Males and females interprete everything differently.

For example, I asked a lady why women were always asked to occupy the back seats in a bus in one bus company, while I was in the north.

She said it is because women are being seen as inferior to men.

I ask a man the same question and he said it is because if men sit behind, they may start touching the women sitting in front, so women must sit behind to avoid a man sexually harrassing them.

2 gender with 2 different opinions on a single issue.

That is the same way they have different opinions in relationship issue.


A woman is beating a man who has been disturbing her for a relationship.

In the males opinion: the woman really likes the man but is just playing hard to get, and want to see if the man is truly a real man, and if he perseveres, the woman would accept him and love and submit to him.


In females opinion: the man is not the type of man the woman wants. The man should just forget her and look for a woman who likes his type. The man is wasting his time and even if the woman later accept him, she may do it because she doesn't have any better man or because she wants what she can get from him while she is still searching for a man of her dreams.


But it surprises me that men believe that their opinion is the correct one even when the issue involves a woman, whereby it is the women opinion that suppose to matter because women know themselves better.


But males are so cocky and proud that even when a woman is telling them something about her own gender, because she is a woman and knows her own gender, they would not believe.

They would rather believe their own fake opinion.

They would see shit and call it food, and if the person who shit the shit tells them it is shit, they would not believe, but out of cockiness, they would eat the shit believing it is food. That is men for you.

The problem with men is that if you try to advise them on these things, they would be threatening you, abusing you and calling you names.

Why can't males be wise for once when the issue involve women and relationship? Why?

Because of the way men have made themselves so cheap, women are even finding other women more attractive than men.

That is the truth from recent discovery in sexuality.

No one values anything that is cheap and so easy to get.

So males,stop being fools.

Rise and save yourselves.

After all,there are 2 genders in the world.

The way you need a lady as a man is the way she needs you.

But men are giving the impression that women are greater than them.

If men can shun women at least one week in 10 years, women will go down on their knees and beg. They will begin to value our sexuality.

Stop being so desperate. Sometime just act as if you are not interested.


If I may ask: How many women have you gained by being so desperate and making yourself so cheap?

Infact,if you actually want to get women,it is better to act as if you are not interested and as if you are not cheap or easy.

That's when you will get women.

But your desperation is driving them from you.



If all men can act as if they are not interested once in a month,we can regain our lost glory.

Women will start respecting our sexuality

after all,they have their own sex organ and we have our own.

One needs the other. And non should claim to be higher than the other.

Note this: Women don't like men who are cheap to get and who likes sex so much he can sleep with any woman,


just like men don't like women who are cheap and can/have sleep/slept with any man.

If you want a woman who has self respect, why do you think a woman will want you if you don't have self respect, but are desperate and are always looking for sex with any woman?

If you don't like a woman who goes about looking for sex with every man, why do you think a woman would like you if you are desperate and go around looking for sex?

I saw a man trying to toss a lady. The lady brought out her shoes and slapped the man. People around said the man has been disturbing the woman for a long time, but she has been beating him.

But the man, like most men, believe that he would one day win the woman. Anyone who asked him to forget the lady is stupid in his eyes.

That's a man's world and thinking. But women also have their own world and thinking.


The truth is that women have the kind of men they want. If you are not her kind of man, you are just wasting your time and getting insulted and abused.


If you are so pressed, why not masturbate yourself rather than going around disgracing yourself over a woman who don't like your type and won't even accept you?

Although I am not encouraging masturbation, but it is even better than going around disgracing yourself over a woman who would not even accept you.


Let me ask you a question: How many women are you able to get by disgracing yourself, suffering insult because you want to have sex?


The truth is that a woman will never accept you if you're not her type or if she knows you are so desperate for sex.

Women don't want males who are so much interested in sex, the same way men don't like nympho women (ie women who like sex too much)


Women are mostly interested in males who don't want sex. Infact, we don't accept the opposite gender if his or her sexual desire is more than our own.


