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Nlanalyst:
Your mom, bro??

Your family needs an absolute revamp. Nothing seems right.

Jewessgratitud3:
Chai! People wicked o. Hmmm...

If you can, I'll advise you let it go because if you try to do anything in this state of anger, it might end up deadly. So try to cool off and move on. God will fight for you . I know it's not going to be easy but you have to so you don't regret later.

The mistake you made was going to stay with him. Don't go there again.

Brandiebird:
Op, if all your threads are anything to go by you have issues with people, full stop 🛑. I saw another thread where you were having issues within business. Your interpersonal relationships are not the best so maybe you need to look within and figure out what you are doing wrong. You seem to be the common denominator of all things, that means you need to reflect and figure out what you are doing or what you are giving.

Artiiclebeast:
Channel the energy and advice you are seeking to deal with him into improving upon and bettering yourself.

A very candid advice, brother.

You have bigger demons and enemies within you to deal with.

Face those, and watch your younger brother respect you without demanding it from him.

* I wish we could hear your younger brother's part of this story to help us able to make an informed and balanced judgement.

There is definitely so much more than you let out here.

We are all humans.

TheWinterBird:
Did something else happen between the two of you or why does he treat you with this much hatred?

Nlanalyst:
Please what are the reasons behind you doing chores? You said something about knowing your brother. We need to be sure of something before passing judgements.

madridguy:
If everything you said here about your brother is true then something is terribly wrong with your family arrangement.
If your blood brother can be this wicked to you, treating you like his slave and going to the extent of burning your belongings, then your mother has a lot to while she is still alive.

Meanwhile, I wouldn't suggest you report the matter to the air police ( provost ) because such a brother can set you up and harm you. Just let the matter slide and I pray you get your balance soon.

I wish i could get the link to a thread that graced the FP back then when a guy was trying to the attention of both the Lagos State Government and the Nigeria Airforce to come and take an homeless ex-airforce man before he died in their street to avoid Nigeria Police palava.

I passed that area that same day just to confirm the story and I was able to talk to the old mama who owns the shop the ex-service man use to sleep in front of her shop at night when the woman has closed and what she said is that they have called all the man's family member but all of them are saying the same thing " They will tell them the man should call his wife that enjoys his money " because the man cut off every of his family member when he was in active service.

I pray your brother comes back to his senses soon.

SINisSIN:
You can actually revenge by not doing anything. I know it hurts deeply but let it slides. Don't do anything, don't discuss the issue with anyone, let him be and allow his conscience to do the torment.

Keep working on yourself. You have to make it otherwise the next insult from your brother will be massive.

StPete:
Save your anger for later. A time for payback will come and then you will graciously use it. Revenge is best served cold. When that time for revenge comes, give it to him in the most ruthless way.

For now, just bare the pains and gather whatever you can for now

Biglittlelois:
The best revenge is success, when it comes, he will be the one to prostrate and ask for your forgiveness

For now, let it go, you will be fine.

Bodydiialect57:
What your younger brother did was truly heartless, but your reaction to his act should be priceless. Forgive him and move on.

Focus on becoming a better and an enviable version of yourself, and with God on your side, you will one day look back and smile.

ShenTeh:
Sorry bro.

Bi iya nla ba gbeni sanle, awon iya kekeke a maa mu ni gesin.

So much advise running through my head. But I'll do my best to summarise.

Forgive your younger brother. Shock him by not doing anything. He is not your problem. He is a distraction. True if you report him, he is likely going to be in trouble and nothing would happen to you. But please show him seniority by moving on.

2. You are going through a process. This is your making. You will arrive. Don't give up.

3. There's a problem in your home, very thin line of love. Please never fight your siblings to the point of exchanging blows. Less so in the presence of your mother and to the entertainment of your tenants. Be the wiser one and walk away.

All the best.

immortalcrown:
If what you said in this post is true, a DNA test is needed to confirm if he is your brother. No insult is intended.

But I advise you to bear the loss and mind your lane. He may later realize that no man is an island.

donbrowser:
I really like to mind my business but to think I was moved to check your nairaland history before asking you to send your account number only to find out you actually beg for a living really irks me. Best of luck with your hustle.

Anonymous1900:
Cool. I was going to pay you to keep your phone as it is 1 of the most essential tools for your continued search/livelihood right now. Send your account details, I'll have someone send 20k to you. you will be fine just keep putting in the work.

Connoisseur:
Bro send your account details
Send a pm when you do so I can get the notification

Larry1960:
2007 corolla

TheSociopath:
Alright

Anonymous1900:
Sent. be well

AbacorpInc:
Can you give me your email sir.

