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Which one be foreign job? Or you mean remote work?
My guy needs hand job

zelnababa:
hmm what is Fair there?

CodeTemplar:
what is she doing with 80k or 250k? No kids yet o. She is not looking to do any form of business.

Go and price how much it costs these days to do hair, eyelashes, pedicure, manicure, bleaching cream, etc. What are you saying sef

Jughead29:
Nice one.... It's only in Nigeria that problem will keep pilling up.

In US under the Law, you cant invite people for interview without giving them the Job.

Which US law? Funny guy

tuzle:
is that why she should be demanding 250k? When did relationship become a transactional something. Imagine giving someone u aren't married too yet 80k out of 800k but she wants to collect 250k. Many workers in Nigeria self don't even earn up to that but someone's daughter want to earn that for free. The chat the op posted isn't complete, there is a part the guy told her to tell her dad or brother to give her that amount, then he was like oh they can't because they still even use to collect from him. Although I don't believe the chat sha.

Well, those are her conditions. He has the option of walking away. Real G's don't put no girls on no salary. Ridiculous

malvisguy212:
your mother will be very sad with the way you reason. ...if you place your girlfriend on 250k monthly salary. how much will you give your mom ? 5k ?

you are a disappointment to your mom.

may God protect her from you.

I won't place any "girlfriend" on any salary. Real G's don't roll like that. As for my mammy, she has more than enough, doesn't need mine

CrownLands:
Yes! She's "considerate". She for àsk for 50/50. After all, what is his's is her's and what's her's is her own!

Nobody is forcing him to have "girlfriend". Pay her or leave her alone

GodisStriking:
Homosexuality was more commonly accepted and recognized in pre-colonial Nigeria, with many cultures and communities having traditions and practices that recognized and respected gender diversity and same-sex relationships. However, with the arrival of European colonizers, including the British, many traditional practices and beliefs were suppressed or forbidden, and homosexuality became stigmatized and criminalized in many parts of Nigeria.

People were preoccupied with survival and proving themselves in society. Homosexuality simply was not an issue in traditional Nigerian society. Life was about proving yourself in society, part of which was marrying many wives. Traditional Nigerian society was not homophobic at all because there were virtually no Homosexuals.
I DON'T KNOW WHY THERE ARE SO MANY GAYS AMONG WHITES!!!

Kingri:
Why will you give your girl friend 250k in the first place

Or 80k for that matter. Why real G's don't do "girlfriend". They know it's a scam. If you must, then 250K is quite reasonable

23jerryking:
From your moniker one could tell expressly how foolish you really are. This is the real definition of "woman wrapper". Keep simping on, in the end they'll still trash you in the bin.

Woman wrapper is the person doing girlfriend. Real G's don't do girlfriend

BALLOSKI:
SIMPle man!

SIMPle man my ass. Is it by force to have girlfriend?

kevwemike:
are u feeling fine?

I'm feeling great. Thank you. It's not by force to have girlfriend

Mood11:
Is being a girlfriend a job position?
Is relationship a scholarship scheme or a poverty alleviation program?
He is already giving her #80,000 for personal upkeep which is more than the newly approved minimum wage.
That’s 10% of his salary.
Why is she demanding for #250,000? Is she handicapped?
Did he adopt her because he is dating her?

Well, like I told u, girl didn't ask to be your girlfriend. You pursued her, she didn't pursue u. You then have to meet her conditions or keep moving

Much of Messi was DiMaria

Mood11:
Imagine placing demands on the money that someone else has given Time, Efforts and Energy to earn. If this is not a type of mental illness I don’t know what else to call it.

I am ashamed of the level of worthless sense of entitlement and pride some girls exhibit in recent times.

