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I received this news a few minutes ago, and I decided we discuss it here also.

It is from Anthony who is asking over what he should do with his wife who repeatedly calls another man's name while they are making love. Pls read on....

"Dear Reader,

My name is Anthony Madu and I have been married
for four years. My wife, Tessy, and I have always had a very satisfying sex life but in the past three months, something has happened that has made me doubt my wife's fidelity » to our marital vows.

I can beat my chest and say that since we got
married, I have never cheated on my wife but that, I
cannot say for her.

My suspicion and doubts stem from the fact that on
the different occasions, my wife has called out
another man's name in the heat of passion.

The first time it happened was when she called the
name of her ex-boyfriend while we were making love.

When I demanded an explanation, she begged me
and said she did not know when she called his name.

But a month later, she screamed the name of a man I have never heard before. This time around, any
explanation from her was never acceptable.

She has begged me and vowed that such will never
happen again but just last week, she mentioned the
same name again.

I have not given her the opportunity to lie to me
again. Some of my friend that I discussed the issue
with say that my wife has been cheating on me and I
tend to believe them.

My problem now is that I do not know what steps to
take.

Please I want you readers to advice me.

Anthony,

Abuja."

BumBae:
N the millions of women who didnt do this and still married nko

Dats y some have a broken home

naughtynaughty:
choii..romantic bcus of g strings lol

»Beauty lies in d eyes of d beholder.
»One mans food is anoda mans pioson. Hope u knw wat I mean by these.
»Our likes differ.
»Wat turns u OFF may turns me ON

pentag0nal:
But she does not want to get pregnant again.

But in your post. U told us that they have done the family planning. Then what else did she want again. If she is suspicious about it, why not try it for a month and let her see the outcome. She should also try and go for counselling again.

Cutehector:
she is seriously deceivn herself and endangering her marriage by herself.! Thank u

That's just the truth. She should take it or leave it.

That's just the truth

It is sexy and it also make u look like LovePeddler. Cruzita na everypost dey for dey c u. U ar very active o!!!

naughtynaughty:
G string is beta

Yeah!!! I even find such girls to be romantic.

Not that she want it sharp sharp. Maybe she is not comfortable with it. Like me, I don't wear tight boxers.

It's a duty you owe yourself as a single lady to be the best you can be before getting married. Believe it or Not, These things would form experiences that'll make you better and wiser.

So here are 10 things every woman must do before getting married

1. Learn how to cook -
Not because it shows how domesticated you are but because you can confidently whip up something if you really don't feel like eating out.

2. Chase your hobbies - Learn what you've always
wanted to learn, just do it. Time waits for no one
.
3. Get heartbroken- It makes you stronger and
wiser.

4. Know how you feel about having children- Kids
change your approach to life, ,so plan carefully with
your partner.

5. Travel - You'll really love the experiences and it'll
make you a more confident woman.

6. Experiment with your looks - Go natural, funky
hairstyles or anything you wish to do, keep photos
for memories.

7. Appreciate yourself more - Know that you earned
it because you worked hard.

8. Learn some essential skills- Driving, swimming
and more, it'll help you during emergencies and
make you more confident.

9. Set financial goals for yourself - As much as you
want to spend it all, learn to set reasonable financial
goals for yourself and you'll be proud you did.

10. Get in shape - Exercise and get fit, make a
resolve to have the best body ever.

Is this not FOOLISHNESS Just becos of money, u follow the person u know that u don't love. And to make matter worse, her father did not know about this. Meaning, the marriage is illegal. This is a warning to all those girls looking for quick money in a relationship, even if they know too well they don't love the man involved. My Dear sister, that man is a Destiny killer, he will ruin your life if u don't quit that marriage. Don't just b wasting ur time with him. He is not going to marry you. He is using u as his sex slave. Yes! That is what u are to him. So, if you are wise, flee from that marriage and wait for your own man to come your way. This is my advice for u. Bye for now.

cruzita:
Op u dey wait for person to use hin tongue count your teeth for u?u know were u dey already u still dey ask as if nairaland na confirmation ground

Cruzita Abeg tell am.

I have been in ur shoes before.
Maybe u didn't make a move on time. And to make matter worse, you were just too nice to this girl. And remember!! NICE GUYS ALWAYS FINISH LAST. My conclusion is that u have been friendzoned. And there is nothing u can do about it.

Cos I am very Romantic.

