₦airaland Forum

fadilaMaikiriki:
So you must sleep with someone before you render assistance to them or even gift them something?

dummy as if na charity organization. Go and borrow air or data from mtn and know is free

U will enjoy their hospitality and hustling spirit. We are nice people but be careful in any matter related to money

Knightred:
So u are asking us how to settle her down and off her panties
so u dont have the kidney and the guts to off her panties,and u call yourself a man.SHAME ON U MR CYBERNAUT. SHAME

kid talking as if am virgin

xexofe1741:
you are been used by her to offset her financial needs

every man spend on woman whether good or bad but over spending is not allowed. Am not a dummy

Fiscus105:
Let me tell you pure truth of what's going on in her mind.

HAVING COME TO YOUR HOUSE AND SAW YOUR ROOM, SHE FELT DISAPPOINTED GOING FORWARD TO DATE YOU.
(she accepted to come wen you first invited her, cos of assistance you had be rendering, thinking you are loaded inside & outside.
"Perhaps", she even noticed you aren't the one who got the room, "or" the room not decorated to her level)

Meanwhile, she had shown you body's language that she's not interested in you again, because she believes you are not up to the kind of man she can date materially.(thats why she isn't coming to ur house again and faking sickness)

Now, since you still keep on disturbing her, she had resulted in draining you financially, using that tactics to pursue you.

Oga, any money you are sending now, you are on your own oooo

noted but not as u think. Taking a woman out on date how much do u think is off your pocket. I know my limits in everything I do

Gerrard59:
No be to say best comment kini kon. Would you still give her money for hair or say exactly what MrBrownJ stated above?

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MrBrownJay1:
here is what you should tell this babe:" hey, pls let us be honest with one another.... you want me to do all the things that a "bf" would supposedly do to his GF, but you dont do the things that a gf should to her BF. whats the deal? if you are looking for a FRIEND to help you with money then thats not me...if you are looking for a BF that helps you whenever he can/want then that MAY be me, depending on how this thing are going between us but pls, stop asking me for money as i am not that type of "friend". show me that you care about me that you want to build something with me, before asking me to care for you "like that".
BTW i am not saying that if we are in a r/ship i am gonna take care of all your financial needs, i am just saying that lovers help each other of they can...they help financially, physically, emotionally AND sexually too"

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Geovanni412:
Op,

See as small girl dey use your brain for months

Think of it this way

If you had your dream girl (Rihanna) and she was in love with you, would you treat her the way this girl is playing you.

The answer to that question is the clarity you need in this situation

am observing her and every of my observations is working out. Finding a soulmate is part of the game

thesicilian:
Personally I don't think she's into you. I think her visit to you was to size you up, maybe check out your apartment. The fact that she coincidentally fell ill when she was to visit you is a big red flag, especially since instead of fixing another day to come when she became well, she's asking for money for hair

I appreciate your input. Thanks

Sonnobax15:

Abeg if you want to give her the money,go ahead and give her and stop disturbing our peace abeg

Talking as if our advice will stop you from giving her the money las las after she has successfully pressed your mumu button

Take it easy i believe no one is perfect

jackmrandy:
I don first talk say I nor go dey comment on relationship issues. So na the money way you Wan give her make you post this? So you can not give woman money to fix her hair?

you are funny

luvgurl:
What does she do for a living?

She is into POS business and she is working for someone

Hello Nairaland,
I meet these girl about 2 to 3 months ago , we started talking and along the line we exchange contacts.

Our chatting and calls was going smoothly. Sometimes I share data and airtime for her but not regularly.

One beautiful day she ask me for a favor that I should support her financially which I acknowledge and do little for her. She thank me for that and we keep relating .

I invited her to my house which she came and I entertained her normally but no sex though I try to advance and she declined and I accept it like that. As she wanted to go back I gave her some money for her transport fare.

After some weeks about two weeks later I invited her and but on that particular day she gives excuse that she is ill and I later visit her a to see her well she is and I bought little things for her.

So, later after some days of visiting her she was asking me for some money that she was wanted to plate her hair .

Please guys, in a situation like these what's is your suggestion to me because given her the money to plate her hair is not my main problem but I want to know if she really like me because I really want to settle down .

Thanks

raskymonojendor:
What kind of girls do you get for 20k 😂

even 1k to 5k u go knack wella . Hole na hole talk more of public toilet

No future in Nigeria

Damisam93:
Thank you I was told by a Ghanian in Nigeria currently he told all I need is my National ID or NIN, so I want to be sure.

I want to leave nigeria too kindly update me because what is holding me now is cash nothing more

Ur national identity card can lead u to any west Africa country once is under ecowas . Whether u have passport or not , ur ID card serves it all

darediamond:
Ghana and Ivory Coast would be good for Bedroom Operated Bureau De Change via Banks in any of those Nations.

Do you know about what I am talking about?

More light on bedroom operated bureau de change

Who dash monkey banana?

Marry without troubles can never work fine their must be problems but the way both handle it amicably without third parties will give them happy home. Keep living together solve ur problems between both.

Baroba:
My cousin married an Nsukka girl last year, he did not spend up to 250k for the trado..

are you serious

Is hypothetical what of those killed by bandit and boko boys why not burial them in Abuja than in the bush without national honour. They die for nothing and I can't die for Nigeria

Paid agent keep your work on. Those that colonized you for decade how far

Jakumo:
Chinese nationals are utterly destroying the rivers, forests and air quality throughout Africa and the rest of the developing world. Chinese timber thieves are the single greatest threat to forests worldwide, and Chinese industries in Africa treat their African workforce like slaves.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zxh8R14kUEc

Meanwhile, Russians are looting natural resources in Mali, Niger, Central African Republic, and other nations that were foolhardy enough to welcome Russians into their countries


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qEftR0k7Bbg&pp=ygUgV2FnbmVyIEdyb3VwICBtYXNzYWNyZSBpbiBBZnJpY2E%3D


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5sDQAW_VGg0&pp=ygUgV2FnbmVyIEdyb3VwICBtYXNzYWNyZSBpbiBBZnJpY2E%3D

She think all her outlines attitude is easy to do if you is not autonomous in the person. You can't cheat nature

blacknp:
Na failed Nigerians that add no value to society they yan this nonsense narrative, no different from those Boko Haram nuisances.

Go tell Kelechi Iheanacho, Emmanuel Inwanyanwu, or Emeka Offor say you done tire for your motherland, & you want to go home, to where I wonder?

shoe get size kindly go and look for your size

blacknp:
Yes behind him, so the donations can keep coming in abi?

river niger has no gate if you like jump and vanish. Marriage is never by force we typical igbo's want to go home and we tired of these useless union called one Nigerian nonsense.

Ohamadike the brave mafia of the east. We are highly behind you. No shaking

Coup loading

Is not a must that you will live at nnewi but you can live at neighbour town like ICHIE NNEWI . You can get self con at least from 10k to 15k monthly or face me I face you for 3k to 5k . From ICHIE NNEWI to nnewi town is just N150 naira Keke.

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Ojemedad:
This will be the first time in Nigeria history where a sitting president will be pushed out of office in Nigeria, bookmark this page if only the mods won’t delete it, even US and UK will support his removal, just watch out

Which means coup is loading

TheWinterBird:
He should find a woman without kids, but if he wants to marry someone with kids then that's his prerogative.

You are right