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Yes you're not a prisoner but you're a deliquent.

You're even supposed to be taken to the rehab not prison

We all know why they converted to islam


Meanwhile what of our infamous Hajia MEENAH aka Mercy aigbe

finallybusy:
The guy no resemble billionaire.

so does Terry wire and obj

booksbo0k:
Sorry for the long write up my people, I need advice.

My first son has been behaving somehow in our family, as if he's not part of this family...
You and this boy can be in the same house but you might not set your eyes on him once for a whole day. He will be inside his room through out...

He has been telling me that he is currently working on going to rent his own place and live on his own and that if God helps him and he is able to achieve that, He will not have anything to do with our family again and that we will never set eyes on him ever again :[ ...

I would have not been bothered by such statement if it were coming from someone else, I would take it as a bluff. But this my son is someone that normally doesn't call people to check on them, not even us his parents..

When he was in his previous University before he dropped out, this boy can go for months, that is a whole semester stretch without calling anybody to know how you're doing, except you call him or maybe he wants to ask for money for something or school stuff....

We have five children and he is the first, the second and third children are away in University, he and the two last siblings are the only one's with us.. My husband refused him from going to University in a far place instead he gives him transport money to be going to his own University from home everyday...... He and his father don't even talk again except good morning greetings. He is only 21 ohh..

Let me give you guys small back story so that you can understand how all these things started.

My son graduated from secondary school (a boarding school) in 2017 at 16 years old... Initially, he said he wanted to study computer science as he said that was the course he loved and wanted to study. But my husband refused and persuaded him to study pharmacy because he worked at NAFDAC and he saw the way pharmacy graduates were living at his work place and the salary they were recieving. He and one of his chemist friend sweet talked him into going to study the course and I guess it was because he was young then and could not challenge his dad then that was why he gave in....

He wrote JAMB but he did not meet the cut of mark for pharmacy (but I later realised his score was good for computer science then)... No public University was willing to admit him for pharmacy then because his score was not good for the course but due to my husband love for the course and not wanting my son to lose admission that year , he decided to go the way of private University not minding their school fees...Long story cut short, my son got admitted into Madonna University where we were paying 1M naira every year.....After 3 years in the school and in 300L @18 years old, he began saying he was not interested in the school any longer, that he was tired of the course, that he's body is no longer in the school and blablabla that he wants to go and play football in Europe...

He came back for holiday during the beginning of covid and refused to go back to the school when they resumed, saying that he was only wasting our money by being in that school and he did not want to continue.....This got my husband really sad and angry....My son stayed home for almost two years doing nothing because my husband was adamant that if he would not go back to school, nothing for him, that all the money he has spent for school fees in that school can not be for waste that he can become a footballer after he graduates, saying no one can become a successful footballer without being a graduate, that it would later affect them in life...

But my son refused. I must confess, my son is extremely good at playing football. That was the talent i can confidently say that God personally gave to him from birth. Infact when he was graduating from secondary school, they gave him the award for the best graduating footballer and he was always the centre of attention anytime he plays at our church events. He friends used to call him "nima" then, I think...

I and my husband got tired of him staying at home for long so I went to meet with one pastor in our street who was based in the UK with his family but comes home sometimes for church related matters. I explained my son's situation to him and he offered to help my son travel out to chase his football career provided we have the funds for it. The man was secondary school class mates with "victor ikpe ekong" who was a former super eagles player but currently a pastor in Sweden. To my greatest surprise he called him on a WhatsApp video call in my presence and i was really surprised...He gave me the man's phone number to keep in contact and also scheduled a day to meet with my husband and have a discussion.. I told my son and he was very happy..I also told my husband and he was eager to meet with him at least, anything to solve my sons idleness at the time..

The pastor came to my our house on several occasions and discussed with my husband. My husband kept telling the pastor, saying he would like my son to be going to school while chasing his football career at the same time, a feat which pastor let us know would be difficult as one has to be dropped for the other. Unfortunately, my husband changed he's mind and said he was no longer interested in the whole footballer thing. He said he knew that my son wanted to become a footballer only because of girls. That he, my son knew that if he becomes a footballer, all the girls would like him, that that was the only reason he wanted to become a footballer, and that if football was his true destiny, he doesn't need to travel out for it to manifest, that he can be in Nigeria and make it from here.....That was how that chapter close like that. Pastor left for England few months after.....

