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Thanks HA... We're both doing great... yeah! Its been a while.... been hectic around here.... had some project deadline to sort out.... missed NL, missed your posts....

Cest moi...

Larger_20, dont be silly! ( Hey i dont mean the offensive kinda silly but the British one )

I agree with yah Erek....

Wales ( From the name Wale )

S.O.J.

Ojunla

soglo

An incest was commited in the house of David. What was the name of the offender?? And the victim How did the offender pay for his act

kaylala:
Please check out this book by the deceased.

How to choose a life partner

I read it and it was so nice

Yep Kay! Its a must-have. I have a copy too.

IAH:
Best qualities of Nairaland members? I don't really know but I know that without the following people, the forum would be really boring for me to browse through:

Ladies first so...

Hot-angel, WesleyanA, K2DaC, dablessed, snazzydawn, ocho, Vexxy(She has been silent lately )

And the guys...

Layi, nicetohave, Nddy, goodguy, Seun, C0dec, Whiteshark and recently, yemstrad. Ah! I just have to read all yemstrad's posts.

Thanks a lot IAH.

nicetohave:
Taiyelolu

Ha ha ha!

Taiwo, more like.

Tamilore

Ken and sage! Am ashamed at your reasoning. Its quite disappoining to read that you guys will not freely spend on your girlfriends unless she releases herself for sex. What do you guys take ladies for by the way? An object of prostitution? Very disappointing indeed.

keele:
yes i definitely can do it without a kiss... but.. u know theres always somthin missing in a relationship without a kiss.. T_T

There is absolutely nothing missing in a relationship without a kiss. You better believe me when i say that. There are better things you can do and achieve together than getting physical.

thelastdon:
its for adesodgi

How come you know he drips saliva in his sleep

Prinseth, it's a shame your husband batters you. I am so sorry about that. Personally, i don't counsel wives to leave their matrimonial home but this one pass me o. It appears your life is in danger, why not seek pastoral counsel as a matter of urgency?

So many mistakes have been done. For instance you should have waited until you received your parent's consent before marrying him. Parental consent is very, very vital ( even if your parents are witches )

He does not seem to trust you because one way or the other, trust was betrayed when you were courting - sex was probably not in control during courtship.

Anyway, the deed has been done and there is no point crying over spilt milk. However, for our singles, you have many lessons to pick from prinseth's case.

Wisdom is profitable to direct. May the wisdom of God avail for you in this situation.

All the best.

thelastdon:
adesoji oni lala lenu

Haba! This is a mean nick name o!

Tobilicious

Kemolala

Haba guys! Why una de run? Who is a prostitute by the way? Tell me.

Its interesting to know that a lot of guys dont want to marry a prostitute. Truth of the matter is: there are many male prostitutes out there and yet, they dont want to marry their female counterparts.

If you are sleeping with a woman you are not married to, then you are a prostitute.

@Kenflavor: Yes, it is a sin.

The fact that a guy ends up marrying a flat mate he has been fornicating with does not justify the act. Truth be told, they were first fornicators, then husband & wife.

Osuofia is a better person to tell you about London

Hot Angellyyy, you are suddenly appearing like an expert in the kissing business, please don't scare me Little sis.

@ keele: There is absolutely nothing wrong with your girl, its only normal and i would act just the same way i tell you. Here is someone whom you only started dating one month ago. For all you care, she may fall on the "no sex before marriage" class and hence no kissing, petting and necking. Besides, she may not have attained that much of confidence to kiss you on the lips.

My advice: Talk about it. You must win her confidence to share her fears with you, she may even have had a bad childhood experience on kissing. We can only consider the most likely reasons as to her refusal to kiss you, only her can let you know the exact reason and the only way for you to know is to get her talking. However, in doing this, apply much wisdom, do not force her to talk and never make a squabble out of her unwillingness to share her fears in this regard. Be patient and i tell you, with time, she will open up and let you know  her fears.

All the best

Very well said Layi. I sincerely Wish there were more men on the same path of reasoning. Well done and keep the hold on brother, you will have no regrets you did.

Kenflavor: What exactly are you saying? Will you or will you not have sex before you marry your woman?

nicetohave:
I concur sage, whatever floats your boat and that sure floats mine, sex may seem ordinary but they are a far more concrete destiny shaping event, having sex before marriage and eventually getting married is like having a "carry over" into the marriage that will require a conscious and concerted effort on the part of both parties to "clear" it---it goes beyond an organsm.

Tell them.

It very well goes beyond having many orgasms.