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millionboi2:
how many time have you win with them

What's Corg Ai about?

Tinubu na Baba werey. The guy na water, E sabi find him way.

Stormtrooper11:
You just insulted me for no reason. Was just seeking you opinion tho, I wasn't even in your initial argument. All good anyways, I understand your perspective and personality now.

No vex, your response looks sarcastic. But just do some googling you'll get the answer to your question.

Stormtrooper11:
So, where was the first commercial hub in the federal Republic of Nigeria?

Olodo, go and do your research.

IRIEBOY:
Lagos is a commercial hurb and also at a very good location for import and export even before they gave birth to oyour drug lord

Lagos was not the FIRST COMMERCIAL HUB in Nigeria, you can do your findings. Why is the first commercial hub no longer the first. Aside that, how did Lagos become the 4TH LARGEST ECONOMY IN AFRICA?

dettolgel:
If only you know where I am responding to you from.

How did money ritual got into this conversation?

Olodo I asked you simple question "bring lists of Tinubu benefits as ex governor of Lagos State and show me any ex governor in Nigeria that cornered that much from tax payers" and you are here running around like headless chicken.

As usual propaganda is the watch word of you hypocritical hateful demonic fellow.

Remove those traits from your life and see how you prosper in the coming months.

I dont care the country where you're slaving for your white slave masters. As much as I am against the bogus salary of politicians, go and do a proper check of former Lagos state governor and see how much he earns. Besides, way before Tinubu became Governor, he was a senator.

sunboy:
They could have all relocated to the new Capital but yet more companies are trickling into the FTZ area and the Eko Atlantic especially.

Lagos rail was Jakande’s vision, but Tinubu revamped the plans and expanded on it.

Tinubu didn’t built Lagos from scratch, but it is very stupid for anybody to overlook or underplay his contribution as the governor of Lagos.

Baba, nobody is saying Tinubu built Lagos from scratch. Even ADAM and EVE met land to farm and animals to hunt when God drove them out of Eden.

POGazette:
your papa wèrey
Click the link
Olorîburuku

Lol, when people like you start insulting INSTEAD OF BRINGING OUT FACTS to support your claims, it means you're confused.


In other stories, we've been arguing about achievements of Tinubu in Lagos, abeg WHAT ARE OBI'S ACHIEVEMENTS AS ANAMBRA GOVERNOR? Let's discuss.

Obasanjo wrote in his book, before you engage people in any business that requires trust, its important to do your findings about their TRACK RECORD or PREVIOUS HISTORY.

dettolgel:
Look at this nitwit. Demon parading as human.

I challenge you to list Tinubu entitlement as ex governor and tell me any other ex governors that cornered such for themselves?

Hypocritical lying and demonic hate-filled individual I will be waiting for the lists ooh.

POVERTY MENTALITY, it's your type that believes anybody that's rich did money ritual or stole from somewhere.

IRIEBOY:
almost all banks and big companies have head quarters in Lagos even before them born that drug lord

And if Lagos wasnt peaceful and organised with good returns on investment, they would have relocated. If those Bank headquarters were in Borno or Anambra state, they would have relocated a long time ago.

Hendrixky:
You are a shame to Edo people


You attribute lagos development to tinubu

A place that was once the capital

Is it CAPITAL that brought the BRT buses, the new rail, new oshodi, LFTZ etc. Lagos is just like any other state, just that it has GOOD LEADERSHIP, there are many cities in Nigeria that were once capital, where are they today?

Hendrixky:
Stop attributing lagos development to tinubu

What about other administration of past and present governors

You guys are just so dumb. If you dont understand the leadership structure in Lagos, why dont you just keep quiet.

