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well its not a crime for a guy your age to be dating, but for a guy your age I think this relationship is too serious and deep for you to handle. I understand you feel emotionally connected to these your lady probably because she was there for you in difficult times, but trust me you don't want to walk down this path.

these has more to do with you than with her. you have to love yourself first and be confident in yourself, otherwise no matter what anyone tells you or she does you will still not be convinced.

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The journey of love is not like the movies makes it look like, some of us have been lucky to find our happy ending, some are still searching. For those that just had a bad break up, here are some steps to help you get over it, and maybe find your happy ending.

1: Delete their contacts
The first thing to do after a break up, is to delete all their contacts from your phone or any where you have them. If you truly want to get over your ex, this step is very important, this would remove all temptations to them. Trust me sister calling them will only cause you pain.

2: Remove anything that reminds you of them
These is quite similar to step 1, only that this has to do with personal belongings. It could be a picture you both shared together, valentine or birthday gift from them, whatever it is that spells their name you don't want to be seeing them, so get rid of them all.

3: Go out
After a bad breakup, we ladies tend to spend the rest of our life shut away from the world, and crying ourselves to sleep every night. Apart from the fact that this is unhealthy, it stops the entire healing process. You need to go out there, meet people, have fun and be happy.

4: Find something doing
The best way to keep your mind from thinking about your ex, is to keep it occupied with other thoughts. Try out new things, find a passion, be with friends and family, with time you will how happy life can be without your ex.
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celebrities and their problems. Always throwing it at our face like we care

why not meet your husband in the other room

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we have heard you

Being in a long distance relationship is not easy, it
takes a lot of parience and dedication to make it work.
Every relationship out there has got its problem, there
is no exception. If you presently in a Lon distance
relationship, you Can make it work, so long as both
parties are ready to make it work.

COMMITMENT : In order, to make these type of
relationship work out, both parties need to be
commited to making it work. There must be an
understanding between you guys, you must know that
it is not a one man thing. When you are commited to
something, you put your mind and soul to it.

COMMUNICATION: Any relationship without
communication, is bound to fail. Always create time to
speak to one another, be very honest about your
feelings and never lie to your partner. Communicate,
But dont bug each other.

TRUST: Trust is a very important assert, in a long
distance relationship. In order to make these kind of
relationship work, you must trust your partner to be
faithful. Problems are definitely going to arise, there
are times when you would have doubts, it is the trust
you have for each other that would see you through.

FORGIVENESS: When problems arise, you should learn
to forgive and forget. It is very common to see people,
in long distance relationship cheat on each other,
though there is no excuse for cheating, forgiveness is
the key.

LOVE: These is the key to Every other thing I have
said. Without love in a long distance relationship, it
Can never work. You need to be in love with someone,
for you to be commited to making the relationship
work.
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1: Take a walk together
These might sound simple, but can be very romantic
when done properly. Sometimes we girls don't want
much, just being alone with you is enough. Taking a
walk together also helps strength your relationship, you
get to discuss the things that matters in your
relationship.

2: Go watch a movie together
Having a movie night together can be so romantic, it
doesn't necessarily have to be a cinema, what matters
is that you are together. Don't forget to go for a
romantic movie, remember it's a romantic night.

3: Cook dinner for her
Every girl loves a guy who can cook, Just watching
him do the cooking is so romantic. Try these and
watch her fall crazy in love with you.

4: Go on a trip together
For those of you who can afford these, go for it.
Taking a trip together with the one you love is
romantic. Don't forget that it is a romantic trip, so you
don't need any extra baggage.

5: Do something you both love
Whether it's football, music, comedy, it doesn't matter.
The idea is to have fun doing what you both love.
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In Nigeria where I come from, getting married is a big
deal. For every girl, marriage is seen as the highest
achievement you can have. Every Saturday thousands
of girls get married, and thousands are struggling to
get married. Finding a guy that is ready for marriage is
the tough part, they are never ready for marriage.
There are Salome things that you can do to get a ring
on that finger, as fast as you want it.

1: put on your best behavior
This truck has been known to work for generations,
you just have to know how to use it. Before a guy puts
a ring, he has to be sure that he is not carrying
problem, believe me no guy wants headache in his
marriage. If you want to get married soon, you have to
learn to be more understanding, and tolerant.

2: make his friends your friends
these is another trick that has been known to work,
tested and proven. You don't even have to like them,
you just have to create the impression that you do. If
you can get his friends on your side, half of your job is
done, just watch them do the job for you.

3: be a good cook
don't ever underestimate the power of food, especially
to guys. As much as guys love sex, they would do
anything to have a wife that can cook. If you are
planning to marry soon, and you still don't know how
to cook, then my dear you are a learner.

4: get to know his family
it is often believed that when a guy introduces you to
his family, he has plans of marrying you someday, that
is so true. If you get your guy to introduce you to any
member of his family, I bet you he will be getting
married to you sooner than you think.

