₦airaland Forum

Gnaeusmagnus:
The sad thing is that most of the guys on front page are busy saying that the wife is wrong to confront the side chick.

Yes, married women don't have the time to look good and trim like they did when they were younger (work, then running after children does not help matters)....but if you think that you want to jeopardise your wife's happiness for a side chick...then think again.

There are many children who are very bitter today because their father betrayed their mother for a side chick. And no, their mother did nothing to engender that bitterness...infact the mother probably still teaches them to respect their dad well well. But the truth is, adultery is not a harmless crime. People are hurt. And when people are hurt...stuff happens.

I believe that the reason why many guys keep side chicks is because they have a poor view of women. They grew up to see their first loves taken away by rich men (in their eyes..many Nigerian women are often times forced to marry a rich suitor because poverty).Their role models are men who sleep around, and boast of their conquests. And to be frank, a man about town has more confidence and swagger than a holy holy virgin male. And this poor view of women is reinofrced by fathers who mistreat their wives on a constant basis.

If we as Nigerian men cannot grow up and stop mistreating women, I fear for the future generations. Having side chicks is an open road to destruction.

leave them.theyll learn by force.no need for preaching



You no dey see their type die in hotel rooms while fookeen

hadduni:
Nawaaaaa!
All because of small money this fine girl wan damage her anus still spoil person marriage join.
Ladies! What a married man can do a single guy can do better so stick to the unmarried ones to avoid unnecessary drama and stress.

exactly.unfortunatly the fool above you lacks discretion.hes obviously one of them

Vortex369:
The man should just take this pretty girl as second wife.

Who will fucck that fat black woman without looking for a pretty girl to clean up his appetite.

Arrant nonsense.

This is why I like Ned Nwoko -

senseless talk.after a woman gives birth several times coupled with the stress of marriage,mothering and fixing the home do you expect her body to remain THE same?

Even anty anal sex,after she puts to bed her body will change so receive sense

Idontgiveafuck2:
THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT IT IS.BUT IS SHE COMPLAINING? NO.WHY? BECAUSE HE IS A CELEBRITY.

it's because she's a fool like shogsman

shogsman:
If you had any iota of intelligence you'd notice where I wrote girls,so how your mother qualifies as a girl beats me,and you just concluded I had a sister without knowing me.your level of intelligence proves my assertion.
You have more chance of finding a ship at an airport than Finding an intelligent Nigerian girl that can talk about educative topics that does not involve sex.

only a Fool thinks only him is wise while everyone is foolish as him

So you mean your English teacher didn't teach you that girl and woman fall other females.

Pele tie.poor job at being cynical

Shioor

shogsman:
90% of nigerian girls actually are just sex objects, nothing more.

your mom and female relations included


You see the thing about pointing accusing fingers is that the 4 points back to you

Idontgiveafuck2:
IF NA POOR MAN DO AM NOW,DEM GO TAG AM SEXUAL ABUSE.MITCHEWWW.

it is sexual harassment/abuse whether from rich man or poor man

kingsley80:
what is your problem now? Na only to open that your gutter mouth dey vomit rubbish you sabi

gbenusoun.stop this stoopeed talk.before you use pin to chook another person, first use it to chook yourself.if I hit your mom's buttoks in public or your sister,how will you take it?

Or if I hit your ass or phenese in public,how will you take it? Are you that base and animalistic to know what decorum and self control is?

opebiboy:
Later now them go begin begin for money when cancer of the hand and yansh catch them

oyeki bay-bee yenti yaso sowo e.sholoun stoopeed ni

Politicians and social media making these tranny guys relevant but then straight erring guys deserve to fok their fellow men pretending to be women and after then realized they just bleeped their fellow men

That's what Will make them appreciate real women

Take am easy oooo.no matter how angry you are, the anger in your head no fit cook beans if we put pot of beans on your head

Pele tie

Zeeworld of all things


Soap opera ABI na novela wey no get head or tail,no direction, they'll just be talking through their nose and be showing so much emotions unnecessarily

I don't even know which one is worse between nollywood and zee world.smh

Dereformer:
Lagos has become the suicide capital of the world.

Buhari will never see anything good in this life or the next.

when will the fool himself dive into the lagoon so we can rest

Such a sexy looking and handsome chap

Men receive sense.


Calling the mother of your children disgusting names in their presence is only planting seeds of hatred, resentment, rebellion and hate against you and seeds grow


When they're old enough,get ready for pay back.

How can you be so senseless calling them irritating names in their presence.after now some clowns will say it's only their mothers children remember


Do you think they'll forget this statement?

There are some kinds of memories that doesn't erase from children's minds and this is one of it

She be prostitute/ public toilet yet you married her.ehhennn you are indirectly insulting your self because that makes you the husband of a public toilet.now you con dey beg say make she no leave you yet you don't want to respect the sanctity of marriage

You want to be married yet you don't want to respect the feelings of your wife.weak man that has no control over his mouth.. tuehhh

golddare:
If you are a cultists and reading this please find a way to leave them, it's a road to destruction, please find a way to leave and I know God will help you.

the wages of cultism is untimely death.youths receive sense



Dead man no dey count scores

Dismiss instead of kill?

