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Celebrities / Re: Rita Ora Hits The Beach In Ibiza In White Sexy Bikini After Her Breakup by DatBossAssChick(f): 9:46pm On Aug 04, 2015
Eezz allowed!

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Politics / Re: SEE GOBE: Police Rush To Rescue Two Pastors Fighting In Church (photo) by DatBossAssChick(f): 9:41pm On Aug 04, 2015
No be small thing o!

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Celebrities / Re: Picture: Spot Our Amiable Comedian Basketmouth by DatBossAssChick(f): 7:39pm On Jul 22, 2015
Chestar5:
The 2nd dude from left, the tallest in d pics undecided
Lol he doesn't have a neck as long as that na.
Politics / Re: Photo Of Abacha, His Wife, Al-mustapha And President Buhari by DatBossAssChick(f): 7:38pm On Jul 22, 2015
Demmocrats:


Gal you snapped it from a pic by the way from looks of your nail you must be cute.keep it up
www.
Not mine smiley
Celebrities / Picture: Spot Our Amiable Comedian Basketmouth by DatBossAssChick(f): 5:25pm On Jul 22, 2015
As a teenager 22 years ago with his classmates at United Christian Secondary School. grin

Politics / Photo Of Abacha, His Wife, Al-mustapha And President Buhari by DatBossAssChick(f): 5:11pm On Jul 22, 2015
Back in the 90s.

Some peeps be like "when your replacement is closer than you think" grin
Lalasticlala ishilove

Celebrities / Re: Photos: Some Cakes Ordered And See What They Got..hilarious. by DatBossAssChick(f): 7:24am On Jul 21, 2015
No be small thing.
Fashion / Re: Rate My Sketch Please. by DatBossAssChick(f): 8:18pm On Jul 19, 2015
101% lovely. I'm still a learner

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Health / Re: Jega Wins International Democracy Award by DatBossAssChick(f): 8:15pm On Jul 19, 2015
Source?
Romance / Re: LADIES STOP DOING THESE THINGS IN THE NAME OF LOVE AGAIN: by DatBossAssChick(f): 5:52pm On Jul 19, 2015
Interesting.

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Politics / Photos: President buhari departs for us by DatBossAssChick(f): 11:25am On Jul 19, 2015
President Buhari left Abuja this morning with his delegation for the US. More pics

http://lindaikeji..com/2015/07/photos-president-buhari-departs-for-us.html?m=1

Nairaland / General / Re: BVN Extention Bythe CBN by DatBossAssChick(f): 3:54pm On Jun 30, 2015
I saw this coming..
Family / Re: Advice Pls: This Married Man Sends Me Money But Doesn't Want Sex. by DatBossAssChick(f): 6:58am On Jun 28, 2015
Yomieluv:
Has he ever asked you out,or make funny moves when alone with you?

If not,maybe he likes your personality,or you remind him of lost someone,like his "late mum" etc.

Just my opinion.
Yes he has but on a close friend ground. It is a case of "let's just be close friends and I'll give you anything you want" undecided angry
Family / Re: Advice Pls: This Married Man Sends Me Money But Doesn't Want Sex. by DatBossAssChick(f): 6:53am On Jun 28, 2015
toksbisola:
@Op; First things first; PLEASE TRY YOUR POSSIBLE BEST TO SEVER THIS SUDDEN CLOSE BOND YOU HAVE WITH THIS MARRIED MAN. You know why; YOU ARE NOW IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER MAN.

As it looks, it’s turning into something that you're now unable to handle effectively. In turn, this married man is not taking NO for an answer as you have asserted in your comment(s). I can guarantee you that the day his wife and your boyfriend finds out about this close friendship; it wouldn’t be something very palatable to either the married mans' WIFE or your BF.

I am going to state 2 CLEAR scenarios and please think about them carefully;

First scenario
If you were the mans’ wife in question, and you find out that your husband is keeping a close friendship with another lady as well as sending money into the lady's account (not his family member) how would you feel?

