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Buhahahahahahaah . . lying runs in the "family", if they would still remain one after the woman's lie

Her's is definitely the drop that broke the camel's back

echelon:
Cute-ass you are scarce here: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-43635.1216.html

Lol, thanks for reminding me. I should try to buckle up

He is cute, handsome, gorgeous . . he acts well too, maybe not the best actor, but his acting is ok. His name is Van Vicker, and he's Liberian and Dutch by birth, but grew up in Ghana. Married to Adjoa and has two daughters with her, Jdyl and Jian.

The lady is very pretty, has a nice voice and is a very good actress too. Her name is Nadia Buari, she's of Ghanaian and Lebanese descent. Not married, but engaged.

Nothing about pregnancy and sex is as safe as 100%, there's always "a chance/probability". You could never be too sure unless you've been pronounced barren/impotent.

So the answer to your question is . . YES, its possible she could be pregnant. What i'd advise your friend and his girl to do is go go for a blood test at the doctor's, short and simple.

@ poster

First of all, your gender reads female . . are u lesbian, bisexual or you clicked the wrong button while signing up?

When it comes to love, my dear there's no recipe to failure or success. Its like a gift, you wrap up yours and take whatever is hidden in the package. You can only hope, pray, wish and believe to find the right person who'll keep your heart safe.

Just make sure you go after what you want, don't settle for less, always read the hand-writing on the wall, be very careful . . the rest, you can't do a thing about but pray for the best. For some people it could take ages, for some people, its served almost immediately . . just don't give up until you gotten "there"

nana:
*Yawns* Hmm, To love comes Naturally. . .You've got to let go off the past to do that

True words!

@ annamaria

Its almost impossible not to wonder, but be it as it may, the love might have been there.

I can't vouch that i'd take a heartbreak lying down, and i know its always easier seeing it from the other side of the room, but honey the fact that someone loves you doesn't make them above the act of hurting you, and no matter how we try not to hurt the ones we love, sometimes its inevitable Cos we're human. Its only saddening that some mistakes are too costly that our hearts are too heavy to forgive them . . (too late to apologise - one republic)

Just being curious, was your heart just broken? If yes, please do take heart. It hurts as hell, but you'll be fine. You might never be able to go deep into his heart to confirm if for sure if he truly loved you, or whether he loved you for the right reasons, . . one thing you could do though is appreciate the good happy moments, look past the ugly awkward ones and try to move on. Easier said, but not impossible!

[quote author=top_kin link=topic=129457.msg2199933#msg2199933 date=1209337995]Sorry cute-ass, i know how if feels; i've been there. cheer up [/quote]Thanks for the cheer dear, they say "time heals wounds". Mine hasn't healed and its been 4 years, i could say its more bearable though.

My condolence on your loss too, they live forever in our hearts

It must have been love (but it's over now) - Roxette

achoudeh:
To all my ladis on this forum, please if you dnt like the way you husband trow his sheos or cloth around and you cnt pick them up for him, why not go and pay bride price on a man, and tell him what to do, girl are praying day and night 4 a husband any type they will manage you that have is complaing,think well be4 you loss your home

*shakes head* at the fact that in an age like this, some people's thoughts are still very bottled up *still shaking head*

Chei, its a pity

@ achoudeh

Its amazing you typed "bride-price", are you sure you didn't mean to say "slave-price"? I thought it was a companionship they were seeking, so why should girls be the ones to "manage"?

But on the other hand, we all have different definitions to what "marriage" is . . to each his own, i guess

Bring my late brother back to life, I still miss him like it was yesterday . .

oj62002:
i am a young man in my late twenties, i have a good job and doing well. But the only problem i have is that i don't have a steady girlfriend, most of the girls in my life just come around for the fun they could get and not for steady steaming relationship. if you are a female, cool and goodlooking ready for a steady and long lasting relationship. hala me on 08037892535.

My dear, it is said that if you don't know when the rain starts beating you, you never realize when it stops.

Have you ever sat back to wonder why they only come around for "the fun"? Are you sure you're not sending out the wrong message?
And you said "most", so whatever happened to the "few" rest"?

It is very acceptable on either of two conditions:

1) Each girl in the group knows she's not your one and only, yet accepts to be your sex-partner.

or

2) You're being a player alright, but you're ready to accept that your dream-girl or future wife will have loads and lots of boyfriends (whatever it is you define "girlfriends" as)

As long your actions are contrary to both, my guy be ready to reap the fruits of your labour sooner or later

The guy is not being sincere yet, that's enough reason for you to run.

