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it depends,smtimes it takes weeks months,b4 they come back,and smtimes it takes years and they dont come back

plus_Queen:
My sentiments exactly.
God forbid but anyday you hear I'm divorced,just pray that God should chase away all sexual desires from me since I don't want to go fornicating up and down because as for remarriage, no way.
This is it.
And I'm determined to give it all I gat
I will not be building this tower again

naaa divorcd what will happen to those kids,no way woman,ur marriage will be fulfilled to d last ojare

but seriously i agree wt u,u know before marriage i had a long chat wt my mum sm nights and this woman told me sthg she said"marriage is like a gift wrapped and well covered,u don't know what is inside that gift until u open it,and that gift can only be opened when one is married,and watever u see,u take"

u know and many other things,which i have applied in this whole marriage,i have applied all i know,all my mama tot me,all ive reead,all ive seen,ive read and exhausted my whole brain,so where will start from if I'm told to remarry?

webman:
, Blunt advice will always  help you out

dis reply caught my eyes my dear, smtimes one has to be blunt to pass d msg across,i replied a thread posted by "monicaa" and i was very blunt about d whole thing,sm people will think one is being harsh but no,enough of all d pettings and go blunt

chinesedoll:
you  because u make d jokes sec lively
Jenny  because her trouble never ends
others are
creamish
beauteous
ruby
tope
na2day
doyin

abeg them pleny o!!!

na wetin i do una

mba ooooo,really i don't see myself marrying again,u know its like building all over again,i don't think i will have d strength to build again,ive exhausted all in this one,can't see myself doing it again

plus_Queen:
It's bad to stay on and endure an abusive marriage but I also believe the more industrialized nations like yours with more "liberated" women quit too soon sometimes.
Personally I wouldn't leave my husband for flirting.
I don't even know if I'll leave if he cheated once and was repentant (he better not hear this)
Everyone is entitled to at least one mistake (I think)
but if it's habitual or he has no remorse
that's it
It's over
and I'm not marrying after that.
I give myself only one chance at marriage
If it's death,maybe I'll remarry
but divorce,no way.
I don't have the strength to "train another man"
LOL

and may u not loose ur husband prematurely

janami:
ur opinion on how i sound doesnt remove any hair from my body Doesnt even make me blink.

buahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha oh gawdddd,so y r u correcting me naaaaaa,lmao look at wat hardhsip in naija has caused

janami:
lol. u shld take ur own advise

after u sweetie,cos u will be needing it in d nearest future

janami:
Eeyah. U are even confused about ur own username? hmm . . . o ma se o

hehehehehehehehe confused ROTFLMSGBO yea im confused not wt seun numerous bans,u were also confused wen typing my name,so we both r confused jajanamia

have a wonderful week ,jam mi,or jajami,oops sorry janami

why do u keep asking for number 190

haaa dis loff nwantiti display is strong ooo

david abeg enjoy ur wife first b4 pikins abeg

haaaaa david don dey plan kids already   this is serious

tope i don hear,no jealous again

no worry no wife again david,see d tope sef is jealous,she does not want to share u wt anybody

tope2000:
Holla ko
Shout ni

na wetin,so u r jealous ,talk now and i will give him ur cousin too

KarmaMod:
You all need anointing oil

ROTFLMSGBO

DavidDylan:
Danke na you biko. I always new Tope would be mine some day . . . Glory be to God!

Tope chei . . . i'm the happiest man around here now.  

ah aha trust me naaaa,anything for u

if u want more wife holla at me

Monicaa:
@Danke

Sorry dear I don't like fights n I'm still ripe, age is on my side, still got  a whole lot of time

blessings my sister,sorry if i was rude,but honestly,i was only trying to make u reason well,my cousin was once in ur shoes,i know wat im posting,its left for u to do wats right for u,but my advise is ,let that guy go,d right person will come for u,hes not worth it,it may take time but it will happen,my cousin is enjoying her hubby now,and thanking God for not settling wt d ex,so y not stay on ur own and allow God finish wat he started in ur life

*whispers into davids ears*  she said she has accepted ur proposal

but na waoo,see as we just derail dis thread,ROTFLMSGBO

nl too much

lmao dis same yicob dat has fallen inlove wt all d girls on dis forum

u r a clown

take ya time,tope have u seen mine,abi na u be d rat wey dey always hang for my window anytime i dey dress up confess naaaa

david loves u tope,comon give him a chance,he wont let go,not we those chests of urs are succulent

_{dats wat he told me}

DavidDylan:
For where? I'm waiting on my second wife.  

ok,i give u tope,d girl is got wat any man wants,is it manchester,or arsenal? i dash u tope

tope go meet ur o'ko

@monica

now tell me ,is it bocs u r old,is that why u r running after him?is ur clock ticking?