Tinubu designed the modern Lagos all your people are running to, I went to Lekki free trade zone the other day and I saw what it means for someone to have VISION (AND THATS TINUBU). The lekki deep seaport, Dangote refinery and fertilizers company, indomie, power oil. All these companies and MANY OTHERS have moved their production to LFTZ. Go and read about LFTZ and number of people that will be employed through that project alone. Let's not go into transportation and how Lagos state government is gradually phasing out Molue and other old methods of transportation. Asiwaju and other member of the party including traditional rulers in Lagos ENSURES that the next governor continues where the previous one stops. It's a combined effort from all Lagos indigenes, just that Tinubu is the political leader. WHEN YOU DONT UNDERSTAND SOMETHING, KEEP QUIET OTHERWISE YOU MAY END UP INVOKING SUCH OCCURENCE UPON YOURSELF. Just imagine people who have never met you carrying bad stories about you to the point that people start hating you and dont want to associate with you. THE ONLY REASON I WANT OBI TO BE PRESIDENT IS BECAUSE I FEEL IGBO ALSO DESERVE TO BE PRESIDENT IN NIGERIA, otherwise it will be Tinubu. Obasanjo seized Lagos allocation for 22 months when Tinubu was Governor, this man used agberos to collect tax from the nooks and cranies of Lagos and never owed Lagos state workers throughout that period, GENIUS.

PJtech:
Haa!! what is this?

It's like you dont know how election is done in the North, you're there believing Buhari would conduct a free and fair election.

Willie2015:
. Buhari ..na hardman... He no dey listen to anyone .. except his Hausa cabal folks .. Even VP Osibanjo be like Commissioner for 8 years

Commissioner Ke, the VP was just like a special assistant who makes public speech on behalf of oga.

This thread should cover HOME PAGE today, but its hidden somewhere among other topics. Please, mods should do the needful. At least, it should be at the top of other topics until the PRESIDENT is declared.

Leoniine:
Werey ni e se.

Now i know you're a proper werey that has gotten lost in the forest.

So this was all it took for you to laugh?

Abi na me you dey quote? Lmao.

Kai. See the stupid, daft thing I am exchanging words with. I wonder where your level of intelligence is at when you don't know how to quote properly.

What a wasted sperm and labour.

I can sympathise with you a little bit sha.

Old age pregnancies have a way of doing that to unfortunate kids like yourself. Giving you developmental problems here and there. 🥲



Alaye, ye ma cap fun mi.

Him sef dey do like person wey dey knowledgeable.

Nor be you, too, Fela been accurately described when he called some people animals in human skin before?

Ode kobokobo alainironu. Omugo atole oloju eja. Omo pau bi ibon.

Oga, who cares? You're all around dead and distorted individual. You cannot excel in ANYTHING, take it from me. Whether you're educated or not, whether you know English or not, or whether you take pride in your culture or not, it doesn't change the fact that you can never amount to anything in your life, and that will continue to be a source of sore and disappointment to your parents who will ******* ******** ************.



C'mon!!!!!

Is this not what you wanted?

Nor be my attention and mouth you dey find ni, Bayo Babalola of The Gbaruff Royals Destructive Properties?

Was it not exactly this back and forth you wanted, you mentally sick hyena? However negative?

Now I am giving it to you, and you're saying whatever... Please, I really want you to keep up this streak and consistency. May the best "vile vomiter" win.

Hollllup. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

What I am fighting for is personal? O ti ya werey gan. So did you or did you not know that my feminism was not your business before you decide to be making projections about my life and how I will end up lonely and depressed and whatnot at the end of my life?

Because you have seen the future to know how you will end up in your pitiable life? Arinurode olomoranokan.

Please, enough with the loneliness line. It's soooo boringggg to tears, Bayo. So boring and stale and unoriginal anymore 😭😭. I am very sure you're close to your 40s, after you've been here since 2008, and attended LASU around that time, LMAO.

So stop projecting the realities of your life on me.

You're the unhappy one, you're the single one and you're the one living with regrets after a lot of women have taken advantage of you and dumped you for better, richer and finer men while you're still there wallowing in poverty, but struggling with a decrepit real estate business.

Your business doesn't even have any presence online and you call yourself a serious person.