Not only did he lie about the girl's identity, he covered up their atrocities for over a year. To make matters worse, instead of him to own up to his mistakes like a man, he blames the girl. Sorry to say, but he's very immature too.

Who is he trying to fool? The girl wanted to tie him down for marriage?? Did she tie him to the bed to have sex with him? Did she force him to do it without protection? If so, why on earth would he be having sex with his "cousin"? Who forced him to lie to you about her identity in the first place? Why did he wait for a year and . . to tell you about it all??

I have one question for you though . . Could you possibly live with this guy as your husband, throwing all doubts to the pigs; trusting him with all your heart; not wondering if where he says he is, is actually where he is?

Until you hear the girl's side of the story, you don't know the "heaven on earth" he promised her before he got her pregnant. But after all that, why won't he claim his own fair share of the act, why act so adamant. She wanted to tie him down for marriage, yea right!

Girlfriend, there's no gurantee to any guy you meet tomorrow, but on the other hand . . no one sees blindness, yet chooses to be blind. Think about it!

What i don't understand is why you called him "stupid", if they're both happy and satisfied, then i see no problem.

I think they should be realistic and go for what they can afford. What use would it be to either of them if she takes the 3 bedrooms flat, and at the end of the day they can't meet up with the payment. When family show up, i'm sure they can all manage till things get totally better.

If the girl isn't happy, she has herself to blame. She knew what she wanted and went for the opposite. Secondly if she didn't want the baby, there are things she could have done to prevent it . . If she was out for a marriage-ready guy, she wouldn't have stuck to him after he told her he wasn't ready. Guess she was "hoping", well they do say "the patient dog eats the fattest bone", it might not be too late.

Another thing i don't get is what "personal reasons" he has that makes him want to live apart from his girlfriend and child??

@ zandra1

Thanks for the wishes, I wish you all that and more too.

We both happened to be in Nigeria at the same time, our parents are from same town to be precise, so we ran into each other
I later gathered he's known me since i was much younger, had a crush on me for a very long time, but never had the courage to approach me . . something i felt was God's usual way of being a master-planner . . Cos maybe if he had approached me earlier when i was with someone else, we wouldn't be where we are today.

tRoOE:
ahaha you know I like food na,but xmas we should all eat that .

Abeg jare you guys are way crazier than us

Who told you that? Continue wishing We'll have a blast together this xmas alright

@ topic

The way he buys me all these fancy hair-bands and cute hair-pins, yet he pleads i leave the hair hanging loose . . i start wondering what i'm to do with all the hair-thingys if i'm to leave the hair down, and he goes "those you can make use of when you get back to Norway"

I trip at his forgiving spirit, he forgives too easily (God knows i'll never take advantage of that)

I can't help but smile when we're out shopping with his elder sister, the way he pushes her away when he's reaching out his hand to me and she stretches hers to him,

I trip at how open he is to me, tells me everything to the tiniest detail, I simply love him for that.

I trip at the way he calls me in the middle of the day and starts singing funny love songs he composed . . not to mention with his housefly-like voice lol

tRoOE:
@Efosa Val

ahehaha Me Bitch , will let you slide because I don't want to to destroy this wonderful, but next time you won't be so lucky
@Other
Sorry for messing up the thread
@Cute-ass
Omo forget that babe jare, she isn't worth all this attention.

I already did, after my last post

BTW u and E are very crazy. Look at your mouth like "fried yam and stew" LOL.

@ everybody

I apologise too for our lack of manners

@ topic

How he'll tell me to drop back what I picked up from the floor, Cos he's the one who's supposed to pick it up.

I trip at the way he gives me honour in occassions/situations that count . . like when we were at a youth conference and the pastor asked him to sit beside him since he was the MC . . and he went "please excuse me, let me ask my wife" - - - and ofcourse i'll always say "sure baby"

I trip at the way he picks out what he wants me to wear when we're going out.

I trip at the way he tickles me when i refuse to say something he wants me to say

@ efosa val

Honey i'll pardon you Cos i understand frustration could come that hard on someone, I mean I would also be frustrated if i was dating a guy who has to have it with every girl on the street, not to mention the fact that i have to be introduced to his flock as their chair-lady . . it gets worse when i have to help replace the ones who get married along the line roflmcao . . but hey, maybe soon you'll be flying to Spain to pick up a bracelet.

