginations and fantacies come true, there are chances things won't work out . . but thats life, you got to do your part, hope for the best and leave the rest to God (fate).

If you ask me, I'll advice you to give her a chance, she might just be that tiny drop you need to wipe away the remnants from your past painful relationships . . but the ball is in your court dear, all in your court!! Good luck

moondust:
Cutesy whuddup?
I noticed that 2. Perhaps its the different time zones that's the issue. I think we're like 6hrs ahead or behind u guys. but the good thing is u're online now.
so How u dey?
Thanks for sending the mail o!

On the contrary, we're just one hr ahead of you guys . just that i've been kinda busy with work and on tuesday when i was opportuned to be here, the internet line in town was being worked on, so i was handicapped sort of! And yes oo, its a good thing we're both online now but i have to dissappear for an hr and half or so, hope you're online then, but if not, we'll catch up tomorrow Cos tomorrow i'll be online the whole evening

And about the mail, i apologise, i know you were just being sarcastic - - - but i'll make it up

Gollum:
do you think sex befor marriage is right!

Some will say "yes", and some will definitely say "no" . . but

Define "right" dear??

If you mean "right" in the biblical and moral sense of it, then its a biig "no, it isnt right" the bible is against "fornication"

But then we're human, some who didnt want to, have ended up doing it (the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak ), some feel like and did it , and then there are some that have been mandated or should i say forced againt their will to do it (Raped)

Don't do things because someone else says so, but because you find it right or wrong to do or not do respectively!!
What do you think then??

Seun:
Perhaps he's afraid that, as a young woman, you might soon change your mind and fall in love with a younger man.

That could happen to a married lady too, that she's married doesnt stop her from being young - - - Yea i know "marriage" comes with its own share of commitment, , , , but some have gone astray!!


Its not a reason enough for her to go into it if she isn't totally comfortable with it, but i do agree that she could reassure him that she would love to be his wife but needs a Lil bit more time to adjust and get used to the idea and change!!

Is it noramal? Well yea, most things are normal

Is it advisable?? Well to each his own.


The method goes both ways, both men and women ask for opinions before making final decisions . . .

But like every other thing in life, this method could always back-fire in more ways than one. You might be led astray by your almighty "third party", things like jealousy, incertainty, grudge and deciet could be the cause , . and what do you do when it fails? Go back and konk them??

Some on the other hand have made great couples from this method, so i guess what I'm trying to say is that everything and anything could work for "A" and not work for "B", and something desired or approved by "A", might not be "B"'s ideal way of life.

But it doesnt make it any more normal or abnormal, its just a thing of prefence and choice . .  

aysometin:
Please i need all the positive advice i can get

Dearie then you don't want the truth, in as much as there migth not be any negative responses to your problem, you have to open your mind and heart to whatever advice you get, whether good or bad and then weigh them up against each other

Well if you ask me, you have nothing to fear or worry about. Your case sounds like a catch, some girls' wildest dream but no matter what anybody says, its your whole (or almost) future we're talking about here. You got to be 100% or at least 98% sure of the big step you're about to take.

You can't go into marriage just because the whole of your family and nairaland says so, neither should you go into it until you're totally cool with the pace of things. If you think its too early, or that things are going too fast then tell him howyou feel. Tell him you need some time to agree with yourself that you're taking the right step in the right decision.

I'm sure he loves you enough to see reasons with you, what difference does it make anyway? you're together and happy  . . and what topps both of you being at the altar and you saying "I DO" with all your heart, body and soul, , , , magnificent!!

Take your time sweetheart, its not an "maybe", or "i think so" thingy . . its a "I couldnt be more sure" thing, its got to feel right in every sense of the word.

I'm happy for both of you, and i wish you all the good things of life!! Take care hun

littlekim:
Thanks a bunch, be rest assured am going to put the advices to good use. And more advices please?

Good, I'm so relieved and delighted to hear that.

When you speak, try to not be that concious, dont always try to be aware of yourself, just speak. If you know that language you speak perfectly, think of how you speak it. You don't really count your words, do you?? I don't think so.

There lies some of it, speak freely, and the rest will follow suit, God luck dear

Well well well, from all indications and expressions, you're good at written english, your problem is the oral part.

I suggest you induldge more in novels, and private practise. Atimes while reading the novels, read them out loud to yourself. It might be some esteem problem or that you know what to say, but your nervousness to make mistakes is what is drawing you back.

So i say "practise makes perfect", be more confident in yourself . . and dearie I'm not giving you these points oo, to think "yea yea", i challenge and expect you to put them into action oo.

As sad as it makes you, use that same effort to make a different, you got it in you, you juat have to prove you're up to the task.

Like i said, read lotsa novels, practise to yourself, and be bold to express it . . you can do this hun!!

Ikomi:
Look man this is no question. Life is full of commitments, there is no easy way out. If u love him/her then the body odour is the challenge u must stick by and resolve, find out why him/her has a body odour and and help find the solution, it doesn't even end there u help execute the solution.

You want to hear evryone tell u to move on, well the next person ud be moving on to would have his/her own problems, then u going to post another topic, like lets say "she/he talks too much, and it turns me off what should i do." I think u young men of this days just don't want to be commited to anything.

Gosh, you nailed it right on the head, didnt miss by an inch

Exactly @ poster, thats what love is all about oo . . helping the person you claim to love resolve their faults and problems. You just can't love all the good and when its time to really put some work into action, you start looking for the easiest way out. Nope, it doesnt work that way!!

If their hygiene is bad, make them know the importance of good hygiene and what to do about it. They should wash their body thoroughly, taking extra notice of the counting parts like under her armpits, down there (you know now), if the person sweats easily (even if she doesnt sweat easily) to produce sweaty odour, then deodrant should be their best friend. Nothing beats the smell of freshness, be it female or male.

Help her through it, stick to her when she needs you most, be there when it really counts . . the body odour will disappear, but most importantly, your love will grow stronger.

So go start working on your latest project, its bound to succeed with the right effort

moondust:
Hey cute ass wassup?

Dearie I'm fine oo, i wonder whats happening these days, when you're on, I'm off and vice versa. We got to diminish that problem ASAP


        *clears throat*

Ndi igbo siri na ô ônye di ndu kôrô akukô agha
Only a lving person, will get to give the details of the war

                  I'm waiting

My people na so i see am oo: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-62636.0.html 


@ poster

While you're at it, master patience to complete your sentences abeg You leave them hanging, and to our imaginations to add up the rest. We're not as bored as you are, you can imagine the time we're wasting to do that!!