Pray tell, was that the case of your mom? A used-and-dumped serial divorcee whom your father without spine settled for?

Eyaaa... 💔💔💔

Just took my time to read through this and observed you've been writing based on probably what is happening in your cursed family. If your Mother was a serial recycled divorcee, does that mean everybody's mother out there is one? Apparently you are a product of a dysfunctional family probably raised by an irresponsible single mother, theres no way you'll understand how a decent family works?

malware:
https://www.helsinkitimes.fi/finland/finland-news/politics/22994-nigeria-demands-finland-to-stop-lahti-councillor-s-armed-revolt-in-southeastern-nigeria.html

If they think all these Biafra drama is OVER, then they must be dreaming. Am not an igbo man but it's not easy to defeat guerrilla fighters just like that.

Leoniine:
Werey ni e se.

Now i know you're a proper werey that has gotten lost in the forest.

So this was all it took for you to laugh?

Abi na me you dey quote? Lmao.

Kai. See the stupid, daft thing I am exchanging words with. I wonder where your level of intelligence is at when you don't know how to quote properly.

What a wasted sperm and labour.

I can sympathise with you a little bit sha.

Old age pregnancies have a way of doing that to unfortunate kids like yourself. Giving you developmental problems here and there. 🥲



Alaye, ye ma cap fun mi.

Him sef dey do like person wey dey knowledgeable.

Nor be you, too, Fela been accurately described when he called some people animals in human skin before?

Ode kobokobo alainironu. Omugo atole oloju eja. Omo pau bi ibon.

Oga, who cares? You're all around dead and distorted individual. You cannot excel in ANYTHING, take it from me. Whether you're educated or not, whether you know English or not, or whether you take pride in your culture or not, it doesn't change the fact that you can never amount to anything in your life, and that will continue to be a source of sore and disappointment to your parents who will ******* ******** ************.



C'mon!!!!!

Is this not what you wanted?

Nor be my attention and mouth you dey find ni, Bayo Babalola of The Gbaruff Royals Destructive Properties?

Was it not exactly this back and forth you wanted, you mentally sick hyena? However negative?

Now I am giving it to you, and you're saying whatever... Please, I really want you to keep up this streak and consistency. May the best "vile vomiter" win.

Hollllup. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

What I am fighting for is personal? O ti ya werey gan. So did you or did you not know that my feminism was not your business before you decide to be making projections about my life and how I will end up lonely and depressed and whatnot at the end of my life?

Because you have seen the future to know how you will end up in your pitiable life? Arinurode olomoranokan.

Please, enough with the loneliness line. It's soooo boringggg to tears, Bayo. So boring and stale and unoriginal anymore 😭😭. I am very sure you're close to your 40s, after you've been here since 2008, and attended LASU around that time, LMAO.

So stop projecting the realities of your life on me.

You're the unhappy one, you're the single one and you're the one living with regrets after a lot of women have taken advantage of you and dumped you for better, richer and finer men while you're still there wallowing in poverty, but struggling with a decrepit real estate business.

Your business doesn't even have any presence online and you call yourself a serious person.


Pray tell, was that the case of your mom? A used-and-dumped serial divorcee whom your father without spine settled for?

Eyaaa... 💔💔💔

From the Epistles you settle down to write about YOUR PAINS, it's obvious you're not only deranged but also jobless. I hardly read them though cos they dont apply to me. You're only expressing your pain. AS E DEY PAIN THEM, E DEY SWEET US.

Leoniine:
Werey ni e se.

Now i know you're a proper werey that has gotten lost in the forest.

So this was all it took for you to laugh?

Abi na me you dey quote? Lmao.

Kai. See the stupid, daft thing I am exchanging words with. I wonder where your level of intelligence is at when you don't know how to quote properly.

What a wasted sperm and labour.

I can sympathise with you a little bit sha.

Old age pregnancies have a way of doing that to unfortunate kids like yourself. Giving you developmental problems here and there. 🥲



Alaye, ye ma cap fun mi.

