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I don dey run mad for here [/quote]Mr admin, i do hope you have a strong rope in tact else you get charged for improper health and safety measures. 

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twinbelly..

Funny one!

T-babe

Funmiforsure

Tobiscoco

I was just wondering if we could share our nick names, popular nick names, nigerian nick names, friends and family nick names, etc.

Tanitoluwa

Ademide

Wunmi, i really feel you. Being a single parent for 10 years is a lot of hardwork in all respect - mental, physical, emotions and finances.

Many people have made valuable contributions. Cimonjorr - said it all.

My little advice goes as thus:

Never ever keep your son away from his dad! However,it may not be the best time for him to be in contact with your son as no one really knows his motives, particularly since he has been witholding his number.

I am sure every child wants to know their dad. I have been a widow for almost 4 years and i tell you! My almost 5yr old girl always ever asks for her dad. I used to tell her he had gone to be with Jesus and after a while, she started telling me she wants to be with Jesus as well so she can at least see her dad ( just to point out that every child craves to know their father) Now, i have stopped telling her that he's with Jesus as i wasnt very comfortable with her telling me she also wants to go meet Jesus.

In your own situation, your son's father is alive! At least your son can have a relationship with him even though its a shame that it has taken him a whole 10 years to show up. It is never too late! You have got to forgive him, release him and move on with your life. Its painful i agree, i may not have gone through  a similar pain but at least i can imagine what it seems for the man you once loved  to sudddenly be a beast! Forgive me if this hurts  you, i only made an illustration - not particularly directed at your son's dad.

Try your best to be the best mum you can be to your son! Make him your best friend, get very involved with his everyday life such that he is able to confide in you and tell you everything. Tell him about his dad without him feeling hurt, bitter and biased against him. You have stood for 10 years Wunmi, you've got to keep standing. Be in charge of your life and that on your son's.

Above all, pray at all times. Pray with your son too and teach him the path of Jesus Christ.

I pray that the only wise God will teach you the best decision to take at this time and always. You are blessed and highly favoured.

Its very addictive i must agree. Its not always that i get hooked-on easily but i must submit that i am addicted to NL. Its all good! Quite interesting too! Educative! Entertaining...

Welcome on board.

Well, the bible says to replenish the earth so wont be a bad idea ...

Omotilewa

Omotolajolade

Omowunmi

Omodara

Omobonijuasolo

Omolabake

Omobolanle

Omoboriola

Beautiful day it was.

Honoured a friend's invitation for a family party - its their tradition to host friends and family on xmas day.

Ate! Ate! Ate! And ate until i could eat no more.

Left there for Charlton! Another friend's party - couldnt eat much though.

Yes there is.