coolsix:


A man is to hustle and provide for his woman and himself and also their child. Not the other way around so I agree with her

And the woman will be static in the marriage, forever depending on the man?

Vinshu:


No it doesn't.

So ladies should be chilling at home while the men hustles and bring money to marry them?

Vinshu:
The right time for marriage is when you are able to maximize your scarce resources to satisfy yourself and an additional party.

English Version: When you have enough money!

And this applies to ladies too?

crismark:
my marriage criteria....I ll marry wen am 28 nd my wife shuld be at least 26

Talk about marriage goals. Seems rigid to me though.

amicable09:
Dave, my own is simple.
When a guy can feed himself to his full and can afford an extra mouth, then he is good to go otherwise... *lips sealed*
No suffer person pikin!

This your cunning way of saying money is important though.

What about a lady?

otabuko:
If you get to the interview stage, don't go there and tell them, you're on all the social network platforms, it's okay to say you know all these platforms exist, but maybe you're on facebook but you're not really regular...these network guys want low-profiled workers...don't ask me how i know this......i wouldn't reply....gracias..

This is totally wrong.

Those yet to go for interview, be confident and let them know that you're in tune with current happenings. Saying you're on social media won't in anyway dent your chances. Also, be confident in your abilities, even if you they ask you something you can't, convincingly tell them you can.

For dressing, guys you don't need a tie. Smart shirt, trouser(chinos or plain) and good shoes and belt will do.

Gheritage, really sorry to see you got a regret mail. Please do reapply.

Happy Birthday MzNelly, I wish you the freedom and happiness you seek. Long may you reign.

paulGrundy:


I would prefer to be anonymous if am with this my nairaland handle, I hope you don't mind?

By the way I love your blue tie.

Loool


Nice, after all my screaming paulgrundy in the hall. Well done

Purity01:
not fair o. these guys shld be a lot more certain to enabke ppl plan thieselves

Just tiring.

I guess they read my post yesterday and didn't want us to meet.

Excellergroup:

Bro, pls help send the number that called you cos my phone was off at around that time. Maybe they tried reaching me also. I've sent you a mail already. All the best

Thanks. Responded.

Purity01:
for real why do u tink they changed u guys timing

I don't know.


And I am not there yet. And have no hope of being there in the next 1hr.

Purity01:
are u still for tmrw my frnd has been rescheduled for today

Same here. Got a call not long ago.

amicable09:

Lol. Be sure to have my parcel at your door post soon. *winks.

Thanks for being here! You know what I mean.

Expecting the parcel like kilode


Anytime dear.

amicable09, Do have a safe and successful trip dear.


And it's not only Lero that you'll bring something for o, I wouldn't mind something too

missingrib:
when you are mentally ready...maturity at its peak....

Is anybody ever fully 'ready' for marriage?

So maturity over money, ok

With the many rules of this modern generation, I wonder if i'd have ever been born if my dad had followed such rules.

Based on this thread by Vinshu - Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! https://www.nairaland.com/3000453/guy-doesnt-house-car-should

And this counter thread by Tosyne2much - My Advice: A Lady With Intangible Source Of Income Should Not Date Or Marry https://www.nairaland.com/3001132/advice-lady-intangible-source-income

I think it is important we squash this argument once and all. So dear romancelanders, when is the right/best time to date or marry?

The question applies to both guys and ladies alike.

This theory though...

It seems the lives of Nigerians don't matter anymore on the altar of politics.

What type of death have we not seen in this rerun elections, yet instead of a general condemnation of the act, "future leaders of tomorrow" are taking sides with people that have looted their commonwealth.

Soldiers were killed in preparation to this elections, and what did both party do? - they traded blames on human lives.

Anyway, we are not ready yet. We will continue to bask in under-development and mediocrity until we are ready.

Purity01:
yh! for tuesday

Alright. See you there.




paulGrundy, mine is on tuesday. I don't want to meet you again, I want to meet purity01

Purity01:
its ok dear. be hopeful. we tot we lost out d last time, but it wasnt so. urs wld come soon

Have you gotten the ED invite?

LOL

Welcome to Nigeria, where drug dealers are celebrated and looters are glorified.


Why won't you love Nigeria...

modik, Nigeria is not sorry. You seem not to understand political dynamics as it relates to my statement of Nigeria being a culmination of selfish interests.

I am done with this rigmarole of a discourse.

Happy Sunday!

modik:


All the vices facing us are to be condemned in strongest terms.

