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Every guy has its own "Sense Of Taste"..You had yours likewise I also.

Without wasting the limited time.

What are those things you take note or notice first in a lady at first sight before you approach her?
Share With Us.

Lemme First Start The Kick-Off..

Things I noticed Fist in a Lady..

1. Her Stature

I can't approach a lady that is too fat like "Mama Peace"(Patience Jonathan).It's a gigantic turn-off for me..
I prefer a slim and a curve bound lady like an arc of a Circle..Seriously, I'm allergic to "Fat Ladies".

2.Her Butt

Oh my Gosh! I prefer a moderate and slim-curved backside..I go "Gaga" for it...That's is the second thing I'll notice in a lady at first sight.

3. Boobs

Though, I'm not a fan that loves boobs like that.Buh seriously speaking..I can't date a lady that "Her Boob has Sagged" just like "Beverly Osu's" own..I prefer a well-built and packages boobs with a straight pointing Nipple..

I'm sure guys understand what I meant by a "Straight Pointing Nipple"?

Just kidding.

Feel free to add yours..

Ladies are highly welcome.

wristbangle:
@danceville, . Hilarious comment

Thanks Boss.

Wonderful Write-up Boss.

Cheerz!

Make Me Add my own join.

9.She's Using Excessive Make up:
Whenever she's going out and she didn't tell you where she's going.Guys if you find out her face is too much caked with powder, believe me, she's going to a man's house.

10. Receiving Of A Hidden Call Identity Number: If you notice your wife is being call with a hidden ID.And she quickly ran into d bathroom to receive the call.
Guys! That's a weird alert that her second man is calling her for a One Night Stand.

11.She Travels Alot:If she's a person that travels a lot.And she's not in any form of business.
Today, from Kwara to Lagos to Kaduna to Portharcourt without her doing any specific thing.Believe me, she's staying with another man.

BizBayo:
Expectations, as in? Kindly shed more light.

I didn't know you too would ask her...

Yewandequeen:
aswear op is talking to me#covers face

what will one do?when the few available ones ain't meeting our expectations?
op why na
am guilty of all

Expectations?
What are your expectations you want guys to Meet with?

Would blogging stop the fuel scarcity and low standard of living in this country?


Blogging ko... Logging ni.

Vinshu:
And is there some reason why your threads are about ladies?

Vinshu...I'm not in the mood to answer your question.


Merci!

Sir lalasticlala why? You didn't take my thread to home page, likewise, I guess it has d potentials of gracing front page sir.It's not easy to write and post an article sir.

I.e
10 lies ladies need to stop telling guys
www.nairaland.com/3053805/10-lies-ladies-should-stop#44788063

8 Things ladies do that shows they are the cause why they're still single
www.nairaland.com/3055708/8-things-show-nigerian-ladies

Please Sir, am looking forward to hearing from you.

Ximonak:
She wouldn't yes or no to your proposal, and will tell you if you can't wait you can date another but when you stop, she will be calling you and coming to your house to checkmate the females that will come visiting you
I have learnt to stop pleasing ladies once they say/act not interested

That's great..

Cheerz!

Laziness has killed this white man..
#Thief! #Ole!
Please someone shud tell me d meaning of thief in Hausa and Igbo.

Cc:lalasticlala.
Can you help me to give this thread a wider coverage.
I think it worth it sir.

Yewandequeen:
op why name
am guilty of all

Really?

Glad a lady admitted being guilty.

adimloaded:
@ op. Men are de reason y ladies are single because dey ends up hurting our feelings after deceiving us with dere swt talks which is full of lies.

I don't believe that...

emusmith:
To be sincere with you...It's not bad. I've had a bit of that and trust me, there's no arm in that. Well, I'll put a thread soon to end this contest.

That will be great.

Looking forward to seeing that thread.

emusmith:
The law is: Men are created to always chase the women. You are suppose to skilled at discerning green lights, if any. If not, still try to go after.

#ooops#

Lol sir.
Is it bad if ladies approach guys also?

emusmith:
My bro

My thread is summarized in this: Guys are the cause most ladies are single because of lack of action. See now, LoveU2 loves you but because she isn't saying it, you're still keeping her single.

Howdy?

Hi bro!

Wait she loves me and she didn't tell me, how would I know her feelings?

And I don't means I'm keeping her single..

I'm very Gud bro..

Where are the ladies to defend themselves

LuveU2:
You are just a lazy thinker. Am i surprised tho, no.

When it comes to us, dont stay on top of the water where you are comfortable cos you would be fooling yourself to know a lot when you know next to nothing. Only men with balls dive in to get wisdom.

Should you be blamed? not really! This is nairaland after all, your niche.

O-K!
Satisfy.

LuveU2:
Think deeper and you will see it.

There's nothing to think about dear..

Sistem007:
How could someone say men are the reason why women remain single ? where and how is it connected. please someone should share the link coz I would like to read it.