That is why it is easier to see a woman sexually harassing young boys because her sexual desire is stronger than that of the boy.

But the same woman would be running from a man who wants to sleep with her, yet she would still call an innocent boy and do sexual things with him.


If a woman is accused of having sex with minor, men would say they wished they were there so they could easily sleep with her.

But the woman would never have accepted them, because like I said, women can only go to a male whose sexual desire is not as strong as her own. If your own is stronger than her own, even if she is looking for sex, she would give you tough time before accepting you, ie if at all she would accept you.

Does it not surprise you that most women are looking for sex, but refused to accept any man who is interested?


That is why men must stop chasing women and also reduce their running after sex if they really want to have sex.


Because even if you're looking for sex, no woman would give you. Why not just forget it.


One woman wrote in her book "how to satisfy a woman and have her ask for more" that if men really want their women to run after them and love sex with them, they should frustrate the women sexually, withdraw from the women sexually and the women would come running after you.

UnusualEmissary:
But no vex oo

Which area are you living where you have all these women with all these shallow mindset and stupid concerns with how men feel about them?

They no get work? They don't have any commitments to keep them busy? They don't have any sound education to broaden and enlighten their minds against all these nonsense concerns?

They no get husband, no family. They don't have purpose in life?

This is why we need "The Unity"

To a great deal, humanity has lost it on the true purpose of life. And he is one man we have hope and trust in to inspire consciousness in humanity and make them see the light.

And we await his coming

Alright.

We await His coming.

Kilotat:
Never allow yourself to be alone in a quiet place with a woman, just make sure their are other people watching, if not move out immediately. Check my Updated Signature ( In my Igbo voice)

Ok

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Jealousy..hate.. envy
Some might be mentally ill..
Some are really disturbed and look for ways to hurt others..

You get?

Ok

YinkaOlusesi:
That`s what happens to joseph in the bible, and the best way to avoid women temptation is to be stronging face for them like military men, and u dont sit & be gisting with them.

Ok

As we all know, some sexual harrassment or rape allegations could be true and some could be false.

But whether it is true or false, everyone always believes it. That is why it is expedient to do everything to avoid being falsely accused, and to avoid being killed by a female who would then claim she was defending herself.

When I am walking on the road, I don't normally recognize or look at any woman passing by, unlike many men who stare at every woman passing. Recently, someone told me that women around my area were not happy and that I should be careful so they don't frame me up with a fake rape/sexual harrassment allegation because a woman can say you raped/sexually harrassed her, if the following happens:

a) you refuse to lust after her or you refuse to desire her sexually or ask her out. This is because a woman cannot stand the thought that she is not the center of a man's attention. Any man who refuses to recognize and admire a woman, the woman may start planning how to destroy him. My brother suffered because of this. It is a very long story, but at the end, the truth prevailed.


b) If a woman likes you but you don't like her back, she would frame you up with false rape or sexual harrassment allegation.


c) If a woman believes she is entitled to your money but you refuse to give her because you don't want to share your hard earned money with someone who did not help you do your work.

d) If a woman is quarrelling with your girlfriend or wife, she may accuse you falsely to get at your wife. One of our male relatives suffered this.



To avoid this, I use to lock the first door anytime only me and my female neighbor are around because I don't want her to kill me when I am unaware and turn around to say she was defending herself from rape and you know everyone will believe her, because everyone believes a woman whether she is telling the truth or not.


When I am coming out of my room and she is around, I watch her every movement to avoid being taken unawares, when we're only two around.


I do this because I know she is among the women who gossip me that I do as if women don't matter.

I heard some women saying that a man (who does not make women the center of his attention, admiration and desire) is not worthy to live.

Share some of the reasons women may accuse a man falsely and how a man can avoid this?

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I was reading a book called "The Less Noble Sex"

by a female writer called Dr Nancy Tuana.