Every thing you mentioned here calls for concern and most sincere and objective complaint and "groaning" for that matter.

If you complain only when any of them affects you, you seem not to have the interest of the Nation at heart. One Nigeria means "One for all and all for one"

Singling yourself out simply because you are not directly hit by the pangs of the economic dull drum and other vices is most unpatriotic to say the least!

Nigerians as a whole, whether North or South deserve a better economic deal than we have it today, and shouldn't be seen as crying too much when we are not getting what we were promised that necessitated giving the only legal power we had which is our vote.

Come to think of it, if we were too comfortable with the last administration, we wouldn't have voted them out with the only legal power we had >>"Our Vote". That was the only option we had then after reviewing the blue print and manifesto presented to us by the ruling party. The difference seemed clear on paper. But what do we have now?

..... Now all what was promised seem not to be coming through, all we can see is promise denials upon denials, modification and clarification of terms etc.

Truth be told, .........
"He who keeps quiet in the time of turbulence, risks losing his head, which houses the mouth, with which he should have used to complain and cause help to come his way before doom day"

We can't afford to be silent in the face of turbulence. Remember the eye and the nose are so close that when the eye cries, the nose also drips.

Political correctness is not my forte. Nigeria is a culmination of selfish interests, unless you choose to ignore or deny it.

Remember the fuel subsidy era? Was the protest general?

When the chibok girls were kidnapped? Was the protest general?

Let's stop deceiving ourselves please.

It's nine months into a new administration without any budget and you've already concluded that they are failing without taking into cognisance prevailing world economic reality.

Can this 'common sense' senator tell us who should be in charge of the treasury of a state or a country?

ari3l:


really! See Another Lair mohammed sha!
Abi na Inverter you buy?

This thread is officially a wailers thread devoid of sound criticism and common sense.

Moyarh:

Nothing much jarey.
Good morning.

Happy Sunday.

Good morning bro and a Happy Sunday to you!

modik:


I now understand better.

It seems you are immune to the prevailing realities of general economic downturn because a legal maxim says....

"He who gives consent ab initio needs not complain"

I can perceive your unalloyed consent to the hardship meted out to us hence your immunity to its pangs.

..... Just thinking aloud!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

In Nigeria everybody is immune to prevailing realities as long as they are shielded.

Are you in tune with the harsh realities of the residents of Borno?

Are you in tune with the realities of those living in IDP camps?

Are you in tune with the realities of indigenes being dislodged from their homes in benue?

Let's stop lying to ourselves. I am not groaning, I have light, I have fuel, I have not been affected by your so called "realities of general economic turn down" - and if I eventually do, i'll jump on the bus seeking solutions than on the complaining bus.

modik:



..... And you are happy for the CHANGE?

If complaining/criticising without common sense is the new sport, please count me out.

Moyarh:
Proudol.odo where are you
Come and share all the knowledge you've been secretly acquiring with us


Dahve.ydson !!!
Howfar

I'm good bro. What's up?

austinosita:

I stay on the mainland and just woke up to the light I slept well. Lol, so I'll not have light and fuel and say I have? Lool

Who mentioned anything about party or president? - keep lying to yourself.

Where were these groans accumulated and reported?

Since IKEDC staff called of their strike, we've been having light in my area, and there's light as i'm typing this.

As for the Fuel scarcity, that too have ended in my area. The only problem is the price of fuel which is being sold at N110/ltr at filling stations. It was initiall at N150 but has been dropping lately.

Mannylex:


Lolz.... Kpele. Shorten the name na..

Reminds me of My first year in Uni, the HOD asked us to introduce our selves, then one guy whose name was Columbanus introduced himself. HOD was like "Ol' Boy with this your name, are you sure you will have friends? Everybody would be tired of calling your name. You Better shorten your name to colo or colum, so you can have friends" lolz

Colo?

If only there was an option to change monikers... the problem is in the spelling, not the length. Like yours is long but easy to spell but mine, arrggh. some people might want to mention me but just give up when they think of how to spell it correctly.


Anyway, all I know is that diaris God oooo

mtor, thanks. I'm alright, trust you're doing good.

I really appreciate your mention because I rarely get em because of my moniker

xvy1:
Hello house! My 1st post ever, jst wnt 2 giv a shout out 2 every1 in the house can sm1 pls wlcm me.

Welcome!!


Lastmumu, that was the best e-melodious froglike voice I have ever heard in my e-life.