What is that thing that his ex is capable of doing that u can't do. Try to sit her down again n talk to her. 2 weeks is not long enough for u to know her. Give her some time more. But if the same story keep repeating itself, I advice, u show her THE EXIT DOOR.. I hope this help!!!.

Don't! Ever. I repeat, don't ever try it. This is not a sign of love at all.

I go for 6 and 9. I love their movies a lot.

I detest it. Once I know my Girl is on period, I detain and pad-lock my sugar-cane until it's over.

cruzita:
I detest mouth action

Ok.

boboLIL:
I'm bobo,, you are daniel...

You are right. One man's food is another man's poison.

boboLIL:
Women... Are confused set of human beings.....



For me to suck toto? Na if I run mad oh...
Whether neat or dirty... They re the same.....


Iranu abasha,, iranu abasha

You are missing then. Come rain come shine am always available for Mouth Action.

Abi my broda

Some very religious people believe that MouthAction is bad; but what do you think?

I got this true story a few minutes ago, and I decided we share it together here. It was from a very worried woman, by name Becky, who needs answers.

It is a pity that in this modern days some men can't satisfy their wife. Pls, read on...

"Dear Readers,

My name is Becky and I have been married for two
years now. My husband, Ayomide, is a good man
but we are having issues when it comes to sex. Not
that he is weak but he is just one dimensional and
does not want to experiment on anything new.

His idea of sex » is the regular missionary sex or
like we used to call it, 'Mama-Papa' style. Anything
outside that is devilish and outside what the bible
recommends. At times I get so frustrated that I just
lay under him, praying for him to finish so I can go to sleep.

I remember my ex-boyfriend who was so versatile
and could do anything in bed just to make love
making fun. There was this day I tried to give my
husband a Mouth Action but he practically rebuked me,
telling me that pastor said that MouthAction is one of the
gravest of sins couples can commit.

I tried to let him know that it is not a sin for couples
to engage in MouthAction but it brought up a big fight and he even threatened to report me to our pastor.

Right now, I am getting confused the more and I want you readers to help me here. Is it wrong for couples to engage in MouthAction? Is there anywhere in the Holy Books where it is forbidden

Let her go. Her heart is not with you again! Listen to TD JAKES. And I believe with that, u can move on with ur life.

Do not let yourself think that you will never find someone better. There is always someone better.
Just try and have something doing before u make ur next approach. GOODLUCK.

Thinking of getting rid of hair down there for the first time? You are bound to have questions such as will it hurt? What’ the right technique? Is it safe? To answer all your queries, there are different methods including DIY ones to help you pretty up your bikini area and be hair-free in a safe way.

1. SHAVING
This is the easy way to get rid of hair from anywhere, any time! But when it comes to your intimate area, it is essential to keep a few pointers in mind. Since this area is more delicate than others, you need to give it enough prep time before you actually start shaving.

Tips:
--If this is your first time, trim the hair first with a pair of scissors.
--Next, clean the area with lukewarm water.
--Apply shaving gel or cream and let it stay for a few seconds before you start.
--Keep your legs apart and stretch your skin with the help of one hand.
--Use a razor to shave hair in the direction it grows from the area. Do not rush as that can lead to red bumps later.
--Once you are done, wash the area thoroughly with water to get rid of any leftover gel or cream and pat dry the area.
--Apply a light moisturiser to avoid itching sensations and redness. Wear comfortable
underwear.

Pros: Shaving is inexpensive and handy. You can do it on your own. It is pain-free.

Cons: You will have to do it more often as the growth is quicker. Doing it incorrectly can lead to cuts.

2. HAIR REMOVAL CREAMS
Another painless method without the hassle of razors, shaving gels, etc. Hair removal cream is a popular DIY method to get rid of unwanted hair. But
you need to keep in mind to choose the right one. If it is too strong for your skin, it can cause itching and rashes as it irritates your skin. If it is too mild, it won’t give the desired results and you may end up with patchy hair growth.

Tips:
--Always test the cream on your arm or leg before you proceed to the bikini area.
--Once you find the right cream, simply apply it on the area and wait for the said time (usually 10-15 minutes).
--Wash it with water to get rid of the hair and cream.
--Make sure the area is clean and that the cream is only on the outer part.
--If you experience any burning sensation, wash the area with water immediately. Once the procedure is over, pat dry the area.

Pros: It is quick and easy. It is a hassle-free, painless procedure.

Cons: Can cause rashes if skin is too sensitive. The cream usually has a strong chemical odour which stays for sometime on the skin.

