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Johnthejohn:
If only they will love each other without divorce

It's their culture over there which we're beginning to copy here.

jeromestarks:
What's is all this incantations?
I don't speak Hausa please

Na yoruba. I just can't stop laffing. I just want seun to improve Nairaland. Same features since 2008 wey I join.

jheaboiy:
Baba, e too deep naw..lol

The guy dey vex. Honestly some guys go just make you vex. See how he's acting cos of a pussy. When me I catch at least 2 girls every day on Facebook, one man dey cry because of 1 idiot LovePeddler.

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED

Wow, this is what guys on this forum called SIMP, I've finally seen someone that fits that description.

On serious note, as long as she's not carrying the pregnancy in my stomach, I'll not respond to any message from her. Best I'll do is visit a Police station to avoid stories of "He raped me". There and then, we'll resolve it so I never see her again, there are several ways to take care of the pregnancy/child if truly she's pregnant.

Righteousness2:
CARLIFORNIA!!!
These are not mere ordinary storms!!!
Judgement is Hovering on " Mystery Babylon"
These are Warnings on what is Coming!!!
The evils and Wickedness of the city and the Nation is set to be rewarded!!

Repentance is the only way out of what is Coming!

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Timaya don show

doughziay:
Is breast sucking the current problem you are facing?

Respect her decision man, it's just 6months!
Na baby breast milk you want dey drag?

Guy you dey vex. But TBH, some people don't remember their problems again once that thing hook them.

Wiseandtrue:
Which other method is there to explore You get sense at all

Consider this my last reply to you on this matter!

Modified:

Omo see mention you go fear

Some are suggesting that this mechanic could get a device for N30,000 (did you consider that he might be an apprentice) and some said he could use a pole bla bla bla

I don't know why some of you like crying more than the bereaved

Na the guy carry the engine and he is not complaining, haba! SMH

Aside from exercising I love the way he is enjoying and taking pride in what he is doing!

You should get the message the intelligent people are trying to pass. He didn't carry that engine for the cameras, it's what he REGULARLY DOES which SHOULD NOT BE ENCOURAGED if he wants to live long or enjoy adulthood. The people hailing him will not be there to support him if that engine lands on his leg or damages any part of his body. Oyibos that don't carry engines from vehicles know what they're doing.

SodiumValproate:
Why am I see the third guy from the right on Tiv Attire?

Abi Kuteb na Tiv too?

Fman come and explain


They need to give you Grammy award for this English

SodiumValproate:
Get a quality diIdo powered by mikano electricity and masturbate while reading it.

Haa

Messi1:
You neil it. A Kuteb man is proud and arrogant and tends to brag about his achievement. They are considered most intelligent tribe in Taraba and most prominent Lawyers and Judges in Taraba are Kuteb.

Proud of what exactly? Have they produced the richest man in the world before or what discovery did a kuteb man make? We could be so full of ourselves in Africa. Am sure, in terms of achievement they don't come near the Tiv people of Benue state.

Naturalgbola:
aso oke

Abi O

Messi1:
I'm proudly Kuteb by tribe from Taraba state.


Our traditional attire is eye-catching.


Our culture is simply the best.

What is best about this? You're probably a local champion. Have you visited calabar during the calabar carnival? Have you taken time to Google about the most beautiful cultures in the world. Have you even attended the cultural celebrations of any other tribe in the world.

jahsharon:
This is despicable. What a disgusting sight.

What's despicable about that, everybody get yansh and no be today yansh dey for back. Na same thing with that Cameroon guy yansh for world cup. Stop behaving like Americans, na everything dey irritate them.

Kingabia1998:
Don't get this confused I know that Chinese are really trying but this are cheap product the least can afford when it comes to build quality you never I mean you can never compare Chinese products with European/north America

This is just slave mentality

Blazebond:
This is what the U.S.A and western Europe don't ever want to happen,this is their biggest fear,their business are being bought over by the Chinese and Arabs,their dominance have been smashed away,the next thing would be the rejection of the u.s dollar as a means of international transaction,that would signal the total collapse of u.s and western European dominance,it would be the end of the u.s empire.

You're a genius.

Ekejoestar:
Man's loyal best friend strikes again.

Ekuke dogs may be mans loyal best friend. All these hybrids have something else inside them.