You can find the book and read it if you want to.

In front of the book was a picture of a naked male and a naked female.

While the male uncover his penis and was very comfortable with it, the female used her hands to cover her vagina and breasts in shame.

The book was trying to portray the female gender as the less noble gender.

Although I don't really believe what the book is saying, but it is worth bringing it to your attention.

In the book, I read the following:


1) That a woman is a misbegotten man. That is, a woman is an imperfect and incomplete man. A woman is a man who is incomplete.



2) That women cannot abide by laws and rules but are by nature lawless and tend to act above the laws and rules.


The reason being that women do not know what is right and what is wrong.

Unless you tell them "this one is right, this one is wrong", a woman cannot of her own self decide. She doesn't know what is good or bad until someone tells her.

Therefore they must be forced to abide by laws and rules. They must be made to know what is acceptable and what is not.

Women are easily influenced by other women because they cannot decide what is good and bad but always follow what other women are doing just like small children are easily influenced because they don't have a mind of their own.


3) That women were created to cause trouble for men. The author cited different ancient religions which believed that women were created as punishment to men because men offended God.


4) That women are anywhere between a man and an animal.

According to the book, some ancient religions believed that if a woman work hard and practise good works in this life, in the next life, she would be reincarnated as a man.

But an evil man would be reincarnated as woman in the next life as punishment.

But the worst thing a person can reincarnate is an animal.


Therefore so many people even up till today believe that a woman is anywhere between a man and an animal.

This belief even found itself into secular society such that educated people (who don't even believe in religion and reincarnation) believe that between a man and an animal is a woman.


5) That women are thievish and not to be trusted.


6) Trust a thief if you can trust a woman.


7) Women suffer from "wandering womb phenomenon". This is why women suffer " Female hysteria"


Although according to the book, this was later debunked by medical doctors and scientists after intense research.


That women lack spirituality and cannot sincerely perform religious duties.


9) That women covert power, admiration, material possession, worship, and love so much so that they would easily consort with the devil to get those.




10) That a woman would not hesitate to abandon her religion and go after the devil if the devil is willing to give her power, wealth, adoration, and make people worship and love her.


According to the author, many of the people who held the beliefs stated above are women themselves. That is, it is not as if those who believed these things concerning women were only males.

Women themselves also believe these things concerning themselves.

They say men are not important.

One girl who was a university student said she doesn't need a man because what is important is her studies and her good future.



But she became miserable when men were not asking her out for a long time.


She was the one who started speaking to men trying to create relationships.

When they are in relationship and when men are giving them attention, they say men are not important.

When they stay without male attention, they become miserable.

Women's attention is always on how men should admire and fall for them. This is what preoccupies their minds.

The charms that most women do is always on how to get men to desire them and give them money.

They will never make charms to get money through any other means.

Their charms is always about men, relationships, how to get men to run after them and how to get men to give them money.

If women are discussing, part of the discussion is always about men and how they are the center of men's attention. Even if such is not true, they always force themselves to believe that all men are on their kneels begging them for a relationship.

But men can think of other stuff like football, politics, education, etc. Those men who are doing charms do so to get many things like money,fame, women, ability etc, unlike women whose sole focus is men.

Men can discuss politics, religion, education,etc but women can only discuss politics, religion and other stuff if it involves how she or other women is the center of men's attention and how much men are looking for a relationship with her or with other women. And how she is controlling men because of her attractiveness.

Women cannot exist if they cannot imagine that men are all under their control.

They always force themselves to believe that men are worshipping them, that men admire them and that men would do anything to get them.

All these things I am writing is not because I hate men. I like them and I want them to see things as they are. At least they should rise up and help themselves instead of hanging on the toy called " males are superior".

This toy is given to males to deceive themselves while women are busy controlling them.


If I give money to people, it is mostly to males because I know that if I don't give to males, no one will.

Although no man has ever given me money before, he will rather give to women. But I give to men because they need it more than women.

