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saintfellow:
yeah bro.
we are saying the same thing.
you can ask her out with no fear based on her online character and intelligence.
even if you have never met her in person.

mehn it's just risky, to me tho. I know why i'm saying that...


Ah mean how can you tell she ain't making a fool outta you?

IamLEGEND1:
Social media?
ain't nobody got time fo' that shìt now.

I'm broke enough as it is,kerosene don finish for my stove and my garri is almost finished too. na me go use my own two hands send one faceless mofo recharge card?

at least if you show up on my doorsteps and ask for a reasonable amount in exchange for romp between the sheets,then I go fit reason ur matter....it is,after all,a simple case of demand and supply.
If you deliver the pùssy ,I go rob my best friend if possible to pay you.

I just don't trust all these girls again..

BiafraBushBoy:
And the truth is that most of them are as fake as my dickk when erect!!

Can never tell who is who!!

A graduate online but a jambite offline!!

#bullshit

my brother that really puts one popular female romancelander to mind... no matter how "matured" she showcases herself to be, my mind still dey tell me say na 18years old girl she be..

saintfellow:
hmmm well op i understand the reasons you have given, but personally i think the reasons you gave applies both to ladies offline.
Even if you meet her offline, you still can not know what she might be up to.
This is why i think its all about careful examination.
whether offline or online, you can't just decide to meet with a lady you don't really know or have not studied.
In naira land there are ladies that I have ask out and it all turns out to be positive and a wonderful experience.
why its so is because i ask the ones with brains out and not the brainless ones

you are right bro. But my writeup solely focuses on social media especially abt ladies i've not actually met in person.

Zaynne:
some one is stylishly seeking for people's opinion seems he os chyking someone here

you have no idea who hector is.. you really have no idea

kinggogo:
Well too bad it doesn't work 4 u buh it's d real deal to others

Dey call it internet dating

Cn u imagine dat

saying you dating someone you haven't actually gone out on a real date with.. how laughable can dat be

KissChris:
What if You actually know the lady?


That makes point 3 invalid

that will be another case entirely. My reasons apply to ladies you haven't met in person! Please take note

samincredible44:
but some couples met through social media

but they met in person na... u want to tell me now that they got married through social media?

LadyMercedes:
Don't blame the "devil" for Job's case. He was on his own, minding his business, when God decided to use Job's destiny to gamble. "Have you considered my man, Job?" Wetin bring about that one?

cmon, it's ur maker you questioning like that. Have some respect. He made you!

Love is blind, they say, but in 2016, i've come to realise that there are some things that seem laughable to me, well I should use the word "awkward" or "weird", depending on which suits you, and one of such things is Why I think Asking a girl out through social media is totally not cool.

Please be aware that all what i've written here is as a result of past experiences and me just being realistic. I wouldn't reply anyone that wants to feel funky on my thread. Now sit back and enjoy your popcorn.



OK here we go.



1. You never know what she is up to


Hell yes!. You two tell each other sweet words, you chat day and night, you call each other, but here is the thing, in actual sense, she doesn''t have feelings for you, never have, and never will.. she's out there, going on dates, cooking for a male friend, probably hanging her legs 180 degrees for people like obontami, kissing that dude who escorts her to her house in the night, and here you are, forming all lovey dovey on social media, you two haven't met! She calls you sweet names, you waste your money on airtel, mtn, glo, sending her recharge card, sending her Lil amounts of money... but yet, you two haven't met! How much more foolish could you be? You can call me slow, whatever, buh what I will never do is to ask a lady out who i've not met! It's stvpid, infact, silly, crazy or whatever name u wish to call it.