Wait oo, you called me "foolish"?? This gets even more interesting and funny by the second. With all due respect ma'am, i'm not the one who thinks that since "cheating is in men's nature", a guy is doing me a favour by "cutting down" the number of his "sexual-associates" from 50 per week to 48, neither am I the one who thinks that since a guy decides that amongst all his bed-mates, i'm lucky number one, then the world is at my feet.

Stupid comments, you say? Yet you're the one threatning to shoot me through cyber . . girl, you're too much. I doff my cap for you oo, Madam "Influential family". One thing is clear though, that your guy is one lucky dude, he would never stop thanking the stars that were shinning the night he met you

@ TRoOE

How can you say she's jealous? Haven't you heard her guy can buy the whole world and everything within with his "money", and all she has to do is help him make his time-table of which girl's turn it is each night??

spoilt:
No one says its an offence punishable by death to talk to an ex. This exchange should be kept to its barest minimum in my opinion. When an ex starts blowing up your phone and showing up at every turn it should give your significant other cause for concern.
i believe in letting go . It was fun while it lasted. we'll meet in the streets, say our his and byes and move on.

I totally agree to this point of view too. Life is too short to be in a relationship and be miserable, dying in silence. A relatioship should be fun for both parties, and when the reverse is the case, its either time to make ammendments or call it a day.

To be honest, I won't accept my hubby being around his ex 24/7, though i trust him, i don't trust her. That doesnt mean i'll demand him to be enemies with her either. A balance should be met to suit parties, and yes, the nboyfriend should be considerate enough to put her feelings into consideration.

@ spoilt

Long time no see! Well i don't agree with you on the "retaliation" thingy. That could even cause more damages than she bargained for. Secondly, people who aren't compartible as lovers, could make great friendships. I'm not defendng her boyfriend though.

In as much as I agree to the fact that some hide behind the banner of "just friends", some are sincerely innocent. She mentioned somewhere that a reliable source gave her some informations about the ex in question, so they could actually be "just friends".
I honestly don't think "retaliation" is the best way out in this, i think "communication" would go a longer way to help solve the problem. Besides if she can't bring herself to trust him, then she should rather leave with dignity than the "do-me-i-do-you" mind-game. She might end up hurting herself. Besides at the end, she might loose everything, including her personality.

2dye4:
i guess atimes its good to get some fresh air, far far away frm this land.

Fresh air is refreshing

@spoilt: i really feel your point. atimes its a lame excuse used to justify clandestine intentions. but while good mite not be good enouf, evil can never make you even. serving him the same grill makes u no different from him.

Exactly my 2cents.

2dye4:
oh my gosh! . cute-ass, where the hell av u been?? u been kind of M.I.A. lately. hope your good. (back to the thread)

Dear, i can't really say where i've been Cos i've been asking myself the same question lol, guess i just needed a break. Thanks for the shout out sha, hope you had yourself a good easter celebration?


@ topic

Like he said, take it easy. You'll be fine!

didiomos:
am a girl of 24 very much in love with this cute guy. but the problem is that he still sees his ex that he dated for 5yrs and then brooke up. i talked to him about it he said they re just friends, but he sees her too often. i heard from a realible source that they are no longer dating that even the girl has a new boyfriend which my own boyfriend is aware of. But am really having this nitemare that they came back together, what do i do? please nairalanders let me hear your view for am at the edge of breaking the whole thing up but would it be wise to do such, ?

No, it won't be nice to do such.

Some people are good at staying friends with their exes, depending on how they broke up. I also understand that you could feel insecure by their closeness.

If you should act on anything, it should be your feelings, not your nightmares. And when i say "feelings", i mean genuine ones. You could try talking it over with him again, make him understand your worries, I'm sure you guys could come to a compromise, and if you still bear some doubts, and don't feel you can live with whatever agreement both of you reach, then you could weigh your options, but please do think things over thoroughly before you take decisions.  Sometimes your worst fears and thoughts could come back to haunt you at night all in the name of "nightmares"

almondjoy:
This is wonderful!

Any more serious-minded couples in the house?  Good to know that there is blissful matrimony happening in Nairaland.  Praise the Lord, praise the lord!!!!

Congratulations cute-ass!

Boyfriendsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss?  On Narialand or in reality? Never mix the 2 up ok? Even when single, there are boyfriends you just have for good time purposes. . .not for sex.  Not to talk of when you are married.  Like life begins and ends with sexing every Ade, Bashiru, Chike, Dakoru and Ekpeyong! You think say I no get work because I enjoy maself on Nairaland, I have nothing else to do than to go around acquiring some ragamuffins around town as "collectors items" in the name of boyfriendssssssssssssss to shag or dance hip hop hoooray with?  To feel like 18 again or what? Don't under-estimate me ma dear!  Objects in your rear view mirrow may be closer than they appear! Especially on Nairaland.

