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PoliticsRe: Why Are We (nigerians) Like This? by Darlingme(op): 6:29pm On Dec 02, 2024
ednut1:
Its a natural human phenomenon. You support your tribeman because you think you would benefit. But in reality only 0.00001% benefits ( appointments, jobs and contracts). In America some people voted based on race and sex. Politicians understand the game and keep playing us
Too bad
PoliticsRe: Why Are We (nigerians) Like This? by Darlingme(op): 6:25pm On Dec 02, 2024
Obaaderemi2:
Please let's be reasonable as educated adults. How would your preferred candidate in the last election have generated the funds to keep paying subsidies and defending the naira? Pray tell us from where he would have gotten the money.

Or do you think ifObi or Atiku had won they would still be selling fuel at #200?
There should have been a change of government for us to experience another phase. How can we be crying inside a fring pan, then some of you collective decided to vote us (move us further) to fire?
PoliticsRe: Why Are We (nigerians) Like This? by Darlingme(op): 6:21pm On Dec 02, 2024
Softmirror:
Are you people not tired of this line of thinking? You are not making sense.
Exactly. That's how an average black man behave. Once it's favouring them, they wouldn't complain even if every other person's dies. I'm not surprise
PoliticsRe: Why Are We (nigerians) Like This? by Darlingme(op): 6:18pm On Dec 02, 2024
yarimo:
suffering is suffering keep quiet
So, from house rent of 500k to 2.5m is a small suffering. Oga, suffering is not suffering
PoliticsRe: Why Are We (nigerians) Like This? by Darlingme(op): 6:16pm On Dec 02, 2024
UltraSolid:
You're just being emotional. The right to vote and be voted for is sacrosanct. You can't Rob others of the freedom to vote who they want.
Have many of those people who exercise that freedom of voting are proud of their actions now?
PoliticsRe: Why Are We (nigerians) Like This? by Darlingme(op): 5:10pm On Dec 02, 2024
yarimo:
Suffering is suffering, when you are enjoying their are some people suffering like they are going to die, now that you are suffering their are some people enjoying.
But there are certain suffering right now that is affecting both the poor and the rich. Or you are not aware? What are you defending?
PoliticsRe: Why Are We (nigerians) Like This? by Darlingme(op): 5:07pm On Dec 02, 2024
Mrwhite09:
i voted tinubu because of emilokan nd now I am collecting woto woto from thesame tinubu. can you imagine that i Never chop since morning?
We that didn't vote him aren't supposed to suffer the same, but here we are. Lol 😂😂
PoliticsRe: Why Are We (nigerians) Like This? by Darlingme(op): 4:38pm On Dec 02, 2024
yarimo:
did suffering started today in Nigeria
But can you compare the suffering of your family members of today with that of 3 or even 10 years ago?
Besides, what stop the nation from improving on public suffering?
PoliticsRe: Why Are We (nigerians) Like This? by Darlingme(op): 3:43pm On Dec 02, 2024
EmperorCaesar:
cheesy

Useless Epistle
Not even Paul wrote a longer Epistle to Philemon
Everyone to their opinion
FamilyRe: Recreating Our Pre Wedding Pics After 6years Of Marriage by Darlingme(f): 3:36pm On Dec 02, 2024
koife:
just why I refused replying
Yes. Just ignore foolish comments. Especially on this forum. Too many bitter and broken people
FamilyRe: Recreating Our Pre Wedding Pics After 6years Of Marriage by Darlingme(f): 3:34pm On Dec 02, 2024
Softmirror:
Hope you have done DNA test sha?! 😂 I purposely asked because you are a man and we know what you men do to their fellow men.
A lot of people online are really home breaker. How could you thought of this?
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Asks His Member To Remove His Shoes At A Church Event by Darlingme(f): 3:26pm On Dec 02, 2024
In a society where people believe in religion more than humanity and kindness.