Second scenario
If it were your BF (that you are now in a serious relationship with) is keeping a close friendship with another lady and sending money regularly into the lady's account (again not his family member), how would you feel?

When a married man tells a lady he is not married to that he wants to keep a friendship with her, alarm bells should start ringing. It is not healthy to keep a “CLOSE FRIENDSHIP” (permit me to say that’s what I term yours; based on your write-up) with a married man, as this can lead to something else either KNOWINGLY OR UNKNOWINGLY. Mind you, I am not talking about the "Hi, how are you type of friendship".

I’ll also like to highlight some questions that needs looking into FAST; and please, think about these questions carefully;

Wife’s perspective
1) Is his wife aware of you and your friendship with her husband?

2) Is his wife aware that he sends money into your account regularly; and what the reason(s) are for his doing so?

Boyfriends perspective
1) Is you BF aware of this friendship you have with this married man?

2) Is your BF aware that he is sending you money regularly into your account; and what the reason(s) are for his doing so?

The day you BF would find out about this, you might not be able to handle how he would react. Don’t put yourself in a situation where your BF begins to DOUBT what you say; neither let him begin harboring TRUST ISSUES about the seriousness of the relationship you have with him.

Never allow a situation where your BF starts to view you as someone who is not SATISFIED/CONTENT WITH WHAT SHE HAS “MONEY-WISE ”. Don’t let him figure you as a person who would not be able to manage the money he gives you either as a GF or when you eventually become his WIFE. Avoid a scenario where he would look at you as AN OLIVER TWIST (No offence; hope none taken).

It’s imperative for one to learn to live within their means. As you mentioned, your parents provide for you, and you also work, and I am sure your BF also gives you money (maybe/maybe not) so I can’t understand why the need for more. To crown it all, THE MORE IS COMING FROM A MARRIED MAN who is not even related to you in anyway I.E. as a brother, cousin or uncle. I SEE IT AS TRYING TO KEEP UP WITH THE JONES'S. Learn to be satisfied with what you have. Finally, handle this situation you have found yourself in with caution to AVOID STORIES THAT HURT.

I rest my case
I'm so really grateful for this wonderful advice.

Thanks to all those who gave good opinions about this.

It hasn't been easy for me. I'm not the type who brings personal issues online but this particular had choked me and I was left with no choice. I'm really grateful. I think I know just what to do now.
Jokes Etc / Re: Picture: When You Find Bae's Car Somewhere It's Not Supposed To Be. by DatBossAssChick(f): 9:58pm On Jun 27, 2015
This one na original gobe! cheesy

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Family / Advice Pls: This Married Man Sends Me Money But Doesn't Want Sex. by DatBossAssChick(f): 1:05pm On Jun 27, 2015
Don't know how to start this..

I know in this our society nothing goes for nothing.. I've know this man for a year plus, he is very friendly and generous to me, but he is married and I'm in a serious relationship which I have disclosed to him but he keeps insisting we keep this friendship as it is.

Of course man shall not live by bread alone, I'm working and I still leave under my parents roof and my parents still gives me enough money, so I'm very much comfy but most times I need more but not to the extent of borrowing or asking anyone for money. Ok!how he got my account number?!.. was when i was serving and i was kinda broke and i just passed the info to him jokingly and next thing was an alert! I was kinda shocked, happy and grateful at the same time. Since then it is now a regular thing which is becoming scary and I don't want to be blinded by these things.

I've tried to give this man enough distance but it isnt enough, he understands I'm trying to do that but still insist we keep. I keep wondering what one can do.. It won't be funny if my guy finds out that I keep receiving money from him and might not believe my explanations.

What can I do? Pls who else has gone through this before?

Pls matured opinions and critics pls don't criticize.

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Family / Re: Horrific! See What These Two Fathers Did To Their Children (photos) by DatBossAssChick(f): 6:46pm On Jun 13, 2015
Just look at the man's face. Such a wicked and heartless soul. angry
Family / Re: You Got Home And Saw This, What Would You Do? by DatBossAssChick(f): 6:35pm On Jun 13, 2015
Zaikon:
just laugh nd cal d guy to xplain wat he has done. no big deal
smiley
Family / You Got Home And Saw This, What Would You Do? by DatBossAssChick(f): 2:18pm On Jun 13, 2015
Your child has designed your 3D tv with a paint because he didn't like what was showing on TV.

