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U are on point dear. But dat no 10, needs more details to me. All the same thanks.

U are on point dear. But dat no 10, needs more details to me.

Am in love with this Topic!!! Merxi, I concur with all d tips. Especially numba 6. U are on point.

Hmmmm!!!

Good.

B4 u post this topic ur mind has already told u wat to do. But I have advice for u.
What if you let her go and u fall again into the hands of anoda girl That wil b anoda sin. As a Pastor u call yourself, u are not suppose to venture into such act, and dat makes it hard 4 her to believe u. Ask God for forgiveness. She is 2 years older than u is not an excuse to let her go. I advice u to go for a deliverance. Don't let her go. Ask her to give u one more chance to prove ur faithfulness to her, and stand by it.
Goodluck.

Estharfabian:
Easier said than done...

Something like this helped me in the past. So it can also help some1 else.

You just suffered heartbreak as the result of a breakup. Friends come to console you with words like “it wasn’t meant to be” or “it’ll happen at the right time”.

As much as this could be encouraging, it does little or nothing to help your situation. According to Estee Kahn of YourTango, the new line for getting over this heart breaking situation is this: “If you’re brave enough to love someone, then you’re strong enough to get over them.”

Here are 4 steps to getting
over the one who broke your heart

1. Don't look back:
No one has ever moved on by living in the past. Your heart is broken but you whole being isn't. Pick up the pieces and move on.

2. Learn from the past:
There's always a lesson to learn in every situation, doesn't matter if it's good or bad. You should be able to list out the things you need and your deal breakers too, these things are important for your next relationships.

3. Let it go:
You might hurt yourself if you keep holding on and wishing. It obviously wasn't meant to be. Letting go sets you free and you might just be a steep from finding the one who completes you.

4. Always remember you are stronger than you think:
If you were brave enough to open up yourself to someone who eventually broke your heart, then you are strong enough to get over them, move one and love someone who'll love you back completely as well.

5. Believe in the power of love again:
You knew how it felt like being in love, you can feel it again. Though it hurts now, just believe it would happen again.

What a post

Must all relationship leads to marriage So, I detest Numba 7.

I am on the other side. [safer side]

Greene66:
No! Nbanu

K.

Mprepz:
loose or tight woman na woman

Yeah

How sure are you she changes boy every year

What if u last up to 3-6 hours and she did nt get anytin from it, what wil u do Some guys don't know that When it comes to sex, it is not all about Quantity, but QUALITY. Quantity is good only when she demands it. Don't try to turn her to a porn star. Even the porn stars don't last that long.

ATMC:
It is not okay. The Nig guy raised in Nig being proposed to by his female counterpart will mess the whole show up except for few, very few I mean.

I concur with u.
except for few, very few I mean.

cruzita:
pure no.if she takes the lead in the relationship ,then she should also take the lead in the marriage

Alright. Let's c hw it goes

cruzita:
pure no.if she takes the lead in the relationship ,then she should also take the lead in the marriage

Alright.

How do you feel about a woman who takes the lead in a relationship? One who can boldly ask her men to marry her? Is it alright, or is it an abomination?

Nigerian men and women have been assigned different stereotypes over the years, a lot of which are negative.

A lot of times, people spend their lives living to fit into these stereotypes at the expense of their own happiness and mental health.

It is to break stereotypes like this that the Purple 50/50 Campaign was created. Statistically, on the Gender Equality Index. Nigeria ranks 118 out of 134
countries.

This shows just how far behind we are. and how hard we have to work to change people's perceptions and help them unlearn the unhealthy things they have learnt over years.

The strivia theme visited Kano, Enugu, Kaduna and Lagos to ask randomly selected people the question: "Is it okay for a woman to propose to a
man?"

As usual the answers were funny and varied, though they went a long way to show how many Nigerians view the issue of marriage, proposals and 'control' in a union of man and woman.

When it comes to bedmatics, some girls are not confident about their own bodies. And they really need to work on theirselves on this.

Eddygourdo:
Hmmmmm. Funny but true

Yes. And I tink some are just lik dat.

U are right though.

KingCheezyPuff:
That's why you build on it stone by stone,steadly improving

That's is just it my dear.

ican2020:
Op thank you
And for number 15, Men should prevent or stop there family from treating their wife like trash.
Be a real man and mother nature will be happy with you, okay

Yeah!

KingRex1:
Some women will still nag after evry evry

It is only a blind woman dat wil complain.

obiorathesubtle:
it does!

The secret is safe with me. Ok.

sexylogan:
@ #11 so u r encouraging lies?

Not what u tink man

obiorathesubtle:
are you married?

My relationship status has nothing to do with this.

obiorathesubtle:
easier said than done..

I don't know about u. For me, I don't see anything difficult there...

Without wasting much time, let's look at those tips on how men [Singles and married ones] should treat women.

1.Don’t compare your wife to other women. You don’t know what their husbands are going through.

2. NEVER expose your wife’s weakness to your family or friends or run to them whenever you have issues. Problems are best solved between you and your woman.

3. Don’t think you are man so you can use intimidation, shout or violence to communicate your moods. Aggressive men don’t make a happy home.

4. Speak gently and calmly to your wife. Never raise your voice at her, it demeans her and shows you think she is stupid.

5. Do your responsibilities as man…don’t leave everything to your woman.

6. Never blame your wife if she doesn't take care of the home everyday. She is swamped with house work and helping you raise the kids.

7. Don’t be wasteful spending money on drinks, friends and extended family. The wife and children are your first responsibility.

8. Sex is also important to women. Her pleasure should be considered before your own.

9. Never compare your wife to your ex-girlfriends. If you loved them so much why didn’t you marry them instead of your wife.

10. Never shout down your wife or challenge her in front of the children. The children are watching. They won’t listen and obey her too.

11. Tell your wife she’s beautiful even if you know she’s looking normal. Women love compliment.

12. Don’t forget that women also want attention and someone to share their thoughts with. Never be too busy for your wife.

13. A prayerful man is a better equipped husband. Pray always for your wife and family. Don’t leave the prayers to your wife.

14. Treat your wife like a queen. Buy her gifts, take her shopping once in a while

15. Your mother should not have the final say in your marriage. You married your wife, not you and your mother. Let her talk in her own husband’s house.

16. There are 5 days each month that you have to say “I’m sorry”, “yes baby” and “I love you” more than 7 times a day. That’s when she’s menstruating.

With relationships being one of the most talked about topics between men and women, do you agree with
those tips

carlcar2012:
Hi

I hate the look of vigi. I wonder why men die to enter a lady vigi. I was just thinking about it. It is so ugly and disgusting that I don't even look at it. Feel like vomiting sometimes. To make matters worse blood comes out of it monthly. Yuk.

Men are lucky. I don't blame gays. Maybe d also hate d sight. Yuk Yuk Yuk

U are a D**grace to womanhood. Can u imagine what is coming out from a female. Are u even a female