5: get to meet his mother
These step comes after meeting the family. Meeting,
the mother can prove to be the most challenging and
difficult of all the rules. If you are fortunate to meet
the family, then get close to his mother, if you can
have his mother on your side, then your work is
finished welcome to the family
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I remember, some months back I met this guy on
Facebook, he seem cool and nice looking. Well after
months of constant charting, the usual getting to know
each other. Everything seem perfect, so we decided to
meet. It was going to be a lunch date in a very nice
restaurant in Lagos, I was very excited because I had
never been to a fancy place like that. Long story short,
I finally got to meet this guy in person, that day turned
out to be my worst.

The last hour of what was suppose to be a lunch date
turn into a business meeting, this guy couldn't stop
talking about his job, it was is if I wasn't even there, I
felt so invincible. With a smile on my face I tried to
play along hoping that it would end, but he just kept
going on and on. Then the worst happened, he placed
his hand on mine and said "baby can we go to the
hotel room now". In my mine I was like "which time I
plan hotel room with you, I am not even dating you
yet". I suddenly felt like using the toilet, immediately I
beg to use the ladies, and that was the end. Thank
God I had cash on me, I found my way home and
immediately deleted the guy on all my contacts.

Have you had similar experience like mine or worst?,
what was your worst date experience?.
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at this period of celebration death shall not see me or my household in Jesus name.

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I love the one without makeup

If you are a lover of romance movies, you would agree
with me that getting married is something that appears
so beautiful, every girl out there would give anything
to have a feeling like that. I love wedding ceremonies
a lot, but not just for the food, I love the part where
the bride walks in and all attention is on her. In my
many years of following this tradition, I have realize
that much emphasis seems to be made on the
wedding ceremony, but not on the marriage itself.

As a Nigerian, you would agree with me that the way
Nigerian ladies, carry this marriage thing is something
else. Pre wedding this, pre wedding that. The major
concerned seem to be on the wedding ceremony,
having a perfect celebration, pleasing the guest, outing
up a perfect picture for the world to see. I am not
against anyone having a beautiful wedding, your dream
day, but in the mist of all the celebration, you should
not forget that there is still so much work to be done.

Our present generation is filled with lazy people,
everyone expect something without giving anything.
Two people cannot live as one unless they agree, it
takes two to tangle. Dating is a different game from
marriage, the rules of dating don't apply in marriage. It
is the dream of every girl out there to get married, in
an average Nigerian girl can even kill, just to follow the
trend of newlyweds. but what's next after the
wedding? This is a question we need to ask ourselves.

The rate of failed marriages is on the increase
everyday. I have asked myself severally what went
wrong.? How can two people who seem so in love with
each other, suddenly want to end all that. Where did it
all go wrong, and whose fault is it?. A lot of things can
cause a marriage to fail, a single party can not be
blamed entirely for the failure. People should
understand that marriage is not a bed of rose, and
there is no perfect marriage out there. it takes a lot
of tolerance to make it in marriage.

I strongly advice against rushed marriage. Don't get
married because others are getting, get married
because you have found the right one for you. Take
your time, and be sure you are ready for this step
before taking it. Parents should try and educate the
children, on the trials of marriage, and how to
overcome them. Most importantly don't forget to pray
to your God for the right person.
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God bless your hard work

sonofLuci:
I have don that she said nothing, she doesn't give any reasonable explanation as to why her new character.

there is a possibility that she has met someone new and she's probably trying to decide on you both, that is why you see a change of character. It doesn't mean you should give up on her, show her all the love you can but dont bug her, and don't try to push her to do something she does not want to do. if after all this she still doesn't come around, then afraid you lost. goodluck

you should let her be for now, time will tell if she really loves you or just using you. And don't push it.

I think you should talk to her and find out what the problem is

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which one be this again

I pray they make it work this time

With the rate at which the world is changing, the desire for the fine things of life is on the rise, and no one wants to suffer. Girls would do anything just to get a rich guy to pay the bills. Anyways, these are sure five ways to get a rich guy.
1. Be classy Forget fairytales, the rich don't go for people that are not in their class. The high and mighty in the society would not take a second look at you if you are just an ordinary person, you have to appear presentable, and sleek well. So do whatever you have to do to get the desire attention.
2. Attend the gathering of the rich You don't expect to sit at home and expect a rich guy to knock at your door, my dear this is not Disney land. In order to attract a rich guy, you have to go to where you can actually find one. Go for music shows, big clubs, wherever you know the big boys are bound to attend go.
3. Have a rich friend Another way to attract rich guys is to tag along with a rich friend. Even if you have to follow her around, do it, you never know what awaits you.
4. Go online It is not impossible to get a rich guy through social networks, I believe if you play your cards well, this can be the easiest method.
5. Be a rich girl this is step has been proven to work from generations to generations. Once you are the daughter of a rich man, or you are rich and famous yourself, you will have all the rich guys you can think of at your feet. You can ask dj chippy if am lying. The rich always end up with the rich.
I hope this article was helpful to my sisters out there who are desperately in need of the big boys. http://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2016/12/five-ways-to-get-rich-guy.html?m=1

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