Otherwise, what kind of no.nsen.se was that?
PoliticsRe: Why Are We (nigerians) Like This? by Darlingme(op): 3:18pm On Dec 02, 2024
yarimo:
Stop typing long rubbish, everyone has constitutional rights of choice. And that shouldn't be your business
Are you for real? The constitutional rights of choice that when it's time for punishment, we all suffer it together? That's not fair. That's shouldn't be a slogan for any nation, any people that needs positive development.
PoliticsRe: Why Are We (nigerians) Like This? by Darlingme(op): 3:14pm On Dec 02, 2024
budaatum:
We are ignorant. And that's why we are bigots and subject to divide and rule. If we weren't ignorant, we'd be like the Chinese who don't care if the cat were black or white so long as it caught mice.

Good thing is this suffering is like rain that falls on everyone's head, so when we all get wet we'd all try to alleviate it together or just suffer more until we learn to elect competence regardless of tribe or religion or gender.
It's very unfortunate that we all have to suffer the consequence together
TravelRe: My Family Wants To Send Me To The UK-(London) , But Am Not Ready: I Need Advice by Darlingme(f): 3:04pm On Dec 02, 2024
Episode22:
my girlfriend is pregnant, only me know about it for now.. im still in my mother's house..
My dear, you have to go. So you can prepare good life for you and your unborn children.
If you don't go and work out your life, success and your finances, time will come even that your pregnant girlfriend, will blame you. If you truly love her and your baby to come, you must go.
Tell your family members about the pregnancy . Good luck
PoliticsWhy Are We (nigerians) Like This? by Darlingme(op): 2:57pm On Dec 02, 2024
I'm trying to understand something here.
Why is it that during election, we become divided, tribalistic, religious and die hard followers of bad government (politicians), but when it's time for consequence, we collectively received it together?

I can vividly remember during the last election, with one of my friend, we almost lost our friendship because of his support to this present government. Today he's also complaining. Things are hard.
But I'm still sure if by tomorrow his tribal person stand to contest against another different person, he will still choose his tribal brother over the other. no matter how bad his tribal person is. That's the exact behavior of many Nigerians.

Why are we like that?
Even though we suffer, once it comes to religion, tribalism. We wouldn't mind the stress. But why?
And what can save us from these bondage?
FamilyRe: Single Fathers Taking Custody Of Their Kids by Darlingme(f): 4:58am On Nov 28, 2024
No serious minded mother will release her 7 and 8 years old kids to her ex husband. Besides, they are too young for all that drama. I know your mom is behind you and telling you ''she will help you take care of them'', but trust me, they need your wife's more than you no their grandma now.
Pls, you can co parent if you both can't make the marriage work any more.
FamilyRe: Couples That Did Not Communicate For Over 12 Hours, Is It A Sign Of Unhealthy Ma by Darlingme(f): 4:51am On Nov 28, 2024
You mean just 12hrs and you're complaining?
When has excessive phone call become a prerequisite for Respec in marriage?

Some of these issues can be resolved if the two parties can calm down to explain to each other.
PoliticsRe: Fire At Broadcasting House, Ikoyi by Darlingme(f): 4:28am On Nov 28, 2024
What's the cause? Hope is not from electric connection, because many Nigerians are fond of managing cables, extensions, and chargers even when dealing with high valued gadgets.

Most staff wouldn't even border to remove some laptops, computers, camera's batterie's from charging even when they're fully charged.
Some of these gadget in the media house are very expensive, but they wouldn't care because it's not from their hard earned money.
When you work in a sensitive environment, you are to pay more attention to details for safety measures. Apart from loosing lives, you also lose huge amount of money
CelebritiesRe: Court To Hear ₦‎5 Billion Suit Against Sinach For Alleged Copyright Infringement by Darlingme(f): 4:25am On Nov 28, 2024
What brought court matter inside music that was meant to worship God?
Abu nau business una dey do before?