Him sef dey do like person wey dey knowledgeable.

Nor be you, too, Fela been accurately described when he called some people animals in human skin before?

Ode kobokobo alainironu. Omugo atole oloju eja. Omo pau bi ibon.

Oga, who cares? You're all around dead and distorted individual. You cannot excel in ANYTHING, take it from me. Whether you're educated or not, whether you know English or not, or whether you take pride in your culture or not, it doesn't change the fact that you can never amount to anything in your life, and that will continue to be a source of sore and disappointment to your parents who will ******* ******** ************.



C'mon!!!!!

Is this not what you wanted?

Nor be my attention and mouth you dey find ni, Bayo Babalola of The Gbaruff Royals Destructive Properties?

Was it not exactly this back and forth you wanted, you mentally sick hyena? However negative?

Now I am giving it to you, and you're saying whatever... Please, I really want you to keep up this streak and consistency. May the best "vile vomiter" win.

Hollllup. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

What I am fighting for is personal? O ti ya werey gan. So did you or did you not know that my feminism was not your business before you decide to be making projections about my life and how I will end up lonely and depressed and whatnot at the end of my life?

Because you have seen the future to know how you will end up in your pitiable life? Arinurode olomoranokan.

Please, enough with the loneliness line. It's soooo boringggg to tears, Bayo. So boring and stale and unoriginal anymore 😭😭. I am very sure you're close to your 40s, after you've been here since 2008, and attended LASU around that time, LMAO.

So stop projecting the realities of your life on me.

You're the unhappy one, you're the single one and you're the one living with regrets after a lot of women have taken advantage of you and dumped you for better, richer and finer men while you're still there wallowing in poverty, but struggling with a decrepit real estate business.

Your business doesn't even have any presence online and you call yourself a serious person.


Pray tell, was that the case of your mom? A used-and-dumped serial divorcee whom your father without spine settled for?

Eyaaa... 💔💔💔

From the Epistles you settle down to write, it's obvious you're not only deranged but also jobless. I hardly read them though cos they dont apply to me. You're only expressing your pain. AS E DEY PAIN THEM, E DEY SWEET US.

CodedWealth:
No I don't, download telegram and join.

To clear space for my phone ehn, dont know which app to delete

CodedWealth:
Do the crime, face the time.

That's just it.

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Why pay hungry scammers when artificial intelligence can give you profits from sports picks for free?

Artificial intelligence sport trading is the modern age trading boost, find and join "Corg Ai" on telegram now.

In all you do, don't miss this.

Dont you have WhatsApp group?

🤣🤣🤣

I love me honest people, Baby B.

Magnoliaa:
And point of correction; it should be "whatever I look like", which is very far from your 'too clean' description.

This is what Fela called "Kolo mentality ". Am not sold out to being the best English speaker, I'll rather work hard on my Yoruba just like the Chinese, Russians pride themselves in their language and culture.

Magnoliaa:
Now back to the matter on ground, why did you commit yourself to getting me back in line and knocking sense into my head as regards feminism, when you knew you've not got the balls nor liver to follow through with it?

Is that how genuine Iseyin offsprings do, huh?

Whatever you're fighting for is your personal headache. What someone like me is trying to do is to prevent men from thrashing you in the recycle bin in the name of divorce when they're done taking their share from you, just for another man to pick you up and continue the cycle, until nobody is ready to irresponsible baggage again. LONELINESS.

Magnoliaa:
The irony of this when you and I both know what you look like, Bayo.

Choi. 😭

Whoever I look like, as long as d person is not a criminal. You link me to crime, I'll get you my own way and at my own convenient time.

Magnoliaa:
Yes, and I trust that as a good warrior and believer in Christ, you will also do your part, alongside, in fighting the principality of feminism - a cancer to the society and culture, which I am propagating.

I am quoting you to remind you of your resolve in "not standing for that nonsense."

