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daviesblaze:
mine was worst. we bear the same three names quite in same order. worst of all was that we share the same height, bodybuild and complexion. you need to see how freaked out we both were.

the same with me. We've got the same complexion, height and body figure.

So I recently met these girl who had the same name as me, like my complete name in the same order. I was really freaked out as I have never come across a scenerio like these. I would like to know if these is possible. Someone you don't know, and are not related to in any way whatsoever.

Looking forward to an amazing night if love with your partner?, check out these five romantic movies that are guaranteed to make you fall in love over, and over again.

5: Brown sugar
From the actors to the delivery, everything about these movie is just hot. Looking forward to an amazing evening with your partner? Then watch these movie and thank me later.

4: save the last dance
If you are a fan of high school romance you sure would love these movie. The story is about a young girl, who moves to another city to live with her dad after loosing her mum. She later meets and fall in love with a guy in school, while he teaches her to dance hip hop. From the dance to the music and the romance, these movie is just perfect for a romantic date night.

3: Beyond the light
These movie is one of my personal favorite, there's just so much chemistry and sexiness in one movie. The story is about a young fast rising singer, who just wants to for her own kind of music, and a young cop who is looking to get a political position. After saving her from a near suicide, their journey of love begins. After watching these movie, you will agree with me that these movie deserves a second watch.

2: A walk to remember
These is one movie that was able to bring tears out of my eyes. It's very emotional and touching movie. The story is about a guy, who fell in love with the same girl he and his friends bullied for so long. He later realize that he has cancer, and was going to die. You might want to have a pack of tissue near by when watching these movie.

1: Notting hill
These is my number one romance date night movie. Talk about brilliance in story telling, acting and choice of characters, these movie is the full package.
https://bluelizzblog..com/2018/07/top-5-romantic-movies-to-watch-with.html

someone please help me with a link to watch the match

see as person muss penalty for world cup.

see as person miss penalty for world cup.

still looks good

who cares if they are married or not

I actually thought I was the only one having these problem. once I recharge they start deducting 10 naira for services I did not subscribe to, called their customer care they told me that they can't see any deduction, I got angry and removed the Sim never to go back to it.

pregnant with alcohol I guess

choosing the wrong path

beautifully scaring

you have not started looking for her yet.

A happy woman means a happy relationship. check out ways that you can please your woman.
1:Buy her thoughtful gifts
Women appreciate it when their man gives them gifts, especially when is something she once mentioned.

2: Compliment her
Never let a day pass without letting your woman know how beautiful she is. Women feel good about themselves when they get complemented by their man. Tell her how beautiful her dress is, how beautiful she looks on that hair.

3: Help around
You can't imagine the stress women GI through everyday, cleaning, cooking, taking care of the children, and yet we are still expected to look good for our man. How we secretly wish we can get some help from our man.

4: Don't check out other women
It is such a rude thing to do especially when you are with your girl, common! Show some respect.

5: Involve her in decision making
Women feel important when they are being involved in making decision. Don't ever let her feel like she has nothing to over.
https://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2018/02/how-to-please-woman.html?m=1

1: Beauty
Women feel threatened when they see another women who they feel is prettier than they are. Women are never satisfied with the way they look, they always want to look better than the girl next to us. We get jealous when we see a beautiful lady.

2: Intelligence
Intelligent people always draw attention to themselves even without asking for it. Women get jealous of other women intelligence because of the attention it brings to them.

3: Confidence
There is just something sexy about a confident lady, the attention she commands is enough to make her fellow women jealous of her.

4: Dress sense
Looking good is a serious business for we ladies. A women would go out of her wey just to look better than the woman next to her, the cloths are never enough for her.

5: Body weight
Women are never satisfied with the way their body looks. This is the major cause of jealousy among women. A woman can go as far as starving just to have the figure of another lady.
https://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2018/02/five-reasons-why-women-are-jealous-of.html?m=1

if you truly want her out of your life then be a man and kick her out. Let your no be no regardless of how it turns out, a girl like that is up to no good. Stop keeping secrets from your girl, let her know what is going on before its too late.

love the shoes

beautiful hairstyles

There is no denying at one point in our life, we girls find ourselves doing crazy things There is no denying that we've all had a crush on someone at one point in our lives, we girls find ourselves doing crazy things when we have a crush. Here are a few things which every girl dies when she has a crush.