She was minding her business, doing just fine when you insisted on making her "girlfriend". Well "girlfriend" comes with certain conditions

elvhinzey:
Girlfriend not wife

Quite reasonable 250K. Some men give more to girlfriend than wife

GodisStriking:
While there are many cultures within Nigeria that have long and complex histories of gender fluidity and inclusion, it is difficult to provide a comprehensive list as cultural practices and beliefs can vary greatly even within the same ethnic group. However, here are a few examples:

1. Igbo culture: The Igbo people of Nigeria have historically recognized the concept of "Nzuko," which refers to a council or a group of individuals within a community who are recognized as having a special status due to their perceived spiritual or social powers. These individuals often had the ability to cross gender boundaries and were respected within the community for their wisdom and knowledge.


2. Hausa culture: In the Hausa culture of Nigeria, the term "Yan Daudu" refers to people who are assigned male at birth but adopt a female gender identity. Yan Daudu individuals often wear women's clothes and play traditional women's roles within Hausa society, including singing and dancing. They are recognized and respected as being neither male nor female, but rather occupying a third gender category.

3. Igala culture: The Igala people of Nigeria recognize the existence of a third gender category known as "Kambirin Dabo."

4. Urhobo culture: In the Urhobo culture of Nigeria, cross-dressing and the recognition of individuals who transcend typical gender roles have been practiced for generations. Urhobo society has traditionally recognized the existence of a third gender category, known as "Effiong."

5. Edo culture: In the Edo culture of Nigeria, cross-dressing and the recognition of individuals who occupy a third gender category have been practiced for centuries. These individuals are known as "Ibeji," and they often play a significant social, cultural, and religious role within Edo society.

6. Yoruba culture: In the Yoruba culture of Nigeria, the concept of "Afaaniyan" refers to individuals who are assigned male at birth but adopt a female gender identity. These individuals often play important roles in Yoruba society, including in religious ceremonies and traditional dances.

7. Nupe culture: In the Nupe culture of Nigeria, the concept of "Amara" refers to a third gender category that was traditionally recognized and respected within Nupe society. These individuals often played a significant cultural and religious role within the community.

Nothing you said here means homosexuality. I told you right at the beginning that there always were one or two curious males in Nigerian ancient tradition who cross dressed. They were seen as harmless eccentric oddities. There was no homophobia just as you won't have racism in a place where there are almost no blacks.
Just believe me, homosexuality was almost nonexistent in ancient Nigerian culture - it's not even alluded to in their traditional stories, art, , paintings, carvings, etc

Sounds fair to me. At least she did not ask for half

GodisStriking:
Christ was crucified for the sodomite religion of Egypt

How? They forgot to put this in the Bible

GodisStriking:
You're not even talking me at all but whomever may read this you want to deceive them. Homosexuality was rampant in Africa before the white European arrived and was shocked at what he saw even though the English white man was a big homosexual too. . The few odd balls you speak of are the ones who don't engage in Homosexuality because the majority did so. I'm not assuming that everyone engaged in homosexuality back then or even now that it is still rampant in Africa.

I have too much documentation to engage in silly debate with you on this subject.

You are not talking about my part of Africa that I know very well. Africa is vast. Who knows what goes on in some.remote part of Africa. But I know Nigeria and there is such thing as oral tradition - oral history that goes way back. It deals with EFERYTHING no matter how abhorrent. You don't hear anything about homosexuality. It simply wasn't a noticed part of Nigerian ancient culture. But of course that is only Nigeria. When you say "Africa" be specific what part of Africa

Chinkoalhaji34:
Why are we always quick to point fingers?

Obasanjo should remember that the issues with fuel subsidy didn't start today. Tinubu is trying to navigate through a maze of challenges left behind by previous administrations.

trutharena:
Obasanjo is just trying to stir the pot. Nigerians are moving forward with President TINUBU’s vision for a better economy!

Yeah but read below why it was never what it seemed

GodisStriking:
On this you lie.

Your embarrassment is part of your agenda.

Let me put it this way : the part of Africa I know - Yoruba, Igbo, Hausa, never had any appreciable homosexuality. Women married other women to have children for them but there was no homosexuality involved. Men were warriors, busy competing who'd have more wives and wealth. The issue of homosexuality simply never arose

GodisStriking:
I have never committed an act violence or layed a insult ever towards anyone that is a homosexual. What I did instead was exposed the Homosexual Agenda and all those closeted secret societies members. VP Kamala Harris pushes LGBTQ and and as a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority is a Harlot.