After years of my son staying at home, my husband got tired. One night, he hired some Street thugs to come take my son away and beat him up...my son stayed with them for 2 weeks. When he returned, he said he was ready to go back to school. But my husband told him he won't be going back to any private University again. My son wrote jamb again to study computer science and was admitted into COOU. but my said he would not allow him go to any University that is not in the same state we are residing. Now the problem here was that all the public schools in the state we are staying will not accept you to study computer science unless you did chemistry in jamb. And my son did not do chemistry in jamb because he is not good in chemistry. If he was to study in the same state we were staying, he had to settle for another course, which he did...Now another problem arose. My husband refused to rent an apartment for my son around the school because the school is considerably far from our house, instead he decided to be giving him money (2000) everyday as transport fare to be going from home. This did not sit down well with my the boy and he again, said he was no longer interested in schooling again sef that he can't be going such far distance from home to the school everyday to study a Course he does not even like siting that it would be stressful and affect his academics and that it was unwise to be paying 60k a year as school fees while you spend 2k everyday as transport..My husband got angry and called on our estate CSO to come pick him up. They beat him so badly in public that when he got back home later in the evening, I went to check him in his room, his buttocks and back where scarred and red with huge marks...

Ever since, he has been going to the school from home and he has become very distant from us especially his dad. They don't talk again in the same house except "good morning sir"...

My son has turned into something else. He can stay indoors from morning till night. I would have said he has started keeping bad company but he does not even have a single friend, not one..Nobody calls him, and he doesn't call anybody...I have five children and he is the first. The second and third already gained admission this year in a private University and are in school currently, so he and he's last two siblings are the only one's with us now..

Why I'm writing this is because I'm scared..I'm beginning to fear that my son might commit suicide, he's beginning to show that kind of attitude.. And the plans he have to leave us forever to go and stay alone, I don't like it ohhhh...

Nairalanders please I need your advice.

this is how parents stupidly and ignorantly use their narcissistic and controlling behaviour to damage men and turn them into a beast

It's now I understand the reason for the increase in violent, depressed, depraved and suicidal young men

I pity Una 2 especially the husband if he go jam cultist as friends and those ones gives him wrong advice and in the course aggravates his anger.make him get access to wrong friends, Indian hemp and or gun,that's when you will know you have lost him forever and it's only God that can restore him

Many of you parents are extremely controlling, narcissistic and psychopathic. God will give you a creative and talented son but if Una no turn am to uncontrollable beast and kill all his talent ,Una no go rest.from the look of things it's obvious you're gradually loosing him and he doesn't trust you again.


Again I am sure you have heard of sons killing their fathers,siblings and then committing suicide.that is what you are breeding under your nose because it's clear he has resentment against his parents and that's why you will see some students and teenagers, during the holidays they don't want to go home.when holiday is approaching they'll start feeling sad.your parenting skills especially that of your husband is why there are agberos stealing ballot boxes and killing for politicians.that is the monster you raised by allowing thugs to attack him.luckily for you animalistic parents you're in nigeria.if you did such in an advanced country,both of you will be behind bars because it's even a criminal offence


Solution: restart a new healthy, respectful, listening relationship.less criticism more understanding and respect.smh.youre terrible parents.its not your type that should be having talented children

Meanwhile there are parents crying day and night to give them one children and yet you have a Ronaldo and Messi under your nose but you want to turn him to a demon and your family tormentor

Do you know why I am this angry because I experienced something similar to what your son experienced.i had talent for creativity.i used to enjoy drawing, baking and sports but my father wanted me by all means to do something else.i am grateful to God for now but I'm always pained and hurt when I see creative People make millions and I know I can't draw again.anytime I see art works I remember I could draw but I can't anymore.

I know of another boy he told his father he wants to be a photographer but the father coerced him to do what he wasn't interested in doing.similar to what your husband did.now the boy don turn amugbo out of depression.them dey carry am from one rehab to the other until the father retired and there was no money to continue sustaining the bills.nkw he fit Waka from Mazamaza to Oshodi barefooted, half mad half normal, begging people for money

I hope you know Koko Zaria ( one of the prominent thugs in Lagos) who is MC oluomos second in command has a father who is a judge but guess what,the son of a judge is a thug and used to be a jail bird.this is a lesson to other sociopathic parents.continue damaging your children.when they grow up if they don't terrorise you, they'll disgrace you or kill you

Aufbauh:
The most embarrassing thing about the audio to me is not the content, but the dangerous desperation expressed in the tone of Mr Obi.

I just can't imagine a 'supposedly would-to-be president' of the most populous black nation sounding like an incoherent effeminate teenage girl. Subjugating himself to a priest he is meant to control in a despicable manner all in the guise of seeking for votes. What an abberation!

so let's assume Peter won he Will still be calling the pastor "yes Daddy and see thank you daddy " in meetings and public places as the GCFRON?

AbdulMagaji:
Are you a sculpture?

rest

sacajawea:
Ok, I never bragged
I Only talked about something , you started quoting me till the point of saying I'm poor etc. All cos of what? I pointed out something wrong with our country??