1: Stalk him on social media
Accept it or not, but the truth remains that girls stalk their crush on social media. We monitor his every move, read meaning to all his post, and even go as far as checking all the pictures he has ever posted.

2: You take online quiz to know if he likes you
Even though these quizzes are just for fun we just can't help it, all you want to hear is that your crush likes you too.

3: You have your future all planned out in your head
You go out shopping and then you guys bump into each other and then he stops to ask for your name and number, the only problem is that all these is all in your head.

4: You practice conversation
You rehears things you are going to say to him when you finally meet him. You stand in front if the mirror talking, to see how you look when you talk.

5: You hang out in all their favorite places
You are always in places you know they would be, doing things they love to do, all in the hopes that they would take notice of you.
https://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2017/12/5-things-every-girl-does-when-they-have.html?m=1

So you met someone who takes your breath
away. You can't stop thinking about he/she,
you seem perfect together, you tell yourself
that you are in love. Well, that might be true,
but before you conclude why not check out
these signs to make sure you are lusting.

1: You look past their foolishness
When you are in love you point out your
partners mistakes. You are not afraid to let
them know when they are wrong. If they love
you also they would accept the criticism and
try to be a better person.

2: You see them as god or goddess
When you are lusting after someone that
person seems perfect to you. When you love
someone you see their imperfections and love
them anyways.

3: Silence is awkward
You are always thinking about what to say
next to keep the conversation going, when you
are not talking you think of making out. When
you are in love you let the silence sit
comfortable.

4: It's all about the sex
Anytime you are together it's usually because
sex is involved. You're not really interested in
spending quality time together, all you both
want to do is have sex.

5: There is no connection
There's no late night talks, no cuddling, you
don't share your feelings together. Again all
you both want to do is have sex.
https://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2017/11/signs-that-you-are-in-lust-not-love.html?m=1

some girls don't mind being a side chick, while some don't even know they are one. How do you know if you are his side chick? Check out these six signs below.

1: You've never been to his place
If he's always giving you excuses as to why you cannot come to his place then there is a problem. He is either married or living with his girlfriend, otherwise he's got no reason to stop you from coming over.

2: You never spend the night together
He will tell you he has to be up early for work, or he's got somewhere important to be, these are all lies. He's probably going home to his wife or to another side chick. No guy would stay and cuddle a girl that means nothing to him.

3: You never get to meet his friends
You might be thinking he's got no friends, probably that's why you haven't met any yet, trust me he's got lots of them, you're just not worth meeting them.

4: He never answers his phone in front of you
If he us always rejecting his calls, or sneaking to answer his calls, he's got another woman somewhere he's hiding. You are just a side chick.

5: You never see each other during the day
If you only go on late night dates then you are his side chick. He won't take you out during the day because he doesn't want his wife or other side chicks to see him.

6: He doesn't like to take photos
If he never takes a photo with you, or even when he does his face is never seen, he's a big time player who is trying to cover his tracks.
https://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2017/11/6-signs-that-you-are-side-chick.html?m=1

So you and your partner have been dating for a while now and you feel he is the one you have been searching for. He wants you to meet his family and you are worried if they would accept you. Normally the mother in-laws are the hardest to please, especially if the guy is an only son or the last child. See some ways that you can get into their good book.

1: Be respectful
Any lady who wants to get married and fully accepted into the man family should be ready to show respect. We all know how much Nigerians love respect, especially the Yoruba's. You may not agree with them, but respect their opinions.

2: Offer to help
These speaks a lot about your character, the kind of person you are. Even though its not your home, you can offer to help out in any way you feel you can. Trust me his mum would really appreciate this.

3: stay in touch
Don't just meet his family and disappear. Call them sometimes to say hi, call them during birthdays or anniversary, these way you keep the relationship going. They would like you if they know you have them in mind.

4: control yourself
Learn to control your emotions. Sometimes his family may be hostile towards you, they may deliberately say things just to offend you. Try to control yourself, don't start shouting at them or speaking back at them, just let them be for now.

https://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2017/11/so-you-and-your-partner-have-been.html?m=1

So, you met a nice guy and you are both about
to go on your first date. Exciting right?
Totally. As exciting as it might first dates can
be really scary and nerve-wracking, being
yourself helps you feel relaxed and
comfortable. Here are some first date advice
every girl should know.