listen,this is a forum,we all come here for advises,ive received alot of insults from people,i was thinking they were insulting me,but later i got to find out that they r telling me d truth,truth is bitter my dear,accept it
if u think i will pet u d way chris and co r petting u,then u r wrong,i wont,i will tell u d truth raw and undiluted the way it is

p.s u don't know me,u dnt know how old i am,so act mature and leave age out of this

@chris

spare me d sermon,is this not simple logic,smone has refused to pick up ur calls,notreplied ur msgs,smone that said d love he has for u has faded ,smone that has smone else,goshhh is it not obvious shes buzzing his ear and disturbing d poor guy

come chris drop all this,this guy has cheated and cheated and cheated and cheated on her only gawd knows how many times,what kind of love does she have for d guy,realy tell me ,i want to know

yes lets keep things real,i will,infact that is what I'm doing,and blive me if she was to be my younger sis,i would have beaten out that madness out of her heart,yes i will

this same poster opened up a thread a couple of days back,we all advised her and just for me to come back today and see this thread,looking or asking for tips to get a man who might be dying of HIV or one terrible STDS

smtimes when u pet one to reasoning and that person refuses to learn ,then u go harsh on that person,since silent and quiet talks aint helping ,then maybe she needs smone to beat out that shit off her

haaa david bawoni,omo nko?se o wa


[s]its moi jenny,ive ben baptised again by seun[/s]

sorry if im harsh monic

but smtimes u need pple to keep it real,wen a girl is still doing the things shes been warned against,wat do u expect me to do,its as if d the advises we gave to u dat day was not aprreciated

leave d man alone,i wish busybody was here sef,cos i remember she also posted on d other thread

the man has smone else,let him be,but first go run a test on urself in d hospital

Chrisbenogor:
@Danke

See take it easy on this babe not everyone is like you, do you know her guy that you know she will be irritating him? no , when me I do break ups it is with a smile oh I no dey frown at all not to talk of irritate ke, lol. She will learn by hook or crook that is obvious.

really ,dis r topics i hate seeing on dis forum,topics of pple who cant add a little pride to the shattered one

the first time dis babe opened up a thread i read her story and blive me dis guy dat shes dying for does not even deserve to stare at her on d streets not to talk of dating her

abeg smone dat said hes no longer interested ,not picking up his calls,not replying msgs,do u need anybody to tel u dat once he sees her num or txt he gets irritated

im not a harsh person ,but plsss ,i hate pple dat fallinlove blindly,d guy is not inlove again let her leave him alone,shes suffocating him for heavens sake

Monicaa:
I'm glad U know what n how it feels considering the fact u've been there. So i guess I'll try n do this, ignore him for like 2 weeks, then take the next phase though as i was typing this, i was also thinking of calling him now to ask him when he's free so we could have a drink or so n talk that's if he even picks up.

u dont want to talk things out and blablabla,u want to beg him to come back,dats it ,dont deny it

thats wat d subject of this thread is all about,tips on how to get an ex back

the ex does not want u ,let him be abeg,really if dat ex was my brother i would have told him to embarass u on d streets of wherever u live

dnt call me rude or harsh,im trying to be real here

me be in that situation,in my dating days,those men know that they can't try anything stupid wt me ,because i am d "i don't care type" ,neither do i go about clinging on a mans sleeve as if hes  d only idiot on earth

monica if d guy does not want to talk to u,then let him be,goshhhhhhh

maybe d mere sight of u ,irritates him,yes,I'm that kind of person,d mere sight of people irritate me and i just ignore that person totally

he said its over what do u want to talk about?him accepting u back?infact go and check ur HIV status and know if hes transferred it to u

smone that cheats on u,smone that has no feelings for u,smone that does not appreciate u as a woman,smone who has nt got ur best interest at heart,smone that has been wt u just out of pity because of ur too much beggins,smone who jjust through away d little honour u have left in u on d floor,u r telling me u want to talk things out,what things?i ask monica what things?

Yes a surgical nurse chased and chased my man and flatly came out and told him what she was going to do to him in bed.

hmm osisi's man must be one handsome dude

@monica

come did dis guy jazz u,wat kind of stupid love is dis?

where is ur brain?in d sea or wat?oya go get dis minute

dis is a guy dat told u hes got no feelings for u again,haba leave d man alone he is not interested


nonsense

lekwe nu mu anya biko nu

tosh?o e mara ebea fa ne re condom?condom ni'ne iji ara nwanyi since ,kedi ebe i'ne go ya?

kooo,umu nwanyi ara ra gi rapu gi obere ego in'were?

hannibobo dont tell me u dont know tangent is inlove with u

intel has it that both of u r also secret lovers