It amaze me also.

LuveU2:
Emusmith's points are more credible and still stand valid. And as far as am concerned men are the major reason most women are single.

I totally disagree with that.
Guys can't ever make you ladies remain single.Because it's your choice to be single.

simtosul:
You are on point bro most especially No 1, 6, 7 and 8. Ladies in this category friend zone guy that truly love them and refer to him as "We are just friends, no string attached" Smh

They're so perfect in that category of "friendzoning" guys.

.

There are a lot of pretty and smart single ladies out there and you often wonder why they're not attached to anyone or why no guy wants to be with them.

Clearly some ladies are single because they choose to be.They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life.

Many ambitions and very successful women find it hard to marry.There's this notion that the more successful a woman is, the more threatening she is to man.The assumption from guys is that she will be disrespectful, arrogant and proud.

There was a thread created by emusmith that guys are the main reason why Nigerian ladies are single buh I want to say it's a Big Lie.
How can guys be the reason why they're single?.
With that I came up the reasons why Nigerian ladies are at fault why they're Single.


Let's take a look at the reasons why Nigerian ladies remain single.

1.Afraid Of Commitment

Ladies are afraid of being committed to one person.Some still want to be able to hang out with different guys and not be questioed.For this reason, they chose to remain single.

2. Insecurity

Ladies have had bad experiences in the past and can't seem to move past it.Ladies feel all guys are the same and all they want from a lady is sex and they leave after getting it..
With the mind of that, the refuses to date any man that comes there way.

3. Trust Issues

Some ladies have been hurt badly in the past and they find it hard to trust any man.They would rather remain single than fall into the arms of another man who would deceive them with sweet talks that mean nothing.
Ladies, I want you to know that Guys are different.You just have to try it and see..Though, it's difficult to trust a guy nowadays buh you just have to put your trust in him and alway pray.

4. They Want To Remain Independent

Many ladies out there are not willing to give up their independence for anything.The ability to make their own decisions without having to consult a significant, the joy of doing whatever they like, how they like is one of the major perks of staying single.They value their independence and for that reason chose to remain single.

5. Afraid Of Seperation

Most marriages are crashing on a daily basis over flimsy excuses.Ladies would rather stay single than jump into marriage and be out in a couple of years..
Ladies, please know that it's how to plan your family that your family gonna results to..If you scheme it wisely and with patience, there won't be any form of seperation.

6. Waiting For Mr. Right

Ladies want to remain single until Mr. Right comes along.Some don't want to settle for the wrong guy just because they're feeling anxious about.I'm not saying it's bad to wait for Mr. Right.Buh, how can you find Mr. Right when you denied almost all guys in the world saying they don't worth your value..

7. Not Wanting To Settle For Less

There are many ladies out there who think too high of themselves.They see themselves as too posh or too rich to associate with certain kinds of people.They have a class and can't associate with anyone below that class.So most of the time they remain single waiting a man in their 'class' to come their way.
Ladies, you need to lower your standards.

8. Playing Hard To Get

Ladies overdo the 'playing hard to get' game.A guy could sometimes lose interest when the playing hard to get game becomes too much.
I'm not saying be easy and jump into the arms of every man that comes your way, buh at the same time, don't play too hard to get.Do not chase away a man of potential away that could be your future spouse with your games.

#FACTS

Inspired By
Emusmith

List Written And Compiled By
DanceVille

That's why I always advice my pals that "Stop advertising yourself on social media".Only God knows whose Enemy is..

RIP Damsel...
What a lost.

Tbells91:
Lol... I'm only guilty of no. 6 tho..

You sure? Only number 6.

Tabh:
So girls lie with I'm on my period? What happened to 'I don't want to Bleep you, so get lost"?

Yea! They do..

Vinshu:
Lol not "any" but "many" ( 1, 3, 5, 7, 10 )

So you're guilty of it and you told me I shouldn't generalise...

misshoree:
Am guilty of only number 3 and 6

Wow! Really...

ClassCaptain:
1) Esp give that your number, i will call you,,,

that was how one girl collected me number and said she would call me when she gets home... I now think she is homeless because till now, she has not called me.

that was how i asked one too, to give me her bbm pin. She refused but i persisted.. That was how she gave me her jamb reg number..

2) am not bleaching, its my natural colour coming out..

You will see their childhood pics and their colour is all black and shining in deep contrast to their fair skin now..
.
They will go like my true colour is just coming out ,its the enjoyment or fresh air, some will even say they are merely using coconut oil..


3) Never mind.... No need again..

When a lady tells u never mind or no need again.please that is when u should mind ooo... Pls mind ooo.

That's Great dude..

Cheer!

hatux:
I've never kissed any man in my life....
Doh

Who's fooling who

Lol! Ladies think we guys are dumb.

Cc:lalasticlala and mynd44.
Please can you help me to do the needful.. Or what did you think?