No one who puts their hand to the plow should look back; so I will implore you to continue your charge hereon against "embittered rejects like me who will end up depressed."

I will be looking forward to your challenge.

Thing is, I dont fight pigs. Too clean to start fighting people with gutter brains.

Oh lord, imagine the pricipalitities you will have to fight for this country to move forward. Even INEC is part of the principalities.

Don't people wash Ekweremmadu's cars, clothes etc?

Why won't he call Tinubu, Atiku or a big man's child to do those?

Everyone won't be rich.

I can employ someone to be wiping my butts, brushing my teeth.

Will I employ Dangote's son to do that?


Is anything wrong in employing a willing person to do that and pay them?

You see how many people don like my post. No peace for the wicked.

budaatum:
Don't criticise you? You funny.

Your "parent warned you to stay away from a person", but you ignored your parents warning and "connected on another level we became close friends" with that person, yet think you are "any normal kid"? Tell me, did you also put your hand in fire after your parents told you not to, and do you think that is what and normal kids do?

The dude even said he disobeyed his parents like any NORMAL KID. What's normal about disobedient children. DISOBEY MY DAD AT YOUR OWN PERIL. The discipline helped my life sha.

LagosInter:
I condemn our politicians for not building good hospitals here.

But this boy is a liar.

He knew what he was going to do.

And there is nothing wrong in agreeing to donate a kidney in expectation of support.

Yes, paying for kidney is illegal but the difference between paying for it and supporting the donor is in semantics.

I can give the donor a house, car, money etc afterwards and call it support and not payment.

People can do anything for money provided it's consensual.



Many Ebonyi people are like that. Very unreliable.

Pity the boy small nah, why the hatred for poor struggling people. Can Ekweremadu do same to Buhari, Osinbajo, Wike or Atiku's children. Why didn't he approach any of his senator friends or their families for kidney abi dem no get. These people take advantage of the situation of Nigerians and people like you still hail them, na wa O. If he needs matching kidney for his daughter, he knows exactly where to get and the right price, that's what the English people are saying. Taking a helpless boy and giving him peanuts is wrong and PUNISHABLE according to English laws.

Leoniine:
The respect you do not have for your worthless and frail, sick parents?

Especially this man below?

Ehn, Bayo Babalola or should I call you Baku Aisanlola?

Tell me.

The pains and headaches this is causing you is understandable, society rejects like you feels others are going through the same miserable life like you but all the misery you've been spewing lives in your schizophrenic brain alone. Continue revealing the pains in your brain, Madness 101, enjoying the way you display your madness.

STOICREALIST:
Share your dreams with both of them and see which of them will be excited to play a role in the future you decide to create for yourself. Which one will let you lead the way and she follows, offering you full and total support?

Listen, beauty will fade. And a virgin can become a rascally slut tomorrow. However it is very important to understand the fundamental mentality of these two ladies when it comes to :

-being Respectful
-being Submissive
-being Loyal
-being Modest
-being Chaste/Faithful
-being Agreeable
-Trusting your leadership and
-Supporting the family structure
-Staying with you in a ride or die manner

There are numerous indirect ways of knowing a woman’s and human’s mentality.

Know now that Marriage is like a business. You are CEO, and the woman you marry has to be the MD. Liken your kids to Staff Members. (No.. You cannot have two CEOs. Leave nonsense mentality that for the Europeans). Now Ask yourself, that in this Company of marriage that you want to set up/register with the government, which of these two ladies will be a better MD? Which will be loyal to the company even when things aren’t so good? Which will ensure and give her possible best to make sure the company grows and the staff flourish and are happy? Which will jump ship to another man or complain and develop animosity towards you if things go bad?

Everyone can love you when things are comfortable. True test is when things are hard or challenges come. I do not want to encourage you, I would have given you examples of tests of loyalty. But these tests while they reveal true motives of women and individuals, they fail to account for the fact that people change for better or change for the worse in future.