Moh247:
Fear kayanmata.... Look at a lovely family yul left behind

I fear your English. Which one is "left behind"? Did he die? Aye O

seunmsg:
Some of you are funny honestly. Some few months ago, you all were abusing Emefiele and calling him names. A lot of you even demanded for his resignation or sack over the APC primary debacle. You insulted him so much when CBN came up with the Naira redesigning policy. Today, he’s your hero who must be protected against the enemies of Nigeria. So, a president Peter Obi will protect Emefiele irrespective of the crime he has committed? Like seriously?

You have absolutely no idea why DSS is looking for him. You have absolutely no idea about the amount of intelligence available to DSS against him. You have absolutely no idea of why Emefiele himself is running away and even seeking asylum even when we all know that a clear conscience fear no accusation. You just have to defend him out of ignorance because he’s Igbo and it appears his recent policies are targeting some people you don’t like.

Goan sit down somewhere, na only grammar you sabi. A competent court refused to grant DSS an injunction to arrest him. Which law stops the Dss from providing the "INTELLIGENCE " available to them to the court. This is nothing but politics. I feel Emefiele has been used.

Next civil war in Nigeria may be caused by the police.

funkmrflexx:
There's a lady in my street that's always talking about how her husband is always buying her new hair and new things (I actually think she wants to make my wife jealous) so yesterday both of them were gisting and my wife got an sms alert (from mtn), she saw the text and said "wow baby u sent me money, thanks so much" the lady was like "God when, see love"

I remembered she always tries to intimidate my wife with her story of her husband buying this and that, a lot of women will probably tell her she's lucky and wish it was them but not my wife

Your wife needs to start avoiding the company of that lady. Friends are supposed to add value to you, help you get up when you're down and ultimate HELP ONE ANOTHER TO GROW. Once theres competition in friendship, it always leads to ENVY among the friends or HYPERTENSION for some of them to meet up or worse still friction in one of the friends home especially FEMALES.

seanwilliam:
How to make blood money in Nigeria,








Join politics

You came late, many people are already there waiting for their. And you a JJC just wants to come and make money under their nose, you berra goan look for money somewhere else. Tinubu already bought the APC presidential ticket several years ago and that's why when it was time for their PRIMARIES, he metaphorically told every other contender to stay away by saying EMI LOKAN.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Well..you can only sell blah blah blah in a metaphorical sense...
In the real world..souls/afterlife nonsense and devils don’t exist..they’re nothing more than imaginary concepts arising from ancient religious beliefs at a time long before there was any scientific knowledge of the world and how it works...

The problem is that religions teach Dumbos as if they really exist mainly because they use the concepts as part of their mechanism of power and control over people’s thoughts and lives to gain and retain them as faithful followers... The soul is supposed to take people who’ve died to an afterlife - an equally imaginary concept..but an extremely powerful and compelling one in psychological terms to vast numbers of people - and the imaginary devil is supposed to look after the imaginary hell..something used to frighten people who haven’t obeyed the dogma of the religion concerned back to being faithful...

There’s absolutely zero evidence to support either the concept of a soul or a devil (or a heaven or an afterlife) and a vast amount of evidence to show that the concepts are entirely man-made.
The idea of selling your soul is nothing but pure superstition...

Dindinrin, I guess you're a professor of creationology or how did know that everything is superstition?

Ednut03:
LoL. You have no reason debunking what I'm saying because you ain't in the US. I am. And I've been here for over 10 years to have an idea of the dating market here, including Canada.

Smiling when they see you doesn't mean sexual attraction. Most white chicks will smile when they see a black man, but that is because they're scared of you hurting them

Baba werey, na everything you sabi

jeromestarks:
Ethiopians calendar may be behind but they're not not economically behind.

If you want to be behind in your home, in your work, in your finances and in your happiness, marry a woman you did not disvirgin.

Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman and marry. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

You must have seen a lot with cheating ladies or wife. God will help you if you let him.

dawnomike:
She became more beautiful afterwards... The baby remodelled her

Theres something with sperm. The moment a lady starts having sex, fatty layers starts building up in her curves, bringing out her shape. The moment she chop the sperm Belleful and gets pregnant, you'll now see transformation as different fat cells starts waking up and take their own portion of sperm.

G00DHardDick:
Alaye your blood dey Hot o

Na so E suppose be. Most of the girls here are nothing to write home about.

G00DHardDick:
Those countries you mentioned are great too.

Russia has a language barrier just as Germany. But I believe most Germans speaks English more than Russians. However, America and Australia are lovely countries but there are little or no gun violence at all in Russia just as it is rampant in the US.