If I don't give to a woman, another man will readily give her.


Another reason why I believe women are superior to men is that if a woman offends a man, instead of him to warn her or just walk away,


he would begin insulting the male gender by saying things like "if it is a man who did that, I would have dealt with him, I would have wounded him, etc."


It is because males secretly hate themselves that is why any opportunity they have, they would start abusing the male gender even when the culprit is a woman.


It is known that people of lower level like fighting among themselves even when they are being offended by people of higher level.


It shows that women are higher than males.


No woman would ever insult the female gender because of an offence from the male gender.


A woman will face you squarely if you offend her whether you are a male or female.


A woman will never start abusing her gender because a man offended her.


Like I was saying: since there are so many poor men who can barely feed well, and there are so many rich women with good cars and houses, men have no right to feel that men are the superior gender.




How can you who are poor be claiming superiority over a rich connected woman? How can you believe you are higher than your proprietress who is paying your salary just because you happen to be a man?


This reasoning is keeping some males from doing anything to help themselves and their male gender because they believe they are already superior and doesn't need self improvement.



Male will not help the male gender because they believe males are already superior even when they see how poor those men are.


They would rather give to a rich woman whom they still believe is inferior.

A woman said when she went begging with a man.

People only gave to her but didn't give to the man because people believe men are superior.

Many people will rather give their money to an already rich woman than give to a poor male beggar because men are "superior" even in abject poverty and ashes.

BE WARNED.

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So many men do not accept cheating except in a relationship with women.

If you try to cheat them, they will fight and resist you.

They know how to analyze politics, and religion because they are wise in those areas, but they are not wise when it comes to relationship with women.

For example, a man (who few minutes ago is fighting someone for trying to exploit him) would not see anything wrong with the following:


I. A woman allows only her relatives to visit and be free to enter anywhere in the home. But she restricts her husband's relatives.

Surprisingly, the husband ( who claims no one can cheat him) does not see anything wrong in that.

Even if he knows it is wrong, he doesn't care.


I believe men are wise in other areas so that they can be unwise in relationship with women.

I believe the reason men are wise in other areas is so that they can be unwise in relationship.


Maybe it's because if you are wise in one area, you must be unwise in another area.



ii. In a relationship, women say that a man's money belongs to the family but the wife's money belongs only to the wife.


Surprisingly, a supposedly wise man accept this without argument.

He doesn't see the cheating in that.


A man (who will give you a serious resistance for trying to take his N10) would not see anything wrong in such a belief.


iii. A woman would use the man's money to buy gift for the man but the man would accept it and believe he has been given a gift.

A man (who can analyze everything and can tell you what is reasonable and what is not) would receive such gifts from his woman and still believe he has been given a gift.


It shows you that men are babies in a relationship, that is why a woman would boldly use a man's money to buy him a gift and the man would still believe it is a gift.



iv. Men are babies because I remember when I was a baby, women used me a lot.

They will tell me "if you want to be my friend, let me eat your eggs"

I would allow them to eat it.

It is the same with all men.

A woman will tell men "if you want me to sleep with you/be your girl friend/ come close to you/love you/come to your house etc give me money, buy me a car, give me this, give me that."

And he would accept it.

No wonder one man wrote in his book that so many rich and influential men are in the pockets of small girls.

If to say all males in the world were occupying leadership positions, and all females were followers,

Or all males were automatically given higher pay or social standing and all females were given lower pay and lower standing,

then someone can say that it's a man's world.

But since it's not so, no man has the right to claim that the world belongs to men.

As long as there is a female president somewhere who is higher than you as a man, you cannot claim gender superiority.

You cannot claim gender superiority since there is a woman somewhere who is richer than you as a man.

Men believe the world belongs to them because they can talk, fight, and intimidate people.

But that doesn't make the world to belong to men.

Women know better. They are calm but they control things.