Personally, I would go for the Virgin and see if I can fall in love with her. Being chaste is something I like. I take pride in knowing that no one will see my woman and smile to himself thinking and recalling how he bleeped her like this and flipped her like that in his bed. I do not fancy women who do not mind having their “business” out there and being carried in Magazines. My younger sister,funny enough, was “Sun Girl” too some years back and then they usually printed their phone numbers and emails with their photos. Her phone number didn’t rest for Weeks back then. Men kept calling and emailing and offering gifts etc.

But you are not me. So take your time and make a choice. A choice that will best suit the type of family establishment you want to have, run and maintain.

YOU HAVE MY RESPECT.

Britishcoins:
Pls my fellow Nairalanders, I am in confused state of mind right now... I am in my early 30. I am not super rich but I am financially comfortable, at least living in my own apartment and having a business that give me atleast 600k monthly.
I am equally the first son and my parents are late, so I am like the head of the family to my younger ones...
Age is no longer at my side and I have no reason why I am still single.. But there is a problem.
I have plenty female admires.. Even some which was suggested for me through families and friends.. But only 2 of them I will talk abt now

Let me call one of them Judith and the other one IFEOMA.
Judith is from from the same local government with me.. I knew her when she was still in secondary school and I was apprentice then... I don't even know what was called love then.. We only greet like brother and sisters because we are in far away north then.
I have relocated to another state and she too is now undergraduate, studying nursing at uni zik Awka. I normally call her because I was in good term with her mother.. She feel in love with me. But my own fear is that I am not sure if she will understand the language of hardship. She was only Dauther and last born, the family is average comfortable.
The only thing she always rely most is her beauty... She is so beautiful no wonder she just won a beauty queen competition, the sun newspaper even carry the news.. But her beauty is not what attracted me..
Last December I visited her parent with just one of my uncle and they welcomed us very well..
Another issue is that she still have abt 4 years to finish her education.. And I don't want to waste more than 2 years ahead.


Now let me talk abt IFEOMA. She is from Nsukka, very far from my local government.
She is living with her sister here in the same state I am staying...
She is 25 and years and Judith is 22 years.
She is NCE holder.. Based on my findings so far she is good in business and came from a poor family too.. She is equally a virgin, I am very sure of it..
She not too beautiful but have showed her love to me... The problem is that I have no feelings for her.. But I love her hard working..
I am planning to invite Judith to spend some weeks with me to understand her characters.

Pls I don't know how to write more..
Which one should I marry?

Baba, you see VIRGIN and you still dey ask question. Marriage is who gives you peace of mind. Dont come here years from now to tell us that your wife's ex is disturbing her or she's been chatting up her ex lately or you want to do DNA test for you children because you dont trust your wife anymore. I no go pity you that time O, make I tell you my church mind. If a lady could be disciplined enough to keep herself from men up till marriage, she deserves alot of respect. Character also matters too.

Norah199:
Good morning guys. I need some matured minds and married men and women in the house to look into this matter and give me an ideal way to go about this. Would be a long read pls bear with me.

So late late 2021, I got married to my long time girlfriend. Before the marriage, my mom had a little reservation about the girl and her family for some odd reasons due to her tribe. She’s Igbo. Everything was funny because the first day I introduced my wife to my mom. She liked her and everything was cool. They where going on well until my mom started telling me she’s having some dreams about the girl and her family. She’s white garment member. I think her dislike started growing when she told my wife about her church and she said she can’t go to her church for any reason. I was a former member of the church when I was a teenager but with time as I grew I stopped going to the church not because it’s a bad church or something wrong with it. I just don’t fancy going there and also not a church type of person. My mom believe it was the girl that made me stopped going to the church which was funny. She has said that several times.

For the record, I’m an only child of my mother, my dad is late and she’s yet to marry again. I do everything for her like her rent, monthly upkeep, and also got her a good car. Initially I thought she was doing all these because she felt she hasn’t enjoyed me yet and another woman is coming into the picture which is normal for most parents. So I did everything I could to make her comfortable before my wedding.