African men are homo phobia who suffer internal hatred for Homosexuality even though it is their religion and culture. They attack gays violently in the streets and kill them outside of court of law which masks their own homosexuality.

Why your treatise on Africa and homosexuality doesn't hold water is because these things get passed down despite Christianity. Africans' rejection of homo is NOT due to Christianity - it is their culture. But there have always been a very small set of curious individuals who cross dress and whom everyone tolerated and allowed to be

GodisStriking:
Yes, that is correct. The book "Boy Wives and Female Husbands: A Study in African Homosexualities" by Stephen O. Murray and Will Roscoe documents several African societies that had LGBTQ-type practices before colonial times. The book explores a range of same-sex practices and identities, including male-male marriages, female-female marriages, and ritual gender transformation. The authors examine over 40 African societies in various regions, including Angola, Botswana, Kenya, Lesotho, Mozambique, Namibia, South Africa, Tanzania, Uganda, Zambia, and Zimbabwe.

Pre-colonial India (before the British colonization in 1858) had similar practices to Africa in terms of LGBTQ identities and practices. Some of these practices include:
Third gender: In ancient Indian mythology and culture, the concept of a third gender, known as "tritiya-prakriti," was recognized and incorporated into society. This third gender included individuals who were neither male nor female and often filled important cultural and religious roles.

Same-sex relationships: Several ancient Indian texts and epics, including the Mahabharata and Ramayana, include references to same-sex relationships between male characters.

All good and finr, but it'll make more sense if you're stating all these as a gay man out to normalize homosexuality than still pretending you're straight. Just come out of the closet. The sky won't fall

achorladey:
He just wants to impress us with the crammed Bible knowledge packed into his brains

Exactly like a robot. If you bring up something he wasn't programmed for he'd have to go back for more programming b4 he gets back to you😅

Prosper1912:
Which one did fail?

Which one succeded?

chatinent:
Just look! Because things have gotten so worse, OBJ now seem to appear a saint as if things were good in his time! It was still worse...it has never been better in Nigeria.

This is actually NOT true at all. Obasanjo was president 1999 to '07, this below is from '03. You can NEVER have anything close to this today

GodisStriking:
Sodomites love debate. This is spoken of in Roman's Chapter 1. I am not here to make you believe so believe what you want.


Kamala Harris will be the next U.S president because Democracy is the most rigged political system. Dead people used in voting, children and even fake mail in ballots printed in other countries then shipped to the U.S. The entire election is a circus.

You don't understand. It is obvious to everyone, except yourself maybe, that you are homo or have homo tendencies that you're fighting. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that anyone obsessively preoccupied with, say, AIDS, either has it or suspect they may have been exposed to HIV. Healthy people who have never engaged in any risky behavior and who never will, will NEVER sit around obsessing about AIDS.

Another thing, I don't understand your type is your total lack of imagination. Can't you picture in your mind a little boy growing up, has parents, classmates, teachers, doctors, etc. Now this little boy later turns into a girl. How do you, in this day and age, keep ALL those people quiet about her sex. Even merely comming out as gay, some parents disown their children. WHY would they and everybody who knew the little boy not constantly remind the world that he was born a boy??
NA WA FOR YOU O!!!
It's as if you and your ilk don't think at all, simply refuse to think!

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Sladem05:
That’s not true because Nigeria has the 15th highest suicide rate on earth.

https://africacheck.org/fact-checks/reports/nigeria-ranked-15th-world-suicide-lesotho-tops-african-list

Nigeria does have a higher suicide rate than most countries on earth.

6 of the countries with the top suicide rates are in
Africa.

It’s mostly social and political factors like poor governance, no access to mental health support, insecurity, strength of the rule of law rather than economic factors. People are killing themselves because of the state of affairs.

So you agree that Nigeria was NOT low due to undereporting otherwise we'd have stayed low faceland. Anyway, we're discussing THIS thread and the suicide rates here on this thread. And as you can see from below Nigeria (circled) is quite low