I am saying this so that men may wake up to this reality and try to free themselves from bondage.


Because of this belief in their superiority,men do not know that they are actually bound.


Women have allowed men to believe that they (the males) are superior so that they (the males) would be deceiving themselves while women are using that to their (the female) own good.


I have said my own.

Good night.

So many men do not accept cheating except in a relationship with women.

If you try to cheat them, they will fight and resist you.

They know how to analyze politics, and religion because they are wise in those areas, but they are not wise when it comes to relationship with women.

For example, a man (who few minutes ago is fighting someone for trying to exploit him) would not see anything wrong with the following:


I. A woman allows only her relatives to visit and be free to enter anywhere in the home. But she restricts her husband's relatives.

Surprisingly, the husband ( who claims no one can cheat him) does not see anything wrong in that.

Even if he knows it is wrong, he doesn't care.


I believe men are wise in other areas so that they can be unwise in relationship with women.

I believe the reason men are wise in other areas is so that they can be unwise in relationship.


Maybe it's because if you are wise in one area, you must be unwise in another area.



ii. In a relationship, women say that a man's money belongs to the family but the wife's money belongs only to the wife.


Surprisingly, a supposedly wise man accept this without argument.

He doesn't see the cheating in that.


A man (who will give you a serious resistance for trying to take his N10) would not see anything wrong in such a belief.


iii. A woman would use the man's money to buy gift for the man but the man would accept it and believe he has been given a gift.

A man (who can analyze everything and can tell you what is reasonable and what is not) would receive such gifts from his woman and still believe he has been given a gift.


It shows you that men are babies in a relationship, that is why a woman would boldly use a man's money to buy him a gift and the man would still believe it is a gift.



iv. Men are babies because I remember when I was a baby, women used me a lot.

They will tell me "if you want to be my friend, let me eat your eggs"

I would allow them to eat it.

It is the same with all men.

A woman will tell men "if you want me to sleep with you/be your girl friend/ come close to you/love you/etc give me money, buy me a car, give me this, give me that."

And he would accept it.

No wonder one man wrote in his book that so many rich and influential men are in the pockets of small girls.

If to say all males in the world were occupying leadership positions, and all females were followers,

Or all males were automatically given higher pay or social standing and all females were given lower pay and lower standing,

then someone can say that it's a man's world.

But since it's not so, no man has the right to claim that the world belongs to men.

As long as there is a female president somewhere who is higher than you as a man, you cannot claim gender superiority.

You cannot claim gender superiority since there is a woman somewhere who is richer than you as a man.

Men believe the world belongs to them because they can talk, fight, and intimidate people.

But that doesn't make the world to belong to men.

Women know better. They are calm but they control things.


I am saying this so that men may wake up to this reality and try to free themselves from bondage.


Because of this belief in their superiority,men do not know that they are actually bound.


Women have allowed men to believe that they (the males) are superior so that they (the males) would be deceiving themselves while women are using that to their (the female) own good.


I have said my own.

Good night.

Like I said, as long as there is a woman somewhere who is earning more than you as a man, and as long as there are women who are in leadership capacity while you as a man do not hold any leadership position, it should show you that you are not the superior gender.

If anything, women are superior because of the following reasons:


3. A man has money to marry a woman, but he still begs her, kneels down to propose and still end up feeding, clothing and accommodating the woman when she becomes his wife or girlfriend.

Now, sentiment aside, who is higher?

You are a man, you show humility by kneeling down to propose to a woman whom you would still end up feeding, clothing, and maintaining. Of course she is higher than you.


4. Homosexuality and lesbianism are evil and must be discountenanced.


But I want to say the reason men and women hate homosexuals and lesbians.

It has been discovered that males hate homosexuals more than females hate lesbians.

Males hatred for homosexuals is more of self loathing than a moral principle.

Women hate lesbians because of some moral principles, but men hate homosexuals because they so much despise their own gender.