Anonymous1900:
How much do you want to sell the Phone ?

Shinor:
The Federal Government of Nigeria annually honoured a select number of citizens that have made sterling contributions to the country over a period of time. Citizens can receive various categories of awards, including the second-highest honour in the land—GCON—Grand Commander of the Order of the Niger—and indeed, there are two current notable figures with this particular award: Dr Mike Adenuga (Jnr) and Alhaji Aliko Dangote. This award is second only to that of the Grand Commander of the Federal Republic (GCFR) which is usually given to the country’s President.
Another rather ambiguous matter relating to these awards is the fact that no one knows exactly the criteria required for receiving any of the awards. To be precise, those who have received the GCON usually did not attract any controversy, as their contribution to society was somewhat visible to all and sundry. However, what qualifies someone to get a MON (Member of the Order of the Niger) and not a CON (Commander of the Order of the Niger) or an MFR (Member of the Order of the Federal Republic)? The parameters were unknown and remain unknown.

While some of those honoured were thought by the generality of the population to be deserving of such honour, others were often considered unworthy, as there was nothing concretely expressive of why such honour was bestowed on them. There are those who also believed that such characters got on the honours list simply by virtue of being friends with some of those responsible for compiling the list of awardees.
Deriving from the above, could it be a curious coincidence that since the advent of the Muhammadu Buhari administration, the annual national honours ceremony has not been held? In other words, for the past 7 years, no national honour has been bestowed on anyone. Rather interestingly, nobody is complaining, which might suggest that the population is comfortable with this turn of events, not having believed anyway that most of those being honoured in recent memory deserved it.

There is also the associated issue of those who ought to be honoured but were often inexplicably left out. There are hundreds, if not thousands of them. However, let us just take the case of a celebrated Nigerian table tennis player named Bose Kaffo. In a recent interview with a Nigerian internet-based radio station, Boom Radio NG, Bose reeled out many of her accomplishments, some of which include:
• 12-time African Table Tennis Champion in the Women Singles, Doubles, Mixed Doubles and Teams events.
• Winning 7 gold medals in singles and doubles events at six consecutive All African Games from 1987-2007.
• Second Nigerian female athlete to compete at 5 Olympic Games from 1992-2008 (after celebrated sprinter, Mary Onyali)
• Appointed International Table Tennis Coach/Expert for The Gambia, Lesotho, South Africa and Tanzania.
• Variously being part of the Nigerian female table tennis team that were African champions for 20 consecutive years.

Successive Nigerian governments seemed only interested in identifying with and honouring football players. Even at that, they focused only on the male teams. Just like Bose Kaffo’s sterling performance and achievements, the Nigerian female soccer team—the Super Falcons— has won the African Women Cup of Nations for a record 11 times as follows:

Despite winning 11 editions of the competition, the superlative Super Falcons have never been honoured with national awards. This is both shocking and unbelievable. In fact, the Nigerian female team set the stage for the development of female football on the African continent and have dominated all three categories (cadet, junior and senior) of the competition.

Read the full article at www.gaskiya.net
Photo credit: Courtesy Brilla Sports NG

Chassy03:
D.M IWAN BUY THAT PHONE

Temmytayor90:
Good day bro,my advice to you regarding your potential new job as a credit officer, please and please if you are an introvert and someone who finds it difficult to insult both young and old people, do not take the offer, go for the other one even with less pay for your sanity, I worked with a particular mfb here in ibadan, same pay as yours but when you don't meet up target, 20k is deducted from the salary and if at the end of the month, your clients are still owing, sorry bro your salary is in trouble, I worked for two months and I only got paid for a month, the second month was a charity work from me to the company because I wasn't paid reason been that my clients refused to pay back some money and the total money was much more than my salary which means if I don't recover the money, I don't get paid, you may ask how other credit officers do theirs, most of them insult and even fight people old enough to be ones parent which I can't, I can't even stand you insulting an elder in my presence talk more of me insulting an elder, however I resigned without being paid and I'm back jobless but it pays me to continue job seeking rather than do a job that I will be regretting my actions. Just an advice to you bro. Wishing you the best in whatever your decision is, meanwhile I still dey find job, anybpdy can be of help, I reside at Ibadan presently.

UKTAFIA:
He is spot on , cos me too gave up hope that same year and election.

TheSociopath:
Send me a PM bro

Connoisseur:
okay

Connoisseur:
Bro send your account details

MMempire:
Your story go change for a better one soon.