Make una no break my heart oo ❤️❤️❤️
FamilyRe: Only Nigerians Abroad Pls. Business Partners by Darlingme(op): 8:54pm On Nov 19, 2024
We4all:
Those that responded live at Iweka road, and shouldn't be taken seriously.
Wao
FamilyRe: Only Nigerians Abroad Pls. Business Partners by Darlingme(op): 3:33pm On Nov 19, 2024
Zonefree:
Thief!
Seriously? 😂 You shouldn't reply since you can't comprehend my write up.
FamilyRe: Only Nigerians Abroad Pls. Business Partners by Darlingme(op): 3:32pm On Nov 19, 2024
Kewtt:
You're low on capacity yet you have conditions. Arrogant beggar
Can you read at all? Beggar? How?
FamilyOnly Nigerians Abroad Pls. Business Partners by Darlingme(op): 2:02pm On Nov 19, 2024
I have a business idea. I would love to partner with Nigerians abroad.
You stays abroad and you love to do business,
We buy certain items and resell here in Nigeria. You may not add your capital from the beginning, but with time, once you are convinced, you may add, despite that, you will still take part in the profit for now.
Pls only serious business minded honest persons please .
FamilyRe: I Spend ₦10,000 Daily On Food For My Family – Please Help, I'm Going Crazy! - NA by Darlingme(f): 11:36am On Oct 04, 2024
Tell your wife to make two varieties of big pot of soup then a pot of stew during the weekend. Take for example, okro and egusi and stock then in the fridge. These should be ok for the week to avoid constant cooking and wasting gas.

The idea behind this, is if she decided to use chicken, for example, 10k budgeted. This chicken will be used for all two different soup and stew.
They should cut the chicken small small.

Learn to buy in bulk too. Stop buying one module of rice, beans, gari on a daily basis. But

I know you might not have the money at once, but you can try to budget to purchase either a bag or half bag of those favorite food you constantly eat in the house.

Lastly, constant bread and tea for breakfast can be replaced with pap and fry yam, akara etc.
May God help everyone
FamilyRe: Blackmailing With Se.x Video by Darlingme(op): 8:07am On Oct 01, 2024
Oligrant:
This blog post was informative. Thank you! Solar
True story
FamilyRe: New Scamming Method Online by Darlingme(op): 8:06am On Oct 01, 2024
heffem:
Some things are kinda glaring for all to see. How could you spell your names wrongly on Facebook, and expect me to take you serious. Red flag!
Lol
FamilyBlackmailing With Se.x Video by Darlingme(op): 11:02am On Sep 30, 2024
I watched a video on Facebook where a woman accusing an ex senator of se.x video/nude pics blackmail.

How can someone blackmail a married woman to the point of sending her to be sleeping around with his own friends, record the see.x video and deliver it to him so he can use it to blackmail his friends?

My curiosity:
Why do people record themselves during se.x in the first place? Knowing that people could have access to your phone?

If it's not your idea, why do you allow someone record you during se.x?

Why sending nude pics to someone? How is the person convincing you to do that?


Alot of Young ladies have their se.x videos, nude pics in the hand of wrong people blackmailing them and making them do things they naturally wouldn't do.



How can one handle see.x/nude pics blackmail?
What advice can you give to someone in that situation?
FamilyNew Scamming Method Online by Darlingme(op): 8:56am On Sep 25, 2024
I came across this on Facebook and decided to share.
It's very unfortunate how many people are thinking of legit business idea and how to survive this hard economy while many are upgrading their scamming strategy and defrauding one another.

I'm sure many people are victims of this.

How can someone ask you to send him/her money for lunch and in return, he/she will send you some money? What's that bull shi.t?


Share any recent scamming strategy you have experienced or heard, so we keep learning.

FamilyRe: Do You Think They Need Help? by Darlingme(op): 11:46am On Sep 01, 2024
1Sharon:
She should have never married a gambler. She was thinking he would change, people never change unless they deeply want to.
And you know some people hide their addiction from their partners till after marriage.
FamilyRe: Do You Think They Need Help? by Darlingme(op): 9:53pm On Aug 31, 2024
1Sharon:
She should have never married a gambler. She was thinking he would change, people never change unless they deeply want to.
You're right
FamilyRe: Do You Think They Need Help? by Darlingme(op): 8:29pm On Aug 31, 2024
immortalcrown:
When the gambler or someone that can communicate with the gambler comes, I will try to help.
How will you help?

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