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Education › Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by Darhmmy: 11:06am On Jun 14, 2023
Can someone please put me through? I'm trying to apply for Noun undergraduate online but it's only showing halfway

2) Is the registration on? And how much does the form cost.

3)can I make payments online?

4) Do I need NIN to register?

Family › Re: DEAR AYOMIDE(A Letter To The Girl I carried In My Womb) by Darhmmy(op): 7:39am On Feb 23, 2023
Hi Diary, so we now have our own apartment.
It's not really comfortable, but it's enough for us.
I had to move without my baby daddy's consent. He and his family were driving me crazy. He's been calling me up and down but I'm not ready to listen to anything he has to say, Especially not from his mother.
Ayomide is growing well. She's a healthy and happy baby and I am so thankful to God.
Family › Re: DEAR AYOMIDE(A Letter To The Girl I carried In My Womb) by Darhmmy(op): 10:53am On Dec 14, 2022
Last night Grandma came to our room
And she started talking to me about my
Plans. She asked me why I have refused to marry her son. I told her I did not want to
End up being a second wife or mistress.
Can you believe this woman called my family
And told them I was acting like someone who
Wants to become wayward because I said I
Don't want to marry this man.
What started as a polite conversation ended up with me shouting at this woman .
She started telling me stories of how their own Children do not sleep outside. That they have to remain in their household. I acted dumb to that. She now finally said her and her son will have no choice than to seek custody of my own child.
I almost ran mad in anger. I've decided to move out before the month ends. I've seen an apartment and I am working to get it.
Family › Re: DEAR AYOMIDE(A Letter To The Girl I carried In My Womb) by Darhmmy(op): 12:38am On Dec 05, 2022
Sometimes I don't understand
Grandma. She is always supporting
Her son. Can't believe she is asking me
To call Ayomide's daddy. Somebody
That has not called me in weeks,
He is always calling Grandma instead.
I've been saving some money , when I
Have enough I'll move to another place.
Family › Re: DEAR AYOMIDE(A Letter To The Girl I carried In My Womb) by Darhmmy(op): 4:51pm On Dec 03, 2022
My Diary Eku Jo meta ooo
Ayomide is so big now
Her Daddy is Fine too.
I now go to work and leave her with
Grandma. I teach in a senior secondary school
I want to keep Ayo in the creche when I'm at work but Grandma won't even agree.
I have been doing so much exercise and I'm looking prettier than ever.

I really came to check on the TTC group and the one for pregnant women.
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Darhmmy: 8:23pm On Oct 08, 2022
Please mums what can I do if my baby suddenly stopped sucking my breasts. Whenever I give her she puts her mouth and then removes it again. What should I do. She's not even up to six months yet
Family › Re: DEAR AYOMIDE(A Letter To The Girl I carried In My Womb) by Darhmmy(op): 8:20pm On Oct 08, 2022
I sometimes forget this place exists.
We finally moved in with Grandma
She has been taking care of us.
Ayomide's daddy is mad at me
Because I refused to let him come close
To me.
I don't think he understands how much
Pain he made me go through.
Family › Re: DEAR AYOMIDE(A Letter To The Girl I carried In My Womb) by Darhmmy(op): 7:50am On Sep 10, 2022
Ayomide has been keeping me busy
Her Grandma asked us to come over
We've been at her place and she has been
Taking care of us.
This man has been trying to make us move
In with his mom.
As much as we need all the help we can get
For Ayomide , I don't want to live with his mom.
This help would have been so needed when I
Was pregnant or struggling to take care
Of a newborn.
I think we are over the scary part.
I used to be scared of touching her head
Or even touching her.
Mama Ronke our neighbor was the only one
Who was present.
My mom would have been with us too
but she was at the hospital.
Anyway we are growing
And growing well.
Grandma won't even let her sleep on the bed
Always tying her to her back and
Singing all those native songs to her.
The amount of Amala I have eaten since
I got here has surpassed the Amala I have eaten in my Entire life.
I don't know how mummy makes Hers but
I just can't have enough.

Ayomides daddy came to see us
Yesterday and will go back today.
He is always buying things She can't
Even use yet.
I keep telling him but he won't listen.

The amount of powder mama has been
Putting on this girl's neck and bum
She always look funny in the mornings.