1: Dress comfortable
I know you want to impress these new guy by
looking your best. You are tempted to put on
that dress that is a little too tight, or that
shoe that you can barely walk with. Trust me
now is not the time to do that, you want to be
able to breathe freely, talk and move freely.

2: Don't drink too much
I don't think say much on these one. If you
are hoping to have a second date then you
don't want to leave your first date drunk.

3: put your phone away
It is rude to be on a date with someone and
you are constantly touching your phone. There
is nothing more annoying than trying to have a
conversation with someone that is constantly
touching her phone. Am sure your phone can
wait.

4: keep the conversation going
Don't let him be the only one talking it can be
boring, don't give a yes or no answer it can
kill a conversation. Ask him questions about
his work, family, hobbies etc.

5: don't obsess about your appearance
Stop going to the bathroom every five minute
to reapply your make up. Focus on having a
solid conversation instead of worrying about
how you look.

6: Have an exist strategy if things don't go
well
Unfortunately, not all dates turn out well. If
your date is being rude or making you feel
uncomfortable, call him out on it without being
mean. If you are just not feeling the date, it is
OK to tell him how you feel. Remember you
have no obligation to spend any more time
than you feel.

7: Wait for him to call
Play it cool and wait for his call. If he's
interested in you he would call or text you at
the end of the night.
https://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2017/11/first-date-tips-every-girl-should-know.html?m=1

Many times you hear women
complain about their
boyfriend not proposing.
After all the cleaning and cooking,
you putting up your best behaviour
you are wondering why he still has
not asked the question yet. Here are
some of the reasons below.

1: he is not ready to give up his
freedom
He is not ready to spend the rest of
his life with just one woman. Most
men hate the thought of sleeping
with one woman for the rest of their
life. You can call them players but
one thing is for sure, they still want
to explore other women.

2: he feels already married to you
You guys are probably living
together and you are doing
everything a wife would do to her
husband, he sees no need to put a
ring on it.

3: he doesn't have the money
Planing a wedding and starting a
family can be really expensive
especially from these part of the
world. Not all men are financially
able to handle that now, he might just
be waiting to have the money for it.

4: You have a bad character
Every man desires peace in his
marriage. If your character is bad
he's not going to marry you, its that
simple. You can't go disrespecting
people he cares about and expect a
ring.

5: he doesn't want to marry you
These could be because he has seen
someone else who he feels is of his
standard, or he simply just wanted
to have fun with you. Either way
he's not interested in marrying you.
https://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2017/11/why-he-has-not-proposed-yet.html?m=1

There are several reasons why
people cheat in relationship,
men are not the only ones
that cheat, women do cheat as well.
There are several reasons why a
woman would cheat. How do you
know when she is cheating? Let's
look at some common signs that
shows she is cheating.

1: she loses interest
These should be the most know fact.
Women general take interest in
even the smallest of detail of the one
they love. They want to know what
you are doing, where you are, why
you did not call to check up on her
etc. Why she starts cheating on you
she generally care less about your
activity.

2: she is always online
Agreed that we all love to press our
phone, and some people find it
difficult to drop their phone, but
when she cannot take some time off
to attend to you then she is
definitely cheating. If she keeps
chatting and smiling even while on
a date with you, am sorry to say but
she's definitely cheating.

3: she starts to change her
appearance
You remember how she normally
appear looking her best whole you
guys were still at the getting to
know each other stage, then after a
while she start to care less about
how she looks because you guys are
now comfortable with arch other. If
out of the blue she suddenly starts
to look like Beyonce, my brother she
is cheating on you.

4: she starts nagging
Once your girl suddenly starts to
nag about everything you do she is
cheating on you. She wants to get
out of the relationship and doesn't
know how to do it she is frustrated
so she nags about everything.

5: she is no longer interested in
intimacy
You try to touch her she stops you
and avoid you like a virus. If she
suddenly starts refusing you sex
then she is cheating.
You are not getting any kisses or
touches because it has all been
given to another guy.
https://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2017/11/signs-that-she-is-cheating-on-you.html?m=1

Having a guy best friend can
be fun and very interesting.
Like every relationship it
has good days and bad days, but
one thing that is certain is that your
guy best friend will always have
your back.