3. BIKINI WAX
This method is painful no doubt, but it gives better and long lasting results. Many people may not want to remove all the hair but only have a clean bikini
line. In that case, going for a bikini wax is a good idea. Though you may find DIY kits in the market, it is best to go to a salon than do it yourself as it gets difficult to get the right angle and can be more painful too.

Tips:
--Make sure you go to a salon which is hygienic and uses disposable waxing strips.
--Let the lady know if the wax is too hot for your skin.
--You may experience redness even after the treatment is over if your skin is too sensitive.
--Apply a cold compress (ice) to soothe the area and wear comfortable innerwear. It will leave your skin feeling soft and smooth for weeks after the initial pain.

Pros: Long-lasting results. The skin is smooth as silk. No growth for weeks.

Cons: Painful. It has to be done by a salon expert. Skin feels numb for a few hours after the treatment.

4. BRAZILIAN WAX
This method became quite popular in the West and slowly crawled its way here too. Though it may not be available at all salons, you may find it in big chains. Brazilian wax is nothing but waxing the entire bikini area to make it completely hairless. This means, you need to bare it all and apply hot wax in your most intimate areas. It is quite painful and is only done when the hair is fully grown. The complete region is waxed using a special wax. Many salons abroad, leave a strip of hair in the front or make patterns out of it. Some even offer to colour the strip of hair.

Tips:
--Some salons may also offer an anaesthetic cream to numb the pain so ask for one if you cannot bear the pain.
--You may first want to give bikini wax a try before opting for a Brazilian one.
--Apply ice to soothe the area after you are done and wear something comfortable.

Pros: The thickness of hair recedes over time. The bikini area remains clean and hair-free for weeks.

Cons: It is extremely painful. You have to wait for the hair to grow back completely before your next session. You will have to bare your intimate area to
the salon lady.

5. LASER HAIR REDUCTION
Laser hair reduction technique has become a rage for some time. It is touted as the best way to get rid of unwanted body hair and is also safe. This method needs to be monitored by a medical expert so that it is done correctly. The laser beam is used to burn the hair follicle which results in permanent hair reduction over a period of sessions. Since the bikini region is very sensitive, you may experience pain and a tingling sensation even after the application of an anaesthetic cream. Laser methods make the hair lighter and finer but there may still be fine hair growth.

Tips:
--Trim the area before you go for a session.
--Make sure you are not menstruating.
--Laser shows best results in people who have dark, thick hair growth.

Pros: It yields good results as the hair becomes fine. It is a nearly-permanent solution for hair reduction.

Cons: It is painful. Multiple sessions are needed. It can be expensive.

So choose any method of hair removal you like and be hair-free down there so that you don't smell bad. If you are uncomfortable getting it done from a professional, stick to a DIY method.

Don't mind d sista. Ask am wetin concern am. Make d father go employ a BOY. D story go change.

No b lie. Na konji do dis one. I kno blame d girl sha.

A 19-year-old housemaid in Zimbabwe, Lindiwe
Kahila, has been arrested and charged to court for allegedly forcing her employer's 14-year-old son to have sex with her, » reports MyZimbabwe.

The duo were caught by the boy's older having sex
» in their parent's bedroom, with the boy claiming
Kahila raped him by force.

Kahila, from Chief Mvuthu area outside Victoria Falls town, was not asked to plead to the charge when she appeared before Victoria Falls magistrate, Rangarirai Gakanje yesterday, but was remanded in custody till February 15, when her case is set to be transferred to Hwange Regional Court.

The prosecutor, Takunda Ndovorwi, said the alleged
crime was committed on January 13, at the boy’s
parents’ homestead where Kahila was employed.

“The accused invited the 14-year-old boy to sleep on
the same blankets with her and covered him with a
blanket.

Kahila removed her clothes and became completely
naked before she went on to unzip the complainant’s trousers.

Kahila ordered the Form One boy to lie on top of her and then had sex with him. She grabbed the
complainant’s privates and inserted his manhood
into her privates.

She ordered the boy to make some movements while on top of her and as a result, she had sexual
intercourse with the minor without his consent.

The two were busted by the boy’s sister who
responded to sounds emanating from the bedroom
and found the two having sexual intercourse. Upon
questioning, the juvenile told his sister that Kahila
forced herself on him, leading to her arrest,"
Ndovorwi said.
.

You b GUY MAN NA.... Why are u running. Finish what u started. Marry the 3 of them.