We did the wedding and everything went on smoothly aprt from some normal family disputes and all but the wedding was successful. Deep down I know my mom still doesn’t like my girl because of her statement s most times but I don’t always give her that room so she’s always quiet and rather not talk what’s on her mind.
Later on, my mom started complaining of the money I give to her. She seems not to be ok with it. Trust me guys. I do more than enough for my mom. I just tried my best to handle everything well and sometimes allow her have her ways with her demands so she doesn’t see my wife as a stumbling block to her.

To cut the long story short, my wife took in and was due for delivery and her mother came like a month before the delivery. Actually my wife had a false labour that made us rush to the hospital and doctor said she has very high maleria and was in serious labor. I called the mother immediately and she started coming the next morning because she lives in the East. The doctor gave her some injections and drugs for the maleria and the labor stopped. Doctor told us it wasn’t the right time for the baby to come out because it was 8 months.
The next morning when she was strong, we went back home with the mother that was already in town.

The mother decided to stay till the delivery instead of going back and coming again when she delivers which I supported.
Two weeks the doctor gave us turned to 1 month and labor didn’t still come. All these while I never knew my mom was so bitter that my mother inlaw was in my house for that long. She once asked me why the woman didn’t go and come back. It was that bad. To make matters worse, I lost my child after a CS was done on my wife. It appeared the baby was in distress which the doctors failed to notice and came out with birth asphyxia. After about two weeks, she died. I opened a thread on that.

Problem started after I buried my child. Everyone was in sorrow and so much pains especially my wife. A day after the burial my mother called my mother inlaw and asked her why she hasn’t gone yet. Started accusing the woman of killing the child and all manners of things. How she had turned her husband to vegetable and now she wants to teach her daughter how to turn her son into vegetable too. It was really bad. They both insulted each other and quarreled seriously on the phone just a day after the lost of my child. She also called my wife and told her “shebi she doesn’t want children” my wife was quiet and didn’t utter a word.

I was in so much pain and so pissed at my mom for everything she did and didn’t even speak to her for like a month even though I still sent her upkeep money. I reported her to her uncle and a few respected people. I don’t know if they talked to her but nothing was done. No body called for any meeting even her own pastor that I reported to. Instead he told me it’s woman talk. That they both insulted each other and the rest..

After that incident till date. My wife, mother, and mother inlaw haven’t spoken to each other even though I have had more peace since then but the fact still remains my mom and wife are not in good terms. I have long forgiven and moved on with my mom even though that closeness is not there but I don’t fail to send her money for upkeep every month. My wife is cool with it and said she doesn’t want that closeness with my mom even though she has forgiven her too.

My mom and I talks once in a while and never for once has she asked about my wife since that incident and my wife hasn’t called either which I don’t blame her. The last time I visited my mom. She said some ill things about my wife and her family and even told me my wife is not my rightful wife and some other things. I usually don’t listen to her talks because I know how religion has turned so many people into something else.

The question right now guys. What do I do in this situation. The truth is nothing can change my moms mind about my wife and her family. But still as a husband, I still feel somehow knowing my wife and mom are not in good terms. My mother inlaw the last time told me she wants to make peace with my mom that they can’t keep fighting forever especially because of her daughter. But deep down I know the thought my mom have about them. So I just told her it’s not the right time and with time everything will be fine. I can’t force my wife to call my mom because she didn’t do no wrong. At the same time my mom won’t even listen to me for any peace making. There are more things to say but I will end here. Sorry for the long write up.
Your opinions would be deeply appreciated.
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You're taking care of your Mum, your life is at peace. What else do you want. It's like you want to wake the demon that's causing problem in your family. Your Mum is like Tonto Dike that has become grandma, they dont have a husband who will love and take care of them, they then switch their attention to their son by trying to run the boy's home, never allow her do that. Continue taking care of her and she doesn't have to come to your house.