₦airaland Forum

Wagasigiungu:
Hello sir. I am yet to be able to distinguish between granite and gravel. In my location, they break the rock chippings from rocks/mountains around the area. We buy directly from the labourers who break them and collect them in heaps. Are these considered granites or gravel? I strongly believe its the former though.

The picx attached is an example of such chippings.

Chekitaut:
Thank is granite, granite are crush limestone while we have two type of gravel, Bush gravel and wash gravel actually wash gravel is from bush gravel but is better than unwashed gravel.

Sterope:
I thought a woman is meant to minimise her ambition to take care of the family...is she not again? You can't eat your cake and have it. She deserves something for spending the time she could have used to develop herself to take care of the family. And if you do not like it, are you willing to share family chores with her, take time off for your kids, attend their social events and take paternity leave? Those responsibilities affect ambitions. It is selfish to expect her to maintain the home and make money at the same time. She doesn't need to maintain the same lifestyle she had while married but she surely deserves a slice of the cake. For housewives, they deserve more than a slice.


If there is one thing I know about life, it is time. Wait for it and let's see if the reforms won't happen. I pray we will live long to witness it.

What will women not 'cook up', just to gain an advantage?

But a "supportive and failthful" wife deserves everything her husband can shower on her.

Reference:
Unbelievable... just four years...

But the Brazilian scouting system is just first class, the way they manufacture these talents is just amazing.
Here in Nigeria, with over 150 million people they cannot manage to find a half decent striker to pair a washed out Ighalo. All we do is look for is finished products of mixed perantage whose only claim to performance is the better environment theygrew up in.

Tell me in four years what will Gabriel Jesus have learnt in Brazil to make him start as top 9 for the 'Selecao'. The boy is just raw talent, period. We on the other hand want 'foreign based professionals' even if he plays in Azerbaijan and cannot control a five metre pass and when we cannot we will recycle old cargoes till tjey can barely walk.

We have serious mental problems in Nigeria.

Elder001:
I'm still surprised that the Nigerian lawmakers we all know will pass such bills.. seems like they don't know the implications.

95% of nass is made up of men.. still don't understand how these bills got passed.

Especially northern lawmakers... if they could pass this bill in 2004 why didn't the same NASS pass the 2014bill which would've allowed females to inherit properties in Nigeria?.

between the two which is more dangerous?

sounds funny... The same Nass that voted enmass 80% to flush out the bill that would've allowed females to inherit parents properties in Nigeria because of religious and tribal nonsense.


Nass of this century knows what's up..


Those reforms you're waiting for ..you must be dreaming.

Other than child support women shouldn't benefit any other thing from divorce... unless they contributed in acquiring a particular property then that one can be shared.

Nobody is barring you guys from making money and acquiring your own properties during the duration of marriage.


LOL, YOU HATE ME SO MUCH THAT YOU WANT ME TO DEVELOP HBP?

free your heart from the hate you have for me and you'll realize I'm a good person.

adorable29:
Nigerian women are waking up. They are running away from Nigerian men who are mostly unfaithful, unexposed, unenlightened, diabolic, arrogant, women haters, wife beaters, bullies and all round emotionally and physically abusive men who believe wives are slaves and maids to them yet never appreciates them but curse them daily

I wish all the oyibo women can come swap places and come to Nigeria to be with our men while we go be with their intelligent creative caring and woke men. :

Who knows how I can get my own God given oyibo man that I can take care of as an African wife!


Some one will quote me crying now!

All these adjectives, just to describe Nigerian men, hope you see who is crying out aloud?
Chai, you don suffer for the hands of Nigerian men o! I really pity your situation. (crying)

Wait until the Oyinbo man muster the courage to do a DNA test, will he know the kind fo "Scammers" most of you Nigerian women are.

mr1759:
How all these Oyinbo take they satisfy our vibrant healthy women for bed to the extent that they stay happily on the marriage, I thought they said their joy stick is either small or weak?

sausaone:
And why is this news?

amethystnnty1:
Brilliance!
I would have stopped at just giving you one like for this comment but that wouldn't be enough.

Marriage was never about men or the benefits he gets out of it though some infinitesimal few might (not something I believe) but mostly about women who get all their reason for existence from it and I'm talking about through all history not just the modern times. Men have always been utility for women and subconsciously or consciously women are aware of it.

This is why they rarely if ever get hitched to Someone who doesn't offer a better life or the life as they currently have it. Nothing was and will ever be done for the man that is not directly or indirectly for her.

I know the realization won't be what they think they want when we all get the equality FEMINIST think they're pushing because in a relationship of equals why would anybody deserve to get anything that isn't theirs.

P.S: IF MARRIAGE EVER GET TO BE THE OPTION I TAKE TO PRESERVE MY GENETIC LEGACY IT WOULD BE TO A FEMINIST WHO FOR ALL INTENTS AND PURPOSES WOULD LOVE EQUALITY, NOTHING GIVEN THAT IS NOT EARNED

Ziggylady:
I honestly do not see the need for your immature and emotional out-bursts and insult,are you that small-minded.obnoxious and horrible??...Is it that you cannot have a civil conversation without behaving like a frustrated and enraged bull in a China shop??...I never insulted you nor was i even talking to you,only for you to jump down my throat like a tout with insults in tow.

.. Eveything you said is basically bullcrap cos if you think you can walk into an American Embassy or an European one seeking for a VISA as a Nigerian in Nigeria,fill a form and claim you are married or have a 'partner' and they will believe you without hard evidence,then you have another thinking..