1: They are good listeners
Even though they don't understand
the reason for your rant, why you
hate your body, or you crying over a
guy who just dumped you, they still
take out time to listen to you rant.

2: Your secretes are safe
Every girl will agree with me that
we females are not good at keeping
secretes, especially the secretes of
our fellow sisters. Even though as
humans we all have the tendency to
spread secretes and gossip like fire
can spread in a forest, you've got
agree with me that guys are way
better at keeping secretes, especially
that of their female best friends.

3: Everyone thinks you are dating
or like each other

This might be true for some people,
but sometimes a guy and a girl just
wants to be friends. When you are
out together in public people would
just assume you are dating, or just
too shy to admit your feelings. This
can be frustrating, especially if you
are looking to meet someone new.

4: you get jealous
Even though you don't want to date
him you also don't want him dating
anyone, at least not now. Selfish
right?, I know but you just can't
help it. You are use to it being just
the two of you, once he starts dating
someone else is coming into the
picture, you start to feel jealous.

5: You have probably checked him
out once

It is possible for a girl and a guy to
be just friends, but that doesn't
mean that our emotions don't get
involved. Even though we females
might never admit this, but at some
point you have thought about the
possibilities of you guys dating.
https://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2017/11/4-things-that-only-girls-with-guy-best.html?m=1

J ealousy as defined by the
English dictionary, is a mental
uneasiness from suspicion or
fear of rivalry, unfaithfulness etc.
Insecurity is one of the major causes
of jealousy in a relationship. When
one partner begin to question the
feelings of the other, insecurity
comes in, which will eventually lead
to jealousy.
SIGNS OF JEALOUSY
A jealous person feels that someone
or something is threatening
something they value. They usually
show signs of

1: possessiveness: A jealousy
partner is always possessive of the
other. They start telling you what to
do, when and how to do them,
always wanting to know your every
move.

2: Anger: A jealousy person tend to
be angry at ever little thing. They
can be dangerous to people around
them.

4: Oversensitive: Every little thing
is a problem to them. Nothing you
do or say is ever good enough for
them. You find yourself always
trying to please them.

HANDLING YOUR JEALOUSY

1: Stop comparing yourself to others
Yes! There are better looking,
richer, funnier, and smarter people
out there than you, but if he or she
loves you, it is because of an extra
quality that you have. Give yourself
some credit and quit being insecure.

2: Stop imagining things
Like all psychological problems,
jealousy is driven by the use of the
imagination. Your imagination can
be great, but it also messes with
your mind.

3: Talk to your partner
Whenever you ate feeling insecure
or worried talk to your partner, tell
them about your feelings without
blaming them.

4: Trust
The ultimate of all of them is trust.
Until you have a valid reason not to
trust your partner, it won't kill you
to have a little trust.
https://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2017/11/jealousy-in-relationship.html?m=1

Josephjnr:
Good points.

Thanks

One on the things that kills a relationship is bad communication. Many time people fail to communicate how the truly fill about a thing, which leads to failed expectations, and eventually the end of the relationship. These are some of the ways that people can have better communication in their relationship.

1: speak out
One thing I always advice people is to always say be open about their feelings. Except your partner is psychic he or she can't read your mind, so on less you let them know how you feel they may never know.

2: Listen
Another great communication skill is listen. Yes it is good to always make your mind known, but before jumping in to pass judgment to you take out to hear what your partner has to say, if you want to interrupt you need to ask for permissiom. "Sorry, can I ask you a question?" Is a reasonable way to do it.

3: Ask questions
These one is very simple, if you are not clear on something simple ask questions. Don't make assumptions, if you don't know ask, if you are not satisfied with an answer ask for more explanation.

4: Say the truth
To truly enjoy your relationship and not feel traped, you should always be honest about your feelings. Don't pretend to like something you don't like, if you are not happy about something then let your partner know, if you are happy about something then express yourself. When you keep holding back your feelings' one day it will all come pouring out, trust me it might not turn out good.

For all the lovers out there, I wish you good luck in your relationship as you communicate better.

https://bluelizzblog..com.ng/2017/11/how-to-have-better-communcation-in-your.html

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