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Can someone please put me through? I'm trying to apply for Noun undergraduate online but it's only showing halfway 2) Is the registration on? And how much does the form cost. 3)can I make payments online? 4) Do I need NIN to register?
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Hi Diary, so we now have our own apartment. It's not really comfortable, but it's enough for us. I had to move without my baby daddy's consent. He and his family were driving me crazy. He's been calling me up and down but I'm not ready to listen to anything he has to say, Especially not from his mother. Ayomide is growing well. She's a healthy and happy baby and I am so thankful to God. |
Last night Grandma came to our room And she started talking to me about my Plans. She asked me why I have refused to marry her son. I told her I did not want to End up being a second wife or mistress. Can you believe this woman called my family And told them I was acting like someone who Wants to become wayward because I said I Don't want to marry this man. What started as a polite conversation ended up with me shouting at this woman . She started telling me stories of how their own Children do not sleep outside. That they have to remain in their household. I acted dumb to that. She now finally said her and her son will have no choice than to seek custody of my own child. I almost ran mad in anger. I've decided to move out before the month ends. I've seen an apartment and I am working to get it. |
Sometimes I don't understand Grandma. She is always supporting Her son. Can't believe she is asking me To call Ayomide's daddy. Somebody That has not called me in weeks, He is always calling Grandma instead. I've been saving some money , when I Have enough I'll move to another place. |
My Diary Eku Jo meta ooo Ayomide is so big now Her Daddy is Fine too. I now go to work and leave her with Grandma. I teach in a senior secondary school I want to keep Ayo in the creche when I'm at work but Grandma won't even agree. I have been doing so much exercise and I'm looking prettier than ever. I really came to check on the TTC group and the one for pregnant women. |
Please mums what can I do if my baby suddenly stopped sucking my breasts. Whenever I give her she puts her mouth and then removes it again. What should I do. She's not even up to six months yet |
I sometimes forget this place exists. We finally moved in with Grandma She has been taking care of us. Ayomide's daddy is mad at me Because I refused to let him come close To me. I don't think he understands how much Pain he made me go through. |
Ayomide has been keeping me busy Her Grandma asked us to come over We've been at her place and she has been Taking care of us. This man has been trying to make us move In with his mom. As much as we need all the help we can get For Ayomide , I don't want to live with his mom. This help would have been so needed when I Was pregnant or struggling to take care Of a newborn. I think we are over the scary part. I used to be scared of touching her head Or even touching her. Mama Ronke our neighbor was the only one Who was present. My mom would have been with us too but she was at the hospital. Anyway we are growing And growing well. Grandma won't even let her sleep on the bed Always tying her to her back and Singing all those native songs to her. The amount of Amala I have eaten since I got here has surpassed the Amala I have eaten in my Entire life. I don't know how mummy makes Hers but I just can't have enough. Ayomides daddy came to see us Yesterday and will go back today. He is always buying things She can't Even use yet. I keep telling him but he won't listen. The amount of powder mama has been Putting on this girl's neck and bum She always look funny in the mornings. Dear God , Thank you for all you have Done for us. Thank you for Bringing us This far. |
Mummies My nipples are hurting big time and I still have to breastfeed. Is there anything I can use to relieve this pain? |
We used to be coursemates We left uni and We just fell apart. The breakup wasn't planned but it was Much needed. After 3 years , We ran into ourselves at the agodi Garden. We reconnected,he told me he wasn't even in a relationship and somehow we started Seeing again. He lied about everything. I found out he was married through an old classmate too. Was I upset ? Yes. He denied everything. I have never met such a terrible liar. It took a very big Argument before he Could tell me. Did I intentionally ruin someone else's marriage? No. Yes I could have just walked out of the relationship, But it wasn't so Easy. This Guy had come to see my Family. He was always attending family functions with me. Every time he talked about getting Married to me ,there was no trace of Lie. We were together for 2 years before I found out he was already married. The last unprotected sex Got me pregnant. We were still fighting when I found out I was pregnant. I told him. He ghosted me. Told me he doesn't want to be involved. He left the country. Only for him to reappear when I was heavy. Was I stupid? Yes I was. I really was so stupid. Even after I found out , he was always Telling me how much he loved me And how he wants to be with me. He told so many lies. Told me how his wife was selfish, had no time for him. This man said he married his wife Because his family wanted him to Get married before travelling. Stupid me thought it was true. If it wasn't , how come he was always Spending so much time with me? He was always around me. Even on Weekends. Where was his wife? Lol. She was out of the country. They had both left the country together And had both returned for a break. She had to go back he decided to stay for a while. We met During that stay. My Daughter has such a funny face. Some say she looks like me , while Others says she's exactly like her dad. But me I don't even know. When she Sleeps , I see myself. But when she's awake , She has her Daddy's face. Sometimes she even look like my mom. Today is Friday, Her dad will be visiting today. Mothers in the house , My nipples are hurting big time and I still have to breastfeed. Is there anything I can use to relieve this pain |
Ayomide is Sleeping I'm trying to get some rest too. I like BBN. I think Hermes is my Favorite housemate. For those Reading I initially planned To start my Diary from my past Event. I changed my mind and will now Tell my story in the present and past. I feel sleepy. |
Good Evening Diary. My name is Damola I am in my late Twenties I became pregnant The only reason I decided to have this Diary Is Because I wanted a Safe place to pour my heart. And maybe someday , she'll see this too. My story is a very long one , I will probably get to that someday. Life has been very difficult for me since I got pregnant. You'd think your own family would be there for you. But I guess we all have to pay for our sins. These days all I can think of is how badly I messed up. Maami called me to say " Damola , you area disgrace ".. Big sis didn't even listen to my side of the story. |
Hello mummies I'm new here |
Yes I have!! We settled , we're Still together and he has taken me to meet with his mother and he has also come to see my parents. His wife doesn't know yet but he's fully supporting me |
Yes and Facebook too |
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other. We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him. I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this. |
OkuFaba:����� Omo come and take my own oh. |
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