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Wendy80:
Got this from a broadcast and thought I should share here, so here we go...

‎1. Some ladies think that acting like a wife will automatically persuade the guy to put the ring on their finger. That is faulty thinking and could lead you into big emotional problems.
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2. Just so we are clear, until he puts the ring on your finger, you are NOT, I repeat, not, his wife. You go everywhere together, hold hands, kiss in public, he introduces you to his friends as ‘my wife’, all that is nonsense until he puts a legal ring on your finger.
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3. You are dating him, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you. Dating and marriage are totally different things. Even if he is engaged to you, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you.
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4. Some men demand that you cook for them, organise their apartment and give them sex to prove that you are good wife material. Don’t you fall for that. Any man who tells you that wants to use and dump you. And, DON’T move in with him because that will automatically make you his ‘in-house-mistress’ who will perform all his wife duties for him without the commitment of marriage.
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5. You don’t have to submit to him until he puts that ring on your finger. Some men demand that you should submit to them because you are dating. If he wants you to submit to him when you are not dating, just think of what he would do to you if you are married to him.
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6. Don’t give him your money unless you are sure that you will get it back. If you give him your money because he is a ‘potential husband’, you can kiss that money goodbye because you may never see it again.
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7. Stop giving him your body whenever wherever. Anytime he wants sex, he calls you up, yet he hasn’t put the ring on your finger. Giving him sex is counter productive. Your objective is to get married to him, not to warm his bed. Pretending to be his wife by giving him sex will not make him put that ring on your finger.
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8. It is not complex: if he wants you to perform wife duties for him like cooking, organising his life, sex and all other wife duties, tell him to take you to his family and organize a marriage .Stop being foolish. If he really loves you as he whispers in your ears, he should take you to the marriage registry.
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9. If he gets all the wife duties from you for free, why on earth do you think that he will make you his wife? If he is not ready to make a life commitment to you, he doesn’t deserve any wife benefits.
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10. Protect yourself from emotional and sexual abuse. Stop giving this man what he doesn’t deserve. If he is not willing to honor you by putting that ring on your finger, then he is not worthy to receive wife benefits from you. When you become his wife, then he will get treated like a husband.

Source
‎http://picwittr.com/10-wife-duties-to-avoid-with-boyfriends-1

ok just saw ure not the author, sorry for my outburst

kandiikane:
@7. So because he has not given me a ring, I must deny my body's urges abi? Is it only a man who enjoys sex whenever and wherever? Abeg, if you want do am, do am, abi na for marriage woman body dey turn from firewood to flesh?

this post is plain stupid to me, so u say we are engaged/dating, and u won't wash my clothes for me ? Or cook? Because u never see my parents ba? Tah, d way I go use chase u comot my house ehn!!! You go wash d clothes still tell me say u wan iron dem 4 me

[quote author=Wendy80 post=27731620]I'm married. Why

Asable:
A real man is a man that has the fear of God,has self control and keep to his word

hello ph lady

Lala247:
Lol u dont need to insult other cuz ur feeling her .. U guys sha no skills .. Well ur young or lil boys do that . U can compliment her n still b a gent

Lol n look at urself hun chai abeg dont make me laugh ..

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Btw I'm no gent and I didn't ask for your opinion , thx

Mhizizzy:
Wad Guy wants to be gay wen we AV sexy baes like lala247 IvyT..rokiatu nd whole loads of odas out dere...

Dey are missing

hey young lady, ure preetier than those gals u mentioned, I'm not flattering you , just letting u know, lala is ugly , and she knows it, rokiatu has a bottle like shape , ewww, I don't know tht ivyt, just so were clear!

mystiqueDZ:
D'ac....au revoir!

aiit bye then

mystiqueDZ:
salut.....Bonjour.

lol ok I don't know the rest, how are ya?

Wendy80:
bigtt76

my dear u can't tell a wicked person by looks oh. Some look very sweet but wickeeed

oh like me, no one ever expects it, there always decieved by the good charming looks

bigtt76:
I blame the parents ....they should have known that the woman was evil judging by her looks ....wicked k-legs, big upper body and small legs ....very good signs of evil looking people! Thank God for the baby may God bless her richly to never indulge in Nannies.

Funny enough, all the so called creches are in no way different - feeding kids with cough syrups to make dem sleep all day long. We know dem tricks all

I love cough syrup tho

mystiqueDZ:
What a pretty baby.....

bonjour

hotice01:
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ok bro

Hmmm

2nded

Lol Damn!!! These ppl too wan watch Action film

Mtchewww stale shiii

Wicked

doreenvee:
Classic

hello dear, do u stay in PH?

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Rexnegro:
I swear na abokii I wrote o same tin happen to u ...Lwkmdh hehehehehehehe

lol so d word abokki is now racist ba, hmmm abokiis everywhere

qbd2:

lol yea

qbd2:
Yes oh, u beta call her sharp sharp
Btw, if u don't mind me asking what's d deal? Ur granny has a househelp of that sort?

yes hun she does,

EggovinMma:
Oh dear, I am not on Facebook.
Apart from Nl, I deactivated other social network.

. Lol that's weird, so no private chats then?, the whole of NL would see our discussions, that's too much 4 me la

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EggovinMma:
Fine, dear!

um guess u don't wanna publicize it , well here's mine RESTRO FLAMEZ

Lol is all I can say, *strolls out*

EggovinMma:
Fine, dear!

aiit hun, could I get your facebook Id? Lemme add u there ,

EggovinMma:
I dey. Hope you're good?

yeah, hw was ur day?

Fourwinds:
ok. dat only is wrong in d public. u should know what is meant for indoor wear and outdoor wear

bro we arnt under military rule , she has the right as a citizen of Nigeria to where whatever she wants, no be she use her money buy am?

This woman Is a biiitch I swear, who else thinks so,?