2: You have no idea about what she looks like



You fell in love with mere pictures! Not an actual human being. At this stage of your life, you should understand that pictures decieve. She might have knock kneels, she might have a bow-leg, she might not be as you programmed how she'd look like in your head, how the fvck then do u now think you as literate adult in your right senses to profess your love for her? Cmon let's be realistic for once. OK let me not sound like as if i'm hell bent on the ladies, even you as a lady, you think you have a crush on him right? Have sense for once, he might have a pot belly, he might be a cultist, he might be a pervert, he might be a serial rapist, whichever the case, never you ever ever profess you love for someone you haven't met physically. I know you enjoy his or company, but hey, calm down, take it easy. Be patient, you two will soon meet. Only after you two have met you can actually decide if you wish to go on with the love you have for him or her.





3: Because it sounds funny.


I've been a fool once, look i"ve never met this girl in actual sense, infact she was the one who wooed me.. as we progressed in the "fake love" she started making demands. And I being stvpid back then sent her money from Tim to time. I'm damn serious. Look, i've not sent my sister money, it's girl i"ve not met I will be sending money. God was seriously laughing at my naivety. When we finally met, it turned out that she is a confirmed Ashawo! If you ask me how I got to know, you are a dumb fool as I was then. That day, I ended the "fake relationship" we had. Good riddance to bad rubbish. I rather send money now to my sister than to Send money to someone who I haven't seen.




4: Because I feel it's not right to ask a Girl out on social media



Well my first three points were based on the negative side, actually I feel it's not right to ask a girl out on social media. Some ladies have actually given me the greenlight to just pop the question buh I tell them we should see first. If I ask a girl out on social media, then it means I won't take you seriously. Just as we started the relationship on whatsapp, or nairaland, or BBM, so it will end on whatsapp, nairaland or BBM. I gotta be honest.. if I truly value you, i"d walk up to you in person and say it vocally.




5: you never know if the person at the other end is truly what she says she is.



Well, so many times, I think a lot of male nairalanders have fallen victim on this. The girl you think you are crushing on might just be a hoax. Yes! A guy may be the person operating on that account, then you stvpidly ask "her" out, you stvpidly think "she" is real because you called and the smart dude gave the phone to a girl to answer making you believe "she" is real. Let's take nairaland for example, The only time you"ll be certain that someone is really behind her female moniker is when you two have met, and you require her to log into her nairaland account and you observe she is really who she says she is online.




Those who are in the same school of thought with me should share their views as well on the subject matter, I may be wrong, I may be right, but it's just the way I've grown to see it as it is.

Tosin stop lying

Tafari1:
2pac, Brenda got a baby.. Doing my own version of the music
BTW, Cutehbector ; you don price me

say wetin happen

tesla1125:
You so damn right. This piece Got me thinking

hope ur not one of those kinda ladies

hahn:

you must be silly!

Tosyne2much it seems someone stole your writeup

Talk2Bella:
At least she has someone who paved a way for her, there's nothing bad in it, without AY who for know Yomi Casual

things like Dat shouldn't get her worked up sha.. hatred might begin to just set in.. coupled with envy

Laveda:
You didn't have to bring them in.

well as long as you are part of them, things might leak...

1stGerman:
Guy you dey find job shey? Defender of the oppressed

relax but wetin make u dey display unnecessary anger? She turn u down ni?

Lol whatsapp cannot make me buy a new phone!

Is it a gay perfume

Lol she should leave her sister's place! Simple as that.

Arrange for me to be kidnapped.. den the kidnappers when caught confesses the originator of the idea came from my girlfriend..



I will so slap the other room out of her

Lalasticlala please let us be enlightened..

It's not advisable.


And please don't ask the reasons, any wise person will easily know

Laveda:
why not?

Sahara reporter. U want to expose everythn in your awon weyrey group abi.....

ItsQuinn:
No matter what you do money is been spent even if it's 50 naira.... so no one can do anything without money talk more of love

that"s your perspective! Your reply should be Queen can never do anything without money talk more of love

Toks2008:
LOL! you know i am a no holds bar freelancer and i will always present it as it is..favoritism is never my watchword.

oya keep it rolling.

Laveda:
Lol there's more to it.

Wana know all of them?

Nothing is safe in this world! Whoever listens to Drfash does so at her own risk

Toks u Berra write smth favorable