What kind of judgement is that?

Ehenn sex education?

Orisirisi.hypocrite oshi... please give yourself sex education first

All those men that will die on top women naked,e no dey hard to know them

Sick twisted pedophile

Even if you want to cheat on your husband is it with a child?

Anyway women have been learning from the very best.its not news that some men fok their underaged househelp.

kingthreat:
I have seen children of pastors join cults. Same with daughters well brought up and trained indulging in prostitution. Upbringing is one thing, the environment is another.

that is because the pastor was busy traveling and globe trotting for envagelism and crusade whilst forgetting to create time for his children.this has nothing to do with environment

Ekasan o Eyin ara nairaland o. Shey use nlo? Shey oja nta?

LINTUNE:
i swear

everything you learn in school, once you graduate,you will unlearn,relearn and then brand yourself and stick to your Modus operandi for life.thats why I'm always amused anytime I see the children in university rejoicing when they finish their last paper in school as if their life's problem is over when they're just actually getting started to deal with life

LINTUNE:
wow thanks for the advise,mama ..eventhough im already aware

good you know and this days now sef school is just for kanshama sope alo school.so you won't be labelled or tagged illiterate nothing more to it again

LINTUNE:
well , those are for parents that provided everything for their child to excel in school, especially finances, not the typical nigerian parent that will almost abandon u while in school..man i'm in my 500l, and its obvious i'm graduating with sexond class lower, B.elect eng..so i cant kill myself ok

it doesn't matter,1st class,2nd class or 3rd class doesn't define a man.what you make out of your life is the Koko


This days it's not even about 1st class or degrees anymore it's about WHAT CAN YOU DO WITH YOIR HANDS?get a skill and no one will be acting as if your food is in his hands that if he sacks you you don't have a life again

I have seen a very beautiful and intelligent girl with 1st class she ended up as an escort.of what use is her 1sr class when she's now warming the beds of senators and reduced herself to a commercial sex machine

Smh

Academic depression is one of the most unoticable parts of depression.some individuals with 3rd class or 2.2 who their parents have put massive pressure on slide into depression.its worse when you come from a highly educated family where papa and mama na professor ,uncle, professor,aunty professor, sister and brother PhD holders so they expect the same from you and when you fail to live up to that expectations na family insults and harassments go be your portion.theyll continually remind you how dull,ambitionless and a waste you are meanwhile they fail to realise not everyone is cut out for the academic industry

Academics is good no doubt but coercing children to study a particular course or coercing a child to do masters is what brings about all this academic depression

Some parents will even be giving their children ultimatum of the kind of CGPA they want.

Some lecturers self aren't helping matters.some are sooo rude and insultive especially the female lecturers...gosh

Meanwhile The funny thing about Life is that the principle of success remains the same.sucess is not. Respecter of academic degrees.if you follow them, whether you have a primary school certificate or a PhD it will work for you.its life.

The principle of seed time and harvest
The principle of diligence
The principle of giving
The principle of service/rendering a need or filling a gap(that's where money comes from).you look for a lack in a community,you solve their lack and make money from it

They don't have water, provide borehole and start selling water
They don't have food,open restaurant and start selling food and see how money will be rushing you

Did they teach you all these in business administration, economics or accounting? It's always theory and abstracts with egoistical professors who think they know it all with their tattered suits and 504 that is worn out that they've been driving for ages

These professors are only good memorizers.they cannot turn modern day problems into a means of money making for them.this is exactly what pastors are doing


Why do you think people are more willing to listen to a pastor or an entertainer even that small dirty nairamarley than a professor?this guy's are just out of touch with reality.only a minute few are beginning to have sense

Pastor oyedepo made a statement 5years ago that still resonates in my brain which I can never forget during one of the sermons in canan land.he said how can you be worshipping the fountain of knowledge,the one that has all the wealth in his hands and still be poor.if you die a poor man it's your fault and you will go to hell for wasting the brain God gave you...

That sunday I was angry with myself and went to sleep the sleep of thinking that changes the destiny of a man

Be careful when a woman's angry or a silent woman.if she rants , cuss at you and shouts you are safe.she has let all her anger out but the moment a once upon a time outspoken woman starts keeping silent when angry, it's best you run for your life because sleeping on the same bed with a silently angry woman is like lying on the same bed with a snake.the fact that it's quiet or motionless doesn't mean it cannot attack you.its waiting for the right time and your most vulnerable moment to strike and women know men's most vulnerable moment to strike.its just that most women don't use it because of their children not even because of the fear of the law

Low budget pako Anthony Joshua

This guy is definitely psychotic and twisted.for him to do that to a manequin,he has the potentials of being a raap1st

It's because he's still under watchful eyes that's why he's behaving himself


Imagine a fathEr with 2 wives disgracing himself.if he came to the store with his kids can he be displaying this erratic behaviour

You see