Celebrities / Re: Another Birthday Celebrant. Our Controversial Presenter Derenle Edun: Pic by DatBossAssChick(f): 10:43am On Jun 13, 2015
vimi:
Put pishor joor
undecided
It's there.
Celebrities / Another Birthday Celebrant. Our Controversial Presenter Derenle Edun: Pic by DatBossAssChick(f): 10:12am On Jun 13, 2015
He uploaded these new pictures on instagram to mark his birthday with a caption.

"Happy Birthday to me!!!
My age is just a number,
It's really not that big,
I've seen few decades,
Since I was a kid.

But I don't look the age,
I beat the teenage spread,
My face glows like thousands stars,
And I still turn heads."

Happy birthday Adenrenle Olufemi

https://instagram.com/p/33M24uqhYJ/

https://instagram.com/p/33Od-AqhZ8/

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Romance / Re: Photo: Hope You Get A High Five On The Face If You Do This At Someone's Wedding by DatBossAssChick(f): 9:57am On May 29, 2015
What's with these white people

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Celebrities / Photo: AY & Daughter Cover May/june Father's Day Issue Of Genevieve Mag by DatBossAssChick(f): 6:20pm On May 27, 2015
Ayo Makun and his daughter cover the May/June issue of Genevieve magazine in commemoration of this year’s fathers’ day. The ace comedian took the mag on a journey into his life; his early struggles, his first hint of success, fatherhood and 30 days in Atlanta.

Politics / Patience Jonathan Vows To Support Aisha Buhari by DatBossAssChick(f): 11:59pm On May 21, 2015
First lady Patience Jonathan has vowed to give her support to the incoming First Lady, Aisha Buhari. Patience Jonathan made the promise at the inauguration of the Defence and Police Officers Wives Association Skills Acquisition Centre, in Abuja, today May 21st
“I will make sure that I support my sister, the incoming First Lady, to make sure Nigerian women are safe.”she said at the event

 http://lindaikeji..com/2015/05/patience-jonathan-vows-to-support-aisha.html?m=1

Politics / Photos Of A Classroom In Kaduna by DatBossAssChick(f): 11:50pm On May 21, 2015
These are photos of a classroom and teachers staff room in a school in Kachia local Government area in Kaduna state.

Source: http://lindaikeji..com/2015/05/photos-of-classroom-in-kaduna.html?m=1

Celebrities / Re: Photos: Beautiful Actress Uche Ogbodo Shares Photos To Mark Her Birthday by DatBossAssChick(f): 2:53pm On May 17, 2015
daniel9202:
this girl tooo fine ni o....
Yes she is.. by the way she is a woman. wink
Religion / Re: When You Sit Next To Someone With Body Odour In Church by DatBossAssChick(f): 2:50pm On May 17, 2015
ECOTERRORS:
Hate people with body odour gan
In a situation like that what would you do?
Religion / When You Sit Next To Someone With Body Odour In Church by DatBossAssChick(f): 10:41am On May 17, 2015
That awkward moment angry

Family / Re: SAD! Pears Baby Lotion Reigning Queen Somkeme Chukwuka Eze Dies At 2 by DatBossAssChick(f): 9:28am On May 17, 2015
OH my God
Politics / Aisha Babangida: A Tale Of Daddy's Girl... by DatBossAssChick(f): 9:01am On May 17, 2015
The love between a father and his daughter is impossible to replicate. Former Head of State, General Ibrahim Babangida, once recounted how fond he was of Aisha while she was growing up. What is not yet public knowledge is Aisha’s reciprocal love for her father, who had given her everything she needed to become the woman she is today.