_{Film trick!}

Words of wisdom from an almost newly wed.  Come back and talk to me about this boredom of a thingy in like 2 years from when you say I do.

he he he he he he.  

Words of caution ma dear. . .the most successful marriages are those based on realistic expectations from each other.  Not fairy tales. I love your positive way of thinking though. . . please keep it up. It will help on the long run not the short one!

Once again, congratulations and thanks for keeping it real!

Thanks for the good-luck and congrats wishes, i truly appreciate them. More grease to your marriage  too
About the "bofriendssss" remark, i was referring to people who hide behind it so they can sleep around till they're weary, then settle down with the last suitor, just for the sake of "having kids" and going by the title "Mrs."

But in life, "to each his own", i won't judge to say its either good or bad, if it works for them, who am I to complain . . my experiment was based on myself, and the fact that i feel i can eat my cake and have it with my hubby . .!

tRoOE:
I know sooner or later you will show up on this thread .

Reading this has both brough tears and laughter, but no one will understand why expect us, Sweetie you are one lucky girl, in fact we are bought lucky .

Have told you countless times "that every disappiontment is a blessing" but this is your own blessing,and am so happy for you. God has given you the most respected, loving, friendly, down to earth man, i can go on on but how will rather save them until your wedding day.

Yea getting married at a young age is scary but it's all worth it especially when marrying the right person, which he sure is LOL I still remember the whole Engagement thing it feel just like yesterday, don't worry sha we got each other back, and am sure God will lead us all through the right path.

And let not talk about kissses, E and I still laugh about the Voicemail, lol i thought we were bad but you guys are worst.

Anyway before I go sha just want to say I love you guys

LOL, u're a very silly girl. We love you too babes

EFOSA VAL:
chai. this is all crap



i think this thread should b closed

Ofcourse you think so, dontcha hun?

I understand from your posts, that what trips you in a guy is his ability of being a "ladies man" in every sense and meaning of the word. You're also tripped by the fact that in his course of being a womanizer, he finds it possible to squeeze out time to send you all the way to Singapor to pick up a wrist-watch, i get that. I can't forget to mention you tripping at his generousity  of wanting to have you when with his money and influential state, he can have any girl of his choice, yes.

Now my dear girl, if that's the criteria to your trumpet blowing, i can't be anything but crazily and seriously happy for you but that does not in any way give you the audacity to call our devoted, faithful, self-controlled men "crap", watch it hun, count your words wisely

You see, "variety is the spice of life" . . what floats your boat might not necessarily float mine, but we both have to respect each other's choices.

adeboo:
Oga o Cuteass - where is that your man from?
Is he Nigeria? Cuase all this is kind of alot o.
Its all good sha when u have someone like that u truly love.

He's nigerian to the core my dear, I can't believe it myself either, to be very honest. As a young girl, you have a thousand and one fantasies, but never in my wildest dreams would i have thought that God will send someone my way who could realise them all and add jara.

I can't thank God enough, i count myself lucky and blessed. He's the first guy i've been able to use the phrase "you're the best thing that's ever happened to me" or "you mean the world to me" on, and really mean it.

@zandra1
Girl, i'm so happy for you, big congrats from a fellow HIJC graduate. I could personally say i relate to your note of never thinking you'd be getting married at this young age, but you have to agree with me when i say that the presence of the right one in your life, eliminates and erases all possible doubts you ever had or haboured. You start seeing great reasons to why you should do what you're doing. Your mails suddenly stopped coming, guess now i know what or should i say who you were devoting your time to. In more ways than one, our guys are alike, so you'd have to bear with whatever might seem to be a repitition of what you've written. Its not duplication, just a coincidence I wish you the best of marriage life can offer and more

@almondjoy
Thanks for your advice and support to young couples, its quite encouraging. I have come to terms with and realised the fact that whatever things you want to try out with "boyfriend[b]sssssss[/b]" in the name of "dating and having fun", you can achieve with "him/her" . . . so long its the right person, you'll never get bored

@topic
We just got engaged, i and my hubby and he's just the best, second to none. Couldn't have asked God for more, and now that he's shown me how it should be done, i couldn't settle for less He lives in England, and i live all up in Norway. We grab every slightest opportunity to travel to each other, and the thought of us being together soonest, living and sharing life forever makes it easier to wait, most esp. he's more than worth every single second of it.