Dear God , Thank you for all you have
Done for us. Thank you for Bringing us
This far.
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Darhmmy: 5:03pm On Sep 02, 2022
Mummies My nipples are hurting big time and I still have to breastfeed.
Is there anything I can use to relieve this pain?
Family › Re: DEAR AYOMIDE(A Letter To The Girl I carried In My Womb) by Darhmmy(op): 4:59pm On Sep 02, 2022
We used to be coursemates
We left uni and We just fell apart.
The breakup wasn't planned but it was
Much needed.
After 3 years , We ran into ourselves at the
agodi Garden.
We reconnected,he told me he wasn't even in a relationship and somehow we started
Seeing again.
He lied about everything.
I found out he was married through an old classmate too.
Was I upset ? Yes.
He denied everything.
I have never met such a terrible liar.
It took a very big Argument before he
Could tell me.
Did I intentionally ruin someone else's marriage? No.
Yes I could have just walked out of the relationship, But it wasn't so Easy.
This Guy had come to see my Family.
He was always attending family functions with me.
Every time he talked about getting
Married to me ,there was no trace of Lie.
We were together for 2 years before I found out he was already married.
The last unprotected sex Got me pregnant.
We were still fighting when I found out
I was pregnant.
I told him.
He ghosted me.
Told me he doesn't want to be involved.
He left the country.
Only for him to reappear when I was heavy.

Was I stupid? Yes I was.
I really was so stupid.
Even after I found out , he was always
Telling me how much he loved me
And how he wants to be with me.
He told so many lies.
Told me how his wife was selfish, ​had no time for him.
This man said he married his wife
Because his family wanted him to
Get married before travelling.
Stupid me thought it was true.
If it wasn't , how come he was always
Spending so much time with me?
He was always around me. Even on
Weekends.
Where was his wife?
Lol. She was out of the country.
They had both left the country together
And had both returned for a break.
She had to go back he decided to stay for a while.
We met During that stay.


My Daughter has such a funny face.
Some say she looks like me , while
Others says she's exactly like her dad.
But me I don't even know. When she
Sleeps , I see myself. But when she's awake ,
She has her Daddy's face.
Sometimes she even look like my mom.

Today is Friday, Her dad will be visiting today.

Mothers in the house , My nipples are hurting big time and I still have to breastfeed.
Is there anything I can use to relieve this pain
Family › Re: DEAR AYOMIDE(A Letter To The Girl I carried In My Womb) by Darhmmy(op): 10:02pm On Aug 31, 2022
Ayomide is Sleeping
I'm trying to get some rest too.
I like BBN. I think Hermes is my
Favorite housemate.

For those Reading I initially planned
To start my Diary from my past
Event.

I changed my mind and will now
Tell my story in the present and past.

I feel sleepy.
Family › DEAR AYOMIDE(A Letter To The Girl I carried In My Womb) by Darhmmy(op):
Good Evening Diary.
My name is Damola
I am in my late Twenties
I became pregnant
The only reason I decided to have this Diary
Is Because I wanted a Safe place to pour my heart.
And maybe someday , she'll see this too.
My story is a very long one , I will probably get to that someday.
Life has been very difficult for me since I got pregnant.
You'd think your own family would be there for you. But I guess we all have to pay for our sins.
These days all I can think of is how badly I messed up.
Maami called me to say " Damola , you area disgrace "..
Big sis didn't even listen to my side of the story.
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Darhmmy: 6:03pm On Mar 29, 2022
Hello mummies I'm new here
Family › Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Darhmmy(op): 11:41pm On Mar 22, 2022
Yes I have!! We settled , we're Still together and he has taken me to meet with his mother and he has also come to see my parents. His wife doesn't know yet but he's fully supporting me
Nairaland General › Re: Is Whatsapp Down? by Darhmmy: 5:09pm On Oct 04, 2021
Yes and Facebook too
Family › Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Darhmmy(op): 9:46am On Oct 01, 2021
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.
Health › Re: I'm In Need Of A Weight Loss Buddy(ies) by Darhmmy(op): 9:20am On Aug 29, 2021
OkuFaba:
Some wantu add and some wantu reduce.

How can we exchange cos me wan add sef
����� Omo come and take my own oh.
Health › I'm In Need Of A Weight Loss Buddy(ies) by Darhmmy(op):
Hi

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