Although it would be hard for anyone to fill the void left in the heart of the former military president by his late wife, Aisha has sacrificed so much to make it less pronounced. According to those who should know, since Gen. Babangida returned from his medical trip to Germany, Aisha has practically relocated from her base in Abuja to Minna to take good care of her father.

Since her mother’s demise, Aisha has kept her mother’s legacy alive by ensuring the survival of the Better Life for African Rural Women programme. Her activities in this regard include travelling to the nooks and crannies of rural settlements across the country to empower indigent women. She spread the scope of the organisation’s activities to cover the entire continent a few years ago after partnering with several other development agencies.

 http://thenationonlineng.net/new/aisha-babangida-a-tale-of-daddys-girl/

Nairaland / General / Airtel Backs Rlg/osun ICT Youth Empoowerment Initiative by DatBossAssChick(f): 8:50am On May 17, 2015
l Nigeria has commended the Osun State Government for its ICT-driven initiative which has not only enhanced skill acquisition amongst youths but also led to job creation.

Speaking at the launch of new product brands by RLG, one of Africa's Technology powerhouses, Airtel Nigeria's MD/CEO, Segun Ogunsanya noted that the public-private initiative between RLG and the State of Osun was worthy of emulation as it is an example that good things can come out of Africa.

Mr. Ogunsanya who noted that Airtel Nigeria has begun partnering with RLG by placing orders for the phone brand made at the RLG/Adelawo Technology City because it has found that the products meet the company's standards.

He said that Airtel was happy to support more local production as most of the phones imported into Nigeria means transfer of Labour to other countries and also capital flight.

He revealed that his company had no choice but to support products manufactured locally since this has a tendency to create more jobs and add value to the economy.

In his words "If you marry technology with the right price,you create a vibrant market and with the knowledge you provide, you lift more people out of poverty. We will continue to partner RLG and Osun.

In his own speech, Governor Rauf Aregbesola said the success story of the RLG/Adulawo Technogy City puts to shame cynics who thought the project was an election gimmick. 

Describing the multi-million dollar initiative as a historic monument to the power of vision, the Governor revealed that the Technology City had in the last one years directly employed 150 persons and trained 1,500 through the OsunYouth Empowerment Scheme on Technology (OYESTECH).

According to him "this plant, a public-private partnership with RLG Global is the biggest in Africa and the first of its kind in Nigeria, given the potential of the electronics gadgets in Nigeria, from mobile phones, LCD TVs, tablets etc, the potentials are very great"

He used the opportunity to thank Airtel for patronizing products from the Technology City, urging other telecommunications outfits to join the train by supporting these locally-produced brands

In his welcome address earlier, RLG's Regional Director, West Africa, Mr. Tosin Ilesanmi who represented the Group Chairman of RLG, Mr. Roland Agambire, the RLG/Adulawo Technology City has recorded a huge milestone with the deal it has struck with Airtel. He said with Airtel, the City will be seen as a good base for infusing local content into the Nigeria technological space and an indication that the continent can compete favorably and meet international standards.

He said that it was heart-wsrming that the initiative had achieved this feat in just one year and was optimistic that the future in terms of job creation and youth Empowerment was great for this RLG Model.

In the course of the event, Mr.Alex Lu, CEO, RLG Global introduced some new products. They include: Educational laptop, EL3(which operates on both Android and Windows platforms), the Smart Projector, Uhuru Accu phone and the high-end  Uhuru Titan.

Mr. Lu stated that the products are an indication of the direction of the company, adding that RLG was in Nigeria to empower youths and develop the education sector with a he view of boosting the economy

http://lindaikeji..com/2015/05/airtel-backs-rlgosun-ict-youth.html?m=1

Celebrities / Photos: Beautiful Actress Uche Ogbodo Shares Photos To Mark Her Birthday by DatBossAssChick(f): 8:41am On May 17, 2015
Beautiful Nollywood actress and mother of one, Uche Ogbodo shared these photos to mark her birthday today. Happy birthday to her.

http://lindaikeji..com/2015/05/photos-uche-ogbodo-shares-photos-to.html?m=1

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