Even if a woman does not like lesbians, she would not end up insulting her own gender to show her hatred for lesbianism.

She would just say something like "I can't sleep with a woman because God did not create it so"

But you would always hear men insulting the male gender by saying something like "how can I sleep with a bony, ugly being like myself"

Men despise themselves so much that they would end up insulting their own gender to show their hatred for homosexuals.

That is why men are always in a mad rush to get women because they so much despise themselves to the extent that they feel to have women would help to erase some of their lowliness.


It is like buying a house to feel important.


They know that women are superior, so they believe that if they get these superior beings, they would be better.

Hence the mad rush by all men to get as many women as possible.

Men believe that they are the better gender because they think the world belongs to them.

They believe that men are the leaders in this life.

But they forget that there are many women who are leaders and there are many men who are followers.

Even if all leaders were to be males, as long as you are a man and you are not leading in any capacity, you cannot claim to be higher than women.

As long as we have some women who are leaders and some males who are not leaders, it renders useless the argument that the world belongs to men.

Also if you are being paid millions of dollars every month as a man, there is a woman somewhere who is earning the same.

So it is not that all males are earning higher and all females are earning lower.


As long as there is a woman somewhere who is earning more than you as a man, you cannot say the world belongs to men.


I think this belief that men are the superior gender is a falsehood to make men not to realize that women are actually the wiser and the more powerful gender.


As men keep deceiving themselves, they would not realize they are actually below women.

The surprising thing is that we believe whatever we continue saying even if we know it is false.


Men are only superior to women in terms of lousiness and the tendency to fight and abuse.

Because in real life, just like in Nairaland, men are the talkative and the abusers, they believe they are superior.

But women know better. Unlike men, women know that being a talkative and silencing everyone with threat of abuse does not make someone superior. Women are silent but they achieve more.

Women are wiser and more powerful than men for the following reasons:


1. You will always see a woman being surrounded by many males who would be giving her attention, money, and etc.

So many men would refuse to give money to a fellow man, but would rather give it to a woman who may even be richer than them(the men)

That is why many female celebrities are buying cars and houses because a man who has a little money would still give that money to a woman and would rather starve himself. Male celebrities are not buying cars and houses as the female celebrities.


2. According to some analysis, if a speeding car is coming from the left and a beautiful woman coming from the right, most men are more likely to look at the woman not minding if the car would crush them to death.

But if a speeding car is coming from the left and a rich handsome man with millions of dollars in his hands is coming from the right, the woman would look at the car to escape, even if she knew the man was coming to give her money.

It shows that women are wiser. It also shows that men look at women because women are higher.

The lesser looks at the higher.

BePrepared:


U probably don't know me on this platform, I'm a strong advocate against premarital sex, I don't do it, and warn every lady I engage that if mistakenly this happens its over, I deal value able girls not cheap girls. If a guy can see ur pants u are very cheap and its such girls that beg guys on streets to marry them

Ok sir.

BePrepared:


I like to chase the woman I'll marry, to value her very much, if I see ur pant b4 marriage I can't marry u again

If she accepts you easily and agrees to sleep with you because of the qualities she sees in you, then she is cheap and you can't marry her.


If she gives you though time and doesn't agree to sleep with you, then you would hate her.


I know many men who are like you.


I often wonder what such men really want.

Women would feel angry that a woman is proposing and a man is rejecting.

They don't like tasting their own medicine.

When they reject a man, it's normal because women has pride.

But when a man rejects a woman, it's not good.

This is the thinking of women and even men with low self-esteem.

AmuRubber:


You just got yourself a new follower.

Ok.

Thank you Sir.

Not due for marriage?

Teenaira:


I agree with everything you said except the last sentence. If someone is better than you, it does not still give him a right to call you a derogatory name.
Besides, if someone is better than you in certain aspect of life, he or she may not be better than you in some other aspects. So he or she should not look down on you.

Ok.