The question would have been so much easier if the topic was "what don't you fancy about your hubby" Cos then the answer would have been "nothing".
I could never write down all, but hey, i can list up a few.

When God created him, he made him good looking, but his dimples tickle my fancy so much. I can confess the pic. of him in my bedroom is a side-view Cos those dimples just keep me glowing.lol. The way he shaves his beard and side hairs would  trip you too. I just happily smile at the way he walks all macho-man when he's dressed in jeans, but get thrilled by the way all that changes to elegance and sophistication when he's dressed in suit and boy'o'boy does he look good on suit.

But then beauty is not all about what meets the eye, what lies in the inside counts as much and let's just say he's got what it takes and more to make me TRIP bigtime.

To everyone who knows him, he is the most caring, generous, friendly, jovial, God-fearing, respectful, loving, responsible, guy you can think of. Now let's zoom to what particularly makes my heart melt just thinking about him . . . shall we?

I trip at the way he reminds me we've not prayed before a meal, when we wake in the morning, or before we go to sleep.

I trip at the way he always wakes me up with a peck, and as i turn around (if i lay with my back to him and his arm across me) or lift up my head (if i lay with my head on his chest), get a big kiss planted on my lips, i can't help but smile.

I trip at the way he carries my handbag wherever we are or go, not minding whatever's going on in the minds of his peers.

I trip at the way he sits me down and takes off my shoes when we return home.  The way after we've walked out and on our way home, i start complaining of hurting feet from heels, he'd squat and have me climb his back and he'll carry me home (i love the smiling faces we get on his street). The tripping continues as he massages my hurting toes immediately we get home, or before we go to bed, and yes he places tiny pecks on them while at it )you'd never know what love could do to hurting body parts after you've let your partner touch them )

I trip at the way he flaunts me to friends, family and even strangers, especially when they go "his girlfriend", trust him to stand them corrected "its fiancee, excuse you", the way he kisses and pecks me constantly doesnt help my "tripping" process. He holds me hands every minute of the day while we're out . . he just makes me feel so safe in his arms

I trip at the way he always reminds me that he loves me, even though i already know. Even across a crowd, he'd mime it.

I trip at the way even after we've said our goodnights before he leaves for his night shifts, he'll call at aproximately my bedtime to say goodnight again and remind me that he loves me more than i'll ever know

I trip at the way he makes plans for our future and kids. The way he defends me when i'm loosing in a game with his siblings. The way he's stolen right into my parents' and entire family's hearts.

I trip at the way he always assists me in the kitchen, but i trip more at the way he'd plead i leave what i'm doing for some seconds Cos his system doesn't feel like he's kissed me enough for the day, and he can't hold out any longer. Believe it or not, in the middle of meal preparation, we'd kiss for minutes on end like there was no tomorrow. I know we could leave it for later but its the spontaneous action in it that's got me tripping BTW did i remember to mention he's a fantastic kisser

I trip at the way he shed tears whenver he feels like he's hurt me, how sorry he shows he is . . what i find most tripping is actually not the apology but the fact that i never have to tell him where he went wrong. He has a mind of figuring it out all on his own, all he needs is  a couple of minutes to recall previous incidents . The way he starts calling all the pet names in he world when he realises i'm mad, or the way when i want to drop the phone on him Cos i'm upset, he goes "honey, its your baby talking" . . gosh, that has a special way of melting my heart.

I trip at the way after a whole arguement where i'm pleading he let me pay for something, he now says "ok", and before i know it, the money is replaced in my purse, and when i go "honey, but you said i could pay" he replies "yea, but you payed, didnt you?" lol, he's funny! He doesn't mind being there with me while i shop all day, he loves watching me try out stuff.
The way he covers me with his jacket when i'm lightly dressed and it starts getting chilly, how he has to escort me to the bath every morning and evening when i'm going to shower, give me a kiss at the door, turn back and leave  . . if he doesn't feed me, then we've not started eating and we have to eat from same plate (he's romantic to a fault, i know)

I trip at the way we understand each other, trust and respect and honour and believe each other beyond every reasonable doubt. He doesn't have to convince me on anything, the first time he says it, i believe him with all I have. The level of sincerity and honesty flowing between us, i can't help but trip for. How he tells me i'm so pretty all the time, and each time i can see he's saying it Cos he means it

I trip at the way when we're out walking in the evening and we notice a sign of bad weather coming, we just look at each other and start running all the way home . . i trip at the way we're growing together, beging childish, responsible, a couple, in love, matured,  . . together. I love the way he brings out the whole me in me. With him, all i bring out is all I am, no reservations . . Cos he's me, and i'm him

I just trip at the way he completes me in every meaning of the word . .