Above all, the 5 countries u just mentioned there are super dope. Australia is an extremely dope country and I would love to visit that country someday

So, how far with the relationship. No tell me say you still dey Naija O.

AmazonTopaz:
Since the countries are civilised why don't you go there. The countries you even mentioned how are their human rights record since your medulla oblongata is undeveloped to know what I meant by countries that respect human rights who even talked about them being civilised? I didn't even say that but your undeveloped oblongata could not even reason that way rather as usual and you are making it a Western issue. Since you hate the west so much go to Russia

CNN taught you something different about Russia. This is what someone who has interacted with Russians said about them.



I met this Russian lady in Dubai late 2019 and we became close friends, this lady speaks English but not perfectly well (you can easily tell from her Russian accent that she's still trying to learn English). But she was beautiful and awesome. I noticed that Russians loves blacks alot, esp if you're Africa. I used to think Russians are extremely racist far more than the USA, but I was shocked to find out all that was a lie. Russians are the most nicest people on earth, well mannered, cultured and highly respectful.



I believe you're one one of those people who believe everything people are saying online ABOUT Tinubu as well, someone you've never met or interacted with, that's STUPIDITY MENTALITY. It's like me HATING YOU AND TREATING YOU BAD because of the bad or hateful things people say about you.

Everlastingson:
I'm talking to people of God, people who want to go to heaven.

Lol, am a Christian too but you must understand God created us into our various religions: Hindus, Taoists, Christians, Muslims etc. Its not devil that created other human beings and I believe their religions also teaches them about afterlife. What most religions teaches that will qualify us for a good life after death is our show of love to others in this world. God can not make a mistake making someone to be born into Judaism in Israel or Taoism in China.

The waters are not calm at Paris Saint-Germain. What should have been all good things for the French club has turned into a storm.

The friction between their two most recognised stars, Lionel Messi - a World Cup winner with Argentina in Qatar - and Kylian Mbappe - beaten finalist with France - has left an open wound amongst the PSG teammates.

It's a wound that could increase with Messi's rumoured contract renewal until 2024, and his requests to president Nasser Al-Khelaifi.

One of the most controversial gestures came after Messi returned from his holiday.

When his teammates wanted to pay tribute to him for the victory in Qatar, Mbappe took a few days off, authorised by the club, to the United States. Even Christophe Galtier, the PSG coach himself, had to intervene.




"Leo didn't have any bad behaviour and in the four months I've been here I think the relationship he has with Kylian is good.

"Kylian had a good attitude, he was disappointed with the defeat but he went to congratulate Leo with a lot of class. I think that's good for the sport and for the team."

But the images on the pitch in the World Cup final are clear. Both forgot the colours of the French club and engaged in a brawl that did not go unnoticed.

A moment that quickly went viral on social media and was commented on by everyone.




The victory Argentina was a blow to Mbappe. His renewal with Paris Saint-Germain is reportedly signed and many are wondering what demands he made.

The first would undoubtedly be to become the leader of the sporting project, which would leave Kylian Mbappe in the background, who, it should be recalled, axed his move to Real Madrid precisely to take that role in the team.



Messi could also ask for his friend Neymar to stay at the club, something that has been called into question in recent days, as the French club will also have to readjust their wage bill.

In addition, Messi has already seen two of his team-mates Angel Di Maria and Leandro Paredes being let go last summer.




All this could once again provoke a storm that will be difficult to control.

Messi remains a clear MLS target, with Inter Miami confirming before the start of the tournament in Qatar that talks with the Argentine were at an advanced stage and Mbappe, for his part, continuing to show signs that he is even willing to reduce his fee to move if nothing changes at PSG.

For the time being, with Mbappe given a few days' rest, neither Neymar nor Messi will be available for Paris Saint-Germain's Coupe de France match against third-division side Chateauroux.

Everlastingson:
The 1st woman is the wife, the others are not. So you have to separate from the 2nd woman and others. Otherwise no heaven for you.

That's what your own religion taught you, there are hundreds of religion in the world, they have different teachings about marriage. Even people who practiced Judaism like David, Solomon etc had more than one wife.

dododawa1:
never coated you before,but you are wrong on this guy, according to MUSLIM book,many is accepted,as far you can FEED THEM unconditional.

I don't know why you guys waste energy on RELIGIOUS ARGUMENTS. Every religion/culture has its beliefs about morals, marriage, afterlife etc. There are hundreds of religions in these world, how many of them will you argue with?