Well, I will prove to you, whenever you are ready, with screenshot or screen recording, just two accounts, one local one foreign, that's all

rest.you don cast

SReporters:
Wehdone ma! How's the family ma?

we are waxing in the blessings of God

No wonder Trump said America is now officially a third world country

Wetin Nigerians dey run away from,them still meet am for America


Who could have ever imagined that America will deteriorate to this level when the Media paints America as an utopian country

If you are courageous enough to stand up for righteousness in this dark world,be ready to face the rage of hell

SReporters:
I observed that most billionaire daughters are not that gorgeous.... Take a look at Dj Cuppy too

my grand daughter is beautiful o

AbdulMagaji:


Love is really sharking this girl o Kai !

After Nairaland girls will tell you they don't need a man simply because they are carrier ladies.

Na you sabi.so make she no show love to whoever she found love in.if she didn't show say she get love for the guy Na Una go dey criticize.anything sha to downplay others.tgey sha use criticism swear for Una

That's all they know.no wonder agberos,Obama,politicians and alhajis dey take their turns on them

sacajawea:
Quote me on a dead thread, will share a Screenshot of one of just one of my local and Foreign account.

I'm not super Rich, but better than most Nigerians definitely.


I'm at home chilling on a Cool afternoon, sleeping browsing eating, relaxing
Most are sweating under Sun or at work/shop

lmao noise as usual.lmaoo it's too obvious you're trying too hard

Millionaires don't need to brag or make noise about their financial status and what they do, only fakers and kobonaires do

"I'm so at home chilling" trenches lines

sacajawea:
I'm richer than your Whole damn Household!
And I'm more Generous than you can ever be

kobonaire

Empty barell oshi

koladata:
i know one day you will be positive in thinking . How can you not just appreciate the man!!!!

it's because of your type there are monsters as lecturers in universities.ungrateful and entitled gen z's everywhere

sacajawea:
POVERTY!!!
Sugar and cheap, bad tasting Snacks/junk Foods.
Nigerian schools just reek of Poverty in and Out... from the Students to the Behaviour of everyone, speech environment and the General climate, Nigerian schools reek of Real Heavy Poverty! Backwardnes, starvation, unpleasantness & Low self esteem!

The foolish students too, when they meet someone or something that's Progressive, they springforth hate jealousy and Self esteem issues

lmao this one never leave him village before o

Talkless of giving anybody ₦500 for him life yet he dey criticize wetin another person dey do wey he no fit do

Eleyi nfejo Ika Sun Ika


It's like reporting a husband's action to a woman in love

Mad people too plenty for nigeria.many people are psychopaths but when they wear shirt and jeans you will think you have seen human being without knowing Na werey alasho (packaged mad man)

AbdulMagaji:
So they allowed this pregnant woman to sleep in a police cell !

is blessing pregnant?

Iyawo oba Solomon,egbon portable

Iya mandykiss

WhisperedNoise:
A JS2 student of 18 years?

the number of deliquent teenagers everywhere is disturbing

ShaqFu:
Hmmmm. She's not sorry. If she can get away with it, she'll do it again. If I were that guy, I'll sue her for defamation of character and malicious intent to cause grievous harm to my person.

What a nonsense fellow. Fear some women.

exactly.women don't know how irritatingly annoying slander is until they give birth to sons and someone falsely accuses their son of what they didn't do

If I was the mother of that boy even if my son say overlook,I no go gree and peradventure if the girls parents has money and want to manipulate the case, social media must hear it,her pictures will be spread to all bloggers and I'll make sure bloggers drag her and feast on her very well sotey men go begin stay away from her so they don't fall into the same trap

Just wait till you have a son that you've invested your money, emotions,time and efforts to raise right and one daughter of Delilah wan drag am,you go see raw rage.if anybody come beg for the girl sef he/she go collect

luminouz:
Redpillers!!


ASSEMBLE!!!!

Kai...men don suffer. Women can't take what they dish out to men. They never could!!!

My heart breaks for all the good men out there who have gone to prison after being falsely accused of rape like this girl. Jailed by simps who would rather believe a woman's word is the next best thing to pizza rather than investigate. Ain't it a sad sad world that all you need to convict a man is that the woman says bla bla blaaaaaa.

Being a man is a thankless job in this climate. That girl deserves prison time. She even had the guts to say "it will never happen again". What a fuqin liar.

it's painful and annoying and as a woman I advocate and will push for women who slander men of rape for whatever malicious reason to get the same treatment actual rapists get because women like this make those who are genuinely raped get the justice they deserve


God saved the girl that I'm not the mother of the boy.i no go take am easy.i go block my ear to every appeal until she goes to jail before I rest and anybody wey come tell me about forgiveness will get the rape curse.


Na make I no just see that message.

nepapole:
How IK take get hair for head?

This guy bald pass me before na.

Na wig

G

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If you must Japa behave yourself for another man country and abide by their laws.if you know you cannot obey their laws,stay for naija.nobody go arrest you for lawlessness

Na wa o.this obsession over Tinubu is too much o.kilowade bayi?