. . and i could go on all night!                        PHEWW!!

@ titilaelae

That's actually a very sad story, both for the girl ("fiancee" and her family. But such is life, not a bed of roses at all.

Well if you ask me, i think you should do like other people here already adviced, put up a scene . . go make sure he still keeps to his spot, invite your friend on an outing that requires you taking that path and when you get an eye on him, turn surprised and ask "Isn't that your brother-in-law" Let fate take care of the rest . .

If you go by the decision of telling your friend directly, the chances of her believing you is slight, you might end up being an enemy to the family for a long time, being tagged the enemy of progress, seen as a pathelogical liar . . remember it would be your word against his when you lack proof and what makes you believe or think that he would own up to what you're accusing him of??

You have a chance of eating your cake and having it, the guy would be seen for the miserable person he really is, without you having to lift more than a necessary finger

Islander:
LOL, Missy I am not going to contribute anymore, since You have beaten me to it, ( how u dey?
I must say I agree with you 101%, Education is the best and ONLY way to deal with ignorant posts, Then sometimes it is too late to even administer such,

Hey hey, how are you love?? Well i'm expecting your call like TRoOE said oo, don't forget or the New-York dogs will be out for you

@ TRoOE

I salute

@ ifyalways

Thats a funny one you had up there, but sha i'm not thanking anybody for him to be honest Cos if she had turned out to be HIV+ he would have had himself (and himself alone) to blame. Who goes having sex with a stranger once, not to talk of a million times without a blood test??


@ poster

This is not the right time for you to say she isnt or wasnt a stranger . . as long as both of you have never been to a blood test, shes's a complete stranger to your sexual system

Now lets talk about your crimes . .

No 1) You really had a wish/plan/hope of marrying this girl or having a baby with her without going for an all-through test?? My guy, are you sure you're of this millenium or you're a number of "my case is different"?? And no its not just about the sexually transmitted diseases or the internal body diseases which could prevent one party from concieving but its also about being sexually compartible.

No 2) Leaving the age thingy aside, how much did you love this girl?? Not that much i'm guessing. If her disease wasn't an incurrable one, how much did you fight to make her whole and hearty?? If you really had this big dream of having her as a partner, to what extent did you fight to show her what unconditional love is all about?? Did the doctor ever tell you the sickness affects her in anyway??

No 3) How would you feel if a girl moved to another city because you accidentally broke your nose? I can't mandate you stuck with her but my dear after the long time u guys spent together and the level of intimacy you shared, don't you think she deserve(d) more than just a "lost communication" excuse Did you for once try to put yourself in her shoes?? Or you're just there for the rosy days??

To answer your question sincerely, I personally do not think you love(d) this girl beyond doubts, so yes, you did the right thing by her!

tRoOE:
Ahaha peace marker you don come

Look at this one Babes how is you doing? I'm off to bed dear, ttyt!

morenike09:
Cute-ass, you see, i understand, i would have stopped but asking rudely is not a way to get a request. if martin Luther King asked Whites for equality, rudely like Malcolm X did, do you think we'll be free now? no!!
my point is if she had asked without an attitude, i would have oblige. . .


LOL, i'll stop posting the video sha. . .and thanks for "coming in peace"
HAPPY VAL

Happy Val to you too

I come in peace . . @ morenike09, ok ok maybe she was rude, maybe not . . i feel the best way for you to show her what maturity is all about is being the bigger person and swallowing your pride if it comes down to it.

To be honest, the act of posting youtube videos on this particular thread is so uncalled for, and if everyone adopts that act, this thread will get so unnecessarily untidy, i do plead you stop. . but hey, only if you're willing to

Islander:
, don't worry, I understand. We have sooooooooooooooooooooooo much to gist about hun, Your ears will fall off. ,

I am hitting the sack now, have work tomorrow ALL DAY!!

Gosh i can't wait, my ears are aleady growing wider with the thought of the gists thanks for being so understanding . . have a lovely night rest!

Islander:
baby I am so mad at you, got all your offlines, I will call you this weekend ,

Hun why na, please don't be mad at me oo, if for nothing else, for valentine's sake

You know with the absence of my lappy, YIM hasnt been my friend lately, and ive been expeeeeeeting your call, so i'm ooking forward to weekend . . missed you sha