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Rudboi1:
Guys pls my girl just called me dat she will be spending d nyt in a guys house dat shes drunk. She forgot to end d call nd I heard her telling d guy to get a condom pls wat will I do am confused I've been calling nd she's not picking up

colabotu:
she rarely call. I do virtually all the calling. I do the giving also. yet she claims she loves me. sometimes I wonder maybe its because she is a student. but I am not convinced. Matured ladies on Nairaland, please I need your opinion;

Is it possible for a woman to be in love with a man and yet not call him regularly or text him once in a while but flash him regularly even though he recharges her phone often?

unapapadeycraze:
The vagina scares me.

Do we have vaginas that doesn't scare? Because all the ones I've seen scared me.
You know I'm gonna marry, what can I do to conquer this fear?

Leysco:
i have a job

You wicked b4 sef

Bluezy13:
All things being equal...
She should tell you the reason without you asking.
Sex is part of marriage

cruzita:
go bath cold water

Vinshu:
Disclaimer: This is a honest opinion compiled from the views of others including mine.(I.e Results of a survey).

As ladies, when we were growing up, our "role-models" and "elders" used to tell us that we should be clean, pure, sexually rigid, trusting, don’t nag, laugh at all his jokes, clean up after him, be a good cook, and most importantly – do not cheat on him with another man. These are all good values and habits we’re told will attract the right kind of man into our lives, men who will provide for us and our potential children.

But, unbeknownst to most women out there, most of this advice is outdated and old fashioned. These are modern times, and traditional ways to conduct yourself in a relationship sometimes don’t produce the best results or don’t apply anymore. Studies have revealed that over 65% of women in a monogamous relationship have cheated on their partners, will another 27% claim they’ve thought about it or would like to at some point. It’s hard to argue with statistics like that.

1. The best defense is a good offense.

Most women agree that men are hard wired to cheat. It’s sad but true. They are biologically hard wired to spread their seed as much as they can with as many females they can to ensure they further their blood line. It’s not their fault, but regardless, it has been the downfall of many relationships. That’s why this reason has made #1 on our list. Ladies, it’s time to beat your man to the chase and cheat on him first! This helps you secure the dominant role in the relationship, and makes sure he’s too occupied with chasing you around and checking up on you to find someone to cheat in you with.

2. It keeps things interesting and exciting for you.

It’s a sad reality, but many women end up becoming bored, lonely, and sometimes even depressed when stuck in a monotonous, monogamous relationship for a long period of time. Relationships have ended up failing simply due to the fact that the people involved are bored out of their minds with each other. This is why it’s good to spice things up once in a while, at least for yourself, by adding a new, secret partner into your bed.


3. Sleeping with other people expands your sexual expertise.

You know what they say, practice makes perfect. This adage isn’t just for learning how to play a guitar or how to speak a new language. Having multiple sexual partners ensures your exposure to many different ways to have sex, and ways to please people. There is a cornucopia of sexual knowledge out there just waiting for you to hump it. So go out there, learn new things with new people, and bring it back into the bedroom to wow your man! He’ll probably be too busy enjoying himself to wonder where you’ve picked up all these new techniques!

4. You may find assholes who will make you appreciate your own relationship even more.

Mainly because there are so many of them out there to choose from. You may happen to find one of these “assholes” in which to have your secret love affair with. His disrespectful, demeaning attitude towards you may be charming at first, but in the end it could end up making you appreciate your own Prince Charming waiting for you at home even more, because while assholes are fun to date, they’re not fun to play house with.

AND SAVING THE BEST FOR LAST....

5. Men secretly want you to cheat on them.

As stated in #1, men are biologically prone to cheat in their partners. In this case, they are leading by the example in which they want you to cheat on them with. They may not come right out and say it to your face, but rest assured, they find the idea of you sleeping with another man thrilling. It’s a competitive thing for them, with you being the prize. Who will she come home to tonight? I bet it’s going to be me, after all, I have the biggest muscles!


Do you agree? Share your thoughts.

Vinshu:
What would happen if he does?

Vinshu:
I'm married actually.

Joy1706:
Love has nothing to do with it. Once you hurt me, the love starts to die

Joy1706:
I'd cheat back. We can then choose to forgive ourselves or we go our separate ways. Yeah, I'm vindictive like that

Vinshu:
Nothing. The thing is cheating sometimes has an explanation. So I'll hear him out and if his excuse is material enough, then we're good.

I really don't find anything wrong in cheating personally.

Smellymouth:
Are you asking us? Bunmi don answer the question na...

halfricanadian:
If i catch her again

I fit wound am

I only spent 2 yrs at d boarding school d seniors were too too mean i ran away