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tommy589:
Buy fan and pillow out of the 50k. In good time you buy other stuffs to give you more comfort

Lance008:
Add me up on Facebook
Ajao Olawale
I have some relocation sales

ThisisIkemefuna:
Who needs rentals abeg.
Country hard

Lyxewa:
"Drive-to-own" Opportunities!

Only for the Trustworthy and Diligent Drivers!

LordReed:
Sorry for your plight. I urge you to let it go, you are not in a good position to extract a satisfactory outcome from your brother at this time.

Meanwhile, I don't know your size but if you don't mind I can send you some clothes and shoes.

Aaaaarghmed:
I am angry reading this post because I have 1 younger brother and dem no born am well to do this even if na military him be.i go break him back under 2 mins.how did it get to the extent that you sold all your birthright to your younger brother.even though e get money pass you no mean say disrespect go follow.maybe you too dey follow am laugh right from small.u be quack senior brother. There is nothing you can do.the see finish don already cement.just move on simple.if not ,he can set you on fire

frozen70:
Just move on with your life

Gradually you will pick up

He may be questioned for keeping you that long in his house and may face panel for that

He may come back to you and do the worst

You know him very well that him no send anyone

Let him deal with the guilts of burning your only personal effects in his house

SavageMaster:
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You are going through a phase.

Like someone already advised, don't focus on the distraction.

You are at your lowest ebb in life. You need to seek God's face and also work on improving yourself, including learning some skills and also networking with the right people.

If you continue fighting with your brother, he will one day ask you if it's his fault that you're struggling.

Leave him alone and move on. Pray for him and your Mum too.

One day, when things turn around for you, he will be the one running to you for forgiveness

OSDD:
If he's non-commissioned. Report him to this Ogas, even if he's commissioned, report him. Cut him out of your life and don't ever have anything to do with him again.

Fredchisom:
Op is he a private,nda or dssc?
Ordinary galfrnd,na this werey asked op and his mother out of his one room cubicle. Some people are destined to be poor.

Nlanalyst:
Your mom, bro??

Your family needs an absolute revamp. Nothing seems right.

Jewessgratitud3:
Chai! People wicked o. Hmmm...

If you can, I'll advise you let it go because if you try to do anything in this state of anger, it might end up deadly. So try to cool off and move on. God will fight for you . I know it's not going to be easy but you have to so you don't regret later.

The mistake you made was going to stay with him. Don't go there again.

Brandiebird:
Op, if all your threads are anything to go by you have issues with people, full stop 🛑. I saw another thread where you were having issues within business. Your interpersonal relationships are not the best so maybe you need to look within and figure out what you are doing wrong. You seem to be the common denominator of all things, that means you need to reflect and figure out what you are doing or what you are giving.

Artiiclebeast:
Channel the energy and advice you are seeking to deal with him into improving upon and bettering yourself.

A very candid advice, brother.

You have bigger demons and enemies within you to deal with.

Face those, and watch your younger brother respect you without demanding it from him.

* I wish we could hear your younger brother's part of this story to help us able to make an informed and balanced judgement.

There is definitely so much more than you let out here.

We are all humans.

TheWinterBird:
Did something else happen between the two of you or why does he treat you with this much hatred?

Nlanalyst:
Please what are the reasons behind you doing chores? You said something about knowing your brother. We need to be sure of something before passing judgements.

madridguy:
If everything you said here about your brother is true then something is terribly wrong with your family arrangement.
If your blood brother can be this wicked to you, treating you like his slave and going to the extent of burning your belongings, then your mother has a lot to while she is still alive.

Meanwhile, I wouldn't suggest you report the matter to the air police ( provost ) because such a brother can set you up and harm you. Just let the matter slide and I pray you get your balance soon.

I wish i could get the link to a thread that graced the FP back then when a guy was trying to the attention of both the Lagos State Government and the Nigeria Airforce to come and take an homeless ex-airforce man before he died in their street to avoid Nigeria Police palava.

I passed that area that same day just to confirm the story and I was able to talk to the old mama who owns the shop the ex-service man use to sleep in front of her shop at night when the woman has closed and what she said is that they have called all the man's family member but all of them are saying the same thing " They will tell them the man should call his wife that enjoys his money " because the man cut off every of his family member when he was in active service.

I pray your brother comes back to his senses soon.

SINisSIN:
You can actually revenge by not doing anything. I know it hurts deeply but let it slides. Don't do anything, don't discuss the issue with anyone, let him be and allow his conscience to do the torment.

Keep working on yourself. You have to make it otherwise the next insult from your brother will be massive.

StPete:
Save your anger for later. A time for payback will come and then you will graciously use it. Revenge is best served cold. When that time for revenge comes, give it to him in the most ruthless way.

For now, just bare the pains and gather whatever you can for now

Biglittlelois:
The best revenge is success, when it comes, he will be the one to prostrate and ask for your forgiveness

For now, let it go, you will be fine.

Bodydiialect57:
What your younger brother did was truly heartless, but your reaction to his act should be priceless. Forgive him and move on.

Focus on becoming a better and an enviable version of yourself, and with God on your side, you will one day look back and smile.

ShenTeh:
Sorry bro.

Bi iya nla ba gbeni sanle, awon iya kekeke a maa mu ni gesin.

So much advise running through my head. But I'll do my best to summarise.

Forgive your younger brother. Shock him by not doing anything. He is not your problem. He is a distraction. True if you report him, he is likely going to be in trouble and nothing would happen to you. But please show him seniority by moving on.

2. You are going through a process. This is your making. You will arrive. Don't give up.

3. There's a problem in your home, very thin line of love. Please never fight your siblings to the point of exchanging blows. Less so in the presence of your mother and to the entertainment of your tenants. Be the wiser one and walk away.

All the best.

immortalcrown:
If what you said in this post is true, a DNA test is needed to confirm if he is your brother. No insult is intended.

But I advise you to bear the loss and mind your lane. He may later realize that no man is an island.

donbrowser:
I really like to mind my business but to think I was moved to check your nairaland history before asking you to send your account number only to find out you actually beg for a living really irks me. Best of luck with your hustle.

Anonymous1900:
Cool. I was going to pay you to keep your phone as it is 1 of the most essential tools for your continued search/livelihood right now. Send your account details, I'll have someone send 20k to you. you will be fine just keep putting in the work.

Connoisseur:
Bro send your account details
Send a pm when you do so I can get the notification

Larry1960:
2007 corolla

TheSociopath:
Alright

Anonymous1900:
Sent. be well