They consider Nigerians as pathological liars and career fraudsters whose words and claims should be taken with a pinch of salt until proven innocent .

My Pre-nup statements are on-point cos most males in Nigeria intending to marry are actually poor dudes with nothing much to boast of interms of material acquisition so what nonsense 'terms of agreement are they signing..to protect what really??..their 8inch foams,stove,boiling rings and fans?...pleasee!!!!!..Majority are still poor after 30years of marriage so laughter is all i have for 'pre-nup' Nigerian agitators.

teebee22:
he has to and wat does he even need the original for? if he is not been pushed by bad influence. u sure know she will keep it safe if its with her cos its her right and the man can easily destroy that right cos he has nothing to loose.

Saff:
shut up. Cow. All have something to say, gossiper.

ken543:
so what is she trying to prove.

tete7000:
People go into marriage thinking it won't last. Marriage built on foundation of sand of distrust and mutual suspicion. Na by force to marry if you already from inception thinking it is not going to work? Devil has indeed taken over the hearts of people and enslaved them with his reign of fear.

Ziggylady:
True talk sis..Imagine doing only traditional marriage like one is a herbalist and fore-going court marriage..Story for the press!!...

What then is the evidence to the state we are married??...Marriage Certificate issued by the court is what embassies even require and recognise....and like you said,churches legit churches insist on Court marriage before they wed one in church..

P.s..is actually funny how some guys who 'managed' to agree to Court marriage are talking about 'pre-nup'....'Pre-nup' in their one-room apartment with one mattress,stove,TV and fan

9ja males and their delusions no go kee me

Unlike the Nigerian woman/wife, the moment she decides to marry, her eyes are already on the property you are yet to acquire and being who they are, that she would bring you a 'bastard' child from a cheating relationship with your neighbour, driver or ex-lover, is almost certain.
So, she needs to tie you down properly with a registry marriage, with the assurance that one day, her shennanigans would be revealed.

Bojc7:
If she, @omega, writes like a teenager, then u write like a toddler!
A woman spends 20 solid years in ur crib raising u a dynasty and in ur elderly (sic) wisdom ufeel she shd leave ur house exactly as she came? I guess she also entered d marriage with those children from Siberia, shey?
Jesu!
Indeed women have suffered in our hands.
SMH!!!

moscobabs:
Like how much can a man spend to get a divorce lawyer in Nigeria pls

Enice:
for a marriage to be recognised in Nigeria, you have to register it with the appropriate authorities. The local governments are the recognised authorities according to the constitution to issue a marriage certificate. The certificates they issue is the same whether you perform church marriage or registry marriage. Some churches collect a booklet of this certificate from the LGA and issue to those getting married for a fee, part of which is remitted to the LGA. Other church ask the couples to go to the LGA themselves to collect the certificate, after the marriage in the church, the couples return the certificate to the LGA. So stop decieving yourself, be it church or registry, so long as your marriage is registered, you have to go through a divorce in court to break up a marriage.

bebe2:
BUT why are u pple so evil?

Why do u always think like zombies?

So u marry a woman for twenty years, she has kids for u, looked after them while u work, cooks for u , cleans for u, wash ur clothes, U have two houses , in the case of divorce u can not give her one? Are u ok?

Where do u want her to start from?

Elder001:
Flee from any woman that request for Registry Marriage.

The issue of sharing of properties cannot come in except the wife claims that as a relief in her answer to the petition for dissolution of marriage.
The law assumes that settlement of property and maintenance is an ancillary relief which a man owes his wife if he files for divorce.


For example a man file for divorce after 20years of marriage to his wife.

The law assumes he's the one filling for divorce after she has given him 20 years of her life.
She may even throw in how she supported him(even if it's not financial support) and performed wifely duties to him. The law assumes the man can't leave her with an uncertain financial future (I still don't know whether this implies if the woman is rich.. didn't see anything like that though) after she spent two decades building his.

If she claims for settlement of properties in the marriage, the judge usually would look at the circumstances of the case and facts supplied to reach a decision on what to give her.
Judges have a wide discretionary power to settle matrimonial properties as it deems just to do so.

The judge has a discretion to award reliefs sought by parties in a divorce proceeding, according to the facts and circumstances of the case at hand.
If she specifically ask that she shares in the matrimonial properties and the facts and circumstances makes it justifiable that she does deserve a share, the court will order that.

The law doesn't care about who owns what or what anyone brought into the marriage.

The court can order settlement I. e share any property belonging to any of the parties on the request of the woman.

Nigerian law considers marriage as a partnership.

The law assumes when the partnership finally end, nobody leaves empty handed except the woman didn't specifically ask for anything.

Julietcutie:
lol no need for her to struggle I would just give her the ring the groom gave me and leave

Gloriawinning:
Of course they were meant to lose , why won’t they lose when Muslims are killing Christians , herdsmen killing children nd women , our youths dying on the road . Igbo people hates everybody and everybody hates Yoruba. We are not suppose to even attend the event sef , there is instability in our land! make Buhari withdraw them jare

ernieboy:
not really, our attack is so blunt it makes them look good, can u imagine when the eagles win the ball instead of breaking on a counter they slow down the game allowing the Croatians to fall back.

dinggle:
Coach should have remove etabo and left Alex Iwobi..

dumie:
Mikel is overrated and the refree is so partial

resurgent2019:
Take it easy. The Nigerian project has clearly failed.

It’s left to individuals to save their generations.

SoftP:
Garbage in garbage out' while others were busy stractegizing, they were sampling green house jerseys. Now is the reality, they are confused.

While will Africans always remain backward. So damn hate this black race