₦airaland Forum

Zhanmek5000:
As said earlier even US has cardi b singing pussy pussy thousand of naira Marley singing drug and fraud and yet there are kids there who are in the good system and others in the street way !!i believe if anyone really wants something beyond that for their wards they can still have it

then make it easier for the parents.now speaking for myself I don't want any of my children to see nuisances like Marley,lilwayne,cardi b as models.if at all they want to have musicians as models I'll prefer them having the likes of sunny ade,onyeka onwenu,Bob Marley, asa and other positive influences.i don't even want my children to be like Naira Marley.God forbid.tuehhhh.. orimiko

kiyosaki1:
Marley is an entertainer yes, he reels out what a moral police like yourseif, judges to be non conformity with the the norm of your so righteous society" which is very perfect" .The last time I checked, the control button is still on the dstv remote and ,as a parent you have the right to buy Internet enable phone for your wards or not to buy at all. May be you don't know parenting goes beyond providing for the needs of your children alone, but to whip them in line ,and to behave according to your set standards . America is a worst society where we have hundreds of naira marely , but we still have millions of teenagers that are not swayed by the so call bad influencers in the society, mainly thanks to good parenting jobs. Am not arguing about Wether marely is a saint or not ,that's not our cocern as a parent, but our main concern is to make sure that our wards are not sway by this so called wolf's out there ,since they would always be there.
If the mother does her duty well as a parent in the first instance, there are tendecies that her child can never, I repeat be swayed by the negatives out there, you can see now that the fault squarely rest with the bulk passing mum.

oga I am not a moral police.lets clear that first and even if the parent puts parental control for TV? Shey she go put parental control for parties in school or she go put parental control for music wey dey blast for streets.be realistic, musicians have a lot of influence over the youth than even pastors,imama or parents and one of the reasons the society has Lost it is because of musicians that ram ass,poosy,sex, drugs alcohol in our ears everyday not minding polluting the minds of kids.their songs penetrate everywhere even if you lock your kids at home all the time

For example how will broda no manners be singing "Omo naija fefidi pami" and you know 5year olds WIll hear stuffs like that

What is bad is bad,stop sugar coating it.NIGERIANS SHOULD ACCEPT AND ADMIT THEIR FAULT FOR JUST ONCE

it's because of abosi there's so much societal menace and decadence in Nigeria and all over the world

MrBrownJay1:
well done IDRIS!

na people like you dey always deceive this clown and make him misbehave the more

Marley is at fault

He's an entertainer and he knows majority of his fans are young ones so he should use his power over the minds of the youth to instill positive values instead of sex and drugs but unfortunately look what we have

After all the mother banned Marley songs in her house,she go ban am for her school or streets again?

Well she's technically right however when you grow you are responsible for your life choices NOT YOUR PARENTS.your parents can instill force and fear to a certain level but after sometime it becomes your responsibility to make your life WHAT YOU WANT IT TO BE and not your parents

I'm not absolving African parents.agreed they can sometimes be myopic e.g teaching us that only doctors, engineers and lawyers succeed.now it's careers that parents looked down on that's making money.for example they felt that music , football and movie making was for nobodies or nonetities and touts, now it's the music, sports and movies that are making money.

Well,one thing I know is that secular music comes with wiri wiri money e.g fast money but gospel music is slow and steady money.it won't come immediately as with secular but as your name develops and becomes known globally, your money increases e.g tope alabi

chiemmanuel:
After everything, those 200 maids won't follow you to your house, its not about a colorful wedding, its about a colorful marriage

we know thank you.even those with cheap weddings have marital crash so it's not a function of how colorful or uncolourful the wedding is.its by the grace of God

And so?

They've sorted their disagreements and issues

Woni talarena bati Shishe tan,Oman yago fun awon tokotiyawo so eyin bloggers otoyin.ewankanmi so

See the thort that is some people's role model


It's obvious we're short of REAL MALE AND FEMALE ROLE MODELS in Nigeria.unfortunately the illiterate, gullible and unenlightened masses think once you are an actor, musician, pastor, you're automatically a role model

simplepee:
That is the correct way to write that yoruba

I DISAGREE

Safyqueen:
This is unislamic, a great one for that matter. He is a traditionalist and not a Muslim except three out of them are not his real wives islamically.

Nobody is allowed to go more than four. Though on another rare occasions where a man can afford to service more women after marrying four he can then get more concubine they way it is being spelt islamically.

But when you look at the role a Muslim should play especially with this present situation whereby his left, right, centre and everywhere are filled with poverty stricken persons in the society nowadays, I don't think anyone or king can enjoy that privilege anymore.

It is just wrong as a Muslim please. Truth be told no matter whose ox is gored. I expect MURIC to comment on this except otherwise as spelt above.

shebi Una dey say "me lolohun wi" so me can be mefa,meje,meji,mesan etc

Ganjafama:
Does your friend dress well or always looking hagard? It's the way you look that will make your in-laws to call you to pound yam for them.

TonyeBarcanista:
Na so people de fall their own hand later they will say in-laws have no regard for them. Tomorrow now they will call him to do pounding whenever he is around, and if he refuses, they will blackmail him that he has changed.

A visiting husband, who heads his own family, has no business offering such assistance to the family of his wife except he is living with them.

If I were him, I'd rather ask my wife to get someone to help pound it while I pay the person.

It is not pride, it is class!

give me 5.

You've said it all

Envious,dirty mouthed broke a55 louts where are you?

Both are louts

What's the meaning of this lousy, thuggish picture

Osibanjo has joined caba*

If you know you know

Meanwhile APC and PDP people are friends behind closed doors.i pity the fools who still fight useless battles on their behalf

simplepee:
Gbogbo ejo yi ko wa necessary, ta lo bere ejo lowo re,to o bere si n ka bi eye ibaka?

is everything alright with you?

Mouthgag:
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Nonsense
What stops her from working and taking care of herself?
Must u ppl depend on a man?

isn't that her point? Can't you read with understanding?

Ukodo1123:
Any body this bab Marry na big problem

The person don buy market

because she knows what she wants for herself?

You're a joker

Smh

What a country

GloriaNinja:
THIS SHORT WOMAN AND HER ATTENTION SEEKING THESE DAYS.. SHORT WOMAN SYNDROME

Moyo baby

Gbo gbo ejoyi kowa necessary.talobere ejolowo e toberesi Ka bi eye ibaka?

I had a neighbor who was pregnant at 16.the parents bashed her as typical African parents will but forgave her and parented her child while she went back to school ( after nursing the child)

Now the lady has a PhD and works in a research institute the daughter is so grown and cute when she invited me for her PhD convocation party and I saw the daughter's joy on her face,goshhh...I was so happy.she said "so you're my mother and jumped to hug her mother". apparently her grandparents just told her the truth.so in life you don't write anybody off just because they made teenage mistakes


Even as adults we make careless mistakes and begin to ask ourselves in our quiet time that "but